Chat Rooms & Pen Pals

[QUOTE=Hairy Wonder]If you have a picture (doesn't matter if it's good or bad) and a slightly interesting profile, you will get plenty of the DIA girls contacting you.


HW[/QUOTE]
90% of the girls that contact me first, I am not interested in. (age, ugly, gay, ect).

I normaly do a search for a certain age bracket and location, say 22-27 years old, in davao, with picture. You will get hundreds to choose from. Just paste the same introduction "hi, i like ur profile"
As someone else stated, all you need is a picture, and many will respond.

"As someone else stated, all you need is a picture, and many will respond."

This is true, but they will type out a couple of words that don't mean anything. Getting a good conversation going is not so easy. Any tips on how to accomplish that?

A lot (most) of these women on DIA are from very simple backgrounds. They do not necessarily have a good command of the English language and are very unsophisticated. If you want some real conversation, you will have to weed through a whole lot of women to find just one who can express herself well. Look for the "university graduated" types first. If you get simple one line responses, just move on to someone else right away. You may be able to get a sense of their intellect by just reading their profile carefully. So many are identical.."simple...who will accept me as I am" etc. It's a tedious, time consuming process.

One chic claims to have been working in LA Cafe. She jumped right at my invitation. Her messages lead me to believe she's insane or trouble.

Two 19 year olds went silent when I proposed dinner/night-out.

One very cute 19 year old accepted my invitation to dinner but wants to bring her cousin along. I said nothing. 9 hours later she sent me another message with her phone. I want to do her. I don't want to scare her off. How would I proceed?

[QUOTE=Cuba Tourist]That's an interesting story. It does take a lot of work, at least in the first stage to set things up. And you have no guarantee that the girls are really that much more innocent than the bargirls. I tend to spend more money with girlfriends than bargirls because the bar girl as a specific rate and doesn't expect anything beyond the official amount. the girlfriends start on you their stories and you feel an obligation to share the wealth, as their new president might put it.

One girl on date in Asia just wrote me that she is living now in Malaysia, working as a waitress. It seems fairly unlikely, although apparently some Filipinas to go to other countries in the region to work as waitresses. one girl gave me a buzz on Yahoo messenger. She's a nursing student and writes very little. I told her bluntly that I can't develop a relationship with her if she doesn't communicate said that her English is not very good. I asked her what language she studies in -- I was under the impression that all the universities in the country use English -- and she gave a ambiguous answer three times until I stopped asking.[/QUOTE]


You actually feel obligated because of some sad story? Thats pretty amazing that you spend more money with gf than bargirl, because if you were to spend 3000 peso a day for 5 days thats equates to 15,000 peso for bar girl. So now if you spend 15,000 for your gf in 5 days. Ask yourself how long would it take her to earn that much and why does she need 15000 peso. I hate to see fellow mongers get used, because they are thinking with the wrong head.

With respect to the maylasia thing, many filipina who go to maylasia are promised one thing but most end up as hookers.

Hi fellow mongerers!

Like others have mentioned on this board, I decided to make a "bad boy" profile on DIA. In the "about me" section, I made it clear that I was not interested in a long term relationship, but only GFE type with possible repeats if we both enjoyed it. I did not post a picture to it, but was honest about my age, height, and weight. Afterward, I proceeded to show interest in many profiles that caught my eye. I have had many responses. But only one looks like it might come through.

This girl (vivsweet on DIA) started chatting with me near the end of October. Only on DIA until today. She provided me with her YM ID and I added her to my friends list. Immediately, she wanted to start chatting, invited me to view her web cam, and talked sweet to me. During our conversation, I mentioned how much I spent last year when I went to Manila to have laser eye surgery done. From this, she started talking about how expensive it could be to stay in the hotels. Deciding to see where this would go, I told her that I assumed the hotels in her home town (Dipilog City) were cheaper than in Manila. Her reply was that there are some nice hotels there that only cost P750 a night (which makes me think she has some first hand experience in the rooms.) I suggested that she introduce me to a nice hotel if I visit her. To this, she stated that a better idea would be if I just stayed at her house so she could "take care of" me. I like that idea very much!

