American Women

phillipe,
thank you honey :) what a lovely thing to say! welcome to the board.

dickhead,
re: your last post...i think you should send me your number. *grin*just kidding...but it's nice to see a man who's willing to experiment and have some fun with sex.

fedup,
sorry to hear about you and your girlie, honey. i completely agree that a man who really likes to daty is a rare find indeed. she's a fool to let you go in my opinion! (don't forget i'm still waiting on my couch...only one year and 51 weeks to go. hehe)

re: periods...working girls over here use a sea sponge (or purpose made sterile sponges from the chemist/drug store) to stop the flow. you dampen them slightly, put some water based lube on them (to stop things drying out inside) and insert them just like a tampon. when you have sex, especially with a condom, you don't even know it's there. did y'all really think hookers didn't get periods?? lol otherwise, dickhead is right. some girls use diaphragms for the same purpose, but they can be tricky (and messy) to retrieve after the fact. sponges are fantastic. also, there is a lot to be said for sex in the shower during that time of the month *grin*

and for building up stamina during sex, i recommend dickhead's idea of pinching the penis, or alternatively, some good old-fashioned coitus interruptus (sp?). go at it until you are just about there, then go down on her or play with her breasts or something...anything to stop you thinking about your dick! then when the feeling subsides a little, do it again. if you have a really understanding partner, you could even stop altogether every now and then, and maybe get up and get a drink or give her a massage or play with her hair...
but i do have to mention one thing though...women do not always want a man who will pound her for an hour straight. a large number of women cannot experience a vaginal orgasm at all, and in fact, there are hardly any nerve endings inside her. it's all at "the doorway". most women seem to prefer a lot of foreplay, and intercourse as "dessert"...a way to finish it off. (that's why viagra is most women's nightmare!!)

as for stranger99's liquid blowjob idea...i've always found a mouthful of coke or champagne gets a pretty good response (although i will not be drinking it down afterwards!!! *shudder*) also, alternating between drinking hot coffee and cold drinks or ice (just warming/cooling the inside of my mouth...swallowing the liquid before i actually put the penis in there) seems to be popular too. this also works well on nipples for those girls or boys who are "nipple stimulation" inclined.

dickhead,
i always found a vibrator on low speed held against that wonderfully sensitive area between the balls and the anus during a blowjob, sent men wild. also, holding a vibe against my clitoris during missionary sex was a good one too.

CBGB, by US way of life, I meant the reshaping of mentalities through advertising and marketing.
You always end up wanting what's on the screen, no matter what it is.
As for free enterprise and capitalism, it can hardly be called an US invention as it's way older than the good old US of A.
I can't say I ever really had fun in Germany, I always found the mentality too repressed compared to neighbour countries like Belgium or Austria. Sometimes, even having sex there had a by-the-book feel.
Dickhead : Here in France, I don't see that many sideways soixante neuf because most 69's I've enjoyed had started as BJs where I could no longer stand being inactive.
So the sideways starting point was more used to entice a novice girl to try a taste of me. Never seen that approach fail yet, or maybe I was very lucky.
RN : Obviously, there are more charms to the land down under than just amber nectar and shrimps on the barbie. I should try digging a tunnel in my back yard ! :)

Phillipe, there's saying that things appear to be one thing but they are really another. Germany doesn't advertise itself to the rest of the world about its 'scene' but Germany is full of FKK sex clubs(in one region of Germany there are over 300 of them) which are unbelievable and as uninhibited as they come. For me I find German women are among the most beautiful in the world and their relaxed attitude towards sex proves that. I think the most beautiful women I have ever seen in my life was in Germany, she was part Turkish too, and all I have to say was 'wow', all those plastic American female celebrities I have been brainwashed into admiring through advertising and marketing as you pointed out, could not compare to this beautiful woman. Still I think with regards to sex Europe will always be above the US. I also believe the repressed sex scene in America is really a product of the US's AngloSaxon heritage as well as its Christian fundamentalist leanings.

