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[QUOTE=Midwestern;2509540]Dood, you're not going to wife her, so who cares if she's 30 pounds overweight? Heavy girls are amazing in the sack because they overcompensate. I suggest that you just enjoy it while it lasts. One of the main advantages of SA is occasionally being able to find a gal that is genuinely into you and into sex, and you seem to have found one. So, I think you should just feel lucky, and don't sweat the weight.[/QUOTE]Man you are totally right. I guess just the possibility got me thinking but holy shit she is totally into me and the sex is literally the best I've ever had including all civies and pros to date. That is a high bar. WTF am I thinking. Enjoy her as is. Because it's spectacular. Thanks man.

Ps what’s the latest on ur blocked girl. It back on?

[QUOTE=Steve9696;2509544]

Ps whats the latest on ur blocked girl. It back on?[/QUOTE]I saw her on Friday. We hashed it out, recognized that we have a generation gap, and so we now accept that we will sometimes have a misunderstanding and have a fight, but we promised to always keep the relationship.

Then, we barebacked and I nutted inside of her hard. Her period is coming any day now, so I told her that I would be busy at work this week. Next week, when her period is over, I will coincidentally not be busy, and will bust another nut into her. In the meantime, we text, and she sometimes gives me shit about something, but I just ignore it. In person, she's great, which is all that matters for now. She's pretty cool, and very funny. So, I'm having fun, which matters too in these kinds of relationships.

Oh, and I paid her monthly installment, per our arrangement. But it was 3 weeks overdue. But I am going to keep to this new payment schedule. I am not giving her anything for the time that I was blocked obviously.

By the way, if your gal is young and the weight gain is recent, then isn't her body still firm? I remember the heavy girls back in college. Their bodies were amazing, as far as I was concerned. But fat doesn't age well usually.

I am new to SA and I have checked SA after a while. I am seeing lot more girls on SA compared to last year. I am looking into getting into this SA game.

Any suggestions / pointers on bay area SA? What is the rge typical PPM range in bay area? Is there any one area is better than other area in terms of price / attitude etc. Is ir better to look for girls more than 50 miles away from home?

Also why would a girl get premium membership? Does it mean she is pro?

Thanks.

Sam.

[QUOTE=Midwestern;2509631]I saw her on Friday. We hashed it out, recognized that we have a generation gap, and so we now accept that we will sometimes have a misunderstanding and have a fight, but we promised to always keep the relationship.

By the way, if your gal is young and the weight gain is recent, then isn't her body still firm? I remember the heavy girls back in college. Their bodies were amazing, as far as I was concerned. But fat doesn't age well usually.[/QUOTE]That's great news. And yeah you’re right. Her fat isn't all jiggly and she has zero cellulite. Her tits are amazing. Clearly they were DeeCups before she put on the weight. Super firm with huge responsive nipples (rare in big tits in my experience). Spent a lot of time last time sucking on them and it drives her crazy with passion. She's a keeper.

I spend quite a bit of time in the Cabo area where it is quite expensive to hobby. I recently decided to try my luck using SA to see what that brought me. I am quite happy with the result. Once you sort out the SB's and find a local non pro the results are amazing. The rate drops from US prices back to Mexican prices, still higher than other parts of Mexico but much more reasonable. Just thought I would pass this along for anybody thinking of travelling to SJD.

[QUOTE=Travel902;2510020]I spend quite a bit of time in the Cabo area where it is quite expensive to hobby. I recently decided to try my luck using SA to see what that brought me. I am quite happy with the result. Once you sort out the SB's and find a local non pro the results are amazing. The rate drops from US prices back to Mexican prices, still higher than other parts of Mexico but much more reasonable. Just thought I would pass this along for anybody thinking of travelling to SJD.[/QUOTE]Thanks for that report! Would be interesting to know how much the typical allowance was and whether knowledge of Spanish is necessary for SA-game in Cabo?

So I am pretty locked up with Sarah now. With Layla I was always looking. Because her kissing and BJ were mediocre. But Sarah is a wildcat and the kissing, BJ, and passion are off the charts. Plus it's super non transactional. She's brand new so I didn't want to give her cash right after or even day after. I waited two days and CashApped her some college cash. We met up twice this week and I didn't pay per session. I mean honestly I know she’d meet me with no $$ at all. Didn’t give her anything after second time. Then after third go, I waited two days again and sent some college money. It feels nice this way - because I don’t really have to give her $$ but I do cuz I want to. Wow. I think it’s supposed to be like this, but rarely is. And in this case more effective than PPM as we have met three times in the last two weeks.

Anyhow that was not the point of this post! Point is you should engage, particularly with new girls. Because they are going to be gone. Sarah had just joined. Actually I asked her if she knew that "curvy is code for overweight on SA" and her face pic did not look overweight. I mean this is not a strong opening! Was really just sayin. I expected her to not even respond. But instead we got into a dialog. Talking to her later she said she did not even respond to ANY of the guys on SA and I was the only one (and she's not just saying that) and now she's gone from SA.

So that tiny engagement and then text and date game and here we are I'm going steady like In High school! So ENGAGE and with NEW girls if you want to snag a real girl. Good luck!

[QUOTE=SamPeter71;2509642]
Also why would a girl get premium membership? Does it mean she is pro?
[/QUOTE]College students get premium membership for free. It also costs much less for SB. I don't remember everything but I posted some detail here before.

