Stupid Shit in Tijuana

[QUOTE=Dcrist0527;2574099]Thank you to Sol and Jinxx. It's great to consider the good and the bad. You make great points about the company we keep.

I'll tell you why I am considering the wingmen approach. To date, as many times as I've been to HK or any of the others, my MO is walk around. I don't think I have ever sat at a table before finding a girl. Maybe that's weird. But my thought is first, I don't want to deal with the continuous onslaught of chicas asking for a tip or a ficha. Even worse, I don't want a mesero to bring girls over that he has a deal with. That just feels so awkward. I like to shop and be in total control of my selection. The benefit of my approach is that I seem to have a higher success rate than others. To be blunt, I'm probably in the bottom 20% of physically attractive men in the bar. Maybe even lower. So it's safe to say I'm beating the averages with this approach. I've had a limited number of average sessions and really no "bad" nights.

All that said, I do have an unusual desire to shop more. Most of the time, I walk around. I'm very selective. Again, too selective for someone with my appearance. But, I also have a habit of spending ALOT of time with a single chica. This is where I differ from most mongers here. I enjoy the flirting, the party, etc. Just as much as arriba. What I'm looking to do on my next stop in HK is to play the field a bit more. It'll take a bit more discipline on my part. I need to send a chica on after a drink. It just seems that'd be easier to do with a group of guys..[/QUOTE]I've always liked your approach to Tijuana as we are very similar. I remember your posts on the other site and your history. I do most of the same except I will immediately find my waiter and he knows where I like to sit and will quickly get my table and my drink. From that point he knows I don't like to be bugged so he doesn't bring anyone to me and will keep the unwanted girls away as well. Sometimes I get stuck with guys trying to sit with me and at times I try to be polite but most usually either bug me trying to talk to me or they start bringing over girls and take over my space. So my waiter has to come by and escort them to another spot.

Se for you just use the same waiter and he will know what you like. ALS don't let the girls run you. If I go and see a girl I was with before I will say Hello, and tell her I'm just hanging out and not looking through drink a that time. I tell my waiter to send her a drink and they understand.

[QUOTE=Sol12;2574316]I've always liked your approach to Tijuana as we are very similar. I remember your posts on the other site and your history. I do most of the same except I will immediately find my waiter and he knows where I like to sit and will quickly get my table and my drink. From that point he knows I don't like to be bugged so he doesn't bring anyone to me and will keep the unwanted girls away as well. Sometimes I get stuck with guys trying to sit with me and at times I try to be polite but most usually either bug me trying to talk to me or they start bringing over girls and take over my space. So my waiter has to come by and escort them to another spot.

Se for you just use the same waiter and he will know what you like. ALS don't let the girls run you. If I go and see a girl I was with before I will say Hello, and tell her I'm just hanging out and not looking through drink a that time. I tell my waiter to send her a drink and they understand.[/QUOTE]Good tips. A while back, there was a discussion about having your own waiter. I am a fan of that. First and foremost, the other meseros generally respect that and you don't have to shoo away another waiter every 2 minutes. Like you said, I've found once you know a waiter, they respect your boundaries and what you like. I would even go so far as to say a couple are good guys. I do not overtip. I generally tip $1 each trip to the bar. I would never tip them in coins, as some have suggested. Hey, yes, those cheap Charlies may save 50 cents per drink but they are the same guys that compain about the meseros. I won't let 50 cents or 5 dollars over the course of a night ruin my fun.

I'm going to steal your "just hanging out" line. I'll also set the expectation on WhatsApp. I have four regulars that I talk to almost daily. They'll still be pissed. LOL And I don't want to ruin the true GFE. But oh well, something has to give if I want a little variety.

[QUOTE=Dcrist0527;2574506]Good tips. A while back, there was a discussion about having your own waiter. I am a fan of that. First and foremost, the other meseros generally respect that and you don't have to shoo away another waiter every 2 minutes. Like you said, I've found once you know a waiter, they respect your boundaries and what you like. I would even go so far as to say a couple are good guys. I do not overtip. I generally tip $1 each trip to the bar. I would never tip them in coins, as some have suggested. Hey, yes, those cheap Charlies may save 50 cents per drink but they are the same guys that compain about the meseros. I won't let 50 cents or 5 dollars over the course of a night ruin my fun.

