Sexual Wellness and other Sex related discussions

[QUOTE=WolfWarrior;2861344]I recently observed a single tiny red pustule appearing on the base of.

My tool. I got freaked out and searched a lot on the internet. I am in a panic mode now as I am unable to understand if it's simply a rash or a something serious like genital wart etc. Can any doctor preset here help me with a clear guidance?? It's very difficult to visit someone on the outside for me. Any help is appreciated. My DM is open.

P.S. (I have never engaged in unprotected sex. Always with due protection).[/QUOTE]Not a doctor, but I can tell you too many STDs and non STDS have similar symptoms that even doctors can sometimes not tell without testing. It will not be possible for a doctor to diagnose you through such limited information. Your only choice is to get tested or see a doctor in person if you want to be sure. And don't worry, most clinics and doctors are professional so you don't have to worry about privacy concerns. Just relax and go see a doctor.

[QUOTE=BeStill;2860148]I got Gardasil 9 at drsafehands clinic.

Folks can check there.[/QUOTE]Can you please guide as to what I should tell the doctor about the reason I need a vaccine? I think hpv is common among women but I learnt from here that men also can actually take the vaccine.

I was under the wrong impression that soaking clothes overnight in a bucket of water (at room temperature) with two big capfuls of dettol (those big white caps on dettol bottles) will be enough to destroy HPV, HSV and all other STD pathogens after a mongering trip. I used to wipe mobile phone with hand sanitizer.

But, a Google search proved that I was wrong and that it is very difficult to kill HPV.

Can anyone suggest the best research proven way to disinfect clothes, mobile phones and other accessories after mongering?

Putting clothes in a washing machine and running a very high temperature cycle and thereafter a long hot drying session will surely be effective but, I cannot dare to do so because it will invite unwanted attention from family.

Can anyone suggest a simple research proven way to disinfect clothes by dipping it in water with some common disinfectant added to the water?

[QUOTE=AlienXXX;2861459]Can you please guide as to what I should tell the doctor about the reason I need a vaccine? I think hpv is common among women but I learnt from here that men also can actually take the vaccine.[/QUOTE]You can say that you have an active sex life, and that you practice safe sex but still want to take the vaccine as you saw it was common in the US. Something on those lines.

[QUOTE=NakedDesires3;2861729]I was under the wrong impression that soaking clothes overnight in a bucket of water (at room temperature) with two big capfuls of dettol (those big white caps on dettol bottles) will be enough to destroy HPV, HSV and all other STD pathogens after a mongering trip. I used to wipe mobile phone with hand sanitizer.

But, a Google search proved that I was wrong and that it is very difficult to kill HPV.

Can anyone suggest the best research proven way to disinfect clothes, mobile phones and other accessories after mongering?

Putting clothes in a washing machine and running a very high temperature cycle and thereafter a long hot drying session will surely be effective but, I cannot dare to do so because it will invite unwanted attention from family.

Can anyone suggest a simple research proven way to disinfect clothes by dipping it in water with some common disinfectant added to the water?[/QUOTE]Not a doctor here, but to the best of my knowledge HPV and HSV are virus based pathogens and cannot stay alive outside the host for more than a few seconds. Some bacteria based pathogens can remain alive, but disinfecting and washing in hot water will most definitely get rid of them. You can also read this information online, lot of reputed doctors have mentioned this in forums. Stay safe!

[QUOTE=NakedDesires3;2861729]I was under the wrong impression that soaking clothes overnight in a bucket of water (at room temperature) with two big capfuls of dettol (those big white caps on dettol bottles) will be enough to destroy HPV, HSV and all other STD pathogens after a mongering trip. I used to wipe mobile phone with hand sanitizer.

But, a Google search proved that I was wrong and that it is very difficult to kill HPV.

Can anyone suggest the best research proven way to disinfect clothes, mobile phones and other accessories after mongering?

Putting clothes in a washing machine and running a very high temperature cycle and thereafter a long hot drying session will surely be effective but, I cannot dare to do so because it will invite unwanted attention from family.

Can anyone suggest a simple research proven way to disinfect clothes by dipping it in water with some common disinfectant added to the water?[/QUOTE]Without sex or skin to skin contact, the HPV virus can't spread. You shouldn't worry about getting infected from clothes.

[QUOTE=BeStill;2860148]I got Gardasil 9 at drsafehands clinic.

Folks can check there.[/QUOTE]After reading reports of gardshil 9 for hpv variants.

