Seeking Arrangements

MW, the breakup was the best thing that could have happened to me. Her name was Julieth. I followed her Instagram for a year after that and saw how tried so hard to show me her life was better without me when it was not. I could have had her back if I had taken all the blame for what she had done, but I was not having that.

A lot of guys are like these South American seeking women are all working girls, do not care about you and are only out for money, and really want to hang out with their Latin BFs. When you actually get to follow women's lives on Instagram, you get to see if it is true or not. In Julieth's case, her life went way downhill. Her novio and his friends promised her the world and did not deliver on it, and she is suffering big time. I know she would do things differently if she had the chance to.

On the other hand, Gaby is a good girl. Unlike Julieth, she really is better off with this other guy and not me.

Gaby is in Mexico, and there is a lot of money there in comparison to Peru where Julieth is and Colombia. It is so rare that a Colombian or Peruvian woman can do better with their Colombian or Peruvian novio over an American guy. I saw that with Julieth and if you look at the wage difference between the USA and Colombia / Peru, it is staggering.

A lot of guys who go to Colombia or Brazil may think the women have better options than them, but now I know and more importantly feel otherwise. That boost of confidence really has helped my game.

Anywhere, here are pics of Julieth. I think they are both 10's, but Gaby was taller and more striking. One of the things that kind of may have ruined it for me with Gaby was that I was having a hard time finding 10's until Covid hit, and I was kind of desperate to bang a girl hotter than Julieth. LOL.

Now the 10's seem to be falling out of the trees. I have two Colombian models lined up for my next trip that may be 10's as well. Pre Covid, I really was having a hard time finding breath taking beauties on seeking but there are a lot of models out of work these days. He he.

[QUOTE=MiamiBoy1;2507307]\My post was about girls who literally mean gifts / presents and get offended when offered cash.[/QUOTE]Oh, then be prepared to spend a lot on gifts and presents. I had several SBs that only wanted me to buy stuff for them. But, man! That was expensive. Purses, cell phones, SPA treatments, jewelry, clothes. It was ridiculous!!

[QUOTE=Elvis2008;2507343] I have two Colombian models lined up for my next trip that may be 10's as well. Pre Covid, I really was having a hard time finding breath taking beauties on seeking but there are a lot of models out of work these days. He he.[/QUOTE]Good luck. I thought I had a sure 10 in Costa Rica that I met online and talked to on the phone. She met me at the airport. When I saw her face it in person, it looked like cottage cheese smeared on it, from acne scars and other acne problems. I had to try hard to shake her off from being a mooch. Women are Very crafty with what photos they post online, they will blur out of focus parts of them that are problems, crop at the bustline to hide belly fat, also they turn their hips to the side to hide their fat butt.

[QUOTE=Midwestern;2507503]Oh, then be prepared to spend a lot on gifts and presents. I had several SBs that only wanted me to buy stuff for them. But, man! That was expensive. Purses, cell phones, SPA treatments, jewelry, clothes. It was ridiculous!![/QUOTE]Well said, but I think with most of us Time is more valuable then money and gifts. I think a lot of are fortunate and have great jobs. I can make more money, but running around with a girl for several hours buying gifts is not my idea of fun, unless I real like the girl. One of my favorite girls in MTY, the model is so fun to be around and humble, I enjoy all the time I am with her.

Now the 2 girls that were seeking gifts, I could not stand being around them for more then 1 or 2.

I was surprised to read on here a couple time that guys were getting bareback from their babies. Yet here it is. Sarah tried to bareback me on our second date (first date was kiss only) and I didn't go there. I'm not worried about disease since she's been off market. But pregnancy is always a concern. So I asked and sure enough she started back on the pill. So date 3 was a bareback fiesta! Wowzer! Sugar Babies rule!

So a couple funny things that made me wonder when did she decide she was going to fuck me. When in the process?

The things that made me wonder:

1. She told me that second date that she had trouble deciding outfits but ended up picking something she could get out of fast. LOL.

2. When I asked her about the pill she said she stopped a couple months ago but started again a week ago (coincidence? I think not!

So back to "when did she decide I am worth fucking". She said she thought during our date that it was very nice but probably not for her (she is total newbie). But then our passionate kiss made her think twice. But it wasn't a done deal. She said our continued texting cemented it. Don't underestimate the importance of kissing and your text game fellas! There may be some bareback in ur future!

Here is an a weird one. She asked me what type of arrangement I was looking for. This girl is in MTY.

But: How does, this sound, for an arrangements, Between $150-175 dollars, for 2-3 hours of fun, with 2 sessions of sex.

But: What do you think.

