Sosua Reports

Efore I went out tonight, I had a chit chat with the TLN from the other night, the one that was emotionally GFE which whom I had that money discrepancy.

Good thing, no tension, but it was clear that her ego was bruised at me not offering her 3000, which she sees as the going TLN rate (I am good at reading people, its my job, she was not BSing me). I mean, she did spend 10 hours with me, that seems to be what most pay for a good looking chica for TLN (some say a lot less, but I would like to see that they look like).

Regardless, she asks me if I liked my time with her. I tell her, yes and no. She asks me to describe to her the yes and no. So, I ask her clearly if she really wants to know, because I will tell her in as much detail as she wishes, but am glad to hold my tongue. This is generally my way. She says she really wants to know, so I talk to her about her kissing, how while I know it is a form of resistance and protest, it was not fun, and killed the experience for me. I gave her some other feedback about her sexual performance, to which she listed very carefully, seeming to take mental notes. I then critiqued her sweating me over 500 pesos, and explained how it was a poor business decision, between she has an unhappy costumer, and I am staying where she worked.

To her credit, she listened carefully, and explained that I was correct about the kissing, but that if I went with her again, she would 'try. ' She also said she would go for TLN for 2000 as a way of splitting the difference and making good, even though she feels she deserves 3000.

Props to her for this. I tell her that while that is sweet, I think that 'the thrill is gone for me, ' but that it is nice to be on good terms since I will see her around.

I kiss her cheek and say I have to shower.

'Can I shower also, it is hot. '

'Sure, you can use my shower, but you will have to do it quickly while I get ready, as I am going out. '

'I want to shower with you. '

'Good try. ' I kiss her again on the cheek- I need to sport Phuck somebody (for said Phuck, see previous post).

O, either New Garden girls have a have all decided that they do everything in the world but kiss or there are a large percentage of chicas here who are not into kissing "dates." I know that this is not something many of you give a shit about, but phucking without kissing is like eating Thai food without rice, or Sushi without wasabi. I nearly do not want to bother.

Took a chica that I met yesterday at New Garden out to dinner with women and I. Went to Scotch and Sirloin at the Terra Linda- good food. The chica was a delight over dinner, warm affectionate, holding my hands; both wingmen were delighted with her company. She was, the perfect dinner date. Now, in the room, she is a tiger. We get in, she drops to hear knees and starts to suck me, right off the bat. Nice. She takes me to the bed, and goes down on me for about an 45 minutes, literally. But, she won't kiss me! Here she is, licking my balls, licking my shaft like a viper, eating my precum, and she won't phucking kiss me. Granny pecks, yes, but that is about it. In my life, I have never, never, ever, ever had so many sessions and had so little making out. Call me girly, but I phucking love to make out. I am going go now have to describe to ever chica I meet here exactly what kissing IS, what it really means, and make it clear I am not going to pay a phucking peso if they don't make out, and will kick them the Phuck out the door!

Now that I got that out of system, besides the no kissing, this girl is so sweet it is scary. I frankly think my two wingmen will be shocked, based upon her behavior over dinner, that she would not make out. Ok, Phuck, I guess my rant is not over.

Now that I think about it, I have never taken a working girl out to dinner and not kissed and made out after. Never, and so this is maybe 8 trips to CR. 5 to Peru. 3 to MDE, Mexico, Nicaragua, Thailand, the PI.

This shit it pissing me off! LOL.

Oh, I just asked her kindly not to stay the night.

'Why? '

' I want to sleep alone. '

'Was it not good? '

'I like to kiss during sex. '

She sighs, kisses me on the forehead, and leaves.

Grrrr.

Sex here is easy, too easy perhaps, this place might not be for a GFE lover like myself.

I did forget about one session that was very nice. A good hard Phuck with all the right GFE moves from a 34 year old MILF (they are almost all Milfs) who looked much younger.

Chilled at the beach today under and umbrella- since it has cooled down a great deal after the heatwave, it is more pleseant.

