Adelita Bar Reports

And that's what I did! I had many hours to kill, I was caught in TJ after the final bus left to return to LA. So what was I to do? I cruised between the spots enjoyed by all here.

Since this is AB thread, I'll try to keep it on topic...

I was in and out of AB from 9:30ish to 4:45am so I know the lay of the land at least for a Saturday Night.

When I first got there around 9ish, I was confronted with very crowded room. Lots of men, mostly Americans milling around. Mostly standing around, this is a common sight at American Nightclubs isn't it?

Saw lots of great looking women and many NOT so great. It was just too hard with all the body heat in there and no A/C, I had to go outside to get some fresh air, for what its worth. At that time I just watched while couples made their way from AB to the hotel next door and even the little cafe two doors down.

It was interesting, I couldn't tell if good service was given or not. In some cases, a few men even went the opposite direction from AB after doing the deed; unsatisfied?

I was bumped into and approached a few times as the night progressed but none I wanted to take to arriba. As it got closer to 3am, the crowd had dwindled down to just the hardcore and some girls seemingly became desperate.

Depending on what you're looking for, AB should provide something if your in search of quick relief and not much else.

[QUOTE=DJ FourMoney] It was interesting, I couldn't tell if good service was given or not. In some cases, a few men even went the opposite direction from AB after doing the deed; unsatisfied?[/QUOTE]

I will often have a great experience* in the room but not return to AB. As you mention sometimes it can get pretty damn hot in there. And after a rigorous shagging I'll stay outside for a while. Or to a more tranquilo place to recharge. Going back in the bar with the girl happens for me about 1% of the time.

*Actually I rarely have a poor experience. After many visits to places all around the world, I've gotten quite good at picking the good ones. It isn't that hard to do. But a lot of it has to do with setting your expectations correctly. I don't expect GFE at Adelita. I go for PSE and am satisfied.

[QUOTE=Efjayel]When did you go? Tj should be having cold weather right about now.[/quote]

But Adelita and Hong Kong are always warm-to-hot inside regardless of the weather outside. It was slow last night in both bars, but even with fewer people it is sort of warm.

I have been in Tijuana for 3 days now. The first two days were good experience. The second day better than the first day. I believe this was because I picked up a little bit of Spanish and learnt how to converse with bar girls. I have picked only girls from Adelita because I have found the girls there hotter.

Anyways, I just returned from a bad experience from Tijuana. I met up with this girl 'Brenda". Extremely hot chica with very soft skin. I bought her a drink and chatted with her a while. She knew a little bit of English which was good. Even as she was having her drink it appeared that she was not interested. She just finished her drink in one swig and said she had to leave. I had not even taken a sip of beer. Anyways, I told her that if she stayed till I finished my beer I would take her upstairs, no pressure. She agreed and stayed back. By now my little head had taken over. I should have known better to just let her go. But she was looked extremely attractive. I finished my beer in a minute. And I wanted to get my f**k going. It was already 12:30 and my amigo was waiting for me.

So I go upstairs with her. First she asks for the money. Nothing wrong so far. She asks me to wash my hands. Again nothing wrong. She also washes her hand. Now she gets naked. Looked like she has a boob job gone wrong (horrible scar). No problem. She asks the light to be switched off. Now things don't seem so right. But I have already paid the money. So I said that is fine. Then she orders me to get completely naked. I am not very used to taking such orders. But I hope against hope that I if comply instead of trying to argue things will get better. She insists on giving me a massage. Very weird. the massage is almost very painful. I signal her that she should touch my balls or ass or some where close there. She says she does not touch there. This getting to be a torture. So very soon she asks me turn over and she puts a condom on, gives a CBJ. Nothing spetacular. But better than the massage. After sometime I turn her over. Now she says, I cannot touch her. Cannot touch her boobs, cannot touch her ass, cannot touch anything.

By now I am extremely pissed off. I just get done with it. She leaves the room with the door wide open even before I have put on the clothes.

This has never happened to me in the 7 years I have been mongering. So I talk to the management. The management is very understanding. They take to up the to hotel room and verify my version of the story with the staff who work there (that I was there, how long I was there etc). Then they call Brenda up to the room. I explain in detail to the management what happened. Then they take Brenda to a room and get her version of the story. After that them manager comes back and hands over my money back.

