Yeah I am the same place as you guys. Glad I got married and had kids and the whole "adult thing" but equally glad that I discovered a second life with the WGs.
I believe it was ExPat talking about the illusion. Which is great and the great girls can bring it. Recently I discovered Seeking Arrangement can bring a more authentic experience tho it's a lot of work. And since it's real girls (at least the way I play it) there is way more real emotion involved for better or worse.
I had one girl decline to see me the next night (and we never made it to the room) because she was uncomfortable with my marriage status. This is a real girl thing. Well this same girl has come full circle and we are going to travel together soon when I am on business.
FWIW I have found that a nice non pro Seeking girl will be happy with about the same as an escort but for 3-4 hours dinner and dancing not just in room time.
It takes a TON of effort to find the good ones. But when you do it's way more authentic than pure escort. So it's a nice in between if you are looking for something more. And in the US where prostitution is so painfully illegal and difficult this has become my go to.
