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[QUOTE=McAdonis;2549563].....Many men are able lead happy lives having much less sex than we do. You said yourself your older brother introduced you to WGs, but now he prefers drinking beer and hanging out with friends. Did he find religion? Did he get married? Or just got old and lost interest in fornicating? In either case, I suspect your mongering career and thirst for the hobby surpassed his a long time ago, perhaps even when both of you were in your physical prime.[/QUOTE]My brother is not religious and like me not married. He took me to my first visit to a brothel several decades ago; at that time he was already a seasoned monger. He showed me the ropes. However, he has always been a heavy drinker, smoker and gambler. Those activities took precedence over his mongering and indeed sex in general. In my case sex takes second place only to work. Everything else comes after. Is my brother happy? Yes he is. Is he happier than me? He looks so when I see him hanging out with his buddies, but outside of that I don't think he is.

[QUOTE=McAdonis;2549569]According to these ex-playmates, Hefner did not seem like he was into the sex with them. In all fairness, Hefner would have been mid-to-late 70's when this all went down....[/QUOTE]Well you said it, he was in his mid to late seventies when he could cavort with the playmates and not much more but think of all those decades of debauchery with the world's hottest babes. Pure ecstasy.

Continuing along the question: does the lack of warm vaginas lead to men to violence. A good case study might be Tobias Rathjen, 43 year old. This February 2020 mass shooting seemed to fall under the radar, but the shooter had both financial resources (photo of his newish BMW in the article linked below) and proximity to cheap commercial sex. Hanau is a short drive to many FKKs: 7 minutes to Atlanta, 17 min to Mainhattan, 36 min to Sharks. To my knowledge, Rathjen was not religious.

This article offers some commentary on the manifesto Rathjen posted, and makes me wonder if Rathjen was an ISGer himself. Below themes seem present: paranoia, narcissism, superiority of his own race, blaming others for inability to get a wife, delusional about his own significance in the world (elite football player, monitored by secret services), conspiracy theories, hatred for "inferior" races and cultures, called for citizens to wake up and fight now against the cabal of elite who hold secret knowledge.

[QUOTE]Paranoia meets megalomania. A dangerous combination, enriched by the narcissistic insults of the perpetrator.

Rathjen was dissatisfied; he believed that he was being monitored by a secret service and that he was waging war against migrants.

The 43-year-old was apparently a loner. In his manifesto it says that he has "had no wife / girlfriend in his life". In October 2000, he began studying business administration in Bayreuth, also with the hope of finally meeting an attractive woman there. But he did not find his "love happiness".

In his manifesto he expresses himself on more than one side of football: He claims to have been a good player and gives the German Football Association (DFB) strategy tips for the national team.

If you believe the manifesto, Rathjen felt that he was being watched by other people even as a child. Rathjen explained that he could not find a wife because of the influence of the secret services.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Turgid;2549806]My brother is not religious and like me not married. He took me to my first visit to a brothel several decades ago; at that time he was already a seasoned monger. He showed me the ropes. However, he has always been a heavy drinker, smoker and gambler. Those activities took precedence over his mongering and indeed sex in general. In my case sex takes second place only to work. Everything else comes after. Is my brother happy? Yes he is. Is he happier than me? He looks so when I see him hanging out with his buddies, but outside of that I don't think he is.[/QUOTE]Thanks for additional insight. Seems consistent with what we see in Germany, in that many clubs are adjacent to casinos. Although there is probably significant overlap between the two, some men drive past an FKK and go directly to the casino. A t some point, mongering just fell off the list of priorities completely for your brother. Can you point to a life event that triggered that or just old age? I suspect many older mongers just shift their behaviors from purely sexual acts to acts more associated with intimacy. You seem to imply that you are retired now and over the pandemic that you were stuck in sex prison (maybe NYC). This means sex has now shifted to your highest priority. Why not change your homebase to a different place where you can stretch your money farther and place you in closer proximity to mongering?

[QUOTE=TheCane;2549593]Could be, but I know for a fact that many mongers are in fact married, but they won't openly admit it, not even in a place like this. It's due to the added stigma of seeing prostitutes behind the wife's back. That said, I also have one friend whose wife encouraged him to see tutes after she lost her sex drive. She understood that he still had needs. She just had two rules. Number 1, don't spend too much money. And number 2, never bring one of those tutes to her house ever! Now, imagine that![/QUOTE]I'll bet that guy was happy that he wifed her up. Could do a lot worse, for sure. As for WG's always asking the marriage question in the clubs, who the hell knows why they ask? Maybe it's a form of social proof to have a ring? Better they think you have better skills in das zimmer? Less chance of being a stalker? Like I said, I don't understand why they ask the question. Odd.

[QUOTE=Clodius1;2549870]I'll bet that guy was happy that he wifed her up. Could do a lot worse, for sure. As for WG's always asking the marriage question in the clubs, who the hell knows why they ask? Maybe it's a form of social proof to have a ring? Better they think you have better skills in das zimmer? Less chance of being a stalker? Like I said, I don't understand why they ask the question. Odd.[/QUOTE]It's the same reason they ask, what is your name, where are you from, what do you work, etc. No special meaning.

[QUOTE=Mursenary;2549632]Yes, typo. Of all things, Roermond: 58 K.

Synonym for data is facts.

What does capital matter in size of city? Vaduz is the capital of the nation of Liechtenstein. The population of Vaduz is 5,600.

London 9 Million: Mega.

Madrid 3.2 Million: Big.

Lyon 500 K - 1.6 million Metro: Larger Medium.

