Safe Sex and Sex Related Discussions in Thailand

[quote=china 69]i was in thailand for a couple of weeks in 2009. i had some bbbj but all vaginal sex was safely covered. on the morning of my flight back home, i started having symptoms of gonnorhea or chlamidia and they got worse over the next few days. burning/stinging feeling during urination, discharge, pain in the nads, urethra felt sore, dark [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord109][CodeWord109][/url]. 6 days after the start of the symptoms i went to a clinic for a full battery of std tests. they took blood and [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord109][CodeWord109][/url] samples. four days after that i got the results: all negative, i was std-free. but by this time the symptoms started going away. after 14 days i was totally back to normal all symptoms were gone. i went to talk to a doctor about it and he said i probably just caught some bacteria (from oral sex) that caused a urinary tract infection and my immune system fought it off.

so that's my story, i thought i would share it.[/quote]same here. actually my dick was swallowen after the first week, and didn't get any better. actually it was getting worse when i got home. red and swallowen, and painful when [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord112][CodeWord112][/url]. went to doctor, and std-free.

if this happens next time i go to thailand, it wil ruin all the fun. can still fuck, but it is anoying and painful.

A few weeks ago I was having sex with a WG in Pattaya - it was a short time bar on soi 3. The condom broke right before I came inside her. I didn't know it broke until I pulled out. We both shit ourselves - she's an old acquaintance actually. We talked about it and she had had a test 2 months before, same as me. She was actually quite scared. A few weeks later I came down with a high fever which I understand is one of the symptoms of contracting HIV so now I am very scared. Have to wait another 2 months to take the test. Meanwhile I'll keep tabs on her and make sure she's okay just to put my mind at ease.

I've had 2 HIV tests - both negative but both were absolute mindfucks. After this I'm getting the hell out of this country. Even if I use a condom there is still some risk. In my opinion not worth it for a few minutes of pleasure. I just hope that I'm okay.

Mangofan,

Is your post serious or is it a joke?

[QUOTE=David_33]Mangofan,

Is your post serious or is it a joke?[/QUOTE]

Quite serious, I'm afraid. Perhaps I'm just being paranoid but this kind of stuff scares the shit out of me.

You´re just being paranoid. Relax.

Yes Mangofan, you are being paranoid. Even if she WAS HIV+, your odds of picking it up from one sexual encounter with a broken condom is less than 1 in 1000. With her not knowing - and being scared - that establishes that she's not to her knowledge HIV positive, that pushes your odds to less than 1 in 10,000.

Crossing Sukhumvit Road is riskier.

[QUOTE=Lama Di Bali]Get a life Dex, you have a one in a squillion chance of getting HIV in the circumstances you describe.

A rash in the groin in the tropics is more than likely caused by sweat and is easily fixed with Daktarin/cortisone ointment.

Here's the HIV skinny in words of one syllable.

For a man to get HIV, infected fluids from the sex partner have to enter his blood stream.

Usually but not exclusively, this happens in anal sex because the rectum is prone to tearing and infected fluid enters these little fissures or tears.

Theoretically this could happen in a heterosexual encounter if an infected woman, having used a sex toy on herself, then stuck it up your butt (a finger will do fine too).

To get HIV from fucking or wanking or whatever you need:

(1) an HIV positive sex partner
(2) an open wound, cut or lesion on your dick or groin area

If you have bleeding gums or acute mouth ulcers, the docs will say it is theoretically possible to get infected from DATY with an infected partner.

Far more common in LOS are virulent strains of gonorrhea that bollix the doctors when you go home. These strains need special intravenous antibiotics that in some countries are only available with special permission from the health authorities.

And be warned, you can get GO from a BBBJ. I am not repeating rumours or saying this happened to a friend of a friend.

It happened to me, and the symptoms appeared while I was a few days in Germany.

It was an absolute nightmare and I was treated like a leper. I thought they were going to demand I carried a handbell and walk around chanting "unclean, unclean"

I was shunted from hospital to hospital to clinic to surgery and after almost two weeks got treatment at a hospice for terminal gay AIDS patients.[/QUOTE]

Actually your claim about acquiring HIV are not correct. While it is true that if the virus gets into your blood stream, you have a high chance of being infected, this is not the only avenue. For instance, Langerhans cells in the foreskin and in the vagina act as an avenue for HIV-1 infection. Infection with HIV occurs by the transfer of blood, semen, vaginal fluid, pre-ejaculate, or breast milk (although I believe that the latter is only really an issue for newborn children). In vaginal sex, the HIV virus in the semen or vaginal fluid can gain access to a number of different kinds of cells through their interaction with the cell membrane in a complex way.

The good news is that, at least in western countries, the chances of being infected through unprotected sex is estimated as 0.04 for males having sex with females in a western wealthy country. It is generally accepted that already having another STI will greatly increase your chances of being infected with HIV if your partner already has it because your defenses are down and the virus can take advantage of that.

[QUOTE=Mangofan]Quite serious, I'm afraid. Perhaps I'm just being paranoid but this kind of stuff scares the shit out of me.[/QUOTE]

I think you should sit back, wait 6 weeks (MOST tests will be positive or negative after 6 weeks with some cases needing a full 6 months to show positive if you have it) and relax in all honesty.

I've gone a couple of years, being tested every month, going BB on some girls and having a decent amount of equipment damage. While having the girls tested does not guarantee anything, nothing in life is a guarantee.

