"Roses" are Dollars, its just one way of a prostitute to change her language.
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"Roses" are Dollars, its just one way of a prostitute to change her language.
[QUOTE=Paesano63]The roses she wants is cash. She is a provider. At least the guy should know going in its only about the money.[/QUOTE]
Of Course! Silly me! I have revealed how much mongering I do here in the US by showing how ignorant I am of the local provider lingo! LOL!
I am curious about how the current gasoline/oil situation is affecting mongering budgets. Mine has been shot to hell. The airline ticket prices, the gas prices, and the plummeting of the value of the US dollar are a perfect storm of anti-mongering factors for me. I will have no vacation this summer. My plan is to save for a trip over New Year's to visit a ladyfriend abroad. I will need 6 months to save up for it.
Here's another ad: AW looking to barter her "non GFE" Massage services(i.e. no FS) for a replacement windshield. I think a windshield replacement is going to cost a heck of a lot more $$$ than a massage only session. I'm quite positive some desperate monger will fall for this BS.
[QUOTE]Barter windshield replacement - w4m (Metro Atlanta)
I would like to barter an erotic bodyrub to get my windshield replaced on my car. I am a mature provider(Not GFE)with a petite frame,5'1",112 llbs,green eyes and medium wavy blonde hair. If you have a sincere interest in this possibility then please list some credential/s you have and give something verifiable of yourself of which you can afford to give me.
Thanks,
Kit[/QUOTE]
Just go to [url]www.nomarriage.com[/url] for all the information.
[QUOTE=Tarius Shinobi]Just go to [url]www.nomarriage.com[/url] for all the information.[/QUOTE]
The content on the above site appears to have been lifted and plagiarized, uncredited and unacknowledged, from other sites such as ISG. And then that content is used to hawk someone's book.
[QUOTE=Yogin]The content on the above site appears to have been lifted and plagiarized, uncredited and unacknowledged, from other sites such as ISG. And then that content is used to hawk someone's book.[/QUOTE]
Most American women have robbed themselves of the genuine opportunity to play the role of "girl" in society. They don't want to be "girls" anymore. It's almost a dirty word to call them one.
They insist on having all the rights and responsibilities of men. So much so that they in fact become men, some in deed. They lose the allure that attracts a sincere mate and instead can only evaluate the degree to which they can take advantage of a situation rather than contribute to the prosperity of a relationship. The assets of the man become the golden ring to which they now seem to aspire. Once their position is secured, they invoke the "Kings X" known (in California) as "irreconcilable differences" to get out of their marriage contract, taking with them 50% of the assets together with any support payments awarded them. Then they stat over again.
The American woman is dependent on the pussy wrench in order to get what she wants. Very few (if any) get anywhere because they are genuinely good people with their heart in the right place.
Latinas seem to appreciate the opportunity to focus on being "girls." Once their pressures and worries are removed from their every day life, they [i]naturally[/i] focus on being girls. The also focus on being wives, girlfriends or whatever their role is. They don't want to be men, they [b]want[/b] to be women. They [b]want[/b] to be beautiful. For them it is a [b]practice[/b] and they love doing it. They understand thier role, they are proud to play it and take pride in being good at it. They are respected because of it and (in my case) admired for being willing to assume that role.
Men, for their part, need to take responsiblity and do what they need to in order to let their girl be the best "girl" she can be. The results are predictable and are almost always welcomed. Just don't [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord140][CodeWord140][/url] them off!
Country John
[QUOTE=Yogin]The content on the above site appears to have been lifted and plagiarized, uncredited and unacknowledged, from other sites such as ISG. And then that content is used to hawk someone's book.[/QUOTE]
What's even funnier is that the shiet we write on here is not lifted from some book, its 100% Grade A, honest to goodness TRUTH.
When men in a crowd here you speak this way and nood in agreement, it doesn't have to be lifted from something....
it’s been two years since i hit the us and even longer since i actually attempted to court american women. (i was married for four years until i discovered that there was another side to the planet) so here i was in full swing. hit the mall with my young cousin who is national high school basketball star and child hood friend of mine who some how finds and fucks some the most beautiful black girls my city produces. i mean all of us are not bad looking guys and are doing pretty decent financially. at any rate most of the girls we encountered were fucking **** girls who acted and dressed older what we refer to as jail bait.
the rest of girls were average no dead knock outs. i played along when we saw a half decent girl and would yell damn or something like that to excite my cousin and friend but really what i thinking was the amount of frustration and energy that was being invested in trying to chase these women. i mean the clothes the expensive jewelry not really bought for you but only to impress these women. you are supposed to look decent no matter what but the time and energy?
responses i saw from my cousin and friend advances was either outright ignoration or angry faces to extremely silly responses such as faces been made. on the other side of the world it’s not hard to find a love for life or the night. people may say due to the economic situation but if you have ever been to the slums in american city you might think you were in a third world country.
i was excited when i first arrived in the states but after seeing what these guys go through just to get some pussy i was shocked and beside myself at the amount of effort. hell my playboy friend had settled down with half puerto rican half black who he said almost drove him mentally insane with her changing attitudes weight gain and overall erratic behavior going from being uninterested in sex to telling him he couldn’t go anywhere without her being there (what the fuck) and he had gave up