I'm not going to copy Chill Out's posting because it's long but you're absolutely right when comparing a P4P to a non-P4P. The only thing I would add is that a non-pro can also be a strike out so there's a chance you spend money and time but don't end up in bed. I say doubtful that there is no play at / after the second date but you've already spent your baht for the first night and second night. So if you include these strikeouts, average cost goes up a bit. I have to admit that it's pretty cool the way Thai girls just roll with the flow and as long as you don't insult them or have face losing situations. Life is good. But, whether it's a non-pro or pro, they can get extremely jealous and I've even had girls jesture a throat cutting if she caught me playing around on her. Really is odd this jealousy thing, I think P4P sometimes have an illusion that your arrangement may flow into a long term relationship and they get quite territorial but as I said before, some of my former bargirls, who know I don't want long term become friends and even help arrange things for you. It's almost like they protect their turf (you being their lover) until you clearly turf that option.