American Women

Blobster, the women in New York are East coast versions of LA bitches. They too expect their men to treat them like princesses, and if you can't meet their expectations like buy them jewelry and clothes or they will dump you. This means you must spend your entire paycheck to please them or you must be rich. I am middle class and I complain if they spend more than half my paychecks on their clothes. I had an ex-girlfriend that dumped me because I couldn't buy her more shoes even after I already bought her some (and the sex wasn't even that good either). She thought that sex was a way to repay me for the shoes. This is why i became more choosy with American women. Yes, I ask them out and date them only because I am stuck in America but I also ditch them as soon as they ask for something expensive and complain when I refuse to buy it. Yes, I would buy that for her birthday or anniversary, which is reasonable but some women ask me to buy something expensive the moment they lay eyes on it. New York women tend to be impulsive shoppers. Some of them hold high positions and make more than I do but are poor because they spend anything they get on clothes or jewelry. Then they try to hook up with a guy and spend their money.

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** FORGET ** American Women !!

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.... i'm *married* to an American Woman !!!

Hi RN,

I was out with a group of friends (male and female) and along with the alcohol, the topic somehow turned to masturbation. Don't ask me how???

Here in the US, studies such as the Kinsey report and other legitimate academic researchers have found that approximately 94% of men masturbate (one author said the other 6% were probably liars). Ok, sounds about right.

When the isssue of FEMALE masturbation came up, matters became sort of tense if not deadly. I didn't say a word. My date already hates me I think.

Well, to your knowledge as a professional, what are the characteristics of female mastrubation? It's an unkown and pretty much a taboo subject here in the states - I think? I mean, like how often do women mastrubate? Do Oz women have all kinds of "medievil" hang-ups about it like women in the states? Is it a normal phase of human development and growth? Is it frowned upon in Oz culture? Is it looked upon as healthy and appropriate?

I guess, I'm asking what do you know about this topic? I certainly learned nothing on Saturday night. The women went from jolly to deadly serious when the subject turned to females. Also, if any of guys out there have any data or research we'd like to hear it.

Thanks.

94% of all men admit to masturbating and 6% are liars, whereas 6% of all women admit to masturbating and 94% are liars.

In most studies women admit to masturbating about a third less than men, with, for example, 62% fessing up in Kinsey. It should be noted that Kinsey asked how many [i]had or did[/i] masturbate, so that number looks at "ever" -- other studies have looked at things such as frequency and most recent experience. Various studies have the numbers for both sexes pegged at different levels, but women tend to be lower in percentage across the board. Many researchers say this is because a) women have traditionally been seen as serving their mates as opposed to pursuing their own sexual gratification, b) women who do think of themselves as sexual beings are negatively labelled, and, perhaps most pertinent to your experience, c) there is also more of a taboo about talking about it among women. Some researchers, for what it's worth, (such as in the book "Human Autoerotic Practices") are reporting that the percentages among women are on a definite rise.

My favorite little sex stat (ok, all, measure yourself by this ruler LOL) is that the typical person spends about 600 hours having sex between the ages of 20 and 70. Now, I'm sure this is a board of overachievers, but I'm not sure whether it's amusing or awful to think that for as much time spent in our culture and our lives around all things sexual, the average person will spend less than a month of his or her life actually getting it on... If you consider the average guy is supposed to last about 6 minutes, then that means having sex 6000 times, or, on average ten times a month during that span. Of course, if that stat takes in foreplay (say, 15 minutes or so, to be conservative) and/or masturbation then it's a considerably sadder and lonelier landscape out there, and one that explains the plaints so often heard here.

So if 96% of men admit masturbating per Kinsey, then a third FEWER of that would be 64%. That means that (100- 64) / (100 - 96) or 9 times as many women are liars as compared to men.

Six minutes? You gotta be kidding me. Get a blow up doll. Yeah, yeah, I read Kinsey too in my misspent youth. Now Masters was fucking Johnson throughout the course of their research so I feel it was probably superior research.

Hell, OF COURSE it was "superior research." He was getting paid while getting laid. That is the DEFINITION of superior research.

Did you hear about the Irish guy who got laid three times on his honeymoon? In, out, and in.

