Cebu

Yes, I do the gf thing more than naught. When one has a gf that enjoys going to the girlie bars, then I go. I prefer to go to places reported here that I have not gone to yet.

Visited Goldfinger in Mandue and thought it more of a high end Pinoy locale. Tall big butt and breast and light skin non native type. Did not like the price or ambience and didn't really bother to check prices. As I never take out. And have not done so since 2001. Angeles trip. I will direct members in due time to an excellent site that reports on the prices. Lowest price would be Silverdollar but I think Finland is your best value for a quick down and dirty shag with women ready to rumble. Yes, I visited. My new gf I have is not into clubs so I have not been around since last post. However, I will say the key to the Phil as DS has said is overcoming ones shyness and initiating conversation.simple as " I find you attractive. Are you available? Whats your mobile number? " Then off you go. It is cheaper this method. However if you get her pregnant or get sucked into their litany of money needs you might as well stick to the go go scene.

I must say that after my bar trip and numerous trips to the prime discos in order Pump 1 and Sundflower, Mango Square discos (many new ones) that there is a high volume of bar ladies in attendance. My gf pointed them out. 'thats the one we saw in Arena etc. " Higher end discos include Vudu and Loft if you have game.

A lady approached me in Viking other week that must have failed the regular Monday testing as she had normal civi clothes on. Beware. Same goes with the retired bar girls in Pump 1. I did pick out a jewel there. But thats because I am so pogi. LOL. I am still vulnerable.

Pump 1 is really a happening place, almost every day. I highly recommend it. Many freelancers outside ready to go with you. They do not accost you as the authourities and security do not allow it.

Looking forward to Davao and meeting GE but have yet to buy air ticket there. Target is mid month. Damn it I enjoy Cebu too much. Alas we hear Davao is better for ladies of my liking. WE shall see.

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Interesting post Tout. I was hoping to meet up with Spamhog as well, but spent most of my holiday in Ormoc.

Like you I had a bad feeling about Cebu. In the bars I saw a few girls that have been hanging around for over a year -- and the year had not been kind. Saw one former stunner from Viking / LS...she'd had a kid and was chubby. Too bad.

I found the best selection at Asian Flower, but once you barfine one, it then becomes tricky to barfine another.

Cebu is getting like Manila. Noisy...traffic jams.

I did date two professionals -- a doctor and a teacher. Both might have been game on a second date, but somehow it:s hard to invest that extra time when you can hit the bars and pull someone younger / prettier.

X

[QUOTE=Tout01]I have been here in Cebu for past month. I am staying in Lahug now as I am fed up with the total Fuente area scene - it seems to be getting a bit more grittier than past year and I don't like the total pollution situation.

Met with a member of the board -spamhog - who hasn't posted for quite awhile - he is busy completing home renovations and probably will be back posting in four months or so in my estimate. He has had a rough go at it as most do with home renovations anywhere in the world but more so here - he has maintained his positive attitude towards his retirement and life here.

Visited many go-gos in Mango and find the quality lacking or getting more raunchier, especially Viking - might be a good thing but for me I am happy to be away from Mango bars and that scene. I found the quality of Jaguar to go down, too. I was only impressed with Arena - tall light skinned ladys chinese mix with attitudes and high price 6000 p if you are into that - most here are not. The newer International Bar Complex near the Convention centre - Bounty and Egypt bars - has many good quantity and quality native type ladies that would have you coming back for more - 3000 p.

As to the nightlife scence - Pump 1 - busy every night, my friends and I pulled out two ladies each and Sunflower still top the list with plenty of freelancers and /or ladies finished their barfines around midnight in attendance, busy Hot Babes/Thursday and weekends. Pump 2 is ok on weekends with a more mixed crowd. NASA is now no cover charge with Friday and Saturday being there best days - you can find families dancing with their daughters and gangs of young teenagers of both sexes - barely legal. NASA has gone down hill a bit. Will be going to Paseo tonight to see whats up there.

Enjoyed Badgers bar in Banilad and recommend as its closest thing to a normal sports bar you will find in Cebu. Sad to say Eddies Restaurant in Colon seems shut down - with reopening sign in 30 days - on the door for several months.

Thinking about a trip to Davao starting March 10 and for sure going to Boracay and Iloilo to attend my sons mothers 20 year old son from her marriage (not my kid) graduation ceremony. He is graduating from medical tech school in late March and will assist in the festivities and see my son after being away since September.

I am getting a bit tired with Cebu. I think it is time to see Davao.

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Xman,

You've summarized my feelings about Cebu and the reasons I don't much like it. It's too crowded, polluted and noisy for my tastes. I guess that's one of the reasons that I do strongly prefer Davao. Plus, as has been written about many times, the place is running out of groundwater and nothing is being done, in typical Filipino fashion, to address what will be an enormous problem over the next five year. The rate of water depletion, due to unchecked development, failure to invest in infrastructure and blind indifference and greed, is shocking and I've seen some projections that predict that the city will basically run out of water over the next five years.

Just got back from Cebu,

I highly recommend a club called ' Jaguar'.

It's amazing!

Wow

Asheron,

Nice to have your here. Now kindly give us detail on your Club Jaguar experience. I asked a month ago if anyone had gone to Club Mermaid and Club Jaguar and could post in detail on the women, entertainment inside, ambiance and getting laid either in VIP Rooms (my favorite way in Clubs) or taking the ladies out.

Tout01,

Thankyou for another authoritative post. Loft is a very hot, upscale Bar. The crowd there will consist entirely of filipino-chinese, the wealthy upper class in the Philippines. Dress upscale and fashionable and be prepared to "open your wallet" a bit. Have game and lose both the attitude and the shyness to score with the gorgeous filipino-chinese women.