[well it's not what I'm looking for. But if you want just hang out and know more about the city, it was my pleasure show you Monterrey, I love to be guide tourist!

Good night.

But: What are you looking for?

I usually do arrangements like tourist guide and you don't have to pay for my time, I like to make friends! 😊.

If you like my service as tourist guide you can feel free to give me tips, only if you have a good time.

But: No, I am looking for something different, if you change your mind let me know. Good luck.

You too!

Night, night!]

What would make a working girl agree to BBFS? Do you offer extra $ for that? I've read a bunch of reports recently where guys bareback left and right.

I don't get it. Every time I propose it I get a huge NO. I'm healthy and maintain good hygiene, but no luck. My understanding is girls do not like to take pills because it fucks up their hormone system, therefore they prefer to have covered sex and be safe.

Damn, i even had to order these expensive 0.01 polyurethane condoms from Japan for my next trip, a friend of mine said they are so thin you don't feel them on

[QUOTE=Steve9696;2507735]I was surprised to read on here a couple time that guys were getting bareback from their babies. Yet here it is. Sarah tried to bareback me on our second date (first date was kiss only) and I didn't go there. I'm not worried about disease since she's been off market. But pregnancy is always a concern. So I asked and sure enough she started back on the pill. So date 3 was a bareback fiesta! Wowzer! Sugar Babies rule![/QUOTE]This would freak me out. I have a couple friends who have had little ones with GFs who were supposedly "on the pill". You seem like an affluent guy. A sugar baby might like to emphasize the daddy in sugar daddy.

[QUOTE=MiamiBoy1;2507922]What would make a working girl agree to BBFS? Do you offer extra $ for that? I've read a bunch of reports recently where guys bareback left and right.

I don't get it. Every time I propose it I get a huge NO. I'm healthy and maintain good hygiene, but no luck. My understanding is girls do not like to take pills because it fucks up their hormone system, therefore they prefer to have covered sex and be safe.

Damn, i even had to order these expensive 0.01 polyurethane condoms from Japan for my next trip, a friend of mine said they are so thin you don't feel them on[/QUOTE]Look I am not an expert on BBFS. Lew Ashby is the king IMO. You might Message him. But most WGs will never consider it. Because it's their BUSINESS and disease or pregnancy fucks their business. But lower end venues like Thailand and Mexico you can find it. In more upscale locations you are only likely to find with something semi long term like a regular SB.

At least this is what I've seen. And each of us has different moral boundaries but I would never have BBFS with some girl I didnt know. Too much chance for a little Steve happening u have no idea what protection if any they are using. I only started BBFS with Sarah after knowing her as a person and having confidence that she is on protection.

P.S. Beware. Several of us have experienced breakage with the Jap super thins. I use Trojan BareSkin and they are very close to the Japanese feel but much more reliable. Highly recommmend. And oh if u are even vaguely thick make sure to try out the Jap ones before ur trip. Even the XL are super tight for me and I am not exceptional.

[QUOTE=Steve9696;2507940]Look I am not an expert on BBFS. Lew Ashby is the king IMO. You might Message him. But most WGs will never consider it. Because it's their BUSINESS and disease or pregnancy fucks their business. But lower end venues like Thailand and Mexico you can find it. In more upscale locations you are only likely to find with something semi long term like a regular SB.

At least this is what I've seen. And each of us has different moral boundaries but I would never have BBFS with some girl I didnt know. Too much chance for a little Steve happening u have no idea what protection if any they are using. I only started BBFS with Sarah after knowing her as a person and having confidence that she is on protection.[/QUOTE]I don't think it matters if a girl is working girl, pro, semi-pro, SB, etc. Simply because nobody wants to have a kid born out of a real relationship. Who wants to be a single mom?

[QUOTE=MiamiBoy1;2507922]What would make a working girl agree to BBFS? Do you offer extra $ for that?[/QUOTE]No, you treat seeking girls like women not pros.

[QUOTE=MiamiBoy1;2507922]I've read a bunch of reports recently where guys bareback left and right.[/QUOTE]Yep. Guilty.

[QUOTE=MiamiBoy1;2507922]I don't get it. Every time I propose it I get a huge NO. I'm healthy and maintain good hygiene, but no luck. My understanding is girls do not like to take pills because it fucks up their hormone system, therefore they prefer to have covered sex and be safe.[/QUOTE]If you google the phrase "large study shows that condoms do not work for STDs", your second hit will be the Catholic News Agency saying condoms do not work. Do not let the catholic crap fool you. They are referencing a huge STD study.

