I don't think this approach is productive.
[QUOTE=C Jack Sparrow; 1554446]Let the girl manipulate you. And then you manipulate her even more. That's the Pirate trick! Fall in love with 2 novias! That's shouldn't be so hard after all! It's very delightful actually!
My Colombian non-piracy female friend: "Jack, en Colombia es muy dificil quedar fiel", in Colombia it's very hard to stay faithful.
It's not just gringos. There's always a lot of lust in the air in Colombia! Always![/QUOTE][QUOTE=Dealdo; 1554491]You maybe right. I just said what a veteran monger in Philippines told me. I never do mongering in Asia, is just not my taste. So I have no more info than what friends tell me. He said in Manila Asian dudes from rich countries have the preference and white dudes are not that lucky in his experience (he is white) ,
But well the point is that. In Latin America you have to be handsome or a real good player to get a hottie for free or almost free, remember that these countries are full of very handsome dudes and real good players and they are locals, They know what girls like, want etc.
Average girls, well, average guys can have a shot just like everywhere else.
In another hand if you are willing to spend a lot of money with them, then you are talking again about paying in another way and more than a flat rate.
This is just logic stuff, and is been said soo much that sounds redundant, Is just 101 mongering, If that was the real case the whole industry wouldn't be that successful. And is a big profit industry everywhere, just because you can't fuck cheap or free all the hotties you see walking on the malls and the cheerleaders from your college. Medellin also is just life, not utopia land. Want a hottie and you are not a player you have to pay the price in many ways.[/QUOTE]I am amused and somewhat dismayed to read stuff like this. Starting with "just logic stuff" one has to determine what you're looking for. If it's good sex with a sex worker, they are ubiquitous in Medellin. The sought for "GFE" experience has got to be informed by what the vast majority of these girls long for, and that is some type of security and care. Unless you're the one a year sex tourist, it's always a problem of too many girls, not enough. Free? There is no free pussy, never was and never will be. There are always expectations, and it's dishonorable to lie about your intentions. If you find a girl or girls that you enjoy sharing time with, simply show her a little care. And that reasonably requires some money. There is always a need, and you must learn to say "no."
And, this is not a "paying the price in many ways." To the contrary, it's an opportunity to actually help someone in her life. The attention and affection will be free flowing. And this small exercise in suppression of the ego will make you feel better about yourself, and the sex with be much better.
Try spreading a little good energy.
Amigo, I don't instruct worth a damn
[QUOTE=Dealdo; 1554678]I had a very hard time trying to understand your points of view, too much sweetness for my testosterone I guess.
What are we looking for? Is this a rel question? What we look in this board? Flash news, we look for paid sex, don't we? Some look for hard core sex some others for some soft or even just a HJ, is all just paid sex. If we are looking for romance and sht, well, there are plenty of harmony dot coms around. I'm cynic I know, but I just like the naked truth, no tags or camouflages, You just said it, for average monger there is no free or cheap sex with hot girls. The tenderness that you always pour here is Ok for you, not for me, and this is a board for paid sex and not a forum of philosophy, is not a forum for romance and kissy kiss hobby. I know some dudes like to share their conquers and good luck just for the addition to show off and feed their enormous ego, make you think they are better than you and me, and Is Ok wile it doesn't mislead us to believe that the rabbit's hole is the gate to our reality. Your feeling of helping people is Ok, is nice, I won't do this because I know most of them will be fucking their BFs and laughing behind my back wile I'm gone. That happens more often than we like to accept. If somebody is poor and have no money to "support" their "studies" and you are not a good looking dude or a very good player, you simply don't have a slim chance of bed them. It would be so cool if girls really look at your "soul" and warm sensitive heart. That is not the case of most girls in the planet, especially hot girls. And this would be the last sentence I will answer, no need to agree or disagree with me. Is just my way of helping really. My time of believing in fairy tales is way gone. If we have romances or we are very lucky in love I don't think this is the right place to disclose them out. Just my point of view. Not bad energy, is just the sad truth just like is truth the volcanoes and natural disasters is something that is real even though we don't like it.[/QUOTE]How is this self proclaimed "cynic" attitude working for you? When we advise about the "truth" it is simply a reflection of what we see in ourselves. And, as an aside, this self proclaimed "this would be the last sentence I will answer" are the words of a control freak. If you can't defend your philosophy, don't write about it.
I'm certainly not critical of P4P. My point is simply that sex with a beautiful girl in Medellin is easier than finding a good pizza, a lot easier. At some point in time it is more rewarding to engage with another human being at a more substantive level than sticking your dick into a female body. We choose what we think. We choose what we feel. I can understand why you find no tranquility, peace or satisfaction, other than getting your rocks off, with the explanation of "we don't like it" as if cold and impersonal treatment is the inevitable. Obviously, people cannot look at a "warm and sensitive heart" if it doesn't exist. But, my amigo, that's your choice.
Only good energy. We all have it if we choose to spread it around.
A good pizza aint that hard to find
[QUOTE=Legal Tender; 1554768]How is this self proclaimed "cynic" attitude working for you? When we advise about the "truth" it is simply a reflection of what we see in ourselves. And, as an aside, this self proclaimed "this would be the last sentence I will answer" are the words of a control freak. If you can't defend your philosophy, don't write about it.
I'm certainly not critical of P4P. My point is simply that sex with a beautiful girl in Medellin is easier than finding a good pizza, a lot easier. At some point in time it is more rewarding to engage with another human being at a more substantive level than sticking your dick into a female body. We choose what we think. We choose what we feel. I can understand why you find no tranquility, peace or satisfaction, other than getting your rocks off, with the explanation of "we don't like it" as if cold and impersonal treatment is the inevitable. Obviously, people cannot look at a "warm and sensitive heart" if it doesn't exist. But, my amigo, that's your choice.
Only good energy. We all have it if we choose to spread it around.[/QUOTE][url]Http://medellinliving.com/best-pizza-in-medellin/[/url]
Thank God, they are horny, beautiful and love sex.
Geez, I thought It was all about the cash?
