Finally some control and willpower
After some really bad experience with SPs, I altogether decided to never go for any SP but only independents. I contacted a few (through CL) who were claiming to be independent. Talked with them then reached their place as they told. But again saw the same pattern being repeated as with SPs. So I got pissed off and rejected. I asked that if you are not independent then why advertise like that. The answer I got was hilarious. They said they may be operating and handling but the girl is independent. I just laughed and returned. This happened multiple times with different independents. This time I did not fall for the imminent lust and somehow got control of myself. After returning to my house I felt very good and proud of myself.
After these unsuccessful encounters I decided to go for so called Hi Fi SPs. I thought that if I want really genuine service then may be I have to increase my budget. If successful and satisfied then I can do with frequency once in 40-45 days. So I contacted one and he sent me some photos through whatsapp and asked 10K for ST. The photos were really good so I agreed. He asked me to come to a hotel and go to some room no. I went there after travelling a long distance. The agent there asked for 12K. I said that I was told only 10K. I don't know why this happens local guy demanding more than the main SP. I took tough stance and said no. Finally he agreed for 10K and I went inside the room saying I will give the amount after seeing the girl.
Then the disappointment started. The girl was decent enough but nowhere near the photo sent to me. On a scale of 0-10 if photo was 9 then this girl was 4. I told this to the local agent and he said she is the same girl. The I got angry said that do you take me for a blind. Then he said how do you expect the same. This is the only one available. Pay the money and do it. After taking so much trouble, travelling that much distance and in anticipation of pleasure, for a moment I thought to do that. But I got hold of my senses soon and realized that this is because of people like me coming and compromising and falling to their trap that these people keep on doing this. I said a big no and got out of the hotel.
After some time the main SP called and enquired about it. I told that I was extremely disappointed and I am not going for anything less than promised. He told me come to some other place here a better girl is there. I told that I don't want a better girl but I want the same girl as in photo. If you have that then call me otherwise don't bother me. If you have some other girl the send me genuine photos of them. If I like any of them I will tell you. After all this I returned to my place.
Again the feeling was good that I did not fall for a weak moment and came out of the situation. I felt my willpower getting stronger as later similar things were repeated with other Hi Fi SPs and with time I found it more easy to reject and come out.
It looks like I will never be able to enjoy a genuine provider in Bangalore. I humbly request the seniors on ISG to help me out if they can with some genuine and good quality contacts. Please try to feel the pain of the fellow monger who has tried everything he could before asking for help.
Waiting for a positive response. Good luck to other folks on ISG in their endeavors.