A note on meeting regular women with their constant requests for money. Remember the word "NO" ? Use it! My lovely 20 y/o Jobeth in Davao hits me for $ 40-$ 50 every 3-4 weeks now. She works but does not make much and asks me for a little extra when she wants to go shopping or out with friends someplace nice. But she comes over my hotel room whenever I ask (often she makes the call offering to come over; horny kid). She immeidately takes my dick in her mouth and begins blowing me. Then she sticks T-rex in her lovebox and fucks me wildly.

As to the others, I do not give them anything. I have my children to care for and that is it. The ones on the internet asking for money are "cyber hustlers". I tell them that if they want money to meet me first and fuck me. Then I will give them some if they fuck and suck me good.

Dragon Slayer

Ok well, I was staying at Plantation Bay Cebu, which is an exclusive resort, its 5* Luxury at a great price!

[url]http://plantationbay.com/[/url]

It has I think 4 manmade beach lagoons with crystal clear blue water, loads of different restaurants. Jet Ski on the beach, Scuba Dive, paraglide a Gun shooting range too.

I stayed 3 nights here at cheapest room $80 which sleeps 8 people in luxury! Yes 8! 2 x double beds 2 x bunk beds

From Cebu airport you can get a free Taxi right to Plantation Bay! 24/7 look for the sign!

I meet this American guy there, and he was telling me about how he’s on business and all the hot girls he’s been getting!

I said want to take a British guy out?

He said, Sure man!

He got a withdrawal on his business card of like $200 and we got a Taxi to Jaguar!

Every Taxi knows club Jaguar, when you arrive the outside is like las Vegas!

When you walk inside, to your left, there are about 40 girls sitting down chatting all free lancers ready to take you home!

You can get there mobile numbers!

A girl said call me anytime P1500.

But the girls that work there are on stage or walking around and they are Model Hot!

A trip to the toilet and there’s 2 annoying guys to massage you, and they want tips!

If I can remember correctly it’s P3000 for any girl in a private room for 1 hour. And you can get their numbers no problem.

Although the girls are amazingly hot, the atmosphere can be really annoying they push sales on ladies drinks big time!

And it can get really expensive!

San Mig strong ice = p120 and ladies drinks I think are p300 every 30mins if you sit with a girl!

The girls can get you the little blue pill if you ask, it’s P500 I think.

Bar Fine I forget how much, but all the good girls go early!

The bill was a right mess, so keep tabs on it!

will post again tomorrow... Zzzzzzz

Hello gentlemen,

I am planning to be in Cebu on business for about a month.

I really dislike staying in hotels, so I am hoping someone can recommend a furnishes apartment which rents monthly.

Any ideas?

Best wishes and thanks in anticipation,

Gangles

Guys,

The only Apartments I ever consider are the Luxury Apts owned by wealthy Chinese and Filipino-Chinese who are in town rarely and rent out the place. These are quite nice and cheaper than the Marco Polo Plaza (Cebu MP) but still expensive. $2000 US and up for a month but worth it.

For less expensive apartments there is the Kanirag on F Ramos St just below Fuente Osmena (circle) and the Tondo (I think this is the name) on Gorordo Avenue, just to the left of where Escarion St intersects it (to left of Kukook's Nest Restaurant & Pension house). I knew a couple american guys on business who stayed here and were not complaning.

I do have a nice two room apartment in mandaue that My Son and his Mother and older sister occupy. It is in a strictly filipino neighborhood and close to the hospital where she is on Staff. Tonight I will ask her about the apartment where one of the female MD's lived together with her American husband, a lower level executive. This canot be too expensive as he never struck me as the kind of guy to spend much money on anything. He was in complete awe when he entered the Penthouse where I was staying the one time in Cebu. My Son's mother stayed with them for six months once before we had ever met so she will have a good idea what this is like.

My guess is a decent place will be in the $1000 - $1500/Mo range and a really nice place will run $ 2000 - $ 3000/Mo. They will all have a/c, cable, laundry service, full kitchen, maid service and the nice ones will have security and a "live in" maid which can be interesting.

Dragon Slayer

I used to stay at the Kan Irag regularly. It was nice that I could just walk to the Silver Dollar.

But several years back when I returned to the Kan Irag, my regular haunt, the hotel had deteriorated badly --at least the room I was in. I stayed one night and moved out the next day.

Kan Irag does have a good restaurant, though, open 24 hours.


P.S. Thanks for offering the DS Forum. I read it regularly.

Kan Irag is still a dump, and the restaurant downstairs is still a great place to eat.

The reception desk seems to be usually staffed by very good-looking women, but that won't do you much good if you're bringing in a diff gal every night.

They have some very large rooms, btw. I have no idea what they have for long term. As for hotels, Holiday Plaza is across the street.

X

[QUOTE=Sergeantray]I used to stay at the Kan Irag regularly. It was nice that I could just walk to the Silver Dollar.

But several years back when I returned to the Kan Irag, my regular haunt, the hotel had deteriorated badly --at least the room I was in. I stayed one night and moved out the next day.

Kan Irag does have a good restaurant, though, open 24 hours.

P.S. Thanks for offering the DS Forum. I read it regularly.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Dragon Slayer]Yes, She is an absolute doll. I called her last night. I will spend a lot more time with her next Trip. The Post was titled "Three 9's in the Penthouse". I never did give a complete report on that time. She showed up with her beautiful 20 y/o cousin and a gorgeous 38 y/o family friend who was a 9.0 in looks and could have passed for 28 any day.

That post needs to get made in its entirety here. I ended up with S blowing me fabulously after the other two left. I will post the entire episode.

