copied and pasted from a post made back in 2009
[QUOTE=Ricker;1570835]Yeppp you're totally correct. Plenty of ColUmbians in SJO. Best to go no further and just stay in SJO.[/QUOTE]I have made 19 trips to CR & 6 trips to COL. I am hesitant to say I am a member of the "CR Sucks Club," but...
1. Medellin is a beautiful, world-class city while San Jose is well, just San Jose: cry:. Medellin is clean and modern, and its residents seem to take pride in it. If you play by the rules, you probably are safer in Medellin in spite of some of the problems lurking beneath the surface.
2. IMO, the quality of women in Medellin (in terms of looks, attitude and pricing) is much better than San Jose.
3. San Jose attracts a greater variety of women: Ticas, Nicas, Colombianas, Dominicanas, etc. Than Medellin. However, in Medellin, you will find a variety of colombianas from all over the country (European hispanics, blacks, morenas and indigenous).
4. Excluding the MM / EC operation, San Jose is more retail-oriented for mongering. Most of the action is concentrated in the gulch which is pretty easy to navigate after a trip or two. In Medellin, the action is spread out and it takes more time to learn your way around. Your efforts will be rewarded though, because there are many more venues to meet pros, semi-pros and non-pros.
5. English is spoken more in San Jose than in Medellin. You will find it easier to meet chicas and navigate, in Medellin, if you know some Spanish.
6. The overall cost of chicas, accomodations and meals in Medellin is less expensive than in San Jose.
7. Transportation in Medellin is superior to what is available in San Jose. There is nothing like the Metro transportation system in San Jose. A trip on the Metro costs less than 70 cents and you can get from one end of the city to the other in a matter of minutes. Medellin taxis are relatively inexpensive just like in San Jose.
8. Although mongering is prevalent in Medellin, it is not tolerated in public as well in San Jose. Sure, many Colombianos make good use of the ubiquitos casas and / or have a girlfriend or novia on the side...but they enjoy them quietly and discreetly. We can do the same and still enjoy ourselves. (The anecdotal middle-aged gringo with a 20 yo paisa in a public place does draw unwanted attention). : roll: I saw the looks and heard some of the comments when my novia and I met my 72 yo buddy with his 19 yo Mansion date at the Oviedo Crepes & Waffles. It does pay to keep a low profile when in Medellin and Colombia in general. The ultimate move to assure your privacy, and a degree of discretion, is to book an apartment. If it has multiple bedrooms and baths, you always have the option of sharing it with a wingman or two. Two or three wingmen make an ideal-sized group for doing all the activities you came for in the first place, yet small enough to stay below the radar. You'll end up with some pretty nice accommodations for a fraction of the cost of a standard hotel room. : wink:
9. Medellin is much larger than San Jose and "absorbs" extranjeros better. In San Jose, we trip over other gringos on the streets and in the bars, restaurants and hotels. Not so in Medellin. When I did extended stays in areas like Laureles and Guayabal, I have gone as long as a week without seeing other gringos. When I did see them, it was in areas like Poblado, Aves Maria (Sabaneta) or when I hooked up with CRT and **** guys. It's the same in the outlying pueblos of the Antioquia countryside. This is not much of a problem for me. But for those of us who enjoy the continual company of fellow countrymen...it may be.
Venturing Out Solo: A Precautionary Tale
Found this post over at C R T. It's a good post about how a newbie monger almost ended up in a world of shit while venturing out alone:
By [B]Dskreet[/B]:
"Up early. After Erica made my breakfast, I headed over to Energy again alone hoping to see one that I regretted passing up the day before but there was an entirely different crew there. Most of them were 7's but I still wasn't feeling it. I thought Olga may have permanently injured me.
Decided to head out on the Metro to the Metro Cables up to ARVI. I felt like Anthony Bourdain doing that on my own even though I know that he always has a least a cameraman with him. It was a beautiful day and I met a lady from Mexico who spoke perfect English with her paisa girlfriend on the way up. We had a pleasant, non-mongering type of conversation.
At the top, they headed out on a guided tour and I opted to sample the street food like I was on the Travel Channel or something. Finally decided to head back down and [b]made a series of stupid mistakes[/b].
First, I got into a cable car with four Colombian men in their late 30's or early 40's. After a while, I realized that they were talking about me and wondering where I might be from. One of them guessed Aleman!
Eventually, we began a very strained conversation. When they asked me if I was alone and what I did for a living, I told them the truth. Then one of them pulled out a cell phone and made a call. At that point, I realized that I had made a huge blunder.
When the Arvi cable got to the bottom of the first leg down, they invited me to go with them to the ticket window for the next cable car down to the Metro. I feigned an urge to use the bathroom and shook free. Then I waited for ten cable cars to leave the platform before I got into the next car with a family. Disaster avoided. Lessons learned. Next time I am asked if I'm alone, I know to say that no, there are about 10 other Gringos waiting for me, and when I'm asked what I do, I now know to say that I'm a missionary.
Got back to the mansion and it was dead. Either all of the Chicas were with boyfriends for Saturday night, or at Liquid Lounge' grand opening. I wasn't going back to that place even if Shakeera and Jennifer Lopez were there. Went to bed by 10:00 pm exhausted and slept like a rock. Thanks, Olga!"
Lesbian Show Tonight at Liquid
See the Liquid thread for more details and Videos of our latest crop of new talent eager to meet Gringos.
[URL]http://www.internationalsexguide.info/forum/showthread.php?3546-LIQUID-STRIP-[/URL](formerly-Liquid-Lounge)&p=1571157&posted=1#post1571157.