This was nice from the management. But here is the summary. Brenda is a horrible girl to be with. At least that was my experience. Secondly, the management was good to me and listened to my side of they story and believed me and provided good "customer service". So if you have a bad experience please talk to the management.

Good luck to you guys . Hope you have great time mongering in Tijuana.

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Great result, esp. as you had ignored all the warning signs. Good job, most of us would have written it off. Thanks for the warning and name, I always forget 'em.

[QUOTE=Tempp]Anyways, I just returned from a bad experience from Tijuana.[/QUOTE]

lol, sorry to hear about your bad experience. In mongering you can expect this sort of thing. I also had a similar bad experience but I just took it as a loss. I would never have had the balls to complain to the managers so I'm glad that you did and even managed to get your money back. These girls should learn that quality in service is important. But I also can't help but feel sorry for this girl as well. I can't really blame her for not feeling enthusiastic doing a job that is considered embarrassing, shameful and full of risks.

Maybe she was just in a foul mood that day.

[QUOTE=Tempp]
After that them manager comes back and hands over my money back.

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Wow! I'm sorry to hear about your misfortune, but glad to hear that justice was served. Even as a Mexican citizen, I had little faith in this establishment to provide a "money back guarantee".... It has always been my impression that they are just going to hang on to every buck they can grab.

Could you please tell us how does one go about finding a manager to talk to in a situation like this? Did you talk to the guy at the hotel reception? Thank you.

[QUOTE=Tempp]... Nothing wrong so far... [/QUOTE]

:D Actually, everything was wrong, from the start.

The quicky ficha gulp is a sure-fire indication that she's not interested. Then the money-up-front ploy is a huge red flag. I will walk before I do that. YMMV, of course.

But you learned a valuable lesson, as we all do.

But I am totally impressed that you were able to get your money back! I don't thing I've ever heard of such a thing in TJ.

Can you please elaborate? Who do you complain to?

You made up for all the previous mistakes, and I think all of us board members owe you a beer! :D

[QUOTE=Party God]Wow! I'm sorry to hear about your misfortune, but glad to hear that justice was served. Even as a Mexican citizen, I had little faith in this establishment to provide a "money back guarantee". It has always been my impression that they are just going to hang on to every buck they can grab.

Could you please tell us how does one go about finding a manager to talk to in a situation like this? Did you talk to the guy at the hotel reception? Thank you.[/QUOTE]To begin with I was extremely pissed off and I did not think that it was right for the girl to walk over me like that. I wanted to let the management know about it. I half expected them to just blow me away let alone hand me my money back. I did not even intend on asking for my money back.

So after I went down, I talked to guys who stand at the door and asked who the manager was and I wanted to talk to him. The "bouncer" understood enough English to summon the manager. The manager himself did not know English well, so got along one of the waiters there to help him with things he could not completely understand.

After he heard the initial version he signaled me to the "hotel" lobby where they hand you the towel and stuff. He then verified my part of the story with the folks who work there. Then I gave him a full detailed report on what exactly happened. Then he had the girl "Brenda" come over. He took her to the room and talked to her.

He agreed that what happened was wrong. He was the one who asked me if I wanted my money back. Then I asked him what he would have done if he were in the same position as me. A service was promised and not delivered. I asked him if he went to a restaurant and ordered food, but he did not get what he ordered what he would have done. He did not say anything, he left for a minute came back, put the money in my hand, said sorry and shook my hand and that was it.

Now I start to head home with my amigo. And as we walk back to the car, I cannot help it but feel very amused. I never thought of "customer service" when it comes to this line of work. I was not that pissed any more.

So yesterday I went back to Adelitas and took one more girl. I think the management did the right thing. If they had screwed me over, I would not have come back yesterday, or today or day after tomorrow etc. In the long run they stand to benefit for providing good customer service. And I stand to benefit as well.

[QUOTE=Efjayel]When did you go? Tj should be having cold weather right about now.


