Re marrying girls, having steady gfs
I am very happy for people like Mr Benetar. Is nice when things work out.
But I am still at a loss why so many mongering types end up marrying or having steady gfs. Particularly when they come from a pro or semi-pro environment (not that Mr B's does).
And do not get me wrong. It has crossed my mind: once with this absolute honey from Madagascar and another with a Cambodian hottie.
A couple of stories to illustrate my reservations:
1- A monger I partied with in Colombia had a steady gf there whom he visited 5-6 times a year and spend lots of time with, naturally he also did a bit of playing on the side but only occasionally. He decided to make her his steady and contemplated something more long term. Long story short, some reservations started creeping after his next to last trip. Being late often, making hard to swallow excuses, etc. Me and some of my local pussy raised our eyebrows at some of the tales she told but my buddy gave her the benefit of the doubt after so much quality time together. I am not sure if she felt that she was about to be found out but in his last trip she drugged him and stole the laptop, camera and some cash. Gone.
2- A very tasty morsel with huge cans I found in Mombasa recently got married to some bloke from Denmark, I was amusing myself at looking at her wedding pics in FB. Anyways, I boned this chick the day I met her. Her sister wanted to order her to leave me two days after meeting her so that she could take me. Then huge cans wanted me to meet her family 5 days after meeting me. 7 days later was asking when were we going to marry etc. Not two months after I left Kenya I found out that she was engaged to her husband to be and now she is in Denmark married to this guy. Was she in love with me? Maybe with the idea of leaving Kenya yes. Is she in love with the danish dude? Perhaps. But I would not bet cash on it.
3- An investment guy from San Diego used to come over to our local coffee house and brag about this hottie brazilians he used to bag. Finally met one that rock his boat enough and brought her in to live in SD with him and married her. Had her family manage his properties in Brazil and all. Good times. 9 months or so later after getting married, he tells us how he is getting a divorce. Apparently she had met some other local guy while working, for fun, as a waitress.
Anyways, buyer beware. I think is great that it works for some. But it sure as heck does not work for many. Mr Benatar is correct in advising lots of research and looking for the right character and upbringing. Is quite iffy if you ask me and something I would only dabble with if I were to be there in site. And sure as hell would thinks twice or thrice before compromising my financial assets. Especially nowadays.
Concarne