Welcome to the Club! (Also, the Cascadas door keys have stopped working)
Sounds like you are ready to join the Goingyourownway dot com blog! Full of divorced guys who have been cured of the need to get married and lose half of everything plus divorce lawyer fees! Much safer in the Tijuana clubs! Also, the door key machine in Cascadas isn't working. Had to have a jefe open my door for me after 2 rekey efforts and when I was having my key activated the 2 d time, there was another guy at the desk doing the same thing. A jefe in the hallway had to open my hotel door and told me the key machine wasn't working today and he was having to open doors for the guests. Asked when the key machine would be fixed and he didn't answer. If you are renting a room today, you might want to go to Rizo instead.
[QUOTE=Jackie888;2604695]I think that the worst thing about partying in the Zona Norte is that I have picked up a healthy dose of mistrust towards women in general, particularly when it comes to money. And unfortunately it has leaked into my personal life and I now distrust all women regarding money, working girl or not.[/QUOTE]
Newbie First Trip Report 9/8-9/10
Hey all, just got back from my first trip to Tijuana last week. I'll try to keep the report concise.
Quick background on myself for context / perspective:
I'm 29, turning 30 soon, Asian-american, live in LA, dress well/fashionably, imo good looking lol, reasonably fit
Historically preferred this hobby in Asia, but we all know how limited that route is right now.
Travel to Tijuana:
-Drove from LA to San Diego Wed. Night 9/8, parked at Palm Avenue trolley station at around 10 pm.
-Took the trolley to the last stop for free (apparently nobody checks if you have a pass).
-Walked through PedEast foreigner side (no line) with an expired passport. Guy stopped me, gave me shit for not having a passport (pretended I forgot mine), asked for my drivers license & finally just let me through.
NO BRIBE requested. Maybe I'm lucky or just look 'innocent'?
-Got through no problems, took a $5 cab to Cascadas, got my VIP card inside HK, went up and started check-in process.
Cascadas:
-initially booked a single deluxe. Got my room and FUCK was this room small. Immediately left and upgraded to a suite.
Don't know how you guys do those tiny ass rooms. Almost made me feel claustrophobic.
-Suite was alright. At least the size was larger. Noisy A/C, but the room did the job. (besides the 1 towel that had some irremovable stain on it).
WIFI no problem.
-Staff pretty accommodating. Security guy at front desk was friendly / acted chummy with the guests.
-Overall, the hotel is 3 stars at best. Reminded me of Angeles City, PH. Definitely not a 5 star hotel in Bangkok or wherever.
-Quickly showered and got dressed before heading down to HK.
HK / Day 1 / Wed at 11:30 pm.
-finally went down to HK and walked inside. Lots of girls, even more dudes. Place was pretty busy I thought.
-took a few laps around for about 10-15 min, sat down random area and started drinking.
Being totally honest, I wasn't too impressed with the talent level there. There were some hotties, but a whole lotta of butter faces.
If there were 50 girls, probably only saw 3-4 girls I'd rate as genuine 8+ babes. The rest were a mix of girls I either didn't feel were worth paying to fuck. Or girls I wouldn't fuck even if they paid me.
For about 1-2 hours, I would drink my drink, take a few laps, order another drink. Rinse and repeat.
Until I finally saw a sexy little spinner show up with pigtails. NGL, I'm a sucker for sexy girls with pigtails.
Walked up to her, asked her if she wanted a drink, she said yes & we quickly found a table upstairs.
Fortunately, we spoke JUST enough of each other's languages for the conversation to be comfortable.
We got drinks, she immediately started gettin touchy feely, into grinding, into light kissing, into my hands all over her body.
After 2-3 drinks and some chit chat, she asked me if I was staying upstairs, I replied 'yes' & asked her if she would want to go up, she replied 'yes'.
Finished our drinks, she ordered some fruit, agreed on $100 and up we went.
Into the room, got comfortable, both started getting undressed, she asked for money first, I convinced her not till after.
She immediately started with BBBJ no questions asked. DFK was pretty consistent, initiated by both of us. By the time the hat was ready to go on, she was wet but need a little help w / lube.
Mish, doggy, lazy doggy, side doggy, CG, busted. She seemed to have enjoyed it but I won't go down that hole of wondering whether it was real or fake enjoyment LOL.
Total session about 45 min. Paid her, she gave me a kiss, and she left. She said she was going back down, but never saw her again afterwards that night.
Great session, will make her a regular if / when I go back down.
Girl #1.
Name: forgot.
Height: 5'2?