I'm going to steal your "just hanging out" line. I'll also set the expectation on WhatsApp. I have four regulars that I talk to almost daily. They'll still be pissed. LOL And I don't want to ruin the true GFE. But oh well, something has to give if I want a little variety.[/QUOTE]Having your own waiter works if you actually pick out your own waiter after dismissing all of the sharks.

[QUOTE=Dcrist0527;2574506]I'm going to steal your "just hanging out" line. I'll also set the expectation on WhatsApp. I have four regulars that I talk to almost daily. They'll still be pissed. LOL And I don't want to ruin the true GFE. But oh well, something has to give if I want a little variety.[/QUOTE]Trust me it's not that original of a line and I'm sure they have heard it many times before. Just be sweet with them and they will understand.

[QUOTE=PokerLover11;2574249]Over 6 k deaths in the US over 150 K serious adverse reactions, over 15 k deaths in Europe and 600 k adverse reactions, they are estimating only 10% actually reported, I have personally talked to a girl who lost her mother 10 days after the vaccine she did not report it, I have talked to another girl who was 6 months pregnant and had a miscarriage and did not report it. I will not even be with a girl who has taken it.[/QUOTE]Let me give you some sobering statistical facts. If you are 60 with a life expectancy of 20 years you have about a 0. 01% chance of dying on any given day. That means it's reasonable to expect that about 1 in 10,000 people over 60 will die the day after they get the shot. That does not imply causation. If you die in a traffic accident the day after taking the shot, the shot didn't cause you to die. But it still happens that you died the day after you took the shot. About 1 in 1000 might be expected to die within 10 days of the shot. Now factor that to account for perhaps 20,000,000 people over 60 that got the shot. That works out to about 2000 people getting the shot and dying the day after and 20,000 dying within 10 days, just on PURE RANDOM CHANCE.

This is just a back of the napkin calculation, but within an order of magnitude, I expect. It why anecdotal evidence about so-and-so died is meaningless. You have to calculate the expected death rate for the population getting the shot and then look for statistically significant differences in the death rate between people who got the shot and who didn't. That's part of what they had to do to get the emergency use authorization.

[QUOTE=TomJackin;2574272]And what does this have to do with HK? Oh, I get it, it's a scare factor; thanks![/QUOTE]Wondering the same thing. I almost died in a car wreck last week and I'm just glad I'm able to keep donating to the single mothers of the world. I recall being in Afghanistan with IDF landing in the base and I was taking a shit praying that I don't die taking a dump. I'the rather die in between the legs of a hot woman from too much excitement and doing what I love.

[QUOTE=KoolBeans;2574760]Wondering the same thing. I almost died in a car wreck last week and I'm just glad I'm able to keep donating to the single mothers of the world. I recall being in Afghanistan with IDF landing in the base and I was taking a shit praying that I don't die taking a dump. I'the rather die in between the legs of a hot woman from too much excitement and doing what I love.[/QUOTE]So true Kool. Better to go enjoying life to it's best. But I have to laugh at the call to my parents that their son was found dead in brothel in Tijuana! I bet that little tidbit of details would not make it to the rest of the family. Of course if it did all the relatives that have been married to the same lady for many many year would be saying. That lucky bastard was screwing 20 year olds! (actually what they would think is ooooh. Mexican brothel must have old ugly girls etc. Little do they know the girls are truly amazing with not only their beauty but personalities as well).

[QUOTE=CaptainSolo;2573981]The guys I go with are professional, managerial, business people, very nice, cool, generous, understanding, supportive.

After getting to know each other's nefarious monger lives, we become close, bonded, have lots of fun together, because in real life we cannot share our pursuits of fun, addiction to hot girls and sexy pleasures with family, friends, neighbors. If they even know about the nefarious things we do we would quickly become lepers. So we do have a bunch of friends with whom we can share some deepest personal problems, experiences, thoughts and feelings without judgements or any serious consequences.

The guys don't care who or what you are in real life. They only want to hang out, have fun, exchange infos and supports to get the best sessions with the hottest girls like a bunch of college kids. It's very good therapy to party with the bros, let go of all guards, have fun and hot sex with pretty girls, far more fun, relaxing and rejuvenating than any social engagement with useless, sexless phonies in real life.