Saarbruken - 180 K - 700 K Metro: Smaller Medium.

Metz - 116 K - 300 K Metro: Small.

Roermond - 58 K: Tiny / Petit.[/QUOTE]I didn't waste time to check all populations of your data, but at least 1 error. For sure, Metz is not NYC, but once again, not small on EU standards and important town in France. Evry 91 or Aurillac 15 are smaller but also important in France, a bit like Bismarck North Dakota in US.

In highest level Formula 1, data make mistakes on race, when pilots feel the real.

[QUOTE=Clodius1;2549870]I'll bet that guy was happy that he wifed her up. Could do a lot worse, for sure. As for WG's always asking the marriage question in the clubs, who the hell knows why they ask? Maybe it's a form of social proof to have a ring? Better they think you have better skills in das zimmer? Less chance of being a stalker? Like I said, I don't understand why they ask the question. Odd.[/QUOTE]Yeah, I had one at Mainhattan ask me if I was married. Many girls have, but I remember her in particular because of the surprising answer she gave me when I asked her why she wanted to know that. She said because she would not go with any married men LOLOLOL! My first thought was what's to make her think that a monger just wouldn't lie about that? And my second thought was that she wouldn't last long in the business. She didn't. Glad I did her though, because she was a good fuck. And about the last I recall having at Mainhattan too haha!

[QUOTE=Clodius1;2549870]I'll bet that guy was happy that he wifed her up. Could do a lot worse, for sure. As for WG's always asking the marriage question in the clubs, who the hell knows why they ask? Maybe it's a form of social proof to have a ring? Better they think you have better skills in das zimmer? Less chance of being a stalker? Like I said, I don't understand why they ask the question. Odd.[/QUOTE]Nearly all girls ask me and look at my fingers, also about my job. When I m bored, I sometimes answer I work as clown in circus, so they look at me with big eyes. I could also say I'm a criminal in Switzerland, which is not even a lie, to impress them. WGs telling most of guys claim to be businessman, I prefer to say I build for the world and I m proud about, keeping on taking risks outside under virus.

[QUOTE=McAdonis;2549803]Smoking does not hamper one's ability to have sex to the degree of extreme obesity. Most people start smoking in their teens or early 20's when they believe themselves to be invincible. And if used in moderation, I would argue that smoking, drinking, and drugs increases your opportunities to socialize with your peers, and thus ability to get laid. Also average age of death from lung cancer is 70, well beyond the horniest years for the male species. We see many men (aged 40-60) in the clubs smoking like chimneys but still walking up that steep Sharks staircase multiple times a day to swim in warm pussy, whereas extreme obesity would probably lead to death by age 40, and maybe be bedridden a few years before that.
[/QUOTE]No disagreement there. The smoking bit was just an example of people making decisions that hinder their main motivation. Just as the obese man likely knows that his body habitus interferes with an active social and sexual life but chooses to eat the cake anyway. The smoker also knows that his habit substantially shortens his life but still smokes a whole pack anyway.

A person's main motivation may not be reflected by their actions, especially if the barrier of entry or activation energy requires substantial will power. Most people choose the easier path in life, despite any higher or deeper goals.

[QUOTE=Sirioja;2549888]I didn't waste time to check all populations of your data, but at least 1 error. For sure, Metz is not NYC, but once again, not small on EU standards and important town in France. Evry 91 or Aurillac 15 are smaller but also important in France, a bit like Bismarck North Dakota in US.

In highest level Formula 1, data make mistakes on race, when pilots feel the real.[/QUOTE]The Vatican is another very important "city. " It has only 825 official residents.

I'll take my knowledge of my own primary language over a Frenchman's broken English when assessing what connotations are attached to an English word.

[QUOTE=Mursenary;2549632]Yes, typo. Of all things, Roermond: 58 K.

Synonym for data is facts.

What does capital matter in size of city? Vaduz is the capital of the nation of Liechtenstein. The population of Vaduz is 5,600.

London 9 Million: Mega.

Madrid 3.2 Million: Big.

Lyon 500 K - 1.6 million Metro: Larger Medium.

Saarbruken - 180 K - 700 K Metro: Smaller Medium.

Metz - 116 K - 300 K Metro: Small.

Roermond - 58 K: Tiny / Petit.[/QUOTE]Weired, I am pretty sure wikipedia says Madrid has 6. 345 million people in 2019.

Nobody goes by lines on a map definition such as municipality borders etc. Thus I mentioned City of London and Chongqing and simply wrong definition outliers.

That was urban population. At least one can stick to the same definition globally.

Kate from Aca amd GT told me that she prefers to go with unmarried men, not because she has problems with fucking a married guy. It's because she thinks that most married men have smaller leisure budgets, limited personal free time, and thus, more safeguards to prevent spending too much time and money with hookers. Basically, she sees married men as having lower ceilings for profit.

She prefers single men because they are more impulsive, more addictive, have bigger budgets, and more likely to become loyal fans.

[QUOTE=Mursenary;2549912]No disagreement there. The smoking bit was just an example of people making decisions that hinder their main motivation. Just as the obese man likely knows that his body habitus interferes with an active social and sexual life but chooses to eat the cake anyway. The smoker also knows that his habit substantially shortens his life but still smokes a whole pack anyway.

A person's main motivation may not be reflected by their actions, especially if the barrier of entry or activation energy requires substantial will power. Most people choose the easier path in life, despite any higher or deeper goals.[/QUOTE]Isn't being fit, sporty, not smoking nor drinking, more healthy and efficient to fight virus? Not being diabetics of course. Also better to perform in bed, then no need viagra.