Body: 8/10 - petite, with big boobs, silky smooth skin, clean waxed pussy, firm ass (could be bigger).
Face: 8/10 - cute, sexy smile, clean skin.
Sex: 9/10 - BBBJ, DFK, DATY, any position I wanted, no clock watching, no BBFS, did not try CIM.
After resting for a quick 15-20 min. Decided to go back down and try and find another girl. Got back down and it was about 3 am? Little fuzzy on the time as I was drunk enough.
Talent at this point in time definitely got worse, but still good amount of dudes. Found a girl dancing on stage and asked her to get a drink.
Very little english, hard to communicate, but great dancer and bangin body. Face was alright. But she quoted $150 and would NOT budge. Let her go after 1 drink.
At this point, I was just wanting to fuck another girl and wrap up the night. Took a few more laps, found a 6. 5/10 girl with a cute smile and repeated the meet / greet process.
This girl by FAR was the biggest mistake I've made during this first trip. Everything was going well, she seemed into me, sopping wet after 5 min of me touching her body.
I went to take a piss only to come back to find she involved a manager? Guys in black not red. Dudes name was Andrew? Short dude with spikey hair, painted black nails, old blink 182 looking fucker.
Fuck this guy.
Girl had told him I agreed to get her a bucket and the bucket was there by the time I got back. I told him straight up, NO I didn't, but didn't want to stir shit up.
His way of 'apologizing' was to put us in the VIP room no charge minus the fuckin bucket he already brought out & asked to be tipped for.
Whatever, VIP room, she gets naked, doing same shit cept little more intimate. Fingering, touching, etc.
Girl asked to go up, quoted $120, I countered max $90, she agreed, up we went. P.S. Puta barely touches the beer.
I proceed to hate fuck her, but it backfired as she seemed to enjoy it more. Was like swimming in a damn pool.
Won't go into too much detail on the girl as I won't be seeing her again. She had a piercing on her right cheek below the eye w / some shitty tattoos on her fingers.
Girl #2.
Name: puta / don't give a fuck / whatever / she needs the money, I don't.
HK / Day 2 / Thurs at 8 pm.
Repeated the same process as Day 1. Met a cool dude from Texas and we hit it off. Same age range. Dude showed me around Adelitas (not my scene), went back to HK and kept lookin.
At this point, I knew I'd probably hate Thurs-Sun. TOO MANY DUDES. It was a complete sausage fest and line-up was noticeably worse.
Saw my first 9? She was smoking hot. But was ALWAYS busy and never free.
Found another cute spinner with a pretty face and we got chatting. Woulda saw it through but girl kept talking about her Korean boyfriend in San Diego. Bruh.
She was hella reserved, not sure if it was bcz of the boyfriend? 1 drink and bye.
Hunted for a few more hours and honestly couldn't find anything. Thank god, I ran into girl #1 from the night before and she looked to have just arrived.
Quickly snatched her up as I saw a few other dudes staring her down. We got along great, had enough chemistry from the first night & the sex was even better than the night before.
I appreciate a girl that smells nice and she sure as hell did. Exchanged instagrams and told her I'd let her know when I'd be back.
She's potentially bi? Just from our conversations at least. But didn't show in her service.
Travel back to LA:
Now this is where I could really use some advice & needless to say, will continue to read the forum.
Checked out the next morning, took car to border, saw a stupid long ass line to cross back to USA.
Was a little panicked as it was Friday morning and I needed to get back to LA in time for a meeting & it was hot as shit.
Some dudes approached me and said for $20 they'd help me skip the line. I figured why not since I don't have global entry or sentri.
They proceeded to help me skip the majority of the line, in essence taking some other dudes spot in the line.
I probably saved an hour? Not sure if this was a scam but it felt 'worth it'.
After about 30 min waiting, got to CBP, they scanned / swiped my expired passport, no questions asked and let me through.
Conclusion:
Would I go back again? Yes. Would like to see how the place looks Mon-Wed rather than the wiener brigade later in the week.
Thinking about heading back and spending few nights in Tijuana and possibly spending another 2-3 days relaxing on a beach somewhere potentially with girl #1 haha.
On that note, what are the rules around girls working at HK? Are they all freelancers in the sense they can come and go as they please?
Would I be able to bring a girl for a short trip and not have to worry about some contract she has with HK & only worry about her fee?
Trying to avoid Rosarito as the beaches look mediocre / similar to SoCal beaches.
Considered flying elsewhere in MX, but would need to renew my passport first & not sure if even girl #1 would agree to fly having only met once before.
Appreciate any feedback, recommendations, tips, advice, constructive criticism.