I told my fly doctor to get one gardshil 9 for me.

He gave me a intramuscular shot of the vaccine.

But the shock came when I enquired of the cost.

Hehee its mrp is rs 10850.

OMG I said so much for protection of hpv viruses.

And the second shot needs to be taken after 2 months and last shot after 4 months frm second shot. So total one will have to shell out rs 33000 tsd for the complete course of vaccine.

So I was taking tadalafil 10 MG. And it was working like charm for me by keeping erection for atleast one hour. Now since past two times I am not able to achieve erection. Weird thing is without tablet I am doing better. Can someone please advise me why this is happening?

I am planning to undego a routine STI panel test. Saw Dr SafeHands ad and they claim to cover more comprehensively the test than other labs. They are charging 1 K more than other labs. Can any brother share any of their experience with them? In terms of authenticity and service levels?

I was in Pune during the weekend and was contemplating whether to visit Ritu or not. So I logged on to my alternate Whatsapp no. And opened her chat to switch on disappearing messages. I didn't send any message yet as my mind was 50-50 but within 10 minutes, she pinged me asking who am I. I guess she received a notification when I switched on disappearing messages.

Anyways, since she pinged me now my mind was on mission. Quickly discussed the details and fixed the time. I was visiting her after a long time, so had her old coordinates. She sent me the new coordinates and I reached her place.

About the deed. It was the usual. I requested her if she can change into a saree (always had a fantasy), which she obliged. Started with some caressing, DFK, covered BJ and 69. Later moved to WOT and Missionary.

In between the session, the condom slipped off. I am not sure whether I went inside her bareback but my cock touched near her pussy. Not sure whether to be scared or not as Ritu maintains good hygiene. I finished off in missionary with new condom and then she washed me off.

Started second session with a lot of fingering and went DATY. Her pussy was very clean and didn't not give off any smell. DFK and cuddling was superb. Later I finished again in missionary.

I was carrying Listerine with me and after each session I thoroughly rinsed my mouth. But I am a bit tensed about the condom slipping out. In the morning when I woke up, my left area where the jaw ends near the ear is paining whenever I open the mouth or to chew something.

Should I be worried about anything? Is it recommended to start a PEP course. It's been 20 hrs since the deed. If someone can advice here, it would be helpful.

Jaw opening near ear just gets pain if you have opened your mouth too much.

Like during eating big burger or sucking boobs with opening mouth way beyound your limit. .

This cause jaws near tour ear to get lock or pain.

But slip of condi. Better check for STD.

[QUOTE=Tylder;2863967]I was in Pune during the weekend and was contemplating whether to visit Ritu or not. So I logged on to my alternate Whatsapp no. And opened her chat to switch on disappearing messages. I didn't send any message yet as my mind was 50-50 but within 10 minutes, she pinged me asking who am I. I guess she received a notification when I switched on disappearing messages.

Anyways, since she pinged me now my mind was on mission. Quickly discussed the details and fixed the time. I was visiting her after a long time, so had her old coordinates. She sent me the new coordinates and I reached her place.

About the deed. It was the usual. I requested her if she can change into a saree (always had a fantasy), which she obliged. Started with some caressing, DFK, covered BJ and 69. Later moved to WOT and Missionary.

In between the session, the condom slipped off. I am not sure whether I went inside her bareback but my cock touched near her pussy. Not sure whether to be scared or not as Ritu maintains good hygiene. I finished off in missionary with new condom and then she washed me off.

Started second session with a lot of fingering and went DATY. Her pussy was very clean and didn't not give off any smell. DFK and cuddling was superb. Later I finished again in missionary.

I was carrying Listerine with me and after each session I thoroughly rinsed my mouth. But I am a bit tensed about the condom slipping out. In the morning when I woke up, my left area where the jaw ends near the ear is paining whenever I open the mouth or to chew something.

Should I be worried about anything? Is it recommended to start a PEP course. It's been 20 hrs since the deed. If someone can advice here, it would be helpful.[/QUOTE]

Just forget it for some time, I am Doc and I can say that your Jaw opening has nothing do with your penis touching her vagina. If in case you want to be very sure wait for a week, if in case you have burning sensation while passing urine, if you see warts on your penile tip or you have strong itching on your penis. Then you can get a VDRL test done. And for HIV you need to wait for 60-120 days and you can get your HIV and Hepatitis be tests done. In all cases having any of above is rare so feel ok and be careful.