Food notes- La Finca, well reviewed place near NG. Been around forever, a continental fusion mix. Three of us, one enjoyed his meal very much, one in the middle, my pork was far overcooked. Pricey, as are most places for quality, pass.

On the beach, shack number 64 for fish (sorry, forgot the name, but they are numbered) Outstanding! Grilled Red Snapper that was world class. When they call you into the kitchen to and want to show you have fresh the fish is, and ask you to smell, yo know they care (if only the chicas did the same thing ).

Personalities- Assertive to the point of annoying, at times (and I don't mind assertive women). Less then engaging most of the time, subtle sensuality is not their strenght. Sexuality here is assertive, in your face, let me suck your dick and Phuck you, please let me come to your hotel. One Hatian girl, everytime she sees us (8 times walking around town or in several different bars) , parks herself inches from my back shoulder and stands there like a putty that needs to go outside (yuck, not the nicest metaphor, sorry).

On my trips, I LOVE to chat with the chicas about their lives, families, culture, whatever. Very little of this so far. The culture, not the culture of the DR, the the culture of Sosua, basically constructs itself as a center of comodification, I buy, they sell (whatever they are selling). While of course this is true in other places, the types of human interactions I have had have been far more superficial, far less satisfying. I now nearly seek to avoid conversations- so not me.

Aside from that, I am actually now having a nice, relaxing time with my friends. I have not been paid in a day and a half, and really am not feeling like I need, or perhaps even want, to do so. For those of you who have read my past trip reports, you know this is not my typical MO.

Maybe I motivate to go to Passions in a while, maybe I will just chill in the room and enjoy a soak.

Met a wonderful waitress at a comedor nearby that is a total sweety. She sat down with me and we talked for an hour- the nicest conversation to that point. During out chat, she grabs my arm and says "you want my number, don't you?"

"pos supuesto." She is going to come over for some prework afternood delight.

Yesterday was a fantastic day. Spend the late morning with Diablito at the beach, and again had fish at the same place. Fantastic. Great energy by the beach, and the hawkers were not too annoying.

Afternoon pulled a massage chicas from one of the perhaps ten or so massage shacks within a two block radius. Had her come up to the room after a workout. Average massage, but she got the kinks out.

Pulled a 9 rated 18 year old spinner from Rumba that I actually blew off the other day. She seemed to get over her anger. In the room, she was very sweet, sort of GFE, and was one of this chicas that you are phucking and say to yourself 'I am phucking a model, I am phucking a model, I am phucking a model. ' Just perfect little body (and I am not into spinners) but what a rack.

Yet, the most important discovery was the importance of Classicos LATE! The places just fills up with foxes left and right, but did not get going until midnight. In truth, I was not really interested in sesionining, but had a fantastic time dancing, chatting and flirting.

I have a story about a chica that I am going to let play out a bit (may or may not happen) before I wrote about it- last thing I would need would be for one of her 'companions' to be reading the board- you will catch my drift after I post the story (nothing profound, but fun).

It does not. It provides an AMAZING variety of very sexy woman. For perhaps 20 hours a day (give or take) you can have your choice of dozens upon dozens of women that are sexy as well.

A few things about my assessment thus far.

1) This trip comes on the heals of a 3 week trip to the PI which was my favorite trip of all time, in terms of the quality of the women.

2) I arrived during a hideous heat wave-the first three days were 10 degrees over norm for here.

3) There is something about the intensity of the chicas and the whole scene, the assertivness of the enviornment, if that makes sense, that I was perhaps not expecting. I have spent a lot of time with Dominicans and Cubanas in my lifetime, so I should have been prepared, but get 1000s of them together and mix with the above two factors, and it feels, shall we say,"heavy."

4) I feel more like a comodity here than ANYPLACE I have ever been. That also is not a great feeling.

5) The stupid prices of the food for what you get annoy the Phuck out of me.

6) I think I have made some mediocre decisions and not have used my interviewing skills well.

7) I do prefer bit, intense, vibrant cities to this scene- that is just me. I loved Manila, so that should tell you something. Most people just hate the place.