Here are four more photos of the lady taken in January '08.[/QUOTE]Hi Dragon Slayer,

The women in your life must keep you very busy! :)

We're you able to meet up with Ms. S recently? Any chance of an update? or pics? (I don't ask for much, do I? LOL) Cheers.

i’ve been lurking on and off this site for years. its not that i have not wanted to post, i just have not had anything to post. i also need to preface this report so that you, gentle reader, can put this in perspective as i am different, therefore none of this info may apply to you. as you will see, i should probably be banned from the site as i am surely not a worthy monger.

i’m a short almost 50ish white guy that is no brad pitt, but with lots of effort i can get some pretty 20-somethings interested every once in awhile here in the us. being a professional, and my financial position, probably accounts for my success. i’ve never had any luck in a bar even when i was young and cute, to the point that i stopped going to bars. my mongering experience is also limited. i went to bangkok about 7 years ago, met a mediocre but sweet qt in a bar, and spent the week with her. she constantly refused money, probably thinking i would marry her. it was not a satisfying experience as i like extremely pretty girls (whatever that means) and girls that i can have a great conversation with. i also like educated, good girls with a charming outgoing personality. just a hint of naughtiness is the icing on the cake. i love real gfe, dfk, mish, cowgirl and doggy. i have no interest in bj or greek; none whatsoever. i also have no interest in threesomes or seeing two girls go at it. i also like to date one really hot girl at a time with possibly one other on the side. i typically get bored after a few months though so there may be hope for me as a monger, with your help. the real difference here is that the idea of dating a girl that’s still picking your jizz out from between her teeth is an extreme wood killer for me. even the idea that she’s been with more than just a few (especially 1000) guys in the past 6 months ruins the experience for me. so, yes, i’m not a real monger (yet.) i’m also easily charmed and pussywhipped as you will see. so with this in mind, i rtff’d, tried to follow your fantastic guidance, and planned a “doit myself” trip to the phils. i’ve written here just about everything i can remember, some in real time. i hope you noobs will learn something, and i hope you real mongers will have a good laugh at my expense. all criticism, questions and guidance are welcomed as i would like to hone my nonexistent wicked ways.

i’m obsessive like any good monger should be (maybe there is hope for me) so as recommended, i signed up with one of the filipina dating sites and over the course of a month managed to filter out the pigs and collect over 200 yahoo messenger addresses and cell phone numbers from what looked like cute girls. i chatted with many, made good friends with a few, and ranked as many as i could from extra pictures and cam time. they were all 18-28. i didn’t talk dirty with them nor desire to see any naked cam pix. its just not my thing. i wanted genuine girls and had no trouble finding them. in the back of my mind i kinda think that maybe i’d find one that i could really spend a lot of time with. all of them write english well. many wanted to introduce me to family as soon as possible. take home lesson here: if you are pc proficient and have a little time, you don’t need a month to do this, only about two weeks at the most. later, when i was in the phils, i nailed down the technique of logging on, finding a random qt online at the datesite, chatting for about 4 minutes and setting up an instant meeting within the hour. you can do this too. make sure you set up and become proficient with yahoo messenger as 99.998% of the girls in the phils use it. many have their cell phones linked to it as well.

so i get to manila. its crowded and gritty. it makes me nervous. unlike bangkok of years ago, there is security everywhere which makes me feel better, but shouldn’t. its nice that everyone speaks english, but i just don’t feel safe, anywhere. the people that i meet tell me my feelings are well deserved as its not safe. the girls are only fair looking at the airport. i’m trying to get a feel for the merchandise and i’m not impressed. i simply don’t see many appealing women. i go to the copacabana in pasay because of the edsa entertainment complex across the street. they advertise that they are in makati. they are not. the beds are uncomfortable and the rooms are large but ancient with small kitchens. there is free wifi downstairs. this is no place i’d be proud to take a girl to, but it’s ok if you need a cheap overnight stay near the airport. i scope the edsa bar complex across the street and it looks so seedy that i just can’t get excited about going there and give it a miss. i sit in the lobby and chat online setting up datesite meetings at the hotel. manila is so crowded that most of the girls don’t want to meet me at the hotel since it would take them so long to get there. a few girls do come by and i make some nice friends, but nothing that gets me excited. i also go to the mall of asia on sunday where there are probably 500k people, but i don't see any interesting looking girls. i do get myself a cheap cell phone (a must have). if you can spell well, i prefer nokias predictive text. i tried motorola, but i don’t like their predictive text scheme. if you can’t spell really well, any phone will do, but you won’t be using predictive text and it will slow you down. talking is not that expensive but texting is easier, otherwise you’ll get tied up on the phone chatting, which gets tiresome, because you really need to see the girls in person. anyhow, i was disappointed in everything so far, but i kept getting massive im’ing from the girls in cebu and davao where most of my prime targets were. anything has to beat the manila traffic, so i pack my bags, head to the airport and catch the plane down to cebu. i got hustled for $2.50 by airport security for "special services" and then he kept asking if i was ok with it. i said yeah, no worries. if i can make his day for $2.50 then i’m ok with it. these people are so easy to please. i love it. (note: the security guys will all try to rip you off). so i hop the plane. it was an easy flight on a really nice jet. as nice or nicer than anything in the us. everyone was very quiet but the flight was short and they sold souvenirs on the plane and had some contests. it was really cute. so i get off the plane in cebu. no traffic jams like manila. much nicer! i make it down to the marriot ($105/night) which is almost twice the price as the dump i stayed in manila but the marriot is really nice, and the ayala mall is a safe walk right next door. (note: spend the extra 25 usd per day and get an upper floor with free food and cocktails in a beautiful dining area overlooking the city). so i head over to the ayala mall. its huge. it feels just like the mall of asia back in manila but a little smaller: only 250k people. so is it the same? hell no! there are hot ladies everywhere. as you guys have stated, cebuanas are definitely different. they are much cuter than the riff raff in manila. in addition, their accent is much easier on the ears than the tagalog derived english accent. i set up a meeting with a girl who demands that she bring her female cousin (as chaperone; they always bring friends/family). she is texting me while she taxi's to the mall. i text her my location. she texts that she sees me, but is too shy to approach me. i say send her cousin. she says she'll try to approach me. quiet one is about 4'10, is 19 but looks about 14 years old, and she's just gorgeous. she’s really shy and has never had a boyfriend before. i feel guilty, but not too guilty. we go have fun at the arcade. she takes off after awhile and starts texting that she had fun. next morning she wants to meet, but brings the cousin and doesn’t talk much again. they take off after awhile. boring!