[QUOTE=Steve9696;2510231]So I am pretty locked up with Sarah now. With Layla I was always looking. Because her kissing and BJ were mediocre. But Sarah is a wildcat and the kissing, BJ, and passion are off the charts. Plus it's super non transactional. She's brand new so I didn't want to give her cash right after or even day after. I waited two days and CashApped her some college cash. We met up twice this week and I didn't pay per session. I mean honestly I know shed meet me with no $$ at all. Didnt give her anything after second time. Then after third go, I waited two days again and sent some college money. It feels nice this way - because I dont really have to give her $$ but I do cuz I want to. Wow. I think its supposed to be like this, but rarely is. And in this case more effective than PPM as we have met three times in the last two weeks.

Anyhow that was not the point of this post! Point is you should engage, particularly with new girls. Because they are going to be gone. Sarah had just joined. Actually I asked her if she knew that "curvy is code for overweight on SA" and her face pic did not look overweight. I mean this is not a strong opening! Was really just sayin. I expected her to not even respond. But instead we got into a dialog. Talking to her later she said she did not even respond to ANY of the guys on SA and I was the only one (and she's not just saying that) and now she's gone from SA.

So that tiny engagement and then text and date game and here we are I'm going steady like In High school! So ENGAGE and with NEW girls if you want to snag a real girl. Good luck![/QUOTE]Very nice! You are generous and you met the right girl so she is lucky to have met you too.

[QUOTE=Ailton;2510219]Thanks for that report! Would be interesting to know how much the typical allowance was and whether knowledge of Spanish is necessary for SA-game in Cabo?[/QUOTE]I have had good results without being able to speak Spanish, I just use a translator app. The SB's always start off with a higher price because of the area, Cabo being the most expensive area in all of Mexico. I offer about 2500 pesos, (125 USD) which I think is fair and if they argue I politely tell them that I am moving on. You can get WG here through the online paper for about 1500 pesos but the real pros are about 5000 pesos. Just my experience.

[QUOTE=Steve9696;2510231]......I waited two days and CashApped her some college cash. We met up twice this week and I didn't pay per session. I mean honestly I know shed meet me with no $$ at all. Didnt give her anything after second time. Then after third go, I waited two days again and sent some college money. It feels nice this way - because I dont really have to give her $$ but I do cuz I want to.[/QUOTE]Hey Steve,

Are you able to CashApp money anonymously? Are there easy ways to set-up an anonymous cashapp account? Thanks.

[QUOTE=WyattEarp;2510412]Hey Steve,

Are you able to CashApp money anonymously? Are there easy ways to set-up an anonymous cashapp account? Thanks.[/QUOTE]You guys do not want to use CashApp, for 2 reasons. 1. Very trackable 2. It is a huge Red Flag if you get Audited, you will have a lot of explaining to do. So, that income better be accounted for. Small amounts are OK, but large and consistent monthly amounts can lead to big problems, for both you and the girl.

[QUOTE=DramaFree11;2510438]You guys do not want to use CashApp, for 2 reasons. 1. Very trackable 2. It is a huge Red Flag if you get Audited, you will have a lot of explaining to do. So, that income better be accounted for. Small amounts are OK, but large and consistent monthly amounts can lead to big problems, for both you and the girl.[/QUOTE]There is no way to set up any money transfer that is anonymous to the bank and / or government. But CashApp is anonymous to the girl. You can also use PayPal but have to set up a business acct to remain anonymous to the girl. Again you can't be anonymous to the app / bank because you have to connect to some source of funds.

I have an acct and debit card that is "safe" for me generally but clearly the govt or institutions could connect the Steve breadcrumbs. Chance I've chosen to take.

Bay area was my primary SA hunting grounds for almost two years. It is a lot of work. I was on SA about 15 hours a week. I would send out 20 messages per day, and see if I could get a nibble.

It's a numbers game with the Bay Area. Finding the new members is always best, but there are a lot of guys using SA in the Bay Area too. Some of the hot girls that I met told me that they would get a hundred messages every day. They are obviously exaggerating, but it is still telling.

Sure, you can stretch your search to 50 miles. That's what I did. But meet and greets and dates will eat up a lot of travel time. And the flake and cancellation rate was pretty high, which added to the time wasted. The gals are also playing a numbers game too. So, they might agree to meet you, but if something better comes along, then they cancel.

Going rate was 500 for PPM, which is exactly the going rate for a high quality pro in SF.

You can increase your success rate if are willing to date older gals, like over 30 or even over 40. If I were still in SF, I would probably skip SA and just do the FS AMPS.

[QUOTE=SamPeter71;2509642]I am new to SA and I have checked SA after a while. I am seeing lot more girls on SA compared to last year. I am looking into getting into this SA game.

Any suggestions / pointers on bay area SA? What is the rge typical PPM range in bay area? Is there any one area is better than other area in terms of price / attitude etc. Is ir better to look for girls more than 50 miles away from home?

Also why would a girl get premium membership? Does it mean she is pro?

Thanks.

Sam.[/QUOTE].

[QUOTE=Travel902;2510393]I have had good results without being able to speak Spanish, I just use a translator app. The SB's always start off with a higher price because of the area, Cabo being the most expensive area in all of Mexico. I offer about 2500 pesos, (125 USD) which I think is fair and if they argue I politely tell them that I am moving on. You can get WG here through the online paper for about 1500 pesos but the real pros are about 5000 pesos. Just my experience.[/QUOTE]Good info. Can you provide some details on your logistics and related recommendations, like where to stay, issues bringing girls into your hotel, and vanilla stuff too (restaurants, things to do)? Would love to hear more. I'm also considering the capital for a visit while most of the rest of the world is shut down to Americans. The CDMX board has good reports on the SA scene down there.