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[QUOTE=Nypher;2814633]The usual, extra loud, recording everything for youtube, live streaming, and the feeding the pelican's effect.
Its like walking on Playa Sosua by that bar that have all the green Presidente umbrellas during a holiday weekend like Memorial Day.[/QUOTE]Are you sure they were mongers? US gringos are like that everywhere in the world you go. In Sosua they're like 96% mongers. I would hate to think its the same at Hollywood beach, Cartagena.
[QUOTE=Punter00;2813717]Date: 23 Apr, 2023.
Location: Somewhere in Cartagena.
Had such a great experience with the girl I met at the clock tower, I decided to see her again the next night.
I refused to take her friend with us the night we met. In my experience escorts 3-somes seldom meet expectations. Hard work to control the situation and keep the girls focused on what matters. My meat & 2 veg. More challenging when I don't speak the local lingo. Which I usually don't.
Anyway, told my girl to get her friend & some weed around to her place and we would have a 3-some.
My taxi driver started to act nervous as we got close to her place, saying it wasn't a great area and was I sure I wanted to get out there. When I called her for directions, she put some guy on to the chat to the taxi driver. Started seeming a bit dodgy but thought WTF, it's an adventure. Didn't have anything very valuable with me, other than my phone and kidneys.
Finally found her place and she brought me up to the room. Her friend joined after a while & we shared a joint, danced and stripped off. Went to the bedroom and my girl was making sure her friend put in the effort. Smoked more than intended and took a while to get into performance condition.
Banged her friend for a while but was so stoned that I am not certain if I really came or not. Took a little break and my girl got me hard again.
As I started screwing my girl, her friend crawled onto my back and acting strange. I remember her whispering death threats in my ear, saying things like "your going to die here tonight' and 'you should have never come here'. I am pretty sure it was all weed-induced paranoia but the girl was definitely acting weird.
Somehow managed to stay focused on the sex, ignoring the death threats (hallucinations? And came. So told the girls I was heading home and called a cab. While we were waiting the friend started telling me she was a dog and I should take her home as a pet. I am pretty sure her meaning was somewhat garbled by the pot-paranoia and our broken English / Spanish attempt to speak.
Paranoia was running full steam by this point, so waited for the Uber driver to get close to the building before leaving my girls' apartment. When we got the front door, a steel gate had been padlocked in place and the girls didn't have the key. The friend started banging on someone's door near the entrance and I was convinced she was getting her pimp to come out and fulfill her sexy death threats. In reality, it was the landlady who finally gave us the key for the padlock.
All in all, quite an adventure. Even if 80% of it was all in my head.
I am not that interested in accumulating possessions or impressing people. My goal is to fill my memory with experiences, life in the gutter or in fast lane. But not in a fucking Holiday Inn. Anything that isn't average and forgettable is a gem for me, especially if I don't get seriously hurt along the way.
This is definitely a great memory for my "wank bank". Also an interesting little event to relive in my deathbed "life review & flashback" - when my life flashes before my eyes.
Does anything else in life matter?[/QUOTE]Cool story bro, glad you made it out safe. One thing I have learned from my travels, if a local tells you a place is not safe, that means 100% it isn't and you should not take your chances. At that point, the risk to reward is not worth it. Some guys who can blend in like a local and speak fluent Spanish may be able to push the limits more, but if you are an obvious gringo, its not worth the risk for a slightly cooler memory.
Your logic is sound in regard to building lasting memories and enjoying life. Part of that same logic is also preserving your health. Those hallucinations are your mind telling you to chill out. You are actually damaging your brain and your brain is telling you enough. Excessive amounts of coke, booze, weed, pills, or other drugs eventually do this. My advice would be to chill out on the drugs for awhile and when you go back to them ease your way in and make sure the hallucinations cease. I have seen more than a few guys really fuck them selves up and it usually starts with them being really fucked up when they are really not even doing a lot of drugs.