that night i arrange a meeting with a well-spoken girl who wants to bring her sister and friends and wants me to spend some money. i’m ok with it, so i say fine. they show up at the hotel at 9pm. her sister is an identical twin and they are gorgeous, educated and from good families. their friend is really intelligent and hilarious. so with the 3 hot brainy chicks in tow we go back to the mall, we eat, then off to sunflower that is empty but has fantastic live music with two filipina singers that i would love to date. the singers are better than real concerts i've been to, and i've been to a few. anyhow, the three of us dance and then head home at midnight. if polygamy were legal i would marry the twins. i'm tired and didn't put any moves on the girls, but the one twin that i was supposed to be "with" was getting affectionate. at this point i'm feeling like the captain of the football team back in high school, as if i even remotely knew what that was like.

again, the quiet one acts like she's all hot in texting and wants to meet again, but i specify no cousin. she’s ok with it. she's so shy there is no connection in person, again. she defines my term “marriage-bot”. she’s just looking for a husband. she just doesn't open up. same story as before: when we're done she takes off without a smile and then starts texting about how she had a good time. sheesh, whatever, i'm getting tired of wasting my time. new strategy: talk on the phone at least a little to make sure the girls can have a conversation since that’s my thing. many of these girls have spent their short lives sitting in front of the tv babysitting nieces and nephews and just don’t have any life experience or much intelligence. and so many of these girls are virgins and often have not ever even had a boyfriend. of course this just validates our missionary work of educating these poor girls.

i set up a meeting with one girl that i’ve been chatting online with a lot that had a really cute pix. we’ll call her tutor. we meet and she’s another 19 year old 4’11” spinner that is really, really cute with a 8/9 face and body. i wasn’t that interested due to some lame pix she had. again, if the girl isn’t a pig, don’t pay too much attention to the internet pix unless they send a bunch of high resolution pictures via email. anyway, she makes it obvious that she’ll remain a cherry girl til marriage, which is a big turn off. i decide to relegate her to the times when i have nothing else to do. she’s cute and smart, but i’m looking for action.

so after that disappointment i scanned my rolodex of 200 phone numbers and picked one of the qt's i really wanted to meet. i find one that lives far away, but i call her anyway. “bubbly” is in the city with her friend as we speak and they want to meet at the mall immediately. i’m not about to argue with that. i find them quickly, and they're both cute, but i got the cuter one. same story as last time: little tiny spinner, looks about 14. the top of her head comes up under my short guy chin. she's 18 but she's got a bubbly personality and in college learning computer science. she's not an einstein, but cute, smart with a tight body. i suggested we go play arcade games, which is really a nice icebreaker and they’re all up for it. they have fun, and unlike the last disappointment, bubbly starts getting kinda affectionate and flirty which works for me. anyhow, we finish up and i'm tired and getting nervous because i keep getting texts from other girls that i can't answer without looking like a cad. one of the texts is from a girl (manila transplant) that i promised i'd meet today but half hour ago! ouch! i hope she's not too pissed. i'm relying on the idea that no one here is ever on time. i cross my fingers because she looked hot in her pix and kinda tall. the girls i’m with now say they are going to stay at a boarding house and stick around for the city life the next day. they want to go dancing too, but i say i’m tired and have to go. i take off. it’s about 7pm. luckily i catch the 23 y.o. manila transplant on the phone and arrange to meet at a different mall. we meet. she's pretty, but not my style: a little too bony. she’s a typical manila girl that i'm not really attracted to. i should have known from my manila experience (no cute chix in manila). anyhow, the mall we meet at is announcing closing time and she's asking me what i want to do, as if she's looking for an invite to hang out. i decline and say i'm tired. i figure i'll make an early night of it. i hop a cab and head back to the hotel. i pull my phone out and find 2 texts from? bubbly! she texts that she cannot get into the full boarding house and doesn't know what to do. she asks if i can help? of course i can help said the spider to the fly. i call her and ask if the ladies would like to stay in my bed at the hotel. “oh yes!” comes the answer. giggity giggity giggity! they show up at the hotel, come to the room and proceed to watch tv while i fall asleep. their laughing wakes me up an hour later so i ask when they can please go to sleep. luckily the hotel bed easily fits three people wide, especially little cebuana spinners like these. hmmm, did the marriott design the rooms specifically for this? maybe! anyhow, i'm on one side (i'm not a two girl kinda guy), and bubbly immediately snuggles up to me as i try to hide (or not) my instant wood. heck, any 18 year old would give this old guy wood, but my little bubbly is cuter than anything i’ve seen in a long time. i’m not aggressive with her, because this girl has her best friend next to her, and is still a cherry girl. her friend goes to sleep (or fakes it) while bubbly and i giggle and cuddle for a while. when i ask about her dating experience, she says she’s had only one boyfriend for about a month when she was 13. that is her entire dating career. i believe it. so the cuddling leads to upstairs groping and dfk which is quite fun. it’s amazing how much energy an old guy like me finds to muster when messing around with a hot little 18 year old! so i start groping downstairs with clothes on, she resists, and that’s as far as it gets. i don't even get much of a handful of that which is fine because i’m feeling really guilty about corrupting this little thing...but not too guilty. in addition i'm not going to do anything with the friend laying next to us. i'm a private guy. we finally fall asleep and then wake up in a few hours and grope and dfk some more before falling back asleep. she's getting a little more permissive with the downstairs groping, but i'm not pushing it. i'm not sure i want to go all the way with this one, as i'm not sure what it implies. she may be thinking instant marriage, and i don't want to get her hopes up. her younger 17-year-old sister is engaged to an old guy like me and the sis is feeling guilty, because bubbly hasn't found a foreigner yet, so there is too much possibility of implications and emotional liability. summary: a naughty free session with one little gorgeous, hot tight, 18 year old! i would have paid for my experience. oh, wait, i guess i did, lets add it up: $8 coffee, $5 arcade, $8 taxi. so a few bucks for a priceless night out with two little dishes. for me, that’s value. i want to get this little dish alone and explore further possibilities.... karma permitting. we'll see. so here we are in the morning and they have to go home which is good because i'm ready fart, burp and pick my nose like i always do when hot chix aren't around. also, i've had several texts from girls that i've already committed to meeting, one of which is taking off work to see me. they all know i'm meeting other "friends" from the internet so i have a clear conscience.

