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Tinder comment
Can only speak for myself but Tinder is a scam as far as I am concerned. I rarely use it in Thailand because there are so many time wasters and scammers and have only subscribed once for a month to see if that would improve my experience. It did not. It's also in my phone for my location in US and there are tons of Chinese girls, many from Hong Kong who will ultimately try to sell you investments scams, crypto etc. Now that I am back in US, there also seem to be an increase in Russian or Ukrainian girls with the same BS. It's also highly probable they are not even women, just guys looking to rope you in and fish for personal info. They stole the pics from the internet and post them and prey on lonely guys. Many times they want your WhatsApp or Line contact to move the convo over there. Don't give it to them as they want to stay out of the radius of Tinder to avoid detection on their individual hustles.
On quite a few occasions, it will say that these woman live within a mile or two from me but they always have an excuse why they can't meet in person. That's an immediate tell that they are not legit.
[QUOTE=TravelnEurope;2817570]Sorry, what's the obvious reason?[/QUOTE]
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[QUOTE=Tomasb;2817812]Can only speak for myself but Tinder is a scam as far as I am concerned. I rarely use it in Thailand because there are so many time wasters and scammers and have only subscribed once for a month to see if that would improve my experience. It did not. It's also in my phone for my location in US and there are tons of Chinese girls, many from Hong Kong who will ultimately try to sell you investments scams, crypto etc. Now that I am back in US, there also seem to be an increase in Russian or Ukrainian girls with the same BS. It's also highly probable they are not even women, just guys looking to rope you in and fish for personal info. They stole the pics from the internet and post them and prey on lonely guys. Many times they want your WhatsApp or Line contact to move the convo over there. Don't give it to them as they want to stay out of the radius of Tinder to avoid detection on their individual hustles.
On quite a few occasions, it will say that these woman live within a mile or two from me but they always have an excuse why they can't meet in person. That's an immediate tell that they are not legit.[/QUOTE]It depends where you live in the world. In the USA it's a scam pretty much like everything else now in that country. Everything you write is pretty spot on.
However in Colombia I thought it was amazing. Girls would hit me up when we match and I had them come over to my apartment for sex and maybe because I did an ok job of vetting or maybe I got lucky but it was like ordering a pizza and I made some repeat hot friends with it.
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Daytime action
Question for the group. What is a fair price to pay a girl to spend the day with me in CTG? Fuck 2-3 times, maybe hit the beach for a while, lunch and drinks etc?
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[QUOTE=Prezrol3080;2818329]Question for the group. What is a fair price to pay a girl to spend the day with me in CTG? Fuck 2-3 times, maybe hit the beach for a while, lunch and drinks etc?[/QUOTE]It's really up to your negotiation skills YMMV. Make an offer and decide on services. Discuss everything upfront and make sure it's not a hustle. If you are a good judge of character and not one of these naive men then you can handle it. If not, you can be taken advantage of and receive shifty service and then you're stuck with that Chica. Always pay at the end of the date and never before because if you do you stand the risk of being scammed. Don't show any weakness, be firm, make plenty of eye contact, be decisive and don't be unsure. If you let these chicas direct you and steer you the way they want it won't turn out the way you want.
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Lol!
[QUOTE=TravelnEurope;2817570]Sorry, what's the obvious reason?[/QUOTE]Drugging and kidnappings man! . it's real I'm serious that is why I cold approach to read the woman before I make my move.
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[QUOTE=TravelnEurope;2817570]Sorry, what's the obvious reason?[/QUOTE]There have been a large number of guys being drugged by girls they met from Tinder and few were killed, Paul Nguyen foremost among them. Most of it is centered in Medellin. I personally met a girl off of Bumble and after the second date we were at my place and she drugged me. Out for 3 days, nearly killed. The shit is no joke so be careful guys. You can probably find my report. It was posted in the Medellin forum back in mid to late November.
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[QUOTE=Prezrol3080;2818329]Question for the group. What is a fair price to pay a girl to spend the day with me in CTG? Fuck 2-3 times, maybe hit the beach for a while, lunch and drinks etc?[/QUOTE]Depends bro on what you like. But I would say 80- 100 USD max. Just negotiate in pesos.
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[QUOTE=TravelnEurope;2816836]Reading through some of the recent post on this forum and sounds like Tinder is a popular way to meet working girls. I have read elsewhere some stories of meeting with girls on Tinder not going well in terms of safety. Is there anything you do to screen the girls before hand? Do you invite them to your room, meet in a public area, or just find short time location and not let them know where you are staying? Just curious, reading this forum you do not hear of many people having a bad time. A couple other places I have read, they have had some bad times.[/QUOTE]Tinder in Cartagena was all I needed, just vet them properly and if they patient meet them in a public place. And if you like the vibe then roll out. Make sure you negotiate everything on Tinder whether its short time or GFE. Stay safe!
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[QUOTE=Prezrol3080;2818329]Question for the group. What is a fair price to pay a girl to spend the day with me in CTG? Fuck 2-3 times, maybe hit the beach for a while, lunch and drinks etc?[/QUOTE]Answer is. It depends. On your negotiating skills and honesty age / attractiveness. They will quote you more if they deem it a chore. There are girls who will spend the day for free at standard ST price if they like you enough.
