German FKK Clubs - Lounge and chat area

As this is the lounge thread, and considering some FKK's have terrible smoke levels, one cannot be left without a worry regarding the health consequences this brings.

I have known three handicapped persons in my life.

The first one was a girl in my class at primary school. Her mother once was at the doctor just before my own mom had an appointment with the same doc. Right after this other mom came out of the doctors office and my mom went it, she (the doctor) was furious. She had been telling this other mom to stop smoking for months, and soon she would give birth. The baby girl had bad eye sight and had problems walking. She got teased a little at school. Especially for her glasses before every other kid in class got to see how little she actually could see. After that, the teasing stopped. At 20 years old, rumors had it she took suicide by overdose.

The second one had cancer and had lost all the hairs on his head when I went to school with him one year in high school. His parents both smoked like chimneys. He took his own life at age 23 after hanging himself.

The third one was a neighbour. Her mother was smoking heavily, and several other neighbours went over only to tell her to stop smoking several times. She didn't listen. The girl is now blind and has back problems. She is now 20 years old.

I can only assume this was mainly nicotine in all three cases. But at this moment cannabis is being legalized more and more places across the world. Because of liberalization. Well I would argue it isn't very liberalizing to our potential kids. Especially when there is this idea or group pressure. Just like with alcohol, there is the same pressure with smoking. Another idea is that you add charisma if you have something to occupy your fingers and hands with. Such as doing some magical tricks, or rolling a cigarette. On top of this, passive smoking can be equally dangerous in high enough dosages, and girls in FKK's sometimes keeps working even if they are 2 or 3 months pregnant. In an environment sometimes filled with smoke. If a girl manages to quit smoking while working in an FKK, I would salute her. Who cares if her ass grows slightly for a few months if she needs to eat a bit more during the transition? If somebody wants to have a baby, it matters fuck all. It is sad if girls needs to smoke in order to stay slim in these FKK's, while others have anorexia. Where are all the gym's to counterbalance this?

In my opinion, screw the retarded new legislation. Add a new requirement to the FKKs instead: supply the girls with gym membership, or build one on campus.

Had a long talk with anotherbBear about chemistry. My opinion is that it can exist, but is not an absolute full on or full off. Familiarity and respect can lead to a connection of varying levels. I'm not saying it's love, but it's something and can range from a little bit to more. I'm interested to hear the other thoughts on this.

Yeah I've car camped a bit these past couple of years. It's nice getting a new rental every so often to stretch out. But have you seen the Audi that someone lives in? It's often parked near LR or GT packed full of junk. I picture a homeless man sleeping in the front seat guarding all if his belongings and goes into the clubs to get a hot meal and a warm shower. With the prevalence of mental health issues in the homeless population, FKKs might be a good psychiatric service.

On that note, car camping can be done right or wrong. One guy I know is 6 ft tall but rents these little Volkswagen polos and sleeps in it. He looks ridiculous! Imagine a guy who looks like Frankenstein's monster jammed up in a toy car! I feel a little bad, he gets poor sleep and ends up sleeping in the clubs all day. When he wakes up at 7 pm, he looks even more ridiculous!

[QUOTE=Chongmal;2289577]So it's a good thing that I change cars every 2-3 months. I'm on the second one since camping in my Audi. I actually had a really nice conversation with the tall blonde at the Sports store when I bought my new winter kit. She looked like she had real woman behavior and it made me want to drink from her fountain of youth.

For me, I had this opportunity for an extended tour, so I took it. There are a lot of jealoused men out there, but I've managed to stay happy in my own life and only rarely, let my frustrations with one of the jeslousest guys go.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Chongmal;2289613]Had a long talk with anotherbBear about chemistry. My opinion is that it can exist, but is not an absolute full on or full off. Familiarity and respect can lead to a connection of varying levels. I'm not saying it's love, but it's something and can range from a little bit to more. I'm interested to hear the other thoughts on this.[/QUOTE]Wallah, Chongmal, one thing I notice when people talk about chemistry is that it is never about whether the guy likes the girl but always whether the girl likes the guy.

When the guy likes the girl, there is nothing mysterious about it, no need to talk about chemistry. It's because she has a young body, pretty face, etc. But as for her desires, well, she needs to wrap them in mystery and keep the guy guessing. It's got to be magic. Invisible pheromones floating through the air. Chemistry.

[QUOTE=Chongmal;2289577]One of my favorites has a saying, "In my life there are two boxes, one for this work and one for outside this work. I'm the only thing in my life allowed to cross from on box to the other. " I like the honest approach she has. She will stay for pancake sessions but always tells men there is no chance to get into her Real Life Box if they have been in her Work Box.[/QUOTE]Wow, this is what I call real woman philosophy.

[QUOTE=McAdonis;2288839]WGs who are able to inflict extreme financial and emotional pain onto their victim, but still able to fall asleep at night, fall into one or more of these categories: (1) sociopath who does not feel true empathy and actually derives joy from hurting others (2) feels true empathy but uses "neutralization techniques" to clear her conscience or (3) feels true empathy but lacks "conventional" morality. These points more or less come from authorities in the field of criminology, which I quote below for background reading.[/QUOTE]It's worth pointing out that McAdonis usually links to sources that he has actually read. It's refreshing in a sea of half read articles and references to books and theories where one has simply read the synopsis. One of my professors in grad school used to always remind me that only fools and crooks attempt to pass familiarity for mastery.

[QUOTE=Polyamorist;2289723]Wallah, Chongmal, one thing I notice when people talk about chemistry is that it is never about whether the guy likes the girl but always whether the girl likes the guy.