i dump the two girls, dress up nice and go prowl the mall, i figure i really need to find myself a cell phone that will provide internet connection as the marriott contracts with an outside provider and the cheapest way to get full time net access is 100 usd per month or something like 10 usd per hour. i am able to pirate some wireless during the day, but it is not consistent. globe has a wireless cell phone access plan for 0.5 usd/hour which is cheap but you need the phone for it. i find a good store and check the phones. it turns out that i can’t ever get the wireless service working consistently and waste the money on a very nice phone. anyhow, while i’m looking, the ever-present “good morning sir” greets me from off to the side. i turn and there is “phone girl” and she is cute! i ask her what the cheapest phone is that i can connect to the internet. she shows me and of course i’m barely paying attention since i’m checking her out. meanwhile phone girl’s giggles, smiles and body language are redlining my “horny chick detector.” nice! i commented on her beautiful smile. she blushed and obviously loved it. the noob that i am, i have not picked up a random girl this way in 25 years and felt rusty. besides, the place was crawling with customers and staff so i needed to buy some time. i rose to the occasion saying: “well, i can’t buy the phone now as i need an excuse to come back and see you again”. i think she wet her pants. this was going to be easy. i left with plans to come back the next morning when the store was empty.

i arranged to meet another really intelligent educated lady from the datesite: the professor. later that day we met for some dinner. she is gorgeous with nice conversation but nothing much happened. i like this one but she’s going to be a tough nut to crack.

several times my cell phone number has been handed off to (or stolen by) other girls that know one of my targets. this happened with one girl that i had really wanted to meet but was not in town. her sister, who i’d seen a mediocre picture of, kept texting me. sister was becoming annoying. how to be polite but get her to go away? i was not sure. but i had phone girl on my mind so i headed back up to the phone store. phone girl wasn’t there. doing the math for “employed girl localization analysis” is pretty simple here in the phils. they usually work 10 hour days 6 days per week. she would be back the next day. i needed to buy the phone and i decided to buy free date insurance. i asked the phone guy helping me about phone girl and he says yep, she’s single and yep she’ll be back tomorrow. of course, since i’m buying a phone, he volunteers that he will put in a good word about me to phone girl.

i get more texts from another one that i’m not excited about, but agree to meet. as suspected she’s great conversation but nothing to look at. i wrap that one up and head out. i’m getting good (and callous) with the quick meetings of the undesirable ones. i suggest any noob learn how to do this otherwise you will waste too much time, effort and money. meet online, gain their confidence in a few minutes with good conversation, set up a meeting and see if there is potential. of course you can do the same thing prowling the mall, but i’m an online kinda guy.

i have a date with the professor later, but have some time to kill so i head back to the hotel for some random datesite im fishing/chatting. on the way i get more texts from sister, ugh. ok, now i really need to find a way to politely get rid of this one. professor shows up after work and is adorable as ever. i like the fact that she drinks. so many good pinay’s don’t which really limits my “attack velocity” since a sober good girl is so much more time consuming (for me) to approach as compared to one that is drunk. i suggest cocktails, which she accepts. we have a fantastic, interesting conversation for what seems like hours. she is emotionally receptive but sits far away. if i make any move to get closer than a few feet away she seems to unconsciously move away. i’m not liking the vibe, but love the company. she says she can sing and likes karaoke. i’ve never done it, so off we go to a local ktv place with private rooms. the equipment doesn’t work well, but we have fun. she can sing, i can’t, she giggles, i sit next to her and she doesn’t move away. still, i don’t sense any reciprocal affection. we order more drinks while the equipment still falters. the fun starts ebbing and she’s acting a little bored although seems to still enjoy my company. total bill about 1000 p. not a huge sum of money but there is no value here. i won’t do this again and i don’t recommend it. it might be fun with 6 other people that can sing all in the same room. anyhow, i’m not done trying with the professor so i suggest sunflower for dancing. she says she doesn’t dance but i get her to agree as she is still receptive to me, so we head over. the dance floor is packed and the live music is awesome as before. professor and i dance, i initiate contact and she giggles but again she doesn’t try anything. boring! we sit and listen to the music. i could probably ask this girl to be my gf and she’d probably go for it, but i like the more proactively flirty type. i guess the old guy that i am needs the validation. my bad. i wish i could be a real monger. so we wrap it up at 2 am and head our separate ways. she’s sweet and gracious as always. (note to self: text the professor when i need the ideal cute intelligent wife.) its 2 am so i just go back to the hotel and go to sleep. the old guy that i am likes to wrap things up by 11 pm (including blowing my load) so i’ll be paying for this when i wake up.

