[QUOTE=PinkPearl;1518080]JuiWan, those are nice looking girls, much like the VN I recently saw in SG, who said they were from Hanoi or Saigon. I like your taste.[/QUOTE]Thanks. Get them while they're hot!
[QUOTE=Justume; 1518135]Hi JiuWan,
I have been to Vietnam and trying to speak to these girls is difficult. Though some of them speak English but most that do is only after your money. Most girls in massage parlours do not speak a lot of English.
So you speak Vietnamese I suppose.[/QUOTE][QUOTE=FunkyWop; 1517362]Wow. Your reports are nothing short of movie worthy. I've read the forums many times, but have never been compelled to register but your writings have changed that. Cheers to you!
I am a brand new member, as mentioned, and will be traveling to HCMC for the fist time next week. How can I find the places you have written about? I have searched the names on google maps, but am uncertain of their correctness. I am staying just at the Hard Rock, at le dan and hai ba trung. With no geographical knowledge and no knowledge of Vietnamese, I was worried about wandering the streets there looking for some of these places! Any help is appreciated from a master to a newbie![/QUOTE]Since both of your questions are along the same lines, I'll answer them together. I know what you are both going through, I still go them myself. I've referenced it in my reports but just in case you missed it. I get scared in Saigon. Yes, that's right. I get scared. There is always an element of fear when I try out new places that hasn't been reported before or if I go exploring new places that I haven't been before. The thing is that I don't let the fear control me; I control the fear and channel its energy into confidence. Women love men with confidence. Women don't like floppy cocks, they like erect cocks. You filled with confidence is an erect cock to them when you walk in.
How am I confident? I may sound like an asshole but this works for me. The main goal and most important thing with these girls is that I'm happy. That's it. Girlfriends, fiancees, wives and long-term partners are a different matter. I don't care if these working girls fake their orgasms but don't be so obvious about it. I can be the worst lover in the world and I don't care as long as the girl doesn't show it. I've paid the price, they should deliver the performance. I don't care about these girls. I don't care about their feelings. I don't care if they're tired and don't want to work. If they 'take my money', then I expect them to work for it. If they don't want my money, don't take me into the room. It's that simple. Now if they took care of me inside the room, obviously I'm not going to be an asshole. I'll compensate them well based on their 'performance'. If you do a good job, you'll get the 'standard' tip; do a bad job and you'll get less; go above and beyond, and I'll give you more. I know they're not here to love me, they just want my money. I'm fine with that as long as they can perform what I need or want. You want my money? Fine, make me happy and I'll give you money. With this in mind, I walk in confident like an erect cock.
Also, I've referenced many times that I don't speak Vietnamese fluently nor well. I can get by with the basics but more often than not, I don't even need the basics when communicating with these girls. When you walk into these places, they already know what you want. That is half the battle won. They already know what you want, all you need basic Vietnamese or hand motions. They can take care of the rest. One basic phrase that always comes in handy is 'bao nhieu? ' which means 'how much? '
If you want a handjob ask for 'mat xa baby'.
If you want a blowjob, motion with your hands and mouth.
If you want FS, ask for 'boom boom'
That's it. You can get by with just those phrases or motions. Sometimes that is all I do. K-I-S-S (Keep It Simple Simple). When it comes to price, you have a phone right? You can enter the price that you want to negotiate with on the phone. If the girl doesn't like it, they'll enter another number. Keep on entering numbers until you're both satisfied. For 'yes' and 'no', simply nod or shake your head. They will understand. There is many more motions that are universal that sometimes you can get by in these places without saying a word. Learning the currency is handy but using your phone is just as good. If your phone has Internet, Google Translate also helps. I've used Google Translate a couple times with Hai Ba Trung.
If you decide to do take-outs (short term or overnight) , then you can also use your hands to move their heads onto your crotch area. They'll understand, no need to talk. You can also point to body parts. Remember, you're there to get action, not sweet talk them. You don't need to be fluent in Vietnamese with these girls. They know what you want already. They just want to know how much you're willing to pay them. That is the only thing stopping them from giving you what you want. If you pay their price, they'll do it. Sometimes their price is too high, and that's when you have to say 'No'.
In many of the reports, I've mentioned places where they can speak other languages so you can just grab a taxi there. There is nothing to fear. I walk / drive down many streets looking for places. There is nothing to be afraid of nor ashamed of. Just walk down the street to look for the shop. If you get lost, have your hotel business card handy.
Again, everything above worked for me otherwise I wouldn't recommend it. My face may say that I'm a local but my accent, language skills and body all says 'foreigner'. I don't let that stop me for exploring. I use a combination of Vietnamese, English, Cantonese, Mandarin, French, hand motions, body motions and pointing. French worked for picking up a Vietnamese tour guide at Dinh Doc Lap (Reunification Palace) but that's another story for another time.
