Sexual Wellness and other Sex related discussions

[QUOTE=MongeringSoul;2870511]I visited a spa yesterday and had FS. I first did it in Missionary and then switched to Doggystyle. I am sharing this, because, when I switched positions, the condom was still intact. Now in doggy, the pumped her 4-5 times vigorously and cummed. When I pulled out, I could see that the condom had tore and my dick was almost bare inside here. The tip of the condom had cum on it and a major portion of the cum was inside here. She seemed pretty chill about it. But I am freaking out. I did not feel the condom tearing and I feel that it tore at the last moment (when I was cumming, hence the tip portion had some cum, not a lot though), however, I am not sure about this. I cleaned myself with water at the spa itself.

It has been 24 hours now and I am slowly getting tensed. I read online and saw 2 differing views. Some are saying that this is low risk, and I would be ok, another group is saying I should start PEP immediately. I am going to visit a doctor tomorrow and get guidance, however, I would like to know what all of you feel about this? Is this considered high risk? What are the side effects of PEP. I have a road trip with family planned up at the end of this week and I cannot miss it as it is planned months in advance (part of family coming from abroad) and I would have to drive a major portion and hence have to be totally fit for it.[/QUOTE]It is not about low risk. It is about the damage associated with this low risk bro that is more important. My advice seek doctor first as early as possible and then he will calm you as it might be reassuring than forum members. If he advices you to take prep take it. Follow the expert that would be my advice.

Still do not take anxiety. And act bro. Nothing to be worried.

Just want to understand how much we are at risk if we receive it?

Few days back I had it, since then I have a sometime differnt feeling in my A. Not painful, not itching, not scratching. May be tickling like or a feeling bit loose there. Is this something to worry about?

Also what should be points to keep watch before and after receiving?

Hi,

In recent past I find it difficult to have 2 sessions, taking pill or without it. From start I take time to come, so I can't have it quickly again. And normally these ladies want to wrap after 1st long round and move out.

Any suggestion? I am just above 40 and have a sugar.

Hey bros,

Recently I discovered a new problem in me. Experts please give solution.

I am 26 year old unmarried male.

Started my first sex just one year before.

While having sex I realized I don't last long like for the first round within 2-3 minutes of penetrations. In the second round I delay somewhat to more than 5-10 minutes.

But that was still ok for me.

Now I visited two massage parlour.

And took massage from 2 hot girls.

In the whole process my jonny was erected no problem in that.

But while doing the extra service I couldn't even last 1 minute. I am still surprised how this thing is happening to me.

1) the first lady after massaging for 45 min started the extra. Here she only did HJ with boobs access. But I cum in less than 2 minutes. And in second round also less than 2 minutes.

2) second lady too after 45 min just put some oil on my penis and started B2B. Just few steps like pushing my dick inside her boobs and when her outer pussy just touched my penis I cum. It's like 2- 3 minutes. Why am I cumming so early?

For your information I already masturbated twice that day before going to the massage parlour and the two massage parlour I visited in the same day.

Friends,

I went to a msg. There the therapist agreed for full Nu. I wore double protection and went top of her she took my penis and kept inbetween her thighs (I don't remember where exactly she kept). After a couple of strokes within 30 secs I cum out. When I moved from her I found the the protection was slipped away. It was dark and I couldn't know what exactly happened.

She told me I inserted only between her legs (yes it could be true) but I am worried what if while stroking it went inside her p or if my penis head touched her v* fluids. Will I get any HIV or STD because of this act.

Will kissing a sx work get me any disease? I already have herpes. Is there any other?

Please advise. It's exactly 30 day today. Can I go for a test or I should take it on 45th day. Dr safe hds mentioned 28 days is the window period. Please share your suggestions.

[QUOTE=Mona224;2872469]Hey bros,

Recently I discovered a new problem in me. Experts please give solution.

I am 26 year old unmarried male.

Started my first sex just one year before.

While having sex I realized I don't last long like for the first round within 2-3 minutes of penetrations. In the second round I delay somewhat to more than 5-10 minutes.

But that was still ok for me.

Now I visited two massage parlour.

And took massage from 2 hot girls.

In the whole process my jonny was erected no problem in that..[/QUOTE]If you are fit and don't have any underlying illnesses like diabetes, asthama etc, then if seems psychological or habit issue. You have either trained your penis to ejaculate fast due to excessive masturbation or you get too excited about sex or both. I would suggest to stop masturbation completely and after 15 days or so visit MP and in mind make sure you aren't worried about ejaculating early. Because as soon as you think "I shouldn't ejaculate", you will ejaculate.

Also don't feel embarrassed about ejaculating early in front of WGs. The girls absolutely adore someone who finishes fast because they get same money for less effort and they also feel they are too sexy and hence you finished fast.

Trust me, I am now being asked by girls to finish fast after 15 minutes of intercourse as they are getting tired. I once fucked a WG for 60 minutes with hardly a break of 5 minutes and in 3-4 different positions, and afterwards she said if you go above 25-30 minutes there will be extra charges. So there's that.

And yeah I used to last 10-15 minutes only. After visiting same girl multiple times, my timings improved and now I easily go 30+ minutes if I want to. Practice makes it perfect is the mantra here.

[QUOTE=IndianSexGuy;2872907]If you are fit and don't have any underlying illnesses like diabetes, asthama etc, then if seems psychological or habit issue. You have either trained your penis to ejaculate fast due to excessive masturbation or you get too excited about sex or both. I would suggest to stop masturbation completely and after 15 days or so visit MP and in mind make sure you aren't worried about ejaculating early. Because as soon as you think "I shouldn't ejaculate", you will ejaculate.