saturday dawns and i’m not sure what to do. no exciting new texts and even though i wanted to get rid of the sister, for some reason i felt compelled to let her down gently since i was interested in her sister. i text sister and she pops a text right back. i’m impressed with her spelling and conversational ability in the texts. she seems outgoing and educated. i suggest we get on the pc for real im’ing, which we do. i get more satisfying, intelligent conversation although she’s obviously another cherry girl. i really don’t think i’ve dated a girl that was not of the cherry type yet here in the phils, but i’m ok with that since i hate wearing “rain coats in the shower” and i’ve had my tubes clipped. i find out that sister doesn’t work and admits to past naughty play experience. she is quite open about it. hmm, its nice to meet a girl that doesn’t have to work 6 days per week. i’d like to get out and do something in this town besides haunt the mall waiting for my girls to get off work. so sister offers a glimpse of cam. i really don’t care since i’ve seen the pix and was not impressed. when i see the cam i’m mildly surprised, as she looks better and her hair is pretty which is important to me. still, other than mild interest, i’m not all that excited since most pinay’s have nice hair. anyhow, the conversation is really refreshing as compared to being stared down by an empty headed marriage-bot and we arrange to meet at about noon in the marriott lobby. after a few hours she texts me that she’s in the lobby. i come down the elevator and come face to face with a group of pinay’s staring at me. gawd i really hope she’s not one of these little skanks! luckily none of the skanks give me the “meeting unidentified someone” look. i “ping” sister by calling her on the phone and seeing which girl in the room picks up their phone. as i survey the room, i notice a really beautiful girl in the corner grab her cell. is it her? she turns and smiles at me. holy crap, it is her! (note to self: really don’t pay too much attention to pictures unless they’re pigs!) she stands up and gives me an even bigger beaming smile from across the room. she’s gorgeous at about 5’2”, typical straight black pinay hair to mid-back with highlights, beautiful smile, well dressed in tight tasteful jeans, a little bit of makeup, and surprisingly decent rack considering her tiny hot hourglass figure as she only weighs about 90 lbs. i swear i could have put my hands completely around her waist. i would rank her body and face at 8, but the personality makes her a 9. we walk over to the mall and i’m getting decent vibes. we grab some lunch and she’s very gracious, trying to serve me, but not in the empty-headed marriage-bot manner. there is also plenty of satisfying and often flirty conversation with minimal miscommunication. (i came to the phils due to the lack of language barriers so i am quickly disappointed when i can’t communicate with some of these girls.) after lunch we wander around the mall a little. i’m ready for some quiet time to see what will develop and she’s up to it, so we head back to my room under the pretense of talking quietly. we lie down on the bed and start chatting. she faces me, and if anything, moves closer while giving me that suggestive smile and lazy, dreamy eyes. of course my johnson comes to attention. this is a nice change compared to the somewhat frigid professor. oh crap: tutor texts me that she’s ready for our prearranged meeting today that i totally forgot about! i don’t think so! i text that i cannot meet today. i don’t care what she thinks. in my book, cherry girls are disposable as long as they want to maintain their lame “virtue”. anyhow sister says she likes to sing, so i prepare to play music from the pc for some pseudo karaoke, but she starts singing acapella, and can she sing! she has a beautiful voice, which turns me into jello. we then listen to some mp3’s and she notices that i have some porn mixed in. she wants to see it, and actually begs to see it. the noob that i am is too embarrassed, so i politely decline. yeah, i’ll probably get flaming posts just for this faux pax, and i know you experienced mongers are howling with laughter. anyhow, after she sings she says she gives good massages. who am i to argue? she insists that i take off my shirt and expects me to take everything off which i did not (i feel more flames acoming). she sat on my butt and gave me a great massage. i asked her to please just lie down on my back, which she did, and she proceeded to snuggle up into me. progress! i rolled over, she rolled off and snuggled up next to me. she started playing with my hair. then we started dfk and groping which was very satisfying and went on for hours. nice! it only took me a week, but i think i finally found what i came for. there was also plenty of pretend fs with clothes on, and i would have welcomed the real thing, but i was very content with the progress thus far considering she was a 22 year old educated cherry girl that i had met only half a day before for the first time. she left at about 9pm allowing me some real sleep and time to catch up on my paperwork. i offered her some taxi money but she refused.

sunday morning i got the texts that sister was doing laundry and ready to meet after. i was a little bored and hungry so decided to head over to the mall and see if phone girl was around. i was dressed down in a t-shirt and shorts, but didn’t think much of it. i peeked in the phone store and there she was. i put on my best mac daddy attitude and strutted in the store giving her the nod. she looked at me with a straight face and a “may i help you sir”. me: “remember me?”; phone girl: “no”. that was the beginning and end of this nonevent. there was no sparkle this time, no vibe whatsoever. in addition, she didn’t look so great as she was a little fat, and i wasn’t sure she brushed her teeth. she was also was a transplant with an entirely different accent, which i found hard to understand, and not very endearing. i thanked her for her help and left. (note to self: how one dresses is important even to the girls from the provinces, as ds and others have noted). no big deal, sister was coming soon anyway. she showed up a few hours later and we went straight to my room. this time she wasted no time dragging me to the bed and sucking on my face. within a few hours we were both completely naked with daty and she came three times (“don’t put your finger in!” she demanded…lol…cherry girls!); what fun! she offered reciprocal services, but i want fs, which wasn’t going to happen prior to marriage (yawn). after awhile mom and dad started calling her, which obviously put a damper on our activities. i again, as before, offered her taxi money but she refused and left.

i awoke monday morning not sure what my plans were. i expected texts from sister but none were forthcoming. i also did not get any from her last night. this was not good. i had made arrangements to meet another datesite girl, but this turned out to be a nice intelligent girl, but nothing to look at. i still had not heard from sister and figured it was time to find out what was up. i texted, and she said she would not be able to come today and probably couldn’t spend much time with me anymore. hmm, what was up? i texted that i would appreciate honesty and that if she was tired of me then please just let me know so i can keep searching. she texted: “i had a great time with you, you’re a great guy, but keep searching”. omg! i was exploited for sex, and dumped, by a 22 year old hottie who wouldn’t take any money! i was rolling on the floor laughing and crushed at the same time. i really had liked this one. oh well, what to do. next! i trolled the datesite for a while, chatting up prospects, and also dug into the phone book, but everyone was busy or not replying to my texts. one girl i was chatting with was up to meeting, but it kept escalating in cost. first it was: “i have no money”. i replied: “i’ll give you 100 p for taxi”. she replied “can i bring sister”. me: “yes, you can.” her:“100p is not enough”. me: “bbye”. she had good things coming and blew it. her loss. i hate the stupid greedy girls, and there is no shortage of them here in the phils. (she could have taken a jeepney for 7p and made a 93p profit).

