My experience with an American 'freebie'
In 2002, I was in San Francisco for work for quite a few weeks.
One night, I went out to a nice restaurant on Union in Pacific Heights with some work colleagues, , and we ended up chatting to this gorgeous girl and her friend.
We asked them out to drinks after dinner, but the pretty one said that she had to go back to the East Bay to drop her friend off, but maybe later. I said, in my charming English accent, 'Why don't I come and keep you company for the return journey', which she readily agreed to.
Anyway, after dropping her friend off, we made a 'stop' at Angel Island, and proceeded to make out and eventually had sex (unprotected - stupid me) in her car. It was great, as she was gorgeous, with the tightest body... but she refused to let me touch her face... something about spots. Anyway, she offered to drop me back in the Marina, but on the way pulled into a gas station, and asked me to pay for her petrol... talk about indirect 'pay-for-play'.
She also called me about 2 months later (I stupidly gave her my real name and number) telling me she was pregnant and needed $ for an abortion. I told her I would send over a few hundred $, but didn't have more as I had lost my job (as an investment banker). That was the last I heard from her...
I completely understand what all of you feel about American women; I don't think I would ever want to date one, at least not seriously.