When the guy likes the girl, there is nothing mysterious about it, no need to talk about chemistry. It's because she has a young body, pretty face, etc. But as for her desires, well, she needs to wrap them in mystery and keep the guy guessing. It's got to be magic. Invisible pheromones floating through the air. Chemistry.[/QUOTE]I always thought it was about when the guy likes (a feeble word for the sparks in the air and the racing heartbeat I am thinking of) the girl. I currently am finding a severe lack of it. As for the girl liking the guy, I always assume it is euros (even when the girl does like the guy), so, a girl just asked me to spend a day with her for free, I just turned it down as I assumed it was just bait, and thankfully, I felt no chemistry towards her.

[QUOTE=Polyamorist;2289723]Wallah, Chongmal, one thing I notice when people talk about chemistry is that it is never about whether the guy likes the girl but always whether the girl likes the guy.[/QUOTE]Your post reminds me when I was out there in the "legit" dating scene many moons ago. I went on a blind date with a woman who was known to not like anybody. She just never liked anybody who she was set up with. Not ever. So, we meet, and lo and behold she liked me! Wanted to keep seeing me, and all of her friends were shocked! My God, she actually liked a guy she met! This is great! Well, they were forgetting about one thing. They were forgetting about one somebody. Me! What about me and what I thought about her? Well, she was nice enough and all, but I had absolutely no physical attraction to her whatsoever. None. And the funny thing about it is that I think she thought she was kind of "Miss it". Well, not to me. I can't see somebody who I have no physical attraction to, and so that was that. And just like you wrote, all the focus was on whether not she liked me, and none on whether I liked her. So, the one time she liked the guy, turns out the guy didn't like her. Hey, I got feelings too LOL!

[QUOTE=Chongmal;2289577]Don't forget, even prostitutes with the best professional behavior are real women. We may not like to see how they act with others, but we have to remember they are acting, if they are any good at their job.[/QUOTE]So often here, people talk about finding a real woman or real feelings, of course in brothels. It is a bit like going to a zoo to see real wild animals.

They never talk about why mongers (real men?) find themselves constantly in brothels again.

[QUOTE=Chongmal;2289577]One of my favorites has a saying, "In my life there are two boxes, one for this work and one for outside this work. I'm the only thing in my life allowed to cross from on box to the other. " I like the honest approach she has. She will stay for pancake sessions but always tells men there is no chance to get into her Real Life Box if they have been in her Work Box.[/QUOTE]I feel so sorry for this two-box woman. The fragmentation of the human psyche to create boxed parts is one of the main goals actively pursued by neoliberalism.

[QUOTE=Chongmal;2289577]One of my favorites has a saying, "In my life there are two boxes, one for this work and one for outside this work. I'm the only thing in my life allowed to cross from on box to the other. " I like the honest approach she has. She will stay for pancake sessions but always tells men there is no chance to get into her Real Life Box if they have been in her Work Box.[/QUOTE]Sounds a lot like being friendzoned (except in reverse I guess). Good luck with that. Maybe you need to think outside the Box.

It's amazing how much Romanian girls have learnt from American Women without ever meeting them. They simply read what AWs have carved out in American guys' brains, and take their cue from that.

Once "chemistry" starts, and is allowed to continue, those who are involved in the process will be changed, forever.

For those who like to read, here is a great book by Nathan Schwartz-Salant:

[URL]https://www.amazon.de/Mystery-Human-Relationship-Alchemy-Transformation/dp/0415153891[/URL]

[QUOTE=NickTheG;2289758]So often here, people talk about finding a real woman or real feelings, of course in brothels. It is a bit like going to a zoo to see real wild animals.

They never talk about why mongers (real men?) find themselves constantly in brothels again.

I feel so sorry for this two-box woman. The fragmentation of the human psyche to create boxed parts is one of the main goals of neoliberalism.[/QUOTE]I agree fully. But I am not so sure it is the girl who is to blame. But rather the society at large, forcing this area of life into the underground.

First part of your comment made me laugh a bit. You are totally right there! Silly terms indeed.

Like testing the theory of cold outside on a winter day. Is it cold because the weather forecast said it would be, or is it really cold outside? Because even if you didn't see the forecast, you might have been affected by the presence of someone who might just have seen it. So in order to test the thesis, you basically need to bring out someone from a mental institution. Preferably an old person. Somebody not able to get affect by others, and who has his own little box around him. And then see if he falls on what is presumably real ice. Otherwise, it might not be ice at all.

Fake ice!

I need some independent escorts sites from Dusseldorf or Koln. Is there any site for all Germany or are more? I never was to apartments just in FKK and I want to know more about this. Can anybody help me?

[QUOTE=NickTheG;2289758]So often here, people talk about finding a real woman or real feelings, of course in brothels. It is a bit like going to a zoo to see real wild animals. They never talk about why mongers (real men?) find themselves constantly in brothels again.[/QUOTE]Perhaps it's because I feel like "reality bites" (too rarely is it happily ever after), and so I would rather deal with women through "escapist fantasy" versus acknowledging, accepting, and coping with how it all really and truly is in "real" life. It's just easier and more satisfying to me. Anybody else care to opine?

[QUOTE=Polyamorist;2289759]Sounds a lot like being friendzoned (except in reverse I guess). Good luck with that. Maybe you need to think outside the Box.

It's amazing how much Romanian girls have learnt from American Women without ever meeting them. They simply read what AWs have carved out in American guys' brains, and take their cue from that.[/QUOTE]Two points, I never thought I would be friends or anything more with her so no pity is necessary. The assumption that she is Romanian is incorrect. She is a really nice lady.