I've done that. it's not dissatisfaction. I'm not always there to spend time and money with the girls. I'm there for one sole purpose, and once that's completed there is no longer any need to hang around and waste time and money.


care to describe what exactly is the hardcore crowd, and what these girls did to classify them as desperate?


Really? I find the AB chicas to be the most pushy. Other bars the girls won't even make eye contact and they expect the guy to make the first move. At AB I usually have to keep my eyes down because any chance of eye contact and there on me like white on rice.[/QUOTE]

I was in JAFO mode

I was down there, umm the weekend of Dec 18th (Saturday Night)

Wasn't cold at all, wasn't warm either, but all that body heat inside the club was a bit unbearable.

No eye contact was made I wasn't all that interested.

I'm trying to buy a car otherwise I might venture down for NYE, Happy New Year!

I mentioned it many times before, use the bus! :)

AB pretty slow Wed night, alot of chicas gone... hopefully more will show up for new years or it will be like musical chairs game but with chicas... Couple of nice girls.

Chicago club was pretty slow too but the numbers of women and men was equally small like 10 each and some of the better ones like Estefani, Kennedy, Ivonna and Marvella did show up.

HK had the lions share of guys and chicas though.

[QUOTE=Tempp]To begin with I was extremely pissed off and I did not think that it was right for the girl to walk over me like that. I wanted to let the management know about it. I half expected them to just blow me away let alone hand me my money back. I did not even intend on asking for my money back.

So yesterday I went back to Adelitas and took one more girl. I think the management did the right thing. If they had screwed me over, I would not have come back yesterday, or today or day after tomorrow etc. In the long run they stand to benefit for providing good customer service. And I stand to benefit as well.[/QUOTE]

I think getting any money back in AB is pretty novel. I one time complained about a chica that after 15m (I had my watch) asked for more money to finish and then only agreed to a HJ finish. The doorman pretended not to understand but weeks later I heard him speaking pretty good english. YMMV of course.

I even had a beer served warm one night or not very cold at the bar. I asked for a new beer, not a refund, and was told NO. That was 3 years ago though so things do change. I complained about not getting my change back (it was $5 for a $3.5 beer) and the bartender gave me $5 and a beer and said he was sorry.

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[u]2009 Tijuana Club Score: Service Refund Criteria [/u]

AB: 1 Tempp Experience - Full Refund
HK: -1 Reported prepaid pravido lap dance walkout. No refund
TB: 0 Reported incident - 100 pesos refund

WINNERS !

Congratulation to AB Staff and Management.
TJ 2009 Courage Award, Tempp



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[QUOTE=Tempp]To begin with I was extremely pissed off and I did not think that it was right for the girl to walk over me like that. I wanted to let the management know about it. I half expected them to just blow me away let alone hand me my money back. I did not even intend on asking for my money back.

So after I went down, I talked to guys who stand at the door and asked who the manager was and I wanted to talk to him. The "bouncer" understood enough English to summon the manager. The manager himself did not know English well, so got along one of the waiters there to help him with things he could not completely understand.

After he heard the initial version he signaled me to the "hotel" lobby where they hand you the towel and stuff. He then verified my part of the story with the folks who work there. Then I gave him a full detailed report on what exactly happened. Then he had the girl "Brenda" come over. He took her to the room and talked to her.

He agreed that what happened was wrong. He was the one who asked me if I wanted my money back. Then I asked him what he would have done if he were in the same position as me. A service was promised and not delivered. I asked him if he went to a restaurant and ordered food, but he did not get what he ordered what he would have done. He did not say anything, he left for a minute came back, put the money in my hand, said sorry and shook my hand and that was it.

Now I start to head home with my amigo. And as we walk back to the car, I cannot help it but feel very amused. I never thought of "customer service" when it comes to this line of work. I was not that pissed any more.

So yesterday I went back to Adelitas and took one more girl. I think the management did the right thing. If they had screwed me over, I would not have come back yesterday, or today or day after tomorrow etc. In the long run they stand to benefit for providing good customer service. And I stand to benefit as well.[/QUOTE]

[QUOTE=Tempp]I have been in Tijuana for 3 days now......So if you have a bad experience please talk to the management.
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The similar situation happened to my friend. The girl was called up. She tore the dollars bills into pieces, threw them on the floor and left.