Recently like the other posters I came down with my fourth case in my life of burning while urination, pissing all over the place, but joy oh joy I added pissing blood (luckily when I boarded TG for my flight out of Thai). Got tested in Manila at TWO clinics right away, tests not conclusive as to what I had if anything (given the qty of sex I had they said I could have torn the inner wall also) but I went on some med's and all is fine.

From a last second broken condom with a girl who get's tested and sounds like she is worried about such things compared to what others are doing you seem very safe. So take 6 weeks of relax, get a test then toast one back to your joy. Follow up 4 months after that also just to be sure sure sure.

Dear gents,

Ok. Am too freaked out right now to be coherent, but let's just say here's

Another broken condom story.

I was on business in Liberia, west Africa and had a condom break while doing a local hooker. We started out with her on top for a couple minutes, then switched to mish. Immediately I felt something wasn't right and pulled out, and sure enough it wuz broke.

From frantic googling, here's what I've gathered.

The official window before conclusive results is three months,

But it takes most people 3 to 4 weeks to produce the antibodies that can be detected.

I arrive in BKK in a week. W/c will be about 3 to 4 weeks from my accident.

Can someone please please point me to a Hi-tech lab where I can get advanced HIV tests in BKK, and get results without having to wait days?

By advanced, I'm hoping for more than just the generic ELISA test.

I know I'll probably need to kep testing up to 6 months. And this will definitely change my entire LOS trip by so many freakin degrees.

Thanks in advance for any assistance.

[QUOTE=Mr Pandesal]Dear gents,

Ok. Am too freaked out right now to be coherent, but let's just say here's

Another broken condom story.

I was on business in Liberia, west Africa and had a condom break while doing a local hooker. We started out with her on top for a couple minutes, then switched to mish. Immediately I felt something wasn't right and pulled out, and sure enough it wuz broke.

From frantic googling, here's what I've gathered.

The official window before conclusive results is three months,

But it takes most people 3 to 4 weeks to produce the antibodies that can be detected.

I arrive in BKK in a week. W/c will be about 3 to 4 weeks from my accident.

Can someone please please point me to a Hi-tech lab where I can get advanced HIV tests in BKK, and get results without having to wait days?

By advanced, I'm hoping for more than just the generic ELISA test.

I know I'll probably need to kep testing up to 6 months. And this will definitely change my entire LOS trip by so many freakin degrees.

Thanks in advance for any assistance.[/QUOTE]Get yourself to a hospital, clinic, emergency room, etc. ASAP and get post-exposure prophylaxis (PEP) with drugs for HIV. If you were exposed, this can reduce your risk of permanent infection to ALMOST zero. (but not ZERO). The transmission rate of HIV is low, but is present with one episode of unprotected sex like you are reporting. But PEP can greatly reduce that further. Don't delay and don't be "proud", just get those drugs ASAP

GG

[QUOTE=Member #3428]I think you should sit back, wait 6 weeks (MOST tests will be positive or negative after 6 weeks with some cases needing a full 6 months to show positive if you have it) and relax in all honesty.

I've gone a couple of years, being tested every month, going BB on some girls and having a decent amount of equipment damage. While having the girls tested does not guarantee anything, nothing in life is a guarantee.

Recently like the other posters I came down with my fourth case in my life of burning while urination, pissing all over the place, but joy oh joy I added pissing blood (luckily when I boarded TG for my flight out of Thai). Got tested in Manila at TWO clinics right away, tests not conclusive as to what I had if anything (given the qty of sex I had they said I could have torn the inner wall also) but I went on some med's and all is fine.

From a last second broken condom with a girl who get's tested and sounds like she is worried about such things compared to what others are doing you seem very safe. So take 6 weeks of relax, get a test then toast one back to your joy. Follow up 4 months after that also just to be sure sure sure.[/QUOTE]


Not too many people have this kind of problem with their membrane? Is this who I think it is? Heh Heh Doctor?

LBM

[QUOTE=LittleBigMan]Not too many people have this kind of problem with their membrane? Is this who I think it is? Heh Heh Doctor?

LBM[/QUOTE]
Yeah... looks like Jackson has let him out of his cage ...

Regards to you both,
Daddy

[QUOTE=China 69] I went to talk to a doctor about it and he said I probably just caught some bacteria (from oral sex) that caused a urinary tract infection and my immune system fought it off.
So that's my story, I thought I would share it.[/QUOTE]

I got the same thing (urinary tract infection) back in 2005. My right testicle bloated to abnormal size, and I was shooting semen with traces of blood. Doctor put me on medication and I had to soak my balls in hot water twice everyday. This came from having BB sex with my part-time lover (a WG) when she was having her period. It's messy and bloody, but boy, did she love it. I guess the inner linings of her vagina is extremely sensitive during the menstruation period... I can be wrong at this...

Continued to have sex with her, even during her menstruation, but learnt to do it with a condom...hahaha

Hoeman

[quote=daddy07]yeah... looks like jackson has let him out of his cage ...

regards to you both,
daddy[/quote]

i heard the new name is pimpdaddy07?


imho,

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then about 10 days or so on the medication things start to turn and redness starts to go away and the opening starts to close, pissing is not as intense and you start to forget the promise you made to god! in all this drama during and after i still can't see how the fuck some guys continue to fuck through all the pain and problems when they are having a tract infection without missing a step?


lbm

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