Sexual Wellness and other Sex related discussions

[QUOTE=BrightBuddy;2853302]Hello fellow experienced mongers,

I am planning to start my mongering journey. I would love to have your suggestions at my back.

Please let me know what are the important things I should keep in my mind.[/QUOTE]Have been Mongering for a short while and here are the precautions I usually take:

1. Never use the Spa Towels / Soaps as we don't know when it was last cleant. Always carry yout own towel.

2. Always carry your own protection, I have noticed spas using no name condoms which can potentially break.

3 . Have yourself and the bird use mouthwash before any DFK / Oral (I'm kinda lazy / horny sometimes and don't do this).

4. Get an STD test every 6-12 Months.

5. If during massage they ask to use oil say no, as the oil could break the condoms.

6. Never go bareback (Anal or Vaginal).

7. Check for any marks, warts or signs of STD's around the genitals / mouth area. (Open cuts, Sores, warts are major red flags).

8. Always clean up after the deed.

9. Use a Burner Phone / Sim and cash for payments, might be difficult to obtain but is the safest way to keep your identity secure.

Note that even with these precautions you still run the risk of LE and being Scammed so do your due diligence before visiting any bird. Thing with you Brain not with your Dick.

Recently I had sex with one working girl. I used condom like 75% Covering my penis and involved in intercourse. But still fear if there are any possibilities for genital herpes or any other sti infections. I dint have clear look down there on the working girl. This is my first time, I will never ever do it again.

My friend,

Herpes may be completely invisible. Even if you have inspected her vagina thoroughly there are chances to get it because outbreaks only happen time to time and the rest of the time it's completely asymptomatic.

If you absolutely want to be safe do as the US CDC says on how to avoid herpes:

- Being in a long-term mutually monogamous relationship with a partner who does not have herpes.

If you used a condom the chances of you getting the disease are quite low.

[QUOTE=AjayLost;2859464]Recently I had sex with one working girl. I used condom like 75% Covering my penis and involved in intercourse. But still fear if there are any possibilities for genital herpes or any other sti infections. I dint have clear look down there on the working girl. This is my first time, I will never ever do it again.[/QUOTE]

Std alert probable herpes.

Yesterday I had sexual encounter from North Indian working Girl.

I have made huge mistake by placing some sort plastic material for cunnilingus DATY.

I have washed my mouth like 10 times with body wash & goggled with pepsodent after the incident.

After an hour or 2 hrs, now I have burning sensation on my upper lips fearing possible transmission of oral herpes.

I stayed clean all this year's and this is my first time. THIS HAPPENED Not sure what is going to happen for me.

When you put on CONDOM TAKE YOUR TIME, please ensure to cover your penis fully till the bottom from shaft.

Don't do any type of kissing, never go down DATY Cunnilingus Rim on working girl even with condom as this are probable causes for oral herpes / Genital herpes.

Going to stay away from this. To be honest I dint even enjoy the sexual activity with all the risks associated. Not at all worth it.

Your FR is exactly what we call *all talks no substance". Every monger knows such risks are unavoidable by just condoms and herpes are probably the most common STI. You need to mention which girl or girls to be avoided.

Please get your blood sugar level tested. Most of the STIs aggressive if your body immunity is low (high blood sugar is first indication).

Regards.

TheNone.

[QUOTE=AjayLost;2859659]Std alert probable herpes.

Yesterday I had sexual encounter from North Indian working Girl.

I have made huge mistake by placing some sort plastic material for cunnilingus DATY.

I have washed my mouth like 10 times with body wash & goggled with pepsodent after the incident.

After an hour or 2 hrs, now I have burning sensation on my upper lips fearing possible transmission of oral herpes.

I stayed clean all this year's and this is my first time. THIS HAPPENED Not sure what is going to happen for me.

When you put on CONDOM TAKE YOUR TIME, please ensure to cover your penis fully till the bottom from shaft.

Don't do any type of kissing, never go down DATY Cunnilingus Rim on working girl even with condom as this are probable causes for oral herpes / Genital herpes.