I just want to know if anyone else has any experience with her, and if she is a scammer. If not, I will try it sometime in the future, and report on it!

[QUOTE=Cuba Tourist]"As someone else stated, all you need is a picture, and many will respond."

This is true, but they will type out a couple of words that don't mean anything. Getting a good conversation going is not so easy. Any tips on how to accomplish that?[/QUOTE]
First thing I learned is get there yahoo messenger address ASAP. Other wise it could be a long time before you get to actual converse in real time. I used to get this a lot.

The separate emails would take a day or two respond to if they don't go on-line a lot, and you don't really want a girl that is on 24/7 anyway.



When I first started on DAI I would interact with girls this way-

me:hi, nice profile

her:thanks

me: would you like to chat sometime?

her: sure, why not.

me: can I have your yahoo messenger id

her: my yahoo is chickondai, but I am not always online.

me: when is a good time to find u online?

her: I borrow my cousins computer on Sundays after church

me:Ok, I will look for you on Sunday



that could take about a week or longer to just to chat with the girl and by that time I am board with her or have forgotten who she was.

Now I cut to the chase, without being too agressive.

I copy and paste a basic introduction.

me:Nice profile, if you like we can chat on yahoo, just leave me a message at bobbowies id.


Ps. don't believe the profile if it says they have a college degree, most just check that box no matter if they spent one day in class or have a masters.

This girl (vivsweet on DIA) started chatting with me near the end of October.

You sure you got that name right?

She looks like a regular girl

[QUOTE=Khun Larry]This girl (vivsweet on DIA) started chatting with me near the end of October.

You sure you got that name right?

She looks like a regular girl[/QUOTE]

KL,

Yes. Her DIA ID is vivsweet. She looks very nice in her profile picture, and on the web cam. Everytime she has sent me a message, it has been just nice chit chat, nothing sexual. She surprised me with the offer to take care of me at her home, especially since I have no photo on DIA and have not opened my web cam for her. Maybe it is desperation on her part, or maybe a scam. I'm not sure. Just thought I would check it out before making a move.

HW

HW

Did a search for her but no matches. I would not go to her house to sleep initially. Maybe to have a look. Cheaper to get a room and you can escape quicker if need be.

Send a link to her page, will yank her chain for ya

Good luck

There is no vivsweet on DIA.

[QUOTE=Khun Larry]HW

Did a search for her but no matches. I would not go to her house to sleep initially. Maybe to have a look. Cheaper to get a room and you can escape quicker if need be.

Send a link to her page, will yank her chain for ya

Good luck[/QUOTE]

KL & CT,

In order to not violate any rules about outside links, I have cut out the beginning DIA url from the link below. Just cut and paste the line into your address bar following the dateinasia.com/ portion. She is there.

UserProfile.aspx?uid=7e3e4f17-f878-4d83-ae21-d2c9cc50af92

Sorry! I made a typo in the spelling of her ID. It is actually vivzsweet.

HW

Let us know how she performs HW

[QUOTE=Hairy Wonder]KL,

Yes. Her DIA ID is vivsweet. She looks very nice in her profile picture, and on the web cam. Everytime she has sent me a message, it has been just nice chit chat, nothing sexual. She surprised me with the offer to take care of me at her home, especially since I have no photo on DIA and have not opened my web cam for her. Maybe it is desperation on her part, or maybe a scam. I'm not sure. Just thought I would check it out before making a move.

HW[/QUOTE]

I personally think you're better off using your web cam with her...better interaction. I too had a lady suggest that I stay with her...but I didn't do it. I think the potential problems could be huge.

I used to see a girl in Costa Rica that insisted that I stay at her place. Alot of money saved and a good place. Plus she had the most perfect tits I have ever seen in my life. She knew she would be well kept for a week or so and never asked for a single penny. She was Dominican in CR though. I would be suspect about a pinay wanting me to stay at her place as "her place" is most likely her family's place. Don't want to support all of them.