Also don't feel embarrassed about ejaculating early in front of WGs. The girls absolutely adore someone who finishes fast because they get same money for less effort and they also feel they are too sexy and hence you finished fast.

Trust me, I am now being asked by girls to finish fast after 15 minutes of intercourse as they are getting tired. I once fucked a WG for 60 minutes with hardly a break of 5 minutes and in 3-4 different positions, and afterwards she said if you go above 25-30 minutes there will be extra charges. So there's that.

And yeah I used to last 10-15 minutes only. After visiting same girl multiple times, my timings improved and now I easily go 30+ minutes if I want to. Practice makes it perfect is the mantra here.[/QUOTE]Thank you so much bro.

Just one more question. Should I involve in sex more often to increase my timing? Because I am new to sex that's why I always get excited to sex and cum early or should I keep myself away from sex?

[QUOTE=Mona224;2872469]Hey bros,

Recently I discovered a new problem in me. Experts please give solution.

I am 26 year old unmarried male.

Started my first sex just one year before.

While having sex I realized I don't last long like for the first round within 2-3 minutes of penetrations. In the second round I delay somewhat to more than 5-10 minutes.

But that was still ok for me.

Now I visited two massage parlour.

And took massage from 2 hot girls.

In the whole process my jonny was erected no problem in that.

But while doing the extra service I couldn't even last 1 minute. I am still surprised how this thing is happening to me..[/QUOTE]If you are fit and don't have no issues start taking gokshura and ashwagandha tablets one each in morning or before sleep and exercise yoga you will see difference and as mentioned don't masturbate and relax be open no stress I have the same issue working on it myself.

[QUOTE=Mona224;2872994]Thank you so much bro.

Just one more question. Should I involve in sex more often to increase my timing? Because I am new to sex that's why I always get excited to sex and cum early or should I keep myself away from sex?[/QUOTE]Excess of everything is bad general tendency is 2 shots a week minimum depending on your age health etc etc.

[QUOTE=Mona224;2872994]Thank you so much bro.

Just one more question. Should I involve in sex more often to increase my timing? Because I am new to sex that's why I always get excited to sex and cum early or should I keep myself away from sex?[/QUOTE]If your budget allows, do it twice a week. Should be sufficient.

Then your body and mind will get used to it and timing will keep improving. Don't feel sad or disappointed if it doesn't improve in couple of months. It takes time to break a habit.

In this video, Jonathan from the Institute of Human Anatomy discusses how Viagra works to assist with erectile dysfunction. He also discusses how the medication should be used, safety & side effects, and even compares it to Cialis. Also. Some Viagra jokes at the end of the video.

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I used half pill of suhagra 25 MG (just for fun, do not have any ED problem. Very bad idea). It had no impact for 12 hours. The body was just warm. But I got sore throat and fever / chills after 24 hours. Its 48 hours now and I have have 100 F. Body is also moderately warm (flushing). Can someone please share their experience using it first time. I am confused about starting the side effects 18 to 24 hours later and still continuing.

Please share if someone had these effects after 2 days also. Little concerned. Cannot make anythig out of this.

[QUOTE=JustFunn;2873473]I used half pill of suhagra 25 MG (just for fun, do not have any ED problem. Very bad idea). It had no impact for 12 hours. The body was just warm. But I got sore throat and fever / chills after 24 hours. Its 48 hours now and I have have 100 F. Body is also moderately warm (flushing). Can someone please share their experience using it first time. I am confused about starting the side effects 18 to 24 hours later and still continuing.

Please share if someone had these effects after 2 days also. Little concerned. Cannot make anythig out of this.[/QUOTE]Read my post in this thread. I didn't have any such side effects, and in fact fever / sore throat isn't even listed as side effect for sildenafil. You seem to have caught something else like seasonal flu or something.

[QUOTE=IndianSexGuy;2873503]Read my post in this thread. I didn't have any such side effects, and in fact fever / sore throat isn't even listed as side effect for sildenafil. You seem to have caught something else like seasonal flu or something.[/QUOTE]Agree. I would have thought so since these side effects started after 18-24 hours and it was just half a pill. But the major symptom is body flushing. It has been warm. Feeling better now on 3rd day.

[QUOTE=JustFunn;2873473]I used half pill of suhagra 25 MG (just for fun, do not have any ED problem. Very bad idea). It had no impact for 12 hours. The body was just warm. But I got sore throat and fever / chills after 24 hours. Its 48 hours now and I have have 100 F. Body is also moderately warm (flushing). Can someone please share their experience using it first time. I am confused about starting the side effects 18 to 24 hours later and still continuing.

Please share if someone had these effects after 2 days also. Little concerned. Cannot make anythig out of this.[/QUOTE]Body flushing is a known symptom of these pills, but whether yours is related to that, I can't tell. These pills help by dilating the blood vessels and hence more blood might reach your tissues and hence flushing happens. This is also the reason why this pill is not recommended for those suffering from heart ailments or low BP.

Have never used these pills before, but from what I have read, these pills only work if your problem is physiological (mostly with older folks who have difficulty maintaining the erections due to poor health, poor blood circulation, etc. But if your problem is psychological (chronic stress, anxiety, excessive porn or masturbation problems), then these pills won't help you because the signals from the brain that are necessary for arousal never get there or are weak, so no amount of pumping pills is going to help.

A good article on this here - [URL]https://www.artofmanliness.com/health-fitness/health/porn-induced-ed.[/URL].