I do think that the existing in a brothel "thang" make it a bit harder to get GFE.

9) The better quality of chicas, and the more part timers, really do seem to be late night at Classicos. My timing has been a bit off.

So, I am having fun, and loving hanging out with my buddies. I have had a few very good sessions, but like I said, in the heals of the PI where EVERYTHING was spectacular for me, this has been a bit of a letdown. Again, that is my fault for not clearing my mind enough.

Still, tons of good times, some good sex, good memoires, and the story will continue.

I will fill in the gaps later, so sorry for the lack of chronological rigor. I will also provide a concluding thoughts, perhaps as late as a week or two from now, as a way of putting it all together.

The last day, or the last full day, we decided to start the day with some early afternoon drinks at a bar on the way to Passions and CMP, Carribean Men's Paradise. I had taken a look in during the day previously, and there were a couple that were very cute, and a couple not so cute. I liked the set up, in many ways, more than Passions. Passions is more of a nightclub set up, and the chicas are behind the bar, and parked right in front of your face. That is fine if you FEEL like having a chica in your face, but in truth, the whole culture here is so assertive and in your shit I wanted them to back the Phuck off a bit.

At CMP, you can sit at the bar, on in an open aired place next to the bar that has couches. Far more comfortable, IMHO.

Now, the talent at 2pm upon entry was far lower quality overall than Passions, although three were pretty fine, out of about 8 chicas. We sat at the bar for a while, and then proceeded to the couches. The chicas were an another couch perhaps ten feet from us. I persuaded one to dance on the pole by doing a bit of a show myself- one spinner returned the favor. The girls seems to like my foolish antics, especially one who looked intreged.

I begin to talk to her for a while, and she said she was watching me the night before at Classicos. Sure sure, nice line. No, la verdad, she is very insitant, and then spends about ten minutes describing where I was and when, to what songs I would dance and which I would not, and who I was dancing with. This chica was clearly watching me, and the thought of some extremly cute, sexy eyed chica in her late 20s paying that much interest to my middle age ass shaking on the dancefloor was hot!

We continue to talk, and flirt. She is holding my hand and staring intently into my eyes. Later that night. Diablito would tell us, over dinner, that watching us look at each other was like watching a porno film.

But, who cares about this, right? Let me just say, I went back for more cash, and pulled her from 20 hours, spending more money on a working girl than I have ever spent in my life, $180. Classicos and this place are expensive for long term, but I was NOT willing to take a change on her being snapped up.

Was it worth it? One of the best night of my life, in truth. We returned to my room and over the next 18 hours made love nearlly constanly, excpet while at dinner with my buddies. I felt bad that I brought a chica to our fairwell dinner, but the connection was so exceptional that I just had to, and they understood. I came more with this lovely women than I have with anyone in a long time, five times in total. The sex was far superior to anything that I had over the week and a half before- 100% exhilerating while being totally loving and tender at the same time. She keyed into ever desire I had, and come to learn my body as if she were studying an ancient scroll. She knew my body, within an hour, better than most have ever known it. You might say she was doing her job, but this women wanted me, and damn, I wanted her. Over and over.

This chicas was 100% proof of the importance of really only going with this whom I feel a strong conection with. Too often on this trip did I fall into the trap of pulling a chica just becuase she was there, talking the path of least resistance and going with a sexy face or body. That is not why I monger- I get laid mostly whenever I really want to- I monger for prefect moments such as these.

In the monger, we slowly said goodbye over breakfast, each of us sighing. It was not love. It was just a wonderful mix of passion, a real connection, and a serondipitous encounter where one should not have happened.

Yeah yeah Hank, you paid her, I was not real, you might say.

It was real. Really phucking amazing. I don't come for love, I come for a mix of fantasy and pleasure, extasy and chance. That was one that I will remember always, when my dick is to shriveled up and limp to even think about pu*sy, when my looks are even more gone than they are now, when the possiblity of sturing the slightest emotion in a sexy women have long since past.

This was worth the price of the whole phucking trip, and certainly the 180 bucks I (over) spent.