[QUOTE]Originally posted by CBGBConnisur
[i]I also believe the repressed sex scene in America is really a product of the US's AngloSaxon heritage as well as its Christian fundamentalist leanings. [/i][/QUOTE]

It's always useful to remember that the early settlers of the US -- the Puritans -- were perhaps the only group ever to flee their countries because they felt it was [b]too[/b] tolerant. Few in Europe were sad to see them go, and many wished that the earth truly were flat so these folks would get a swifter trip to the great beyond. It's ironic to think that so many followed later for exactly the opposite reasons.

And Philippe, I agree with you wholeheartedly about the Americanization of the world, as well as its unfortunate nature, though at this point I'd also blame it on the nature of cultural leveling performed by multinational corporations, many of which are American-based, originated, or modeled. I can find a McDonalds (or Pizza Hut, or whatever) pretty much anywhere I go in the world, as well as see CNN or ESPN, let alone Baywatch or whatever. I remember talking to a translator who worked with me in Columbia -- he said because he was an American who spoke fluent Spanish (as well as good looking) he was in constant demand for TV commercials, as advertisers felt people would pay attention to what he had to say because he was American. Now, this was a smart and charming guy, and people should pay attention to him for that, but I've got a number of neighbors I pray no one ever pays attention to at all :)

I suggest to use age brackets when defining the beauty of the women of one country.

It is true that German women are nice (although boring, all blondes , big tits) but they deteriorate preety quickly into redfaced, fattish, knodel eating ladies. Their expiration age I guess is around 35.

French and Italian women are classy all along their lives. Down side: a lot of showing off, too flashy sometimes.

Spanish women and Latin American: also nice (in reverse, boring as the German, all dark hair and eyes). Some of them have the defects that once into marriage they will let themselves go, meaning their ass is going to increase size in direct proportion with the elapsing of time (more or less like trees that add a circle of new wood to their logs every year).

Of American women we already said, they are born sequoias.

As I'm witnessing the transformation of our younger girls into brainless lardballs, I'm getting pretty desperate. France will soon be an awful place to get laid in.
It seems the prime cause for that is a steady diet of Coke, pizzas, hamburgers and all kinds of snacks, along with many hours sitting on one's ass in front of the TV.
So unless someone pulls the plug, we're doomed !
I don't think I could get used to that, I love a good tit-fuck just as every other guy, but there it would feel like surfing on cellulite.
CBGB : Maybe Paris will still hold its own for a while because it's the capital, so girls with better brains or looks flock there because that's where the money is, but we're bound to run out of babes any time soon.
Jackson : as the disaster is going global, I suggest a topic's name change to Occidental women :(

Phillipe, if France falls we can always go East to Poland, Hungary, Russia, Ukraine, Romania, Bulgaria and such. I think eventually India will the next big place for single men. Miss Universe last year was from India and they are constantly making the semifinals. I still have a hard time believing you Phillipe that younger women in France are becoming fat as you so say. I was living in France for quite some time and it seems as the majority of women in their 20's are quite slim. I only saw a few occasional younger fat women, and I realized she wasn't French when I heard her accent, she was Scottish. This observation became more apparent as I visited Britain, I told a relative of mine how come so many Englishwomen are so fat and women in the rest of Europe are overall thin and attractive, I pointed out to the fact that I saw literally thousands of beautiful young women in France, Holland, Germany, Belgium, and Spain but when I dropped into Britain all the lovely ladies dissapeared. He replied that British and Irish women simply are ugly to begin with, always was ugly and always will be and that a lot of his mates go to the continent for pussy. Most of my friends who have been to both Britain and France also say the same thing, that the British women are fat and ugly and the French ladies are overall extremely attractive. Some of my British colleagues also find that there is a difference between the British and French female, and that is that the French female is much sexier. Any of the more overweight women I saw in France appeared to be older such as those on the Rue St. Denis or middle aged housewives, but hey thats nature and a woman's physical beauty is a transient thing.

CBGB, don't mistake the situation in a capital city with the general state of the nation.
There might be plenty of gorgeous girls in some selected spots in Paris, but it's still only a few miles drive from the real world of cheap tarts.
Girls go wherever the opportunities are, when they have the brains or the looks to succeed. The rest sticks where it is, and that's what a majority of guys have to put up with.

Phillipe you're not fooling anyone I KNOW who you really are, you are USBabe masquerading as Phillipe, a Frenchmen, I have caught you!!!!!! Now I will remove you from the list of reliable posters.

I always knew USBabe was a tranny.