[QUOTE=Turgid;2814809]Are you sure they were mongers? US gringos are like that everywhere in the world you go. In Sosua they're like 96% mongers. I would hate to think its the same at Hollywood beach, Cartagena.[/QUOTE]I know a monger when I see one LOL.
Some of them I even recognize by face because I saw them in Sosua or they are part of a WhatsApp chat group I'm in or a YouTuber.
The majority of these individuals only stick to certain places so they become familia the others are just walking clones. It's easy to pick them out. Jordan's or Yeezes on their feet, wearing PhatFarm or Fubu, walking around in a group, and allot of them are over 250 lb.
One thing I have not seen so far at Playa Hollywood that I used to see in Playa Sosua is the 300 lb monger who's so fat they have to stack 2 plastic chairs together to support their weight. I guess the chairs must be stronger in Cartagena LOL.
[QUOTE=Prezrol3080;2810436]Hello all, I have mongered in Morocco and Germany extensively but just begun going to Cartagena three years ago. I like CTG the most because you can combine mongering with great weather, typical beach vibes, affordability, and a nice old city for some "in-between girls" diversions. As others have pointed out, there are lots of clubs to find the WGs at night, and Tinder and SA for daytime action. The first time I went I thought I was being smart by lining up talent before I got there and got a sense of the lay of the land. Bad idea! That just opened me up to the girls who are savvy enough to prey on gringos like myself who didn't know the local prices and how easy it is to get girls there, and try to charge rates just under what you would pay for a SA girl in the states. They also tend to have shit attitudes, especially Melodia 1234 from SA. Stay away!
Anyway I'm going back 24-31 May if anyone else wants to join me at some point, DM me.[/QUOTE]I'll be out there at this time. I can't PM you. PM me.
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[QUOTE=Nypher;2815100]..... they are part of a WhatsApp chat group I'm in .....[/QUOTE]So you know these mongers personally. You're one of them. Great that you are better behaved. I have always thought that for gringos who monger in packs it is more about the drinking, partying and flaunting than about having sex.
[QUOTE=Turgid;2815405]So you know these mongers personally. You're one of them. Great that you are better behaved. I have always thought that for gringos who monger in packs it is more about the drinking, partying and flaunting than about having sex.[/QUOTE]I wouldn't say I know them personally. They are more like familiar faces. Similar to if someone takes the same bus to work every day at the same time then more than likely it will be the same bus driver and their face becomes familiar along with other passengers that usually take that same bus. Familiar strangers, we know what each other look like we just don't interact, the most interaction if our eyes meet, maybe a head nod to say "sup" without any words LOL.
When I first started I used to talk to all the mongers, and then after a while I learned not to invite strangers into my life as I never know what they can pull me into especially when overseas where I don't have much knowledge of the local laws or can communicate effectively in the local language.
Many of us go there and behave but usually what happens is that they take the worst examples of us and use that as a baseline to apply it to all of us until we can prove differently which is an uphill battle as more people leave the hood, fly over seas and uphold the negative views.
[QUOTE=Nypher;2815434]I wouldn't say I know them personally. They are more like familiar faces. Similar to if someone takes the same bus to work every day at the same time then more than likely it will be the same bus driver and their face becomes familiar along with other passengers that usually take that same bus. Familiar strangers, we know what each other look like we just don't interact, the most interaction if our eyes meet, maybe a head nod to say "sup" without any words LOL.
When I first started I used to talk to all the mongers, and then after a while I learned not to invite strangers into my life as I never know what they can pull me into especially when overseas where I don't have much knowledge of the local laws or can communicate effectively in the local language.
Many of us go there and behave but usually what happens is that they take the worst examples of us and use that as a baseline to apply it to all of us until we can prove differently which is an uphill battle as more people leave the hood, fly over seas and uphold the negative views.[/QUOTE]The worst part of the monger / tourist / make it rain crowd is that the locals tend to look at gringos as fodder to be ripped off. I hate interacting with people who are just out to rip me off.