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[QUOTE=Jdf972;2819576]Tinder in Cartagena was all I needed, just vet them properly and if they patient meet them in a public place. And if you like the vibe then roll out. Make sure you negotiate everything on Tinder whether its short time or GFE. Stay safe![/QUOTE]I have to advise against this.
Do not negotiate anything on Tinder or you can easily be banded if you get reported too many times. Girls will report you if they perceive you as an asshole.
Keep everything clean on Tinder, then take the conversation off to Instagram or Whatsapp and negotiate there. Most girls have their Instagram handle in their profile anyway so just talk to them over there. You don't want to be that guy getting banded and having to end up making a new Facebook or getting a new number just to use Tinder again.
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[QUOTE=TravelnEurope;2816836]Reading through some of the recent post on this forum and sounds like Tinder is a popular way to meet working girls. I have read elsewhere some stories of meeting with girls on Tinder not going well in terms of safety. Is there anything you do to screen the girls before hand? Do you invite them to your room, meet in a public area, or just find short time location and not let them know where you are staying? Just curious, reading this forum you do not hear of many people having a bad time. A couple other places I have read, they have had some bad times.[/QUOTE]An idiot is going to be an idiot no matter where that idiot goes, and we've all been idiots some time or another.
Let me explain. With enough common sense anyone can avoid what allot of these individuals experience when going on these Tinder dates. The exact same thing where men getting set up to be drugged and / or robbed is happening right here in major cities in America such as Miami, Chicago, and New York City but the media is too busy pushing mass shootings, LGBT agenda, Trump, and BLM because a man getting robbed on a dating app does not generate enough attention or clicks to generate revenue so its not just a Colombia thing.
The exact same thing you would do in your home country to prioritize your safety should be the exact same thing you do while outside of your country.
Those stories you read of guys having bad Tinder experiences, what exactly did they do that was an obvious major red flag but was overlooked because hot young perky Latina is in front of them?
My #1 rule is before we meet they must send me a picture of their ID (Cedula / Passport / Permiso / Contrasena). If we meet randomly in public like a club, street, park, etc then they must have ID and allow me to take a picture of it if they are going to come with me.
Never let them outnumber you. AKA no extra friends on first meet. If I know the chica physically for while, extra friends are fine, but upon first contact, hell no.
Over the years, of all the dumb things I've done on these trips, I have not been drugged yet or set up to be robbed *knocks on wood*, the worst I've had was the "pay me XXX or I'm calling the cops" scam (once), or I turn my back and they steal money out my pocket (once). Both girls were not from Dating Apps.
Years ago the saying was "don't leave your common sense in Customs". Still holds true to today.
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Ctg summer 2022
Hello,
My native language is Spanish, sorry for my shitty English.
I had been at CTG in August 2019 and it was quite well, most of the nights I was in Dolce and Space, I was with 8 beautiful Colombians and 8 Venezuelans in 21 days and I only repeated several days with a Venezuelan who was crazy hot. All the girls between 200 K-300 K ST, it was a good holidays.
So after the pandemic I repeated in August 2022 and things got much worse.
The girls at the Dolce were asking $100ST and $250 LT (they work in $). The first night when I started talking to the girls and they asked me for 400-500 K for ST, I said: are you crazy? But no, groups of 10-12 guys from USA came in and took all the girls, so they force us to go into the same game. I like the top 7-9 girls for a 5-6 I don't go to Colombia, and in the end I had to pay between 350-400 k (and bargaining).
But worst of all, the vagabonds have become more aggressive, they chase you all over the city and it's very uncomfortable. One night that I closed the Dolce, I was going out with a girl at 3, it was Monday or Tuesday, there were no police, and from the door of the dolce to a taxi on the corner, there were 5 meter, but around 5 boys surrounded me, they pushed me and they asked me to give them the money, I'm 2 m tall and I weigh almost 100 kg so I got off of them and got into the taxi, and even so they kept getting into the taxi asking me for money, for the girl and for the drugs they had given me, What drug? If I don't know you?? The truth is that it was scare. If you are alone, I do not recommend that you close the disco in the center because you could be a target.
Another negative point is that going to the beach is a pain, one day I went to Tierra Bomba with a friend and we agreed about 300 K (I don't remember exactly) to take us by boat round trip and some hammocks on the beach with a small lunch. Everything was going well but when we talked about going back to 'el laguito', they began to say that the hammocks were not included and I don't know what else, and that we had to pay 200 K more, what? That is not what was agreed, we were arguing, until we already discussed calling the police, and they relented, but a nice day at the beach was ruined.
In the end, everyone has become more aggressive and they try to rob you everywhere. Last week I didn't even go to the beach to avoid problems and at night I would retire as late at 2.
So this year, I'm thinking about another destination, as I like Latinas I'm studying Medellin, Sosua or Rio. I expect better luck.
