[quote=wendella]just in case i gave the wrong impression, i wasn't doubting his accuracy or sincerity on it, just wondering where he'd heard or read it. i would be interested to read up on it myself, so if you or anyone can point me toward which ngo's, sex-worker union reports or newspaper stories, i'd go check those out. i'm not one to try to turn a blind eye to how things really do play out. have seen some particularly nasty things in cambodia at different times, mainly years ago. it can be quite ugly, i know.[/quote]
not at all, just trying to be helpful. you can get most of it by googling (there's online newspapers in english and many groups have their own webpages). i travel alone and spoke to and got to know as many people as i could in cambodia in various walks of life. some patterns emerge and the same stuff comes up repeatedly. there's also ngos that know what they're doing and those that don't have a clue. i've also consumed about half a dozen books on cambodia - the ones by respected journalists are especially helpful. and i found absorbing the complicated history very enlightening - otherwise it was hard to make sense of khmers' allegiances and their often seemingly incongruous smiles. one of the reasons i stay in ratholes like walkabout i think is that less is covered up and i find what's really going on more interesting than the sanitised versions on sisowath or the 'nicer' parts of towns. but it's not for everyone. i don't blame anyone that just wants to pop in to a nice hotel and get some pussy served daily without too many questions! i find digging deeper more satisfying in the long run, but not everyone has the time for this.
there are horror stories that don't bear thinking about. "what's that building?" i ask my english-speaking ex-army moto driver in the countryside on the way back to battambang. "it's for children who have been raped," he says quietly.
