Pernoites v Terma sessioning
After 22 trips in 7 years, this last one for 3 months and running, for me, at least the reason to go for the pernoites v sessioing in the clubs comes down to:
1. Degree of difficulty. It is at least a challenge in game to get the girl from the terma to the apartment, which is more comfortable (franceska jaimes porno, hip hop of my choice, entrega on call, etc, etc) than the best term cabine; and indicates a degree of interest / trust from the girl.
2. Bang for the buck. A good 1 hour of sex at night, and a good 1 hour of sex in the morning checks the box for 48 hours. Now, the best pernoites check the box for 72 hours. The best pernoites were alexia belucci 2009,2010, which were the 14 hour bang-a-thon with 6 hours of sex, 6 hours of sleeping, BBFS. Those were benchmark pernoites. Second best was a negra this year, which was 5 hours of banging, then an hour of sleeping, another hour of fucking, another hour of sleeping and a half hour of fucking the morning -- that turned into a mini relationship for 3 months, never underestimate the girl needing good fucking too.
3. Hating the time wasters. Let's face it men. The entire terma system is designed to fuck you, and not with sex, rather by taking your money for as little time actually fucking as possible. "Frio" with a pout will waste 3 minutes, or I have to shower (huh? Or 8 other time waters are 3 minutes each, and some men end up with 10 minutes of actual sex for paying for 40 minutes at a rate of 400 or more for that 40 minutes. Huh? The whole experience, from getting your e-ticket at the door, to the overpriced drinks, to all the little bells and whistles until you start fucking are designed to disorient, confuse, and generally screw you out of your money, because let's face it, none of the Brazilians in that particular supply chain really have interest in having sex with you.
So, therefore, turn the tables. Play the game. Pay the 50 at 4 x 4, or 100 at solarium, get numbers. It is sales 101 men. 10 numbers, 2 pernoites, 1 mini relationship. Beat the lazy, stupid, selfish Brazilians at their own game by being more lazy, selfish, and stupid; race to bottom, and win!
Go for the pernoite!
[QUOTE=Hobbyist00;1750440]What I'm picking up from other reviews now is that what I should aim for is to get #s at the clubs and do pernoites? Best bang for the buck it seems.[/QUOTE]
Paying for travel, mini relationships
I don't mind paying. I don't think it's out of the norm. I read on Brazilian boards where guys are paying girls 1500 or 2000 reais for a weekend at Buzios.
The problem for me was two fold:
1. It's a reflection of the economics. "Brazil is the country of the future and it always will be" it is said. With 13% interest rates / inflation, Brazil needs foreign investors to fund infrastructure, including the bundas of its' Class the family women. There is this Brazilian grasping for the 20% like a fish drowning for lack of oxygen. I would have paid the girl 1500 if she'd taken off on Friday morning and come back on Sunday night, enjoyed two nights, and had a good time. But she couldn't manage her accounts well enough that she could get through the weekend without paying 1500 up front, and I was the incremental source of funds, so she A) decided to work on Friday at 4 x4, and then B) demanded 1200 (instead of 1000) from me at the last minute on Friday at 22 h. Knowing it would be a shitty pernoite Friday, and a shitty weekend, I mirrored the bid, fill or kill, and was out. 28 whatsapp messages awaited me the next morning after I woke up after banging another girl. I talked to her on another whatsapp the next day, and she was planning to work at another terma in barra on Saturday.
2. The Vibe. An occupational hazard of whoring is bipolarity. The week before this girl was great. We'd meet in Gavea where I work, and hang out all morning, and then take a taxi to Copa, smoke on the beach, get great massa for lunch, taxi it to centro for her work, she'd come over, sometimes we'd fuck, sometimes we'd just smoke and sleep, sometimes I'd pay her, but I made it clear I wasn't paying for fucking, but to help her with some things that moved towards some goal of some trips together. We had a lot in common, working out, liking to smoke and eat healthy, and so on. But, the fact is she's a hooker, and I like her, so some nights I'd be waiting for her at Rio Branco after 4 x4, and she'd text me that some client booked her for a few more hours at midnight, and instead of sleeping with a girl I like, she'd be getting banged by another dude. So, clearly what happened on the Friday in question is she'd been fucking another guy in 4 x 4, or maybe she didn't, and she got on her cell and demanded 1200, thinking the gringo is always good for the deficit in her contas. Well no.