Yeah, well the six minutes thing comes from some other sources, but it's not far from what Kinsey and M&J had to say.

Interesting statistics. I guess Kinsey wore a watch while having sex with a blowup doll and ejaculated after 6 minutes. These statisticians are geeks and I doubt they can actually get a real woman to time fuck unless they paid a prostitute to be the test subject.

I feel If you just be yourself someone will notice it. When you are a gentleman even if she is nasty it will be in her mind. She may think about it later and think to herself this guy was just being nice. Plant the seed and everything else will follow. Did you really lose anything by her nasty attitude? All you did is is find she isn't the kind of person you want anyway. Often we don't do anything that helps us right away but the next person that comes. When you screw over a women you make it harder for the next person. This holds true in any country. I have lived in Asia 10yrs and found this to be true. Orginally from New York I got a clear cross section of different women.

Ohhhh Powerman...I think I just found myself a new hero! Well said, babe. :)

Paddy,
Haven't looked in this section for ages, so I just noticed your question. I'll write back to you a bit later on when I have more time (read: not at work!)

Re: The six minute theory...
Yet again I will probably be unpopular for saying this (what's new), but I am in total agreement with the six minute estimate. Actually, I would perhaps even put it at a little shorter...maybe 3 - 5 minutes. Certainly there are men who are a lot quicker than that, and there are men with more stamina than an Eveready battery...but in my experience the "average" man would definitely not go past six minutes. In fact, one of the first techniques a hooker has to master, is how to STOP a man from reaching orgasm! It's really quite difficult to fill up a one hour booking when the actual sex act only lasts for five minutes.

Or then again...maybe I'm just good in bed??? LOL :)

I think the average man would climax more quickly with a prostitute than with a non-prostitute for a number of reasons:

1) Time is money
2) Many prostitutes want to rush you
3) Pimps knocking on the door or apprehension of same
4) No reason to try to impress
5) Suboptimal environment you don't want to hang around in
6) Overly frustrated or "backed up" which is why you sought the hooker in the first place
7) Condoms make it more difficult to maintain an erection so you are unwilling to take the risk of "slowing down"
8) Passive aggressive attitude towards the sex worker, leading to a concept of treating her as a handy, convenient, efficient receptacle
9) Fear of law enforcement and risk directly proportional to time spent

Having said all that: Five minutes? Get a clue.

Well yes, pretty much all of that makes sense to me. :) But I wasn't just talking about clients...I have (ok, HAD) a sexlife outside of prostitution as well. And I stand by my original observation...the "average" time, from point of entry to point of ejeculation, (excluding foreplay, etc) is not usually very long at all. Mind you, I've had men who have gone on so long that I've started noticing cracks in the ceiling, too! LOL Five or six minutes is really a very long time though...longer than it sounds. When you consider how many thrusts you can manage in that time...

And it wasn't a criticism...just an observation.

A guy can last longer if he controls his breathing patterns, much like running long distances. I compare ejaculation with the time it take for one to pant and rest in running because the energy in both sex and running comes from the diaphragm of the lungs, or in kung-fu, they call it the hara which emits chi, or internal energy. If you breathe long, slow and relaxed breaths, you can run longer distances and last longer in bed. I learned this in kung-fu class for running and I experimented with sex and it works! I tried this with an ex-girlfriend and lasted 20-30 minutes with her the first cumming and then lasted 3 hours the second ejaculation, where before I learned the breathing exercises, I too lasted only 7 minutes. This doesn't take away from the intensity of the orgasm but makes you have a longer one.
I also want to last long with prostitutes because I want my money's worth and yes, I do want to get a full hour of pussy, not 5 minutes because I paid for an hour so I also apply these techniques for them. I don't care about what happens outside the session or if cops bust in. They would have to pull me off of her to stop me.

well, as someone who's had both the 5-6 minute experiences and the hour-plus-long ones, all i can say is given that lots of guys seem to think that six inches are actually ten, why shouldn't they think that six minutes are an hour? it's just sexual arithmetic :d

but for what it's worth, dh, i tend to find that condoms delay, rather than speed up cumming, because of the loss of sensation.