[QUOTE=DubaiMan2;1399259]Reading your story I thought it was already 7pm! 10am only? LOL.[/QUOTE]Only because I asked her to leave.
36 hours or so was more than enough for me.
WB
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[QUOTE=DubaiMan2;1399259]Reading your story I thought it was already 7pm! 10am only? LOL.[/QUOTE]Only because I asked her to leave.
36 hours or so was more than enough for me.
WB
[QUOTE=DubaiMan2; 1399260]Of course, I am so agree with you, you really made me laugh with the "I need to pay my rent" loool. WTF, those good looking girls can easily make 25k a month, the worst would be 20. How the fuck they constantly needs money to send home? Mummy needs a mazerati?
I've been burned once by a turkish girl, never been burn again, when a girl start with that shit I just ignore her.
Not all fili are greedy, but compared with for example thai girl I have met, it is day and night, they are much more proud than fili and do not beg for 10 dhs or a rent.
Got a friend who lives permanently in fils, he told me about it as I didn't went there yet, probably 2014, he told me about people doing no stuff just waiting for money from sisters abroad.
The thing is with 3, 000 dhs sent per month, the all family can live quite well. So a girl who earn 20, 000 got 10, 000 saved after Dubai spending. Do not need to be greedy about a 10dhs taxi.[/QUOTE]In the Phillippines, family is very important. It comes before anything else.
Refusing a family member who asks for help is also something they find difficult.
If a girl has 9 brothers and sisters, parents who are gamblers and alcoholics and generally a bunch or arseholes for relatives, she will eat through 20K a month in no time.
Also, remember that some of these girls have never seen so much money in their lives and frankly don't know how to manage their finances. Most have a very basic education and some have not even finished high school because they got pregnant very young or they were pushed into the business early.
Its like poor people that win millions in the lottery. You often hear of stories where a year later, they have lost everything due to greedy relatives and stupid investments.
There is also the perception that if they make that much money today, they can make the same tomorrow.
And remember, its EASY money.
When you make money that easily, its just as easy to let it go because you think the stream will never end.
The harsh reality is that many of them go back with not much than they came here with.
Now, if a girl is smart and strong minded, she will save for her future and tell greedy relatives to fuck off and get a job.
It is difficult for a young girl to say this to her elders. That is considered disrespectful, but actually its just a bunch of BS designed to emotionally blackmail these girls.
There ARE some smart ones here and those ones tend to be the ones that don't ask you for cab fare or phone credit because they can manage their money wisely.
To put things in perspective, I am supporting my wife's immediate family in PI with about 2500 AED a month on average.
They live in a nice air conditioned 2 bedroom condo in a gated community which is very safe and in a nice area. Her daughter from a previous relationship goes to a good private school and they are very comfortable with internet and cable tv, cell phones and all other amenities.
We provide them with a good life there and do not entertain any ridiculous requests for extras.
Cousins, uncles aunts etc. can [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord140][CodeWord140][/url] off because its not really our problem. When we just got married, some tried, but that was easily controlled. I just said no.
The reason all this is possible is because my wife (after some coaching) , knows how to handle them very well.
We do not send them all the money in 1 go as it would be gone in a week. Instead we send small amounts on a weekly basis.
They understand we are not millionaires and they are not entitled to sponge off us.
In fact, if not for the fact that my wife's daughter needs to be looked after, we would not even be sending 1 third of that.
It all comes down to setting expectations. The smarter girls know this and the stupid ones just give in to family pressure and don't know how to say no.
As my friend Wicked Roger has told me many times, with filis, always keep the pimp hand strong and you will be ok.
I trust that you now have a better understanding than you did before.
Have a good evening gents.
WB
First of all a big thank you to IaintSpecial and Arthur Conan.
Tried the place based on the 2 positive reviews posted few weeks back on the thread.
Went there today around 8:30 and asked for a one hour Thai massage at160aed. The receptionist called a girl and a nice thai is coming with a not very sexy outfit (jean + top). She is 27 and from Bangkok and quite nice (7/10). English is however limited, in Dubai only since 2months.
Massage room is very clean and quite simple with a nice music. Shower is possible but outside the room.