another cute girl was up to a meeting but started with: “can you treat me and my friend to baseline?” me: “how much will it cost me?” her:“you can afford it” me: “how much” her:“1000p” me:“what are you going to do for me?” her:“what? we’ll keep you company” me:”lol, yeah right”. (thanks isg’ers, you’ve taught me well!). well, at least i was having fun. i scoped out ratsky’s and bo’s again with plans of coming back later. the guard said ratsky’s closes at 1:30 am during the week and 2:30 am fri/sat, but closes early on sunday. in the afternoon i noted 4 working girls at bo’s waving at me from across the room with one skank begging for my phone number. yuck. anyhow, i then grabbed some food and headed back to the hotel. i was relaxing when tutor texted: “i’m done with my work now”. hmm, we hadn’t texted in a couple days; can she make it any more obvious? i like that in a girl: no mincing words. good timing too since i needed some hot company after getting dumped by sister. i texted “want to keep me company?” her: “be right there”. nice! still, this was a 19-year-old cherry girl saving it for marriage and had kissed two boys in her entire life with no other experience. this could be a boring evening, but i was ok with this because i really liked her. she was hot, classy, educated and gorgeous. she also looked about 14 years old, but i was getting used to this in the phils. she shows up and i’m a little nervous from the past conversations about her saving everything for marriage. i promise not to touch her joking that she can beg for sex, but i’m not that type of guy. she giggles and soaks it right up. (ah, a little reverse psychology never fails). i act tired telling her i need to lied down and that i won’t touch her if she lies next to me. she lies down too, and we chat, with her slowly moving closer and closer over the ensuing 30 minutes. she finally puts her hands on my waist and starts to snuggle. we rub noses and dfk. within 5 minutes she’s on top of me grinding my johnson like a pro. she admits to playing with herself about once per month, but asks me what an orgasm feels like for a girl. i try to explain and say i’ll try to show her. 15 minutes later she’s completely naked and i’m daty. so much for shy conservative cherry girls! (i can hear all you real mongers saying in unison: “we told you so!”). sheesh, i propose a new axiom: “the taste of a pussy is inversely proportional to age”. i thought the 22-year-old pussy tasted good, but this 19-year-old pussy tastes even better! i guess money is the ultimate aphrodisiac! but crap, i can’t make her cum even though i have my index finger up on her g-spot and my tongue on her clit. she says it feels great but hurts and dang is she tight! i’m only average in size but there is no way that i could get my johnson in there even if she would let me. maybe you guys can advise since i don’t want to hurt her. when was the last time i was with a virgin? lol, i can’t even remember and have no idea what to do. i’ve also had trouble making other young girls (18-24 year olds) cum. it seems to get a lot easier at about 26. maybe i’m just a noob, i dunno. we play around like this for a few hours, then mom and dad start calling and texting and she has to leave but will be back tomorrow. i like this: minimal time commitments so she is available for me. i throw taxi money and 1000 p at her and she acts like the clouds just opened and the angels are singing. we’re both happy. i’m hoping i can use financial leverage to get fs next time. i know you guys think i’m nuts for giving her this much money, but i really like her and would have given the money to her anyway. (note: if you really like a girl, make sure she can either skip out of work or has flexibility, as many parents, school and jobs will prevent much time with you. of course this is the last thing that many of you experienced isg’ers are looking for.) so she takes off texting like a maniac. i start getting texts from other fresh ones as well, but i’m tired so decide to call it a night. the next day, duty calls and i have to fly out leaving one little crushed tutor. i assure her that i will be back soon, which is no lie. as i depart, i can’t get sister out of my mind. i start texting that i really need to hear it straight from her that she is not interested. she says she is but that she was tied up at home. she says she very much wants to see me again. life is good as i fly out, already mentally planing my next trip to cebu in a few months.

take home lessons for me:

1) rent the personal movie player on the plane, it has 10 movies and 20 tv shows and makes the trip go fast.

2) as always, try to bring your own food on the plane. plane food sucks.

3) never let anyone grab your luggage. they’re just trying to lead you to their buddy the taxi driver who will charge you 10x the meter rate. always ask for meter (metro) or get out of the taxi. you can also negotiate a flat rate, but do it before you get in the cab. be prepared for a negotiated rate to change en route, therefore meter is always best. avoid hotel “taxi” that will overcharge you (happened at copa, but not at marriot. did happen in cebu airport by marriott reception guy.)

4) same goes for guards at the airport, they’ll demand money for special services. follow their instructions but do not let them “help” with your bags.

5) no need to bring travelers checks. just get cash advances, but pay off the balances if you can by immediate online transfers so that you don’t accrue big finance charges. malls have many atm’s.

6) buy a cell phone immediately and start giving out your number to every hottie you see. i think i prefer globe cellular since there is only a smart store in sm mall, but its not a big deal. ayala mall has stores for globe and sun. to make big brownie points with your lady, pass a cell load to here once in awhile. it might cost you 1 usd or so and you’ll be a hero of unimaginable magnitude. do it more than once and you might make her cum. if you can afford it, get a nice phone, but not something that you’ll get upset about if it gets stolen. keep a 500p load card in your wallet so you’re not stranded when you run out of time. if you want to call the us, get a sun sim card and load for 10 cent/min call rate to the us.

7) if you’re a net hog, be prepared to find a different hotel than my choice of the marriott or be prepared to pay big money for your connection. next time around i might take a taxi to the globe or smart headquarters to try to get their cell internet connection really working since its cheap. either that or i’ll just bite the bullet and pay the 100 usd. i really like laying in bed with the girls and my laptop and watching funny videos, singing songs with lyrics off the net, and watching old southpark videos.

8) go straight to cebu for the cutest girls and avoid manila.