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Ctg summer 2022 review
Hello,
My native language is Spanish, sorry for my shitty English.
I had been in CTG in August 2019 and it was quite well, most of the nights I was in Dolce and Space, I was with 8 beautiful Colombians and 8 Venezuelans in 21 days and I only repeated several days with a Venezuelan who was crazy hot. All the girls between 200 K-300 K ST, it was a good holidays.
So after the pandemic I repeated in August 2022 and things got much worse.
The girls at the Dolce were asking $100ST and $250 LT (they work in $). The first night when I started talking to the girls and they asked me for 400-500 K for ST, I said: are you crazy? But no, groups of 10-12 guys from USA came in and took all the girls, so they force us to go into the same game. I like the top 7-9 girls for a 5-6 I don't go to Colombia, and in the end I had to pay between 350-400 k (and bargaining).
But worst of all, the vagabonds have become more aggressive, they chase you all over the city and it's very uncomfortable. One night that I closed the Dolce, I was going out with a girl at 3, it was Monday or Tuesday, there were no police, and from the door of the dolce to a taxi on the corner, there were 5 meter, but around 5 boys surrounded me, they pushed me and they asked me to give them the money, I'm 2 m tall and I weigh almost 100 kg so I got off of them and got into the taxi, and even so they kept getting into the taxi asking me for money, for the girl and for the drugs they had given me, What drug? If I don't know you?? The truth is that it was scare. If you are alone, I do not recommend that you close the disco in the center because you could be a target.
Another negative point is that going to the beach is a pain, one day I went to Tierra Bomba with a friend and we agreed about 300 K (I don't remember exactly) to take us by boat round trip and some hammocks on the beach with a small lunch. Everything was going well but when we talked about going back to 'el laguito', they began to say that the hammocks were not included and I don't know what else, and that we had to pay 200 K more, what? That is not what was agreed, we were arguing, until we already discussed calling the police, and they relented, but a nice day at the beach was ruined.
In the end, everyone has become more aggressive and they try to rob you everywhere. Last week I didn't even go to the beach to avoid problems and at night I would retire as late at 2.
So this year, I'm thinking about another destination, as I like Latinas I'm studying Medellin, Sosua or Rio. I expect better luck.
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[QUOTE=ForroMambo;2819927]Hello,
So this year, I'm thinking about another destination, as I like Latinas I'm studying Medellin, Sosua or Rio. I expect better luck.[/QUOTE]None of those are any better. You can thank those Passport Boys for that. Inflation, Medellin is out of control with Scope, Sosua girls are talking in dollars and overweight walking like pigeons, and Rio is still a little iffy. I would say just avoid any area that the majority of those YouTubers are going in mass.
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Forget Sosua, the same Gringos who are ruining Cartagena destroyed Sosua. It's an escalating cycle, hardened clients, hardened girls, more aggressive vendors and as you experienced even children.
[QUOTE=ForroMambo;2819955]Hello,
My native language is Spanish, sorry for my shitty English.
I had been in CTG in August 2019 and it was quite well, most of the nights I was in Dolce and Space, I was with 8 beautiful Colombians and 8 Venezuelans in 21 days and I only repeated several days with a Venezuelan who was crazy hot. All the girls between 200 K-300 K ST, it was a good holidays.
So after the pandemic I repeated in August 2022 and things got much worse.
The girls at the Dolce were asking $100ST and $250 LT (they work in $). The first night when I started talking to the girls and they asked me for 400-500 K for ST, I said: are you crazy? But no, groups of 10-12 guys from USA came in and took all the girls, so they force us to go into the same game. I like the top 7-9 girls for a 5-6 I don't go to Colombia, and in the end I had to pay between 350-400 k (and bargaining).
But worst of all, the vagabonds have become more aggressive, they chase you all over the city and it's very uncomfortable. One night that I closed the Dolce, I was going out with a girl at 3, it was Monday or Tuesday, there were no police, and from the door of the dolce to a taxi on the corner, there were 5 meter, but around 5 boys surrounded me, they pushed me and they asked me to give them the money, I'm 2 m tall and I weigh almost 100 kg so I got off of them and got into the taxi, and even so they kept getting into the taxi asking me for money, for the girl and for the drugs they had given me, What drug? If I don't know you?? The truth is that it was scare. If you are alone, I do not recommend that you close the disco in the center because you could be a target.
Another negative point is that going to the beach is a pain, one day I went to Tierra Bomba with a friend and we agreed about 300 K (I don't remember exactly) to take us by boat round trip and some hammocks on the beach with a small lunch. Everything was going well but when we talked about going back to 'el laguito', they began to say that the hammocks were not included and I don't know what else, and that we had to pay 200 K more, what? That is not what was agreed, we were arguing, until we already discussed calling the police, and they relented, but a nice day at the beach was ruined.
In the end, everyone has become more aggressive and they try to rob you everywhere. Last week I didn't even go to the beach to avoid problems and at night I would retire as late at 2.
So this year, I'm thinking about another destination, as I like Latinas I'm studying Medellin, Sosua or Rio. I expect better luck.[/QUOTE]