Massage was very good, to be honest I have tried many spa and I would rate the massage 7/10. When she was focus it was really good. Lot of ball / ass touching front and back side. Then question was asked and price asked for HJ was 200. Despite my negotiation skills she was teasing me and couldn't get anything below 200aed. But my hands were completely free to go anywhere.
Damage 160 + 200. So quite expensive I know. But it was my first time.
Good report Mjolnir.
Fully agree with the "fili emotional syndrome". Have experienced this with a fili regular who kept asking for money at regular intervals. I normally visit Dubai once in a while and was seeing her regularly on each visit. Things got a bit far when she started sending SMS when I was outside Dubai. Did help her out on a few occasions through the Western Union route but I soon realised she is taking undue advantage and I stopped responding to her pleas. She was smart enough to realise this and perhaps did not want to lose the repeat business. Now, things are quite normal. I take good care of her when we meet and she never speaks about money. She does not even look at what I am paying and I quietly slip the notes in her handbag with a parting kiss. Just need to be cautious and respect the boundaries.
[QUOTE=Mjolnir 213; 1398731]Thursday night I had made plans to meet with the fili stunner (Lets call her M) from the previous evening.
She likes the band at Seaview and so do I so we decided to meet there at 10 30.
A forum buddy was interested in a possible hookup with one of M's friends so I asked her if any of her girlfriends would be there. She said yes so told her I might be with a friend of mine and would be happy to make an introduction.
Got there at 10 and met Oilrich as planned.
Found a table and caught up on old times. While waiting for my date to show up, was accosted by some Africans as usual.
I have to say, some of them were really gorgeous. Shame that their reputation for poor service and cheating has always put me off. Many would be not out of place in a hip hop music video.
M got there at around 10 45. Not too bad as filis are notorious for showing up late.
She was looking gorgeous in a nice classy black dress with perfect hair and makeup.
WB[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=DubaiMan2; 1399265]Loved your report MO, Really exciting, I will contact you by MP for more detail.
There is just a small thing missing, more description and rating about the girls itself! Make us dream further![/QUOTE]Did rate the girl in my second report because I was going there for her. I left out the rating of the girl at the MP because I didn't go there for FS but for the massage and extras, however, you can see the actual girl's pictures in the MP's facebood page, PM if you want more details.
As far as the Filipinas GF discussion go, I'm now finding it difficult to juggle three of them here in KSA since they've become very demanding recently and I really don't have the time to talk on the phone and chat with them like I used to do. They never asked me for money since the three work in reputable hospitals and make good enough income, however, they are emotionally demanding which I'm starting to hate a bit. They are also making me feel guilty nowadays when I arrange for a sexual date and they sometime try to bargain with sexual favors to force me into taking them out to long romantic dinner dates.
Anyway, I'm very straight forward with the fourth one that I'm hooking up with now and have told her that she could only contact me when she feels an itch in her pussy that my dick can scratch, otherwise, I'm just not available. She tried a couple of times to carry long conversation on phone calls or chat session but I gave her a cold shoulder and now she's pretty much agreeable to be a fuckbuddy. So wish me luck guys because if this one works I think I'll be dumping two of my current three filipinas.
Mo
[QUOTE=Mjolnir 213; 1399286]I trust that you now have a better understanding than you did before.
Have a good evening gents.
WB[/QUOTE]Thanks for the insight at your own situation.
Actually your saying just confirmed what I thought. Some put themselves into some kind of own slavery because they just can't say no. That's exactly what I said to a girl last week when she told me she had to send 5, 000 dhs a months when I asked her why her work money wasn't enough. She started with her "I Have 2 brothers and my mum and dad" blabla. She could not imagine sending less but having a reasonable life.
I mean, nobody is suppose to know how much she makes here, so she put herself into her own shit while setting her expectation high at 5, 000dhs / month!
LOL. What you said about low education girl spending money like it will always flow, remind me of one I use to fuck end of last year. L, she was so dumb. Kept on telling how she was in need of money, but kept on buying shoes, Ipad, camera, computer and she felt like she must do it. I know it's a matter of education but I just can't understand how we can be that much trapped by the consumer society. That girl probably made 40, 000 in 2 months and went out of Dubai with something close to zero!