That you roll your condom perfectly till the end of your penis all the time.

[QUOTE=Sachineb;2864256]Jaw opening near ear just gets pain if you have opened your mouth too much.

Like during eating big burger or sucking boobs with opening mouth way beyound your limit. .

This cause jaws near tour ear to get lock or pain.

But slip of condi. Better check for STD.[/QUOTE]

HIV test you need 90 days post exposure so to save your mental torture take PEP. No harm. It's like Dog Bite Level 1 or 2 - you know nothing may happen but you still don't take chances. Being a doctor I can say that it's unlikely you got HIV.

Ritu is probably visited by all active men from aged 16 to 70+ from Pune so she carries risk of other STDs. There was a post on this too a few months back.

Best to be safe. Get checked for other STDs if you have doubt.

[QUOTE=Tylder;2863967]I was in Pune during the weekend and was contemplating whether to visit Ritu or not. So I logged on to my alternate Whatsapp no. And opened her chat to switch on disappearing messages. I didn't send any message yet as my mind was 50-50 but within 10 minutes, she pinged me asking who am I. I guess she received a notification when I switched on disappearing messages.

Anyways, since she pinged me now my mind was on mission. Quickly discussed the details and fixed the time. I was visiting her after a long time, so had her old coordinates. She sent me the new coordinates and I reached her place.

About the deed. It was the usual. I requested her if she can change into a saree (always had a fantasy), which she obliged. Started with some caressing, DFK, covered BJ and 69. Later moved to WOT and Missionary.

In between the session, the condom slipped off. I am not sure whether I went inside her bareback but my cock touched near her pussy. Not sure whether to be scared or not as Ritu maintains good hygiene. I finished off in missionary with new condom and then she washed me off.

Started second session with a lot of fingering and went DATY. Her pussy was very clean and didn't not give off any smell. DFK and cuddling was superb. Later I finished again in missionary.

I was carrying Listerine with me and after each session I thoroughly rinsed my mouth. But I am a bit tensed about the condom slipping out. In the morning when I woke up, my left area where the jaw ends near the ear is paining whenever I open the mouth or to chew something.

Should I be worried about anything? Is it recommended to start a PEP course. It's been 20 hrs since the deed. If someone can advice here, it would be helpful.[/QUOTE]

As a medical practitioner, I can say you have near to nil chance of getting HIV. HIV is a very vulnerable virus. And its not easy to get it.

[QUOTE=Tylder;2863967]I was in Pune during the weekend and was contemplating whether to visit Ritu or not. So I logged on to my alternate Whatsapp no. And opened her chat to switch on disappearing messages. I didn't send any message yet as my mind was 50-50 but within 10 minutes, she pinged me asking who am I. I guess she received a notification when I switched on disappearing messages.

Anyways, since she pinged me now my mind was on mission. Quickly discussed the details and fixed the time. I was visiting her after a long time, so had her old coordinates. She sent me the new coordinates and I reached her place.

About the deed. It was the usual. I requested her if she can change into a saree (always had a fantasy), which she obliged. Started with some caressing, DFK, covered BJ and 69. Later moved to WOT and Missionary.

In between the session, the condom slipped off. I am not sure whether I went inside her bareback but my cock touched near her pussy. Not sure whether to be scared or not as Ritu maintains good hygiene. I finished off in missionary with new condom and then she washed me off.

Started second session with a lot of fingering and went DATY. Her pussy was very clean and didn't not give off any smell. DFK and cuddling was superb. Later I finished again in missionary.

I was carrying Listerine with me and after each session I thoroughly rinsed my mouth. But I am a bit tensed about the condom slipping out. In the morning when I woke up, my left area where the jaw ends near the ear is paining whenever I open the mouth or to chew something.

Should I be worried about anything? Is it recommended to start a PEP course. It's been 20 hrs since the deed. If someone can advice here, it would be helpful.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=PollardPivot77;2864867]As a medical practitioner, I can say you have near to nil chance of getting HIV. HIV is a very vulnerable virus. And its not easy to get it.[/QUOTE]Hello doc,

Could you give all your tips and advice for us mongers / casual sex aficionados.

Of course all of us (I hope) know the basic stuff but just a brief run through withby you as a medical practitioner will help us all in ensuring minimum chances of catching anything. I am particularly concerned since mongering has picked up over past few years and with few ladies serving so many men there is bound to be an issue.

Thanks!