[QUOTE=Cagep1967]My first trip to DR found me with a local 20yo, non-pro, absolutely beautifil. I spent 2 days with her into September. Did not make any promises and also frequented the Casa's before and after I met her. I returned in November with 4 buddies and went on a pussy rampage for 5 days. I then remembered I had the home phone number of the local regular girl. I called her and had 2 days of absolute heaven. During the 2 days I found out that she had been robbed of her pocketbook earlier in November. I wanted to give her some money (which she refused) so I bought her a cell phone to replace the one that was stolen from her bag, and bought some clothes for her kid. Before I left I did give her some money.
I was asked to talk to call her daily, which I did almost daily. She had gotten sick during the month of Dec (I sent her flowers) For xmas I sent a gift basket to her and her family. I sent small presents to her and her daughter.
She called me on my birthday with her and her family on the line. I returned in Jan and got my brains fucked out of me. During that time her sister got real sick (from an illegal abortion) and was in the hospital. She told me to stay in the hotel while she went to take care of her sister, I said no I'll come along.
This is just the kind of guy that I am, I won't leave someone in need of help. This made her love me even more, most guys Dominican or otherwise would probably not have done this.
Later that week I was invited to their house for my birthday dinner, where she bought me a handmade bracelet as a present. That trip cost me some lingerie, a winnie the pooh decorative plate (approximately $75 dollars of gifts).
I returned on the week of Valentines day where we went to a resort in Juan Dolio. She wanted to go to a clinic early in the week for a health check for the both of us. (she wanted to have sex au natural) We both came back clean. She had started to take birth control "just for me" needless to say it was a fantastic week. I bought some jewelry for her and a digital camera (approximately $350 with the doctor visits and test)
During this visit, 2 things happened in her family that really upset her and she told me I should get another girl because she is having too many problems and she doesn't want to ruin my vacation. I did not bail and things only got better.
March comes and I am in DR again for her. No problems with her family this time, every time I visited I was introduced to more and more family members. I was invited to stay at her house, everyday she cooked me breakfast and nights we stayed home she made me dinner (fantastic cook). Her sister started to refer to me as her brother in law, and being introduced as her casi-marido (almost husband). Her daughter started getting attached to me, her niece etc. That's were I started to back away just a little. The cost outside air and car rental. Food for the house, small gift for her maybe $200 for the total week.
April came by, more attachment. Stayed at her house again, bought food for the house, flowers for her (I got caught talking to another girl) Very little money spent.
Early May was her birthday, the whole family was at her house for the actual day. Before her birthday, I stayed at her house. On her birthday I took the family out for dinner Adrian Tropical (about $200), bought her some gifts $100, bought her niece a $30 cell phone (also her Bday) met the dad, cousins, aunts, grandmother. Was continually asked when we are getting engaged (yikes). Since she is in college I said we should wait until she is finished in 2 years. (buy me some time)
Late May, I'm back again start feeling and very guilty about stringing her along. I make some comments about the possibility of not getting married that don't go over well.
Early June the first night together she feels that I'm using her, second night no sex, third night sex with condoms, last night with her we have sex and the next day she decides I'm using her and she doesn't want to be my girlfriend anymore. I felt relieved at this and disappointed at the same time.
I still keep in touch with her neice and her sister, but my playing around with a normal girl hurt her, me, her family etc.
Damn I miss the sex.
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Great story and tells the story of a thousand other guys as well.
Numerous guys after reading this, are remembering their own experience.
Like I said; I recommend sticking with the pro-chicas until you're readdy for a "normal" girl. No lies, everyone knows the deal, and no one gets hurt.
But its the greatest thing in the world (for a while) isn't it?