You should fire your shrink and join us for some real fun and relaxation. Good friends and pussies can cure all ails![/QUOTE]Great point Cap. What goes on in Zona. Mostly stays in Zona. So you can't really talk about that world too much with family or some buddies up in San Diego etc. Ironically I work with many Mexican guys who know Zona Norte all to well so I can joke around a bit with them. But not my non work social life or family etc.

And. It's not like talking about a baseball game, politics, the weather. It's fricking the most beautiful girls and most intimate experiences we have as humans on this earth. To keep that bottled up isn't easy!

[QUOTE=Gregyyr;2574783]Great point Cap. What goes on in Zona. Mostly stays in Zona. So you can't really talk about that world too much with family or some buddies up in San Diego etc. Ironically I work with many Mexican guys who know Zona Norte all to well so I can joke around a bit with them. But not my non work social life or family etc.

And. It's not like talking about a baseball game, politics, the weather. It's fricking the most beautiful girls and most intimate experiences we have as humans on this earth. To keep that bottled up isn't easy![/QUOTE]Guys I worked with in San Diego I would tell them I live in Tijuana and the very first words out of their mouth would be "Hong Kong". I shit you not. It's like the whole entire fact that Tijuana is a big city with a lot going on means nothing other than "Hong Kong" and hookers. Then when I tried to get coworkers to come hang out with me in Tijuana they were all scared to death to cross the border. I had this one guy who was like a 30 year old virgin. He would act like some big tough guy at work. Then when I tried to drag him down to Tijuana to hit the bars. The dude started acting like he was going to panic and call his mommy to save him. I told him bro I'm not going to let you get kidnapped by the cartel. You should've seen the look in his eyes when I jumped on the 805 headed southbound, he looked like he saw a ghost. Lmao!

[QUOTE=Gregyyr;2574777]So true Kool. Better to go enjoying life to it's best. But I have to laugh at the call to my parents that their son was found dead in brothel in Tijuana! I bet that little tidbit of details would not make it to the rest of the family. Of course if it did all the relatives that have been married to the same lady for many many year would be saying. That lucky bastard was screwing 20 year olds! (actually what they would think is ooooh. Mexican brothel must have old ugly girls etc. Little do they know the girls are truly amazing with not only their beauty but personalities as well).[/QUOTE]Yeah probably almost died multiple times in my life. I travel internationally and they might find me anywhere, Hong Kong walk ups, Macau Spas, Thai hotel, Chinese secret spa (secret false door for spa), Dubai hotel, etc. Wonderful women from all over. My ex I was married to for 20+ yr was from Playas and still friends, but can't deal with the incessant nagging. I want to try Brazil and Columbia or even Cuba. When I was in Miami a couple years ago, smoking hot Colombian, Cuban, and Venezuelan women provided services, limited English, but smoking hot and great service. In Dubai met smoking hot Ethiopian and Russian women that would stay overnight for what we pay for here in USA. Enjoy life since you only go around once unless you believe we come back.

KoolBean,

You have been to many hot spots.

How did you find smoking hot Colombian, Cuban, and Venezuelan women in Miami? Steer me to the right directions.

Try Argentina and Brazil. Prostitution in Brazil is legal, reportedly has millions of prostitutes with the best services. Colombia is open but Cuba is closed; no flights are allowed in.

[QUOTE=CaptainSolo;2574930]KoolBean,

You have been to many hot spots.

How did you find smoking hot Colombian, Cuban, and Venezuelan women in Miami? Steer me to the right directions.

Try Argentina and Brazil. Prostitution in Brazil is legal, reportedly has millions of prostitutes with the best services. Colombia is open but Cuba is closed; no flights are allowed in.[/QUOTE]Hey, Cap. Check out Diamomd Dolls in Pompano. Mostly Cuban. I would say the girls are mostly 7-8 range. Probably average age of 24 or so. You will find a few Colombians and a few Vennies there. Pretty much anything can be negotiated there. But the prices were lunacy. On my last visit, I was sitting next to an Italian guy, probably mid 50's. He was negotiating with a very pretty Brazillian. He asked how much for him and his buddy to DP her. In her defense, she told him he could not afford it. He pressed the issue. He ended coughing up 1 K and the three of them left.