Going to stay away from this. To be honest I dint even enjoy the sexual activity with all the risks associated. Not at all worth it.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=AjayLost;2859659]Std alert probable herpes.


When you put on CONDOM TAKE YOUR TIME, please ensure to cover your penis fully till the bottom from shaft.

Don't do any type of kissing, never go down DATY Cunnilingus Rim on working girl even with condom as this are probable causes for oral herpes / Genital herpes.

Going to stay away from this. To be honest I dint even enjoy the sexual activity with all the risks associated. Not at all worth it.[/QUOTE]Don't rely on condoms for protection against STDs. HPV infection can occur any time even with skin contact.

Bro.

Try to use Betadine Oral Liquid for mouthwash before and after the deed.

If you are using multiple liquid like body was and pepsodent mouth wash back to back, it may create burning sensation obviously.

Better you consult a doctor, still you are having some symptoms.

Also request you to please share the name of girl you tried, so all others can avoid (though it not confirmed an std).

Thanks.

SW.

[QUOTE=AjayLost;2859659]Std alert probable herpes.

Yesterday I had sexual encounter from North Indian working Girl.

I have made huge mistake by placing some sort plastic material for cunnilingus DATY.

I have washed my mouth like 10 times with body wash & goggled with pepsodent after the incident.

After an hour or 2 hrs, now I have burning sensation on my upper lips fearing possible transmission of oral herpes.

I stayed clean all this year's and this is my first time. THIS HAPPENED Not sure what is going to happen for me.

When you put on CONDOM TAKE YOUR TIME, please ensure to cover your penis fully till the bottom from shaft.

Don't do any type of kissing, never go down DATY Cunnilingus Rim on working girl even with condom as this are probable causes for oral herpes / Genital herpes.

Going to stay away from this. To be honest I dint even enjoy the sexual activity with all the risks associated. Not at all worth it.[/QUOTE]

First and foremost, thanks to all brothers who shared their knowledge and exp about HPV vaccine, I was planning to visit a urologist or a sexologist to get it for a long time, However kept pushung it, Today I saw a diabetics clinic on my way and finally dragged myself into it. Feeling stupid that I am seeing a diabetologist for this.

Gave a random phone no and email as I didn't want it to go in my records (being over cautious), the doc didn't even ask my age or if I am sexually active etc. He just said we generally give it to females & males before they get sexually active. And said for males also its good because it protects you from genital warts etc, and there are no side effects.

I was thinking he will give me a prescription and I will have to buy it from a pharmacy and then I will have to go to a health center to take it. He simply asked if I want it, I said YES sir, he called his receptionist and It was done in 5 minutes.

I got Gardasil, didn't enquire about the Indian variant (cervevax), the dr said I need 3 doses, (0,2,6 months), no side effects or precautions, I paid 3800 for the vaccine and left the clinic in a total of 15 minutes.

The exp. Was smoother than getting a HJ in a spa :-), I will go back after 2 months and then after 6 months to the same clinic.

Googled a bit, it seems it takes about 2 weeks for the immune system to kick in after the 1st dose.

Strongly recommend it for all.

Happy mongering.

Stay safe.

Lesser Mortal.

Thanks for the valuable info, sir.

I was working for an immune health app back in 2021 and had access to an extensive knowledge-base put together by the doctors and advisors in the company. In most first-world countries, HPV vaccine is part of their schedule for women (to prevent cervical cancer, caused by certain strains of HPV). For men, it's available privately. I'm 40 years old and well past the recommended age to take the vaccine but still went for it. Gardasil, 3 k in 2021.

I think it's excessive to hide email / phone for this purpose. Hiding details while getting an STD panel test / HIV is recommended though.

Here's a chart of the the vaccines we should be taking, if anyone is interested.

[QUOTE=LesserMortal;2859898]First and foremost, thanks to all brothers who shared their knowledge and exp about HPV vaccine, I was planning to visit a urologist or a sexologist to get it for a long time, However kept pushung it, Today I saw a diabetics clinic on my way and finally dragged myself into it. Feeling stupid that I am seeing a diabetologist for this.