On July 20, a report was issued by the USA Department of Health and Human Services. A scientific panel co-sponsored by the National Institutes of Health (NIH), the Food and Drug Administration (FDA), the Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC), the USA Agency for International Development (USAID), developed the report. It was based on a yearlong study in which 28 researchers reviewed 138 peer-reviewed, published studies on the heterosexual transmission of sexually transmitted diseases (STD).

The panel studied condom effectiveness in preventing the eight most prevalent sexually transmitted diseases: HIV, gonorrhea, chlamydia, syphilis, chancroid, trichomoniasis, genital herpes, and human papillomavirus (HPV). Condoms were not found to provide universal protection against any of these diseases.

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I use medications to prevent STDs if I am not comfortable with the girl. Any guy can legally buy antibiotics abroad or on [URL]alldaychemist.com[/URL].

For pregnancy, anyone can buy plan be which suppresses ovulation. If you use this right after sex, pregnancy prevention is about equal to a condom. I make sure I shoot my babies anywhere but the vagina. As long as I have used this method, I have not gotten a woman pregnant.

Do not offer money. Show the woman you are concerned with your and her safety. It might help if you had a STD panel you could show a woman right off the bat. If you want to be a bit of a dick about it, say that you cannot use condoms because you are allergic to latex.

Honestly, I do think latex allergies are a bigger deal than HIV, but that is how I go about it. If the women do not trust me to go bare, unless they are perfect in every other way, I am done with them. Trust is the cornerstone of the SD SB relationship.

[QUOTE=Elvis2008;2507957]No, you treat seeking girls like women not pros.

Do not offer money. Show the woman you are concerned with your and her safety. It might help if you had a STD panel you could show a woman right off the bat. If you want to be a bit of a dick about it, say that you cannot use condoms because you are allergic to latex.

Honestly, I do think latex allergies are a bigger deal than HIV, but that is how I go about it. If the women do not trust me to go bare, unless they are perfect in every other way, I am done with them. Trust is the cornerstone of the SD SB relationship.[/QUOTE]I agree and disagree. We try to have it both ways and play the game. Sometimes the women play back. There is no trust with the person who is seeing others on the side. Nothing wrong with that. But pretending not to be to fool other side is a slightly different thing.

As for the super thin Asian condoms, they are worth every bit if you can fit into them. The are quite inflexible, so, it you don't fit, they can be expanded like latex. However, they are strong and they have great feeling--especially if you don't have to worry about the unexpected. Their greatest feature is heat transmission. You can simply feel her temperature and that can be sensational with the right woman. I know of a person where I can feel her passion by her temperature. The best feature is they are super slippery. Very little natural or synthetic lubrication is required. That lets you fuck for a long time and you can slip into the smallest holes with no problem. At times, they can be better than barebacking. When a woman does not have to worry about pregnancy and disease, she can enjoy the moment. That can lead to sex on and off for a whole day and wanting more at night. Always look at the big picture. More sex is always better.

[QUOTE=Steve9696;2507735]

So back to "when did she decide I am worth fucking". She said she thought during our date that it was very nice but probably not for her (she is total newbie). But then our passionate kiss made her think twice. But it wasn't a done deal. She said our continued texting cemented it. Don't underestimate the importance of kissing and your text game fellas! There may be some bareback in ur future![/QUOTE]Congrats, man! But she's going to fall in love with you! So there'll be drama down the line. Maybe keep reminding her you're married.

[QUOTE=MiamiBoy1;2507922]What would make a working girl agree to BBFS? Do you offer extra $ for that? I've read a bunch of reports recently where guys bareback left and right.

I don't get it. Every time I propose it I get a huge NO. I'm healthy and maintain good hygiene, but no luck. My understanding is girls do not like to take pills because it fucks up their hormone system, therefore they prefer to have covered sex and be safe.

Damn, i even had to order these expensive 0.01 polyurethane condoms from Japan for my next trip, a friend of mine said they are so thin you don't feel them on[/QUOTE]I tried the Japanese condoms, and it does feel like you're wearing nothing, but that's because they are so tight, so they are hard to put on. Sometimes I lose my erection trying to put it on.

I'm also guilty of barebacking SBs and even WGs. I used to strictly use protection, but after being with hundreds of women (mostly WGs) using protection, I just lost interest in it. But it all started with a gal that used to be a WG, but now she owns a few businesses and has a BF. But she likes me, and so we still meet up sometimes, and she insisted on bareback one day, saying that it felt great for her too. And when we did it, it felt so good that I almost cannot return to covered action, unless it's with strange. My ATF WG also let me BB her. She so hot, and so BBing was such heaven. Is this all stupid? Yes. My two current SBs let me BB them. Both also let me CIP. Is this stupid? Yes. BTW, yes, my SB#1 suddenly texted me yesterday, after dumping me over two weeks ago. We might get back together.