And that's the problem with most of these Brazilians, not just the professionals sex workers, now, in the middle of a long awaited, well predicted recession. There are fewer clients around, and they are not making as much money, so they demand more and more from the few gringos who are around, and the gringos for the most part have a lot more cash than the local men, even the highest paid Brazilians. My view is hold the line, and not only hold the line, but push back and tell them, as shitty attitude is unacceptable. But, the reason that Brazil is the country of the future and it always will be is that the Brazilian way is to get even more selfish and insular, caught up in all the niceties of being Brazilian, the differences in pronunciation between Cariocas and Paulistanas, as if anyone really gives a shit, and all the rest, until the only people admiring their problem is a bunch of broke Brazilians.
So, I got a few text messages from her, I didn't even try to figure out what they meant or how I should respond. I've had mini relationships on and off some going back 7 years, some 3 years. This won't be one of them.
The key with pros is that they are a training ground for relationships with non pros. For every time that one goes to a pro venue, say a terma, one should also go to a non pro venue, as a benign example, a gym, say SmartFit. Without naming the exact place, I must say that at a swim this afternoon, I really enjoyed watching 3 young women practice synchronized swimming right beside me when I was doing my laps. A few weeks ago at boxing practice, there were two girls and two guys in the class, and the instructor would have me box the women, with the provision that the girls could throw every punch, and I could throw none. I thoroughly enjoyed getting to know a very petite, fit, aggressive girl from Meier who I made chase me around the room while she punched me in the head, even landing a punch or two. Got her number as well.
[QUOTE=Bravo;1748324]To be honest, I don't see why you would have to pay anything to take a girl there, she should jump at the chance to go. A weekend in Buzios is a great getaway vacation. Every carioca I have ever met, loved going there! (She did you a favor, you probably would not have had a good time with either one).[/QUOTE]
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Barbie. Monte Carlo (formerly Solarium)
Kissing: Yes.
Anal: Don't know.
BBBJ: Yes.
Barbie at Monte Carlo was my latest TD, held tonight, Saturday, July 25. She's a former Solarium girl who just went over to Monte Carlo. She has a really awesome body (see picture). We started with DFK, fondling, and the usual dating. I'd seen this girl several times in Solarium and Monte Carlo, where we just DFK, but today, I pulled the trigger.
In the cabine, I started by giving her a long session of oral, licking her blond pussy and ass. She returned the favor, and I rate her blow job in the top 10% of blow jobs. Long, slow deep throat, licking, lots of eye contact, ball sucking and licking, really terrific. We did 69 and it was pretty awesome, licking her pussy from behind. She moved down my body with her legs spread and put her pussy on my dick and grinded around with her pink sex hole all exposed and threatening to engulf my dick.
I put on a condom and fucked her from behind in doggy style first. She's tight and gets wet and we fucked for a good 5 or 10 minutes. Then we went to missionary and fucked. She got on top of me and rode my dick again. I got behind her again for doggy style, and finished in her tight pussy.
Ivan at Monte Carlo is a good man and very helpful. Went over with Cartman, and have been there with AZN Safado, MikeDoesBookz, and other mongers. There is a hierarchy of GDPs in Rio, with the top tier termas (Solarium, Monte Carlo, 4 x 4) exchanging the top girls, some of whom go freelancer for a while. After the tier 1 termas, there are tier 2 termas, and prives. Barbie is a great example of a top tier terma girl at the best. Recommended! Will repeat.
Mini relationship. Surf girl. On again, broke the bed
There are pluses and minuses to writing about mini relationships, in medias res.
The plus is good feedback from other men, and it outweighs the negatives, on balance.
The negatives are to reveal the travails of a gringo dating a GDP.
So, it's on again with Surf Girl. She texted a few times late in the week, and we did pernoite again on Friday, and it was pretty great as always.
Without recounting the CPF (cost per fuck), we banged at night.
We banged 3 times in the morning. We both work out. Now, I have a bed that cants at 8 degrees.
We took a luxe blue bus to zona sul, and I enjoy these times in between.
Tried to swim at a clube where the locals want to charge 160 reais for 15 days of access (grasping for currency); sat around at shopping gavea, thought she would want to do lunch; went back to the apartment, then onto another gal in zona sul.
We're talking about buzios for 3 days next week; maybe Minas Gerais after that. We will see. We're even talking about steps further than that. Who knows?
Life in Rio doesn't suck. It rains, but the game continues.
500 for the pernoite.