Who will cry when you die?
[QUOTE=Dealdo;1498192]This can be kind of polemic, we never will agree on this matter because it hurts our wallet bad.[/QUOTE]I'm trying to get my head around some recent posts. At bottom, John opines that he has access to the creme de la creme of the girls in Medellin, while acknowledging that Ricker, with his limitations, sometimes finds the gem, but obviously can't afford the best, like John does. This whole colloquy is way to close to the "my dick is bigger than yours" boasting. The fact is that there are gems everywhere in Medellin. What separates one from a meaningful relationship with a "gem" is not the wallet, but the heart. My assumption is that, biologically and emotionally, we would find sex much more pleasurable with an "8" that wants to give pleasure to sex with a mechanical "10."
I've been lucky enough to be able to provide several girls in Medellin with scholarships. I know about their lives, have met their families. And each of their mamas line up to invite me for dinner. All I feel is love from these girls, and their families. Sure, I've had some disappointments. A couple of the girls have not taken advantage of this opportunity, and dropped out of their respective universities. That hurt my heart bad, but no regrets about spending the money; that was my choice and I give with a giving heart.
My point is simply this: It's easier to light one candle than to curse the darkness. Obviously not everyone is in a position to do what I do, nor do they approach life as I do. We all decide to do what we do, and our attitude in our relationships with others. And, it's not all about spending large sums of money. It takes time and an interest in improving a girl's life; it's more than the lowest price for the most desirable service provider for a few hours or a night. Just think about it. Would you rather have passionate sex or passionate sex with intimacy? The choice is each of ours.
Only good energy, amigos.
Oh, and there will be at least one Paisa that will cry when you die, because she knew that you cared about her / them.
Straight UP Cheap Shot U took
You can roll around the words as you wish but you clearly stated that I am benefiting from Helping any on this board.
Your words clearly That I am getting a cut from these Girls. It's most definitely not true.
Now you want to take your words back. As I said before to each his Own. Of course I can't make you take your words back. But this shows the quality of the thinking process you have.
Thanks for Nothing.
Good Day. Guys.
I choose my battles to fight and this is not one of them. Money is always respective.
Happy Hunting.
[QUOTE=SavePros321; 1498211]Very good "different" perspective on things Dealdo. I was using the term "pimp" as in "agency" and "middleman".
I'm sure there is a place for the Johns of the world in mongering. Just was pointing out that things get much more expensive when they are involved in the transaction. Look at a place like Luna Lunera; 150k to the house if you want to take the chica off site, and 250k to the chica. I would like to think you could negotiate something much lower if the chicas there were "true" freelancers. But at the same time we probably couldn't have found these chicas on our own, so you have to pay the equivalent of a "finders fee".
I'm still very happy with the quality I have been able to get on my own. John mentioned that one of his chicas would not even go for 800k. What if she is a total cold biyatch CBJ starfish? I can pay those kind of prices in the US without having to pay for airfare and an apartment for a week.
I realize we all have differnt expectations while mongering. I have never paid more than $150 USD in Colombia for full-on girlfriend experience with photos and video with what I deem very hot chicas. They may not be Car Audio model-type chicas, but I've been very satisfied to say the least.[/QUOTE]