Almost 1000 pages for Medellin!
Hi guys!
I am a French guy lost in Colombia.
I leave Medellin Monday.
Someone can give me few address where to drink quietly looking and nice girl before to finish drunk and bring the first who pass around me to my hotel?
Or better join me for a drink, first round on me!
Paisas vs. Venezolanas, equal in beauty, bad vs. Good manners
In my recent cyber activity a have noticed a striking difference between paisas and Venezolanas, approaching them on dating sites.
Venezolanas behave well. I feel honored. I have got contact with beautiful girls I never, never thought would reply to me, and in very a friendly way.
At least 50% of Colombianas that really look good are webcammodels or prepagos looking for clients and many detest the idea of a relationship with a foreigner, even though there are many good looking guys amongst "us" for these beauties. Easy money and freedom before obligations, even if everything will be paid for as a Colombian trophy wife.
Which leads us to the Q: Has recent years great influx of "gringos" in Medellin made the beauties arrogant here? I. E. Is this a sign of a new trend of "social inflation". Paisas know their value and that there always comes more gringos than where here last time she was digging gold? While on the other hand their sisters in Venezuela has almost nobody visiting them.
(Luxury) Prostitution has then become a way of living during a large part of many girls lifes. And it has become a norm, more than an exception. Everybody knows about it, where all the money comes from, but since they benefit from it they look the other way and accept it. The girls act more and more professional and they are many more than before.
Very broad generalizations
[QUOTE=C Jack Sparrow; 1557037]In my recent cyber activity a have noticed a striking difference between paisas and Venezolanas, approaching them on dating sites.
Venezolanas behave well. I feel honored. I have got contact with beautiful girls I never, never thought would reply to me, and in very a friendly way.
At least 50% of Colombianas that really look good are webcam models or prepagos looking for clients and many detest the idea of a relationship with a foreigner, even though there are many good looking guys amongst "us" for these beauties. Easy money and freedom before obligations, even if everything will be paid for as a Colombian trophy wife.
Which leads us to the Q: Has recent years great influx of "gringos" in Medellin made the beauties arrogant here? I. E. Is this a sign of a new trend of "social inflation". Paisas know their value and that there always comes more gringos than where here last time she was digging gold? While on the other hand their sisters in Venezuela has almost nobody visiting them...[/QUOTE]CJS,
I believe you are over generalizing the situation. You can't compare the dating habits of a countries girls by what you find going on on a social website for one city. For example you compare Medellin to Venezuela. Instead of Medellin to let's say Caracas. And as far as a Paisa knowing her worth, I believe we all know that a "working" Paisa knows her worth, or at least thinks she does.
There is also the factor of what you are calling "dating" sites. Are you talking about FB? Because that is not a dating site. A true dating site like let's say Latin Euro.
[url]www.latineuro.com[/url]
Is probably the most forthcoming and honest international dating site I've encountered. I found them 20 years ago when they had a printed version instead of just the website. (Back then they had mostly girls from the recently collapsed USSR, they were outrageously gorgeous!). The company does it's best to pre-screen the girls to try and make sure they are truly looking to date / and or be in a serious relationship with a foreigner. So the chances are extremely low (in the Medellin section) that you will be meeting webcam girls or prepagos.
Now, when you say many Paisas detest the idea of a relationship with a foreigner, again this is a broad generalization (and you did say amongst the prepagos and webcam girls who are obviously just trying to make a buck). There is the age group that must be taken into consideration as well. There is always the exception but the average 18 to 25 year old Paisa is not going to date or be in a serious relationship with a foreigner if she has an active social network of friends. However, I believe that as the girl gets older, Let's say 25 to 30 +. She knows where she stands in the social ladder and if she has settled down with a fellow Colombian she is fine. But a still single one (and perhaps with a child or two) now sees her chances of social climb are far more better suited to being able to get into a relation with a foreigner than a local.
But let's get down to one very important reality. Why are you socializing with the Venezuelans? Are you planning to visit Caracas? Is that really a good idea especially at this time? I'm sure many of us mongers on this board would gladly hop over to Caracas (there's a one hour flight from Medellin that takes of from the valley and not Rio Negro). But at this time it does not makes sense to do so because of the safety issues (everyone I've ever spoken to that went to Caracas to monger has been mugged at least one time).
Stay horny my friends,
Cubanut
Latin Euro is just another option
[QUOTE=C Jack Sparrow; 1557538][url]http://www.planet-love.com/index.php?topic=221.0[/url]
This site have profiles of girls so beautiful that it ridiculous! Why would they be there? It's considered to be a scam site, the most comments point in the same direction; the profiles are old, inaccurate and hence you will never get in contact with these state of the art models, that's the general impression reading reviews.
Save your time and money!
(but be happy to take a sneak-peak if you like to dream of dating pornstars) [/QUOTE]CJS,
You base your entire decision that LatinEuro is a scam from 1 post that was made back in 2007? I'm not shilling for them but back when I first found them in 1994 it was mailing addresses and phone numbers they gave. I would think by now the contacts they give are now cell numbers and email.
Anyway it also is possible for you to Vania at Latin Euro directly to them (they give their address, email and phone number) if you have any questions or problems. And they also offer a live translator service with Mara to help. And quite frankly you can't really go wrong if you just try a few contacts.
So think what you want. But remember that there are many posts that are made on sites to discourage guys so they do not use the resources available. I'm thinking how many times I've read post about Colombia being an awful place to visit and all the girls are less than pretty and all scamers etc. All because someone wants to keep the place their personal playground.
I would consider LatinEuro just another option if you feel that FB is full of (or as you wrote before 50% full of scamers).
Cheers,
Cubanut