One random info. Lets go with food.

Mostly stupid prices- just below the states. Not Latin America prices.

La Parillada- very lovely and good steakhouse on the edge of town. Airly, breezy and classy. 8/10.

Vienteuno- creative cooking in a fushion style- lovely and good. 8/10.

Comedor Rikky (spell?). On the way to Passions, half way form the NG. Good comedor, excellent fish. Reasonable, good down home food. 7/10.

Venues.

Classicos has so many damn hot women it is sick. Many are agressive clockwatchers. I wish I spent more time there and interviewed continuosly- I just was a bit lazy (well, save for dancing for hours, which I did the last four nights). If I were to go to Sousa again, I would try to take a disco nap each night and go clubbing at Classicos at about 11 or 12. Get there early for a good seat, and look for Passions chicas for 1/3 the price.

New Garden- pass on chicas there. Overall proformance is lower grade. The chicas talked openly to me about their conversations among themslves, and have decided to kiss very little. It shows you the importance of understanding "mico cultures." I understood too soon, and frankly, as just lazy.

Rumbas- Open aired beer garden. Had too very good sessions, two ok sessions. One, Nicole, sexy curley hair, is a good Phuck. Interview for less hard core girls but ones with some experience. My 18 year old perfect hottie was just basically a good Phuck as she was hot- not much passion or skill.

The other open aired bars- YMMV and it varies by moment. Chicas to be had everywhere from 4pm on. Before that, always something around for a quicky or a hummer, but quality varies.

Passions- hot women, I did not partake, not sure why.

CMP- mixed talent, good vibe, and I hit the lotto with my pic.

Overall sexual experiences. In hindsight, I would have to say about on par with CR. The irony is that the vibe of the place and tentnecy to just pick and Phuck lead to mediocre sessions. I mean, the place is a working girl house, and the girl are very agressive and annoying, at times. So, sometimes I just picked the first hot, not annoying chica to Phuck, and this lead to poor results. Were I to come again, I would try to be far more social and interview constantly. No Spanish is needed for sex here, but tons of spanish is needed for amazing sex. That, or luck, which is basically how I feel about CR. That is the paradox; both are totally easy venues for guys with no Spanish but the lack of Spanish makes them both hit and miss. It is a paradise for guys who want a 10 minute suck and then pump for 30 and dump. I mean, there probably is no place better in the world if that is your thing.

GFE? Way below other places I have been. BBBJ? I never received a BJ with a condom- it was just a given. Good blowjobs, at least good licking and teasing. Some rush, some don't Kissing? A few kissed well, but the worst kissers I have been with, overall (besides the FKK and some of the worst place to monger in Central America).

Bodies? Some killer bodies, many momma tummies-that does not bother me.

Never though have I been more annoyed to be around chicas. While I loved my time with a few, the overall personality in Sosua, and I will only speak for Sosua, is money grubbing, aggressive, and intrusive. What Colombians do with elegance and subtlty, what Peruvians do with a gentle look and a bright small, what a Pinay does with laughter, these chicas doe with aggression. They often want to intimidate you into taking them- very odd. Not a place for a guy without balls-these chicas would walk all over you.

A few times I had to set limits and tell a chica to calm down and slow down or she was out the door (said kindly, with a smile, but very firmly). They both shaped up, but that is not my idea of fun.

Still, there is diversity as well, and some were just lovely, engaging, and delightful. Many have great sense of humors. I had a great time dancing in Classicos for many hours, and would just plop down in front of chicas and dance with groups of them for hours. Big fun.

So, next I address the question, would I, will I be back?

80 percent of the chicas hit me up for more money that we agreed upon. Or, in the two instances when I did not agree on a price, there was considerable post-session negotiation. This nearly ruins my post-session / evening bliss (to the degree that I had it). I would mostly smile and say "not this time, perhaps next time, if you would still like to be with me." This usually got them to say, of course, of course, no problem. Still made the overall experiences less wonderful than they could have been.