Anyway. Hope we managed that some people who do not know shit about fili, not to fall into some trap.
Hey MO THE PRO. You are too hardcore for me about your approach to fili! LOL.
[QUOTE=Mjolnir 213; 1398731]She seemed genuinely sad that she had to leave. I guess this is the point where the honeymoon ends and you have to get back to reality.
I have seen that same expression on many a girls face in my time and its always slightly awkward for me.
I thanked her for a really great weekend and hoped to see her again.
She also said that I could pass her number on but then she wouldn't see me anymore as it would be awkward for her.
So, I will not be passing on her number unfortunately. Apologies fellow mongers, but I don't want to spoil a good thing for myself. And trust me. If you see this girl, you will know that this is a GREAT thing.[/QUOTE]Hi there, first congratulations. Second, my unrequested opinion is that probably the girl is not bullshitting. She may feel genuinely sad, part of this for selfish reasons for sure. And yes, she may genuinely feel awkward about sharing contacts, I have seen this before and circumstances (ie hardship) may force a change in attitude. I think you are doing the right thing by not sharing, but I also think you should keep an eye. You may prefer her spending time with trusted partners as opposed to random morons (like the ones you met at Seaview, or worst)
Again congratulations and thanks for a great (and useless, you selfish bastard) report!
[QUOTE=DubaiMan2;1399414]That girl probably made 40, 000 in 2 months and went out of Dubai with something close to zero![/QUOTE]Actually there was a poll back in, I think. 2008 where roughly half of the expats left Dubai with 0 savings. It is not just the WGs.
Really nice to see some great reports being posted.
Reading back it looked like this board went through a long dry spell.
Good advice from Cons and DM2.
I will work on getting her to let me pass on her contacts because I agree I would feel better that she sees some decent guys as opposed to dickheads.
A longer report about last night coming your way soon.
WB
Really nice to see some great reports being posted.
Reading back it looked like this board went through a long dry spell.
Good advice from Cons and DM2.
I will work on getting her to let me pass on her contacts because I agree I would feel better that she sees some decent guys as opposed to dickheads.
A longer report about last night coming your way soon.
WB
[QUOTE=AldoBlack; 1399345]First of all a big thank you to IaintSpecial and Arthur Conan.
Tried the place based on the 2 positive reviews posted few weeks back on the thread.
Damage 160 + 200. So quite expensive I know. But it was my first time.[/QUOTE]Seems she knew that you was going to pay no matter what. The trick is never say its your first time. Say you visit massage place all the time and that if she gives you good service that you will come back. Next time do not take the same girl ask for one of the others and if they refuse to take 100 tell them no deal then. No way they will refuse.
Glad you enjoyed it.
I always wonder if the WGs and regulars had a forum what and how they would be discussing about us mongers. Morals among mongers now thats something to put in your pipe and smoke. I'm a longtime fili fav and always prefer to give in return for what I get. I am fully aware of the fili sob story and how life is back home etc etc. Like WB I have what I consider a charity going in the Phils. A girl I met here (non WG) who is now back home with her 2 kids and living in a nice a / see 3bed house in a community, kids enjoying private education. She fully understands my situation with the family and manages on a monthly allowance of 25Kpeso. The house of course is being paid for by me. Absolutely no demands and in fact I have learnt some good lessons in life from the way she lives. But on to the subject here I have "helped" several WGs settle their due and get back on promises of not returning for the same job. 1 for certain I know was back twice and she had excuses for that which I didn't believe. 1 for certain I know has a job back home and is ever so grateful for my help. The rest I don't know. I tend to treat all of them as GFE and don't for one moment think of it as business for them. Only 1 WG I took from Dubai to AUH turned out to be a complete failure with a strict business attitude, I brought her back. If there is any person who can actually claim they are not greedy for money then such a person is a saint. Greed is not a suitable word to use in this instance. Its more of a want. Even 1dh is worth ten times more to them than to us (me). Tip the guy who cleans the MENs in Ratsky with a few dhs and you will see it in his face. Drop a few dhs to any cleaner or roadside worker and the gratitude in their eyes tells you what that means to them. Its not greed. Many may not agree with me on these points but lets not forget after all we are all human and whatever job / race / color we all bleed red. Come to think about it sex is not free and should not be. In fact sex with a WG is the cheaper way to do it. You may think you don't pay your wife for sex but believe me you are paying for it much more and in so many different ways. If a GF or WG is able to sucker in a monger and fleece him then he has nobody but himself to blame.
