American Women

I think women worldwide desire money and security. What sets a lot of American women apart is that they have such greater independence here and sexual politics in the workplace that approach affirmative action.

And maybe in some areas, this is accompanied by a Puritanical frigidness.

I think a lot of women, regardless of ethnicity, reach a certain age and try to be born again virgins. And I'm amazed by how some women, no matter how far they've let themselves go, expect guys do anything for a piece.

I think women are horrified by prostitution mainly because they view sex workers as union busters.

[QUOTE=Vaquero] And I'm amazed by how some women, no matter how far they've let themselves go, expect guys do anything for a piece.

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It could be dragging all over the floor. Regardless there will always be some sexless chump willing to carry her load.

If I couldn't travel I'd probably be one of them. Some guys just can't afford to monger. I look down on our culture not the guy trying to bust a nut.

While American women are bad, there is no fucking way I will trust Spanish speaking women, totally do not know what they are thinking. Asians are alright.

[QUOTE=Australiasucks]While American women are bad, there is no fucking way I will trust Spanish speaking women, totally do not know what they are thinking. Asians are alright.[/QUOTE]I believe it is not the nationality - American, Spanish, Asian ... It is how/where they have been brought up and which environment they are in. There are many Asian biyotches in USA who are even worse than American girls.

Here in Central Asia now I date several girls who are good-looking or beautiful, all like to cook, clean the house, all want to get married etc.. I can only imaging if those girls were in USA most likely they would be completely different. It is just very different local culture and life style than in USA. The nationality is secondary.

[QUOTE=Australiasucks]While American women are bad, there is no fucking way I will trust Spanish speaking women, totally do not know what they are thinking. Asians are alright.[/QUOTE]

No fucking way, do I trust Asian women. Some, not all Spanish speaking women are okay. American women, I don't trust trust much at all.

Not sure you're right about all Spanish spk. women. There are many trustworthy and honest towards AM as GF or wives.

On the other hand, marry an Asian woman, you marry her whole family. I'm sure other members can confirm. Many of them ask for money to send home to unfortunate family members for survival according to them. I knew a man married to a PH woman. He gave her money to send to her parents to build a house. There's always bad fruit in any bushel. Just make the wisest decision where you put your dick and how you spend your cash.

When reading all the comments on all of these threads, you make a deal with a hispanic woman, you get what you paid for plus extras if she likes you and you treat her respectfully. There are many comments about Asian women ripping off members of property or just not keeping their half of the deal.

[QUOTE=Capt Ajax]No fucking way, do I trust Asian women. Spanish speaking women are okay IMHO. American women, though better than British women, I don't trust trust much at all.[/QUOTE]


Depends upon the Asian girl, Japanese are very very honest and open,nothing like the Japanese anywhere on Earth. In general I trust them more than Spanish speaking women, many act like sluts, although attractive, you cannot trust the majority, they also have a very colonized mindset. If you have been to Miami, you will know exactly what I am talking about.

People in the Philippines and some of the SE Asian countries are poorer than shit, so money is a motivation in their friendliness towards Western men. Its a very different thing in the Japanese, who are mostly comparable to the West in living standards. Indians are like this too, and also got a super colonized mindset, go to India and it will be very obvious.

It depends upon where in Asia, which is the largest continent on Earth and over 30 countries, I consider places like Iran and Afghanistan Asia, take a look on a map. Some people say its the "Middle East" this is something conjured up by the US media, Middle East does not exist, its either North Africa or the Far West of Asia.

[QUOTE=Australiasucks]I have been hit on by American females many times, banged quite a few, they are a bit too much for me. Talk too fucking loud, extremely opinionated, get insulted when you disagree with them. [/QUOTE]Kind of like Aussie men, then...

[QUOTE=Vaquero]I think women worldwide desire money and security. What sets a lot of American women apart is that they have such greater independence here and sexual politics in the workplace that approach affirmative action.
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well actually [b]people[/b] worldwide desire those. The thing that sets U.S. women apart from their European counterparts is the U.S. culture of rather primitive religiosity, even if a sizeable chunk of the people don't subscribe to it. The traditions go hand in hand. It is respectable for American women to expect men to be providers even on a date, and many US men feel a bit emasculated if they cannot demonstrate their hunter-gatherer superiority by paying for stuff. In Europe, I respect a woman more who acts like an equal from the word go. And I mean demonstrating the size if her wallet where appropriate. ;) US women of that ilk, or women here that act like non-earners, remind me of prostitutes. I just pay gradually and discreetely.
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And maybe in some areas, this is accompanied by a Puritanical frigidness.
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I think it's the love-hate thing about sex. Dying to see what's in the forbidden / loathed cookie jar. Very apparent in Hollywood movies.[quote]
I think a lot of women, regardless of ethnicity, reach a certain age and try to be born again virgins. And I'm amazed by how some women, no matter how far they've let themselves go, expect guys do anything for a piece.
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I think women are horrified by prostitution mainly because they view sex workers as union busters.[/QUOTE]
Or to put it another way, prostitutes dilute the market. ;)

[QUOTE=Gentleman Travel]Kind of like Aussie men, then...[/QUOTE]
ROFL!

The difference with the Aussie Sheila is that she declares her obnoxious qualities up front. E.g. "I'm Australian, so I drink a lot and talk loud." (end qoute)

The American gal will spend a lot of time (and mental energy) trying to be a good or better girl before failing miserably and putting on a coy chocolate-box look to ask for your sympathy and forgiveness - and appreciation of how much she 'tried.' How sweet.