There were more "obvious" liars, or at least bad liars, than other places. The chica that was a "medical student" was not able / willing to identify one detail about her school, her favorite subjects, or most difficult subjecs. When asked about her professors, it became clear that she never made it out of secondary school, at best. Of course, in classic Sosua chica form, she used a bit of anger to deflect the situation.

Hotel-I really did not describe how bad my first two nights were at the NG, before I switched room and before the first weekend's crowd left. Perhaps the loudest most foolish bunch I have seen since my old punk rock days. And before this digresses into a racial discussion as it has in the past on this and other boards, there were asshole tools represented among each race. None spoke any Spanish, or cared to try. Mysogyny ruled the roost.

Overall, I think the NG is a mediocre hotel that is overpriced. I had a top end room with a Jacuzzi, which I very much enjoyed, but it was 95 bucks when paying with a card. Terra Linda, Diablitos hotel, was even worse from a price to quality ratio.

That said, the staff at the NG are very nice, for the most part. If you like quiet, stay on the 4th floor, but be prepared for a whole lot of steps. Still, if you do enjoy a more chill enviornment, I would pass. I also have decided I really like to go TO the hookers and not have them in my hotel. For me, I guess I do prefer La Amistad over the SL, for example, to provide you a sense of my prefernces.

Well, it looks like it is time to wrap this up. I missed a few sessions and a couple of days, but you all do not need every detail. Hopefully, I provided some sense of the scene and what it is like. Feel free to ask questions and I can respond.

So, the punchline, would I return?

Maybe, and under certain conditions. This trip marked my eight year of the hobby as a hobby, and I am thrilled to have gone.

First, it would have to be with good friends.

Two, would rent a villa and get a good cabbie to drive me around. No phucking way I am getting on one of those motobike taxies without a helmet. Sure, call me a pu*sy, but I value my noggin.

Three, would try to get on a different rythem, perhaps with the use of sleeping aids, to make sure I sleep in later, take naps, and hang out later. I did really like Classicos.

Four, only during the coolest months of the year.

Five, less time mongering in Sosua, and time spent seeing other parts of the country.

My sessions, upon reflection, were better than I thought. A few great, one magical, a couple good, a few mediocre, but nothing really bad. It is a great place to party, and I am glad I went and had the expereince. I am not rushing back, but if the opporunity presents, sure I would go.

Shout outs to two of my best friends, and my wingment, Diablito and Shadowman. I feel truly sad for those who don't have real friends in life, and ten days with you both reinforceces that feeling.

Great to have true friends to hobby with. Chis Long, great meeting you-too bad we did not hang out more.

Thanks to all the other guys who gave me solid advice and shared their impressions. I might think of some more things to write, but this feel free to stop reading if you have gotten this far.

Overall, I rate Sosua as even with CR, above Tijuana and Frankfurt, below LOS, Peru and Colombia, which are a step above, and below the PI, which, IMHO, is the best place I have been.

Party on dudes.

Thanks in advance for reporting. It's going to take me a while to read through all of your reports, but since you took the time to write them I plan to read them all.

[QUOTE=Psychman;1293517]
Now, the problem. My phucking room at the NG (I have since moved). Midnight, and there is screaming. Not chica screaming, but testosterone laden phucked up 25 year old men thinking they are on service leave / at a frat party / at a house party, or just loose for the first time ever. This goes on for HOURS. And worse, since I am with a chica, I don't want to put in earplugs (I am not the most trusting soul in the world).

So, not being able to sleep, which I really need badly, I decide I just try to Phuck again and go to sleep. Try waking up chica; she is not having it. I persist, and put on a condom. Now, this is the most lifeless Phuck I have had in year. Usually I am able to get a quick rise and soon have an active partner that enjoys (or pretends) to be enjoying. Not here. I am not phucking a corpse. I know some guys don't care, but no kissing, no moaning, no signs that this is anything more than an annoyance? Not my bag. So, at 4am, I stop, she goes to sleep, and I am left hearing dudes in the hallway talk about all the money they paid to this chica and their friends at some club, did not get laid, somebody is in jail, Phuck this pu*sy, ***** phucking shit pu*sy ***** that, music loud as Phuck. 5am, I am beat, now feel like shit. 6, the crap stops, and I sleep for a couple of hours.[/QUOTE]

One of the main reasons I have yet to return to NG. And it's a shame too because I love their jacuzzi suites. But the grown-ass men acting like young-ass retards is what keeps me from booking there again.