Rant over.
No offence intended to anyone.
[QUOTE=Mo The Pro; 1398809]Made it to Dubai on Friday morning and having booked an appointment in one of the MPs near Abu Baker Al-Sadiq station I decided to stay around the area and went to Wafi mall.
Mo[/QUOTE]Was it Thai Ginger Spa?
So I was sitting at home last night wondering what to do.
M had said she had a client for a 3 hour session and would be done by midnight.
She wanted to come over after, but I told her I was a bit tired and might be sleepy by then.
She asked if I was angry with her, to which I said not at all.
"It's only massage baby. Really!" Cute. I told her that I didn't really mind what she got up to and wished her a safe night.
I was in the mood to go do a bar pickup and was thinking Jules bar.
Checked the forum before deciding for sure, and there was a PM from a another new forum buddy.
He passed on the contact of a PRC located very near to where I live and his feedback on her made it sound very tempting.
Was in two minds whether to head out or try the PRC referral when M called saying she changed her mind and wanted to see me instead of her scheduled "date".
Seeing as I am no longer paying premium rates, this option was ok with me.
In a cab and she was over in 30 minutes. Damn she looked good. The girl has very good taste in clothes and is always well turned out.
A drink and some casual chat and light making out.
What followed next is only what I can describe as a wild no holds barred fuckathon.
Finished up around 4 AM and crashed into bed.
A couple of very good morning sessions and then sent her on her way.
Good thing I had taken the day off today.
Here's an interesting development in this ongoing saga.
When I first met her a few days ago, she mentioned she wanted to leave Dubai and not return once her visa ran out.
It would seem she is reconsidering this and now is looking to stay on.
Moving to a different apartment as she wants her own private room and told me that once settled I could visit her there and bang her whenever I wanted.
Didn't want to take money this morning, but I slipped her a 500 saying it was just for her "expenses".
Still have the PRC contact on my to do list and am eager to see her. By all accounts, she sounds very tasty indeed.
No plans tonight, but if M calls, I won't see her. Need a bit of variety so will either try the PRC or as planned last night hit up Jules bar and see if there's any talent there.
BTW. When I was walking up to Seaview on Thursday I saw a new nightclub at the back. Can't remember the name but the look was all black and gold.
It also has a street entrance and is in the new building right behind seaview.
Looked more upscale, yet in a weird location. Anyone been there?
Instinct tells me there might be CIS talent there, but I could be wrong.
Doesn't look like the kind of place civilians would go for a night of dancing though.
[QUOTE=Mo The Pro; 1399380]As far as the Filipinas GF discussion go, I'm now finding it difficult to juggle three of them here in KSA since they've become very demanding recently and I really don't have the time to talk on the phone and chat with them like I used to do. They never asked me for money since the three work in reputable hospitals and make good enough income, however, they are emotionally demanding which I'm starting to hate a bit. They are also making me feel guilty nowadays when I arrange for a sexual date and they sometime try to bargain with sexual favors to force me into taking them out to long romantic dinner dates.
Anyway, I'm very straight forward with the fourth one that I'm hooking up with now and have told her that she could only contact me when she feels an itch in her pussy that my dick can scratch, otherwise, I'm just not available. She tried a couple of times to carry long conversation on phone calls or chat session but I gave her a cold shoulder and now she's pretty much agreeable to be a fuckbuddy. So wish me luck guys because if this one works I think I'll be dumping two of my current three filipinas.
Mo[/QUOTE]Hey Mo,
I am a little jealous of you. Where do you find these girls and what is your MO (pun intended). I never approach normal Fili girls as I have been told they get emotional very quickly.