The good honest Sheila doesn't give a f*ck. She told you in advance so it's your bloody fault if you didn't like it.


;) ;) ;)

[QUOTE=Vaquero]I think women worldwide desire money and security. What sets a lot of American women apart is that they have such greater independence here and sexual politics in the workplace that approach affirmative action.[/QUOTE] [I]Approach[/I] affirmative action? They [I]are[/I] affirmative action, plus "political correctness, " hypersensitive touchstones of conduct, and frankly they approach "Thought Police" sanctions and control. Or maybe my FedGov career put me into the hottest part of that crucible.

[quote]I think a lot of women, regardless of ethnicity, reach a certain age and try to be born again virgins. And I'm amazed by how some women, no matter how far they've let themselves go, expect guys do anything for a piece.[/QUOTE] Are you sure you didn't mean "amazed by how [I]many[/I] women"?

[quote]I think women are horrified by prostitution mainly because they view sex workers as union busters.[/QUOTE] Especially those women who have let themselves go. Bad enough their henpecked hubbies have that despised condition known as "wandering-eye syndrome; " if he could "rent" Miss Young & Yummy's "favors" for money he "should be spending on ME, " just imagine the rage!

As I look back over the Sixties and Seventies, and interpolate beyond my experience by looking at social history, I reach the conclusion that women's rage against men has been very thoroughly, very carefully inculcated into the fabric of American society. Just as "taking care of the family" is an inseparable part of Asian society, or the headscarf or even the burqa are the cultural norm of Southwest Asia.

The danger, and I count it a danger, for the American Man is that the society, the courts, the workplace, the media are all ganged up on the side of the American Woman. She's got the power, and she loves it. She sets the tune, she sets the pace, and if you want to dance you've got to please her. If you [I]displease[/I] her, she can treat you as an unruly insect. Crawl or be crushed.

A little of that $#! + has been enough for me. I don't want to dance that dance. Take me where the different drummer plays a sweet samba.

[QUOTE=Christopherd]The difference with the Aussie Sheila is that she declares her obnoxious qualities up front. E.g. "I'm Australian, so I drink a lot and talk loud." (end qoute)

The good honest Sheila doesn't give a f*ck. She told you in advance so it's your bloody fault if you didn't like it.[/QUOTE]
Hahahahaha! Soooo true. :)

The last time an Aussie Sheila was truly fun or an American woman was fun to be with, I believe Nixon was President, for an old fart, like me it does not seem a long time ago, but is way before some posters on this board were born.

[QUOTE=Australiasucks]...or an American woman was fun to be with, I believe Nixon was President, for an old fart, like me it does not seem a long time ago, but is way before some posters on this board were born.[/QUOTE]For me it was December 2009.

YMMV.

Never met an Aussie girl "up close and personal" AFAIR.

Gonna help me out RN? :)

i was (sadly) amused to read an interview this weekend with the female author (and relationship therapist) of her new book....

the male brain: a breakthrough in understanding how men and boys think

in the interview she starts out recounting a typical scene in her office...

"in my office, i often get couples that come in because their sexual life isn’t going well and they think it may have something to do with hormones. … i’ll turn to him and say, ‘john, how do you know mary loves you?’ and he’ll say, ‘because she wants to have sex with me.’ i’ll turn to her – her jaw’s on the ground by then – and say, ‘mary, how do you know john loves you?’ and she’ll say ‘because he wants to talk with me.’ "

so the wife discovers, for the first time, with the help of a pricey therapist, that her husband views sex as a fundamental aspect and positive reinforcement of their relationship! what did she think turned his crank - steamed vegetables every night? if her jaw is hanging down, i hope it is as an invitation to stick his cock in, now that she has finally got the message!!

at the same time she reiterates the female mantra about discussing things as the cornerstone to their relationship. so in all these years of talking, she never asked him, or he never told her that he like sex or thought it was important? more likely, he said it (and showed it) every chance he got, but guess what - she wasn't listening!

another amusing lack of basic understanding was revealed when i scanned some articles purporting to give advice to women on how to "keep your boyfriend/husband happy". there were dozens of internet columns, but most offered a variation on this "top 5" list:
1. compliment his good qualities...
2. listen to his complaints about his work...
3. surprise him with ticket to live theatre, concerts or sports events...
4. encourage him to spend time with his friends (this point is essentially about giving him permission to watch sports with his buddies, so long as he discusses it with you before and after)...
5. cook him a romantic dinner ("be sure to include his favourite beer or soda")

you got to love this list!
sex is not even in the top 5 ways girls are advised to please their men!!
i would be interested if a similar list by men had anything but sex in the top 5?
another list i saw recommended girls work on their make-up - proper use of eye shadow, manicures, etc.
most guys don't even realize a girl was wearing make-up until it gets messed up after a facial!

#5 "cook a romantic dinner" is a personal favourite of mine.
i like home cooking and i like romantic dinners.
but my wife used to do this every anniversary - make a big deal out of cooking an elaborate meal, which would take far too long and require far too much effort.
then she would be frazzled by the time we sat down to dinner and there was a huge mess in the kitchen to clean up afterwards.
so guess what got missed out on these special occasions? nookie!

a romantic meal without sex at the end has precisely the opposite effect on a guy.
it tells him his girl is all talk but no action or will do virtually anything to avoid sex.
a woman, trying to impress a man, who does not make herself the dessert course is certifiably insane.

i'd be interested in hearing the views of guys here about "top 5" ways women can keep their boyfriends/husbands happy....