Gave a random phone no and email as I didn't want it to go in my records (being over cautious), the doc didn't even ask my age or if I am sexually active etc. He just said we generally give it to females & males before they get sexually active. And said for males also its good because it protects you from genital warts etc, and there are no side effects..[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=LesserMortal;2859898]First and foremost, thanks to all brothers who shared their knowledge and exp about HPV vaccine, I was planning to visit a urologist or a sexologist to get it for a long time, However kept pushung it, Today I saw a diabetics clinic on my way and finally dragged myself into it. Feeling stupid that I am seeing a diabetologist for this.

Gave a random phone no and email as I didn't want it to go in my records (being over cautious), the doc didn't even ask my age or if I am sexually active etc. He just said we generally give it to females & males before they get sexually active. And said for males also its good because it protects you from genital warts etc, and there are no side effects.

I was thinking he will give me a prescription and I will have to buy it from a pharmacy and then I will have to go to a health center to take it. He simply asked if I want it, I said YES sir, he called his receptionist and It was done in 5 minutes.

I got Gardasil, didn't enquire about the Indian variant (cervevax), the dr said I need 3 doses, (0,2,6 months), no side effects or precautions, I paid 3800 for the vaccine and left the clinic in a total of 15 minutes.

The exp. Was smoother than getting a HJ in a spa :-), I will go back after 2 months and then after 6 months to the same clinic.

Googled a bit, it seems it takes about 2 weeks for the immune system to kick in after the 1st dose.

Strongly recommend it for all.

Happy mongering.

Stay safe.

Lesser Mortal.[/QUOTE]Which gardasil one did you get? Is it the latest one. Gardasil 9?

I got gardasil 3, which protects from hpv - 6,11,16 & 18. I checked online Gardasil 9 is out of stock everywhere. Not sure if it is available with doctors in blore.

[QUOTE=Lamboos;2859948]Which gardasil one did you get? Is it the latest one. Gardasil 9?[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=LesserMortal;2860001]I got gardasil 3, which protects from hpv - 6,11,16 & 18. I checked online Gardasil 9 is out of stock everywhere. Not sure if it is available with doctors in blore.[/QUOTE]I got Gardasil 9 at drsafehands clinic.

Folks can check there.

[QUOTE=AjayLost;2859659]Std alert probable herpes.

Yesterday I had sexual encounter from North Indian working Girl.

I have made huge mistake by placing some sort plastic material for cunnilingus DATY.

I have washed my mouth like 10 times with body wash & goggled with pepsodent after the incident.

After an hour or 2 hrs, now I have burning sensation on my upper lips fearing possible transmission of oral herpes.

I stayed clean all this year's and this is my first time. THIS HAPPENED Not sure what is going to happen for me.

When you put on CONDOM TAKE YOUR TIME, please ensure to cover your penis fully till the bottom from shaft.

Don't do any type of kissing, never go down DATY Cunnilingus Rim on working girl even with condom as this are probable causes for oral herpes / Genital herpes.

Going to stay away from this. To be honest I dint even enjoy the sexual activity with all the risks associated. Not at all worth it.[/QUOTE]Just FYI.

Burning of upper lips can be caused by the use of body wash to clean mouth. That also multiple times.

Should use mouth wash in diluted form.

Listerine is strong.

Using body wash or Dettol to clean your mouth can be harmful.

Sometimes half knowledge is dangerous too.

[QUOTE=AjayLost;2859464]Recently I had sex with one working girl. I used condom like 75% Covering my penis and involved in intercourse. But still fear if there are any possibilities for genital herpes or any other sti infections. I dint have clear look down there on the working girl. This is my first time, I will never ever do it again.[/QUOTE]I don't think you encountered any risk but still if you doubt please get yourself tested soon.

I recently observed a single tiny red pustule appearing on the base of.

My tool. I got freaked out and searched a lot on the internet. I am in a panic mode now as I am unable to understand if it's simply a rash or a something serious like genital wart etc. Can any doctor preset here help me with a clear guidance?? It's very difficult to visit someone on the outside for me. Any help is appreciated. My DM is open.

P.S. (I have never engaged in unprotected sex. Always with due protection).