9) try to find girls that will spend time with you because not all can. possibly think about taking your honey(s) of choice out to mactan or bohol since sticking around cebu malls is a little boring after you find your honey.

10) if you’re health conscious, either eat your own food (lots of fruit at the mall markets) or the slightly spendy thai place near bo’s. just about every other restaurant in the malls will serve either fried food and white rice or meat soaked in soy sauce for 24 hours. its amazing all filipinos are not obese diabetics with high blood pressure. the marriot has a nice gym, but i got all my exercise by pacing the mall all day.

11) don’t be an ugly american wearing t-shirts/jeans/shorts. do buy cheap nice clothes (button down shirts or polo shirts and slacks) at the department store in the mall. avoid the branded mall shops. get your hair nicely done for cheap at the mall salons.

12) do not buy anything electronic like digicams, video cams or pc’s in the phils as they are more expensive than the us. you can bring your us cell phone and have it unlocked for about 1000p by most of the mall cell kiosks so it will work on the phils system, but verify that you have the correct frequencies available for the phils. you can buy a new unlocked cheap nokia for 40 usd.

13) become proficient at yahoo messenger! if you really want to be texted to death, interface ym with your cell phone so the girls can text to your phone when they are online.

14) don’t be shy like me, and do give out your cell phone number to every, and all cute girls you see.

15) hit bo’s in the afternoon for p4p if that’s your thing.

16) don’t walk out on the street. do stay either in the hotel, in the mall, or take a cab to a guarded area.

17) rtff and talk to experienced mongers to find out other things to do so you don’t just go from the hotel to the mall like i did.

18) bring cute girls for fun and entertainment to sunflower. don’t try to pick up girls there.

19) be prepared to deal with impenetrable cherry girls among the younger, more affluent and family oriented girls you encounter. determine this in chat. do try to talk a little nasty with them. the good girls will get insulted quickly. just cut them off if you need early solid action. this may take some time due to the huge number of really “good girls” on the dating sites.

20) never make promises (especially marriage) that you cannot or do not intend to keep. not only is it bad karma, these girls come from huge families that often extend into other countries where you may live. i’m sure they can have you hurt in the phils for 5 usd or even less, besides, most of these girls are really disadvantaged and don’t need us dragging them down any farther. lets be a benefit that they look forward to seeing instead of the bane of the phils.

21) always make sure your hotel has an in-room safe (copacabana in manila did not). use the safe. do not keep anything of value where it can be taken. don’t forget that in the phils, many people earn 3 usd per day. consider removing your harddrive and keeping it in the safe if you have important info on it.

22) always take taxis, never take jeepneys, for your own safety, unless you have nothing of value. jeepney robberies occur often. don’t go walking around aimlessly in the city.

23) completely forget the idea that hot 18 year olds might care that you are old, bald and fat. many don’t care.

24) never, under any circumstances, rent a car unless you grew up driving in manila.

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Great report.

It's good to see someone listening to the veterans. My attitude is, "If you're my girlfriend, then money is no object, but until then, I'm not the Red Cross, and I'm not desperate. "

I think there's another important tip in your post: Don't just have plan B, but plan C, D, E, F, etc.

I find that the greatest womanizers move at a very fast pace, not only does this fast pace weed out the ice queen scammers from the genuine ladies, but it creates excitement.

I used to go to Manila, but I discovered Cebu and I haven't been back since.

As for Filipinos' health "Its amazing all Filipinos are not obese diabetics with high blood pressure, " there actually are quite a few diabetics and "high bloods" as Filipinos call them. I agree with you, that fruit lunch is a good idea. It's healthy, gets you out in the market, and gets you out of the all fast food all the time rut.

Aimless,

Thankyou for posting in my Forum. I enjoyed it. I have read the first 25 paragraphs or so and go to where you DID NOT fuck the sister and passed on her offer of a blowjob. Not sure what my comments should be now.

Having made 4-6 Trips per year every year to Asia for 20 years and 18 years to the Phippines I will note a few differences. Virgin or not, it makes absolutely no difference. END OF STORY! I fuck 85-95% of the women I meet the first time we meet, no matter if they are 18 or 32, virgin or have three kids. Obviously we do things a "little bit differently".

I never meet in malls. They are for shopping and scoping out new pussy. I have them meet me at my Hotel. I always request they come alone and most will do this after my polite insistence. Perhaps I am a great salesman as GoodEnough says or it is my gentlemanly attitude. I am always lowkey and polite and well dressed. But i waste little time getting the affection and romance going.

No promises of marriage, just compliments and kissing on the lips, neck, massaging the back and getting them to reach in my pants and hold my dick. Soon it is in their mouth (filipinas love to give blowjobs and this should be included) and quickly in their pussy. All leave happy and want to return for more.

A little persistence goes a long way and you do not have to force a lady. As she gets excited and feels comfortable, she will acquiesece and allow you to fuck her, even if it is the first time.

I have to finish reading your Post. I want to find out if you ever actually Do get laid.

Dragon Slayer

Aimless,

Is it true? You did NOT get laid?? I have you 0 for 50! As to the comment when was the last time you had a virgin. For me it was nov 2007 in Davao City. A girl dropped by on a Sunday evening at my Room on the rooftop of the Marco polo. First time we ever met. She was a nanny for 2 chldren of a rich Davao family. Had her nude in ten minutes, blwoing me in 2 more and I had T Rex deep in her lovebox 5 minutes later. She soaked the sheets with blood and we spent an hour cleaning them with cold water to get most of it out. When valet service dropped by later as i was waiting for Cherryl to get off work and come over, they took one look, said nothing and changed all the bedding. I tipped them both in US silver dollars.

So far you could have definitely fucked the Sister, the Professor, the girl sleeping beside you in the bed (who gives a fuck if her entire Family is sleeping on the other side. Get her on top and stick your dick inside) and at least four others.

I still have the final dozen paragraphs to read. Have to get back to your Post.

Dragon Slayer