Money was no issue for this dude. Or I hope he wasn't just too drunk to know what he was doing. Right before they left, he bought his second bottle of Dom. Not cheap. Never opened it. Called a bartender over and told her to take it home. One minute after he left, a manager grabbed the bottle and put it back in stock behind lock and key. LMAO I mention that only because that's the type you'd bid against in there. But, anything can be had.

[QUOTE=Jinxx;2574815]Guys I worked with in San Diego I would tell them I live in Tijuana and the very first words out of their mouth would be "Hong Kong". I shit you not. It's like the whole entire fact that Tijuana is a big city with a lot going on means nothing other than "Hong Kong" and hookers. Then when I tried to get coworkers to come hang out with me in Tijuana they were all scared to death to cross the border. I had this one guy who was like a 30 year old virgin. He would act like some big tough guy at work. Then when I tried to drag him down to Tijuana to hit the bars. The dude started acting like he was going to panic and call his mommy to save him. I told him bro I'm not going to let you get kidnapped by the cartel. You should've seen the look in his eyes when I jumped on the 805 headed southbound, he looked like he saw a ghost. Lmao![/QUOTE]Damn. You should have told us first so that we could have set up a fake cartel kidnapping of your buddy.

It is amazing. In the old days before passports were required, high schoolers and college students would flock to Tijuana to dance and drink in the clubs on Revu. . . I remember how packed it was on Revolucion on weekends. Now when I try to get acquaintances to go to Tijuana to hit the clubs, they seem fearful and timid. American guys in the 70's and 80's were adventurers; now many American young guys seem to be soyboys. Too much soymilk and low testosterone levels these days. . . The only ones I have had success in taking to Tijuana were visiting from Tennessee and I took them to lunch at Caesar's restaurant and hitting the clubs afterwards.

[QUOTE=Jinxx;2574815]Guys I worked with in San Diego I would tell them I live in Tijuana and the very first words out of their mouth would be "Hong Kong". I shit you not. It's like the whole entire fact that Tijuana is a big city with a lot going on means nothing other than "Hong Kong" and hookers. Then when I tried to get coworkers to come hang out with me in Tijuana they were all scared to death to cross the border. I had this one guy who was like a 30 year old virgin. He would act like some big tough guy at work. Then when I tried to drag him down to Tijuana to hit the bars. The dude started acting like he was going to panic and call his mommy to save him. I told him bro I'm not going to let you get kidnapped by the cartel. You should've seen the look in his eyes when I jumped on the 805 headed southbound, he looked like he saw a ghost. Lmao![/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=CaptainSolo;2574930]KoolBean,

You have been to many hot spots.

How did you find smoking hot Colombian, Cuban, and Venezuelan women in Miami? Steer me to the right directions.

Try Argentina and Brazil. Prostitution in Brazil is legal, reportedly has millions of prostitutes with the best services. Colombia is open but Cuba is closed; no flights are allowed in.[/QUOTE]I spent a couple days before and after my Caribbean cruise in South Beach couple years back. I can't recall all details, but found ads for massage and went to tiny house off the main strip in South Beach and had a Colombian one day and Venezuelan the next. They even had toys. I spent a couple of days in Ft. Lauderdale before my flight out and went to a Latina MP and a Cuban lady walked in with limited to no English and she gave me a massage and then started riding me bare. I wasn't complaining and just enjoyed the service. It kind of caught me off guard, but when you're in the moment, then hey I have no complaints. I went to the Hard Rock Casino and then called her later to try and get her to come to the hotel, but she said she was going home for the day. The best value for dollar for poon tang in my travels has been Thailand, but maybe because they know how to put the lovin on you. I took one from Soi 6 with me to Cambodia to see Angkor what and it was fun. Sometimes you shouldn't bring sand to the beach as I probably would have shagged other locals, but had brought takeout with me. The sad thing is once you're done with the "fling" some girls actually think they are going to be your partner for life as they cook, tour guide, and even buy dinner sometimes for you. I just learned that I can't be tied down and love variety in life.