[QUOTE=Turgid;2815715]The worst part of the monger / tourist / make it rain crowd is that the locals tend to look at gringos as fodder to be ripped off. I hate interacting with people who are just out to rip me off.[/QUOTE]Speaking of the money throwing crowd, this was from last month in Delirium. I always warn travelers don't go there unless that's the type of behavior they want to be around, they say I'm overreacting, go there, then act surprised of the outcome like I didn't warn them LOL. This fake baller / rapper mentality just makes us all look bad.
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[QUOTE=Nypher;2815798]Speaking of the money throwing crowd, this was from last month in Delirium. I always warn travelers don't go there unless that's the type of behavior they want to be around, they say I'm overreacting, go there, then act surprised of the outcome like I didn't warn them LOL. This fake baller / rapper mentality just makes us all look bad.
[URL]https://www.tiktok.com/@blackmantravels/video/7227898886273125678?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=mobile&sender_web_id=6958560912236185094[/URL][/QUOTE]What does an unemployed, impoverished Colombian dude think when he sees an American throwing money in the air and Colombian women scampering to grab it?
That type of behavior in Colombia will attract attention from the wrong people -.
Reading through some of the recent post on this forum and sounds like Tinder is a popular way to meet working girls. I have read elsewhere some stories of meeting with girls on Tinder not going well in terms of safety. Is there anything you do to screen the girls before hand? Do you invite them to your room, meet in a public area, or just find short time location and not let them know where you are staying? Just curious, reading this forum you do not hear of many people having a bad time. A couple other places I have read, they have had some bad times.
This is true my friend. It has made me very reluctant to return. It's become a frenzy to remove you from you money.
[QUOTE=Nypher;2815434]I wouldn't say I know them personally. They are more like familiar faces. Similar to if someone takes the same bus to work every day at the same time then more than likely it will be the same bus driver and their face becomes familiar along with other passengers that usually take that same bus. Familiar strangers, we know what each other look like we just don't interact, the most interaction if our eyes meet, maybe a head nod to say "sup" without any words LOL.
When I first started I used to talk to all the mongers, and then after a while I learned not to invite strangers into my life as I never know what they can pull me into especially when overseas where I don't have much knowledge of the local laws or can communicate effectively in the local language.
Many of us go there and behave but usually what happens is that they take the worst examples of us and use that as a baseline to apply it to all of us until we can prove differently which is an uphill battle as more people leave the hood, fly over seas and uphold the negative views.[/QUOTE]
[QUOTE=TravelnEurope;2816836]Reading through some of the recent post on this forum and sounds like Tinder is a popular way to meet working girls. I have read elsewhere some stories of meeting with girls on Tinder not going well in terms of safety. Is there anything you do to screen the girls before hand? Do you invite them to your room, meet in a public area, or just find short time location and not let them know where you are staying? Just curious, reading this forum you do not hear of many people having a bad time. A couple other places I have read, they have had some bad times.[/QUOTE]It's dangerous and a good place to find women at the same time. I personally cold approach (semi girls) 80 percent of the time, works well for me and the other 20 percent through facebook.
I'm not much of a tinder guy for obvious reason.
I wanted to post some dining options in MDE I experienced this past trip.
I went to the following.
OCI. MDE.
Carmen.
Colossal.
I cannot say enough about the above three and Colossal, up in the mountains, has one of the best views of Medellin, not cheap but relatively inexpensive by US standards, food at all three places was spectacular. I also went to a few local restaurants in Laureles, recommended by a local friend.
Here are three more I didn't get to.
Mamasita Medallo.
Alambique.
Herbário.
I plan to visit them next time.
[QUOTE=TheMan31;2817091]It's dangerous and a good place to find women at the same time. I personally cold approach (semi girls) 80 percent of the time, works well for me and the other 20 percent through facebook.
I'm not much of a tinder guy for obvious reason.[/QUOTE]Sorry, what's the obvious reason?