No posts in hours, everybody are reading Psychman reports. Great reports and thanks for your time. I am going to spend a weekend in Sosua June 22 to 25. Sosua is better enjoyed if you are with friends, you are right. In fact almost every place is better enjoyed if you are with friends. About chica prices I agreed with all for 1, 000 pesos when I visited Sosua last Feb. But as you say they later usually ask more money for taxi etc. So I was always prepared to pay 200 or 300 pesos more. My budget per chica was 1, 500 so 1, 300 for good sex was more than ok for me. A guy from Spain emailed me the following tonight: "Don't go to Sosua, there are bad and expensive hookers there, they have more kids than my grandma. All girls there are liars, all are married with a chulo that manages her money. I only go to small towns where I met the girls and her parents and no problem pucking them, for a fraction of the price, they are girlfriends and provide GFE experience with their relatives blessings. Small town chicas are not pros like Sosua chicas who comes from around the country in search of gringos like you. They ask for triple the price and you got lucky if they do not stole your money."

I just returned last Tuesday from my 4th trip this year to PI and I too much prefer a GFE and Amistad to SL. I have a week at the end of July I am trying to decide where to go. PI prices are sky high this summer (My first Choice) so I am debating between taking my first Sousa trip or returning to SJO or MDE (been to both many, many times). My Spanish is adequate. I actually often have difficulty attaining erection without passionate kissing. SOooooooooooo everything you touched on in your excellent report rang a bell with me. Thank you for taking the time and making the effort. I greatly appreciate it.

OYES BELLECO! Jajaa.

Boricua, I will be surprised if you like Sosua. Lots of hardcore putas asking for working girl american prices. When I was there last year the talent was not what I experienced in 2005. I was getting campo girls that were looking for a good time.

I went twice in 2011 both time were exceedingly displeasing because I like local non-pros. Given you spanish skills I see you making mental conexcions with chicas and maybe gettinga chica who has a 9to5 job. Idk just my guess, might be wrong. BB has great talent as well as pasions. The freelancers idk how you will mesh with them.

Peace.

BBL

[QUOTE=BoricuaOnline; 1293607]No posts in hours, everybody are reading Psychman reports. Great reports and thanks for your time. I am going to spend a weekend in Sosua June 22 to 25. Sosua is better enjoyed if you are with friends, you are right. In fact almost every place is better enjoyed if you are with friends. About chica prices I agreed with all for 1, 000 pesos when I visited Sosua last Feb. But as you say they later usually ask more money for taxi etc. So I was always prepared to pay 200 or 300 pesos more. My budget per chica was 1, 500 so 1, 300 for good sex was more than ok for me. A guy from Spain emailed me the following tonight: "Don't go to Sosua, there are bad and expensive hookers there, they have more kids than my grandma. All girls there are liars, all are married with a chulo that manages her money. I only go to small towns where I met the girls and her parents and no problem pucking them, for a fraction of the price, they are girlfriends and provide GFE experience with their relatives blessings. Small town chicas are not pros like Sosua chicas who comes from around the country in search of gringos like you. They ask for triple the price and you got lucky if they do not stole your money."[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=BoricuaOnline;1293607]I only go to small towns where I met the girls and her parents and no problem pucking them, for a fraction of the price, they are girlfriends and provide GFE experience with their relatives blessings. Small town chicas are not pros like Sosua chicas who comes from around the country in search of gringos like you. They ask for triple the price and you got lucky if they do not stole your money."[/QUOTE]No free lunch! The problem is not that you do not find willing women elsewhere but in small towns they have different expectations. And often times, you may have to lie to get pussy. I do not know if that is worthwhile or paying more without having any remorse is better.