I think that girls from the US, England and Canada can all be grouped together as there is no common language barrier. All end up fat once they hit the 35 year expiry date. I've found that the English girls have a healthier attitude to sex... which is the only difference between them.

I have a unique viewing position here at my desk... I can look out two opposite windows and watch people come and go. In the past 10 minutes I've seen 4 fat chicks and one thin. This seems to be the common ratio here in Florida (except for the trendier areas such as South Beach or Boca Raton), and is certainly the ratio for my neighbourhood.

Anyway... enough fat bashing... it's certainly not the only factor. Although in our lazy culture it is certainly easier to be fat and unambitious than to be thin and energetic. This is why we will soon be taken over by brown and yellow people.

Regarding the Montreal escort scene... if you're American watch out. They love your cash... but they make the rest of Canada look like amateurs when it comes to America bashing... as well as bashing the rest of Canada. Quebecois blame everyone else for their problems... as a Canadian I'm tired of hearing them whine about the same problems the rest of the country endures.

Something that most seem to forget about Canada is that natural Canadians are in the minority. There's 180 (or so) languages spoken in Toronto alone. Many of the girls that you see walking the street, and that you say are so good looking, are probably not even from Canada. The strip clubs are full of girls from eastern bloc countries... Canadian girls are rare.

Once again... The police can charge/arrest patrons of massage parlors (aka rub n tugs) as "found in's"... this still carries a misdemeanor charge and shows on your record. There are plenty of clubs in the Niagara Falls area Dickhead. If you're only there for 2 or three days it's not hard to stay amused... particularly if you're into the Casino scene.

I'm no stranger to ointments, oils, jellies, lubes, or syrups. The liquid in the mouth during a hummer is a new one though. I can't see however, how I could convince any girl that a "cum and coke" is an acceptable drink. Which raises the question of why American girls will down tons of liquor shots with such elegant names as "Sex on the Beach, Orgasm, or Blowjob"... but refuse to have the same in real life. I think that "tease" is an appropriate term that has so far been left off the list of descriptions for the American Woman.

Regarding my current GF: It seems that I am yet again (as with other GF's) having to repair damage caused by previous boyfriends. It's come to light this weekend that part of her hangup with BJ's is that some fuckwad decided it would be fun to get a forced deepthroat from her. A previous GF was once choked (against her will) by a guy while he was fucking her... as a result I was not able to touch her above her boobs without her tensing up. Another was subjected to a "oops wrong hole!" approach to anal sex and as a result refused to let me try it. Given my GF's current revelation I will give her another chance rather than just showing her the door... I can't blame her for being a bit reluctant.

American women can be a pain in the ass for sure... but American men are by no means innocent in our current problems.

Perhaps, Fedup, you can start by suggesting licking and nibbling rather than sucking. If you're so inclined, a bit of bondage (meaning you being restrained) might also go a long way to easing what's clearly a control anxiety.

And been there, done that, in terms of emotional repair work. Good luck -- it can be a long process, but a rewarding one, as it's all about repairing her sense of trust.

Thanks, FU, but to me Niagara Falls = East bumfuck as I like to have some cultural pursuits once I am suitably drained. If I do make the trip, I'll go to Montreal and use me wee Irish brogue. Any Thai girls up there?

Brilliant suggestion, Joe. I'm starting to think you and Dickhead should start your own "Sex Tips" website! LOL And no, I'm not taking the [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord140][CodeWord140][/url]...I mean it. Fedup, try Joe's idea. Let her feel in control, and come to realise that you are not a threat. Our bodies respond in the strangest ways to deep-seated fears, even when our brains are trying to tell us otherwise. It just takes persistence.

Good on you though for deciding to see her through this. It is a lot easier to just say "Too hard" and walk away. You are truly a good man. :)

PS...You don't need to actually answer this (too personal, I know) but I was wondering if you and your GF are using condoms for oral? If not, I would suggest that maybe you try it. The plastic coating can make the penis seem a little "less real" in your mouth. Flavoured condoms are even better, masking all the natural tastes and smells associated with oral.

Also, lay on your back while she's doing it and keep your hands where she can see them (on your stomach or something). If you need to move your hands, to scratch your nose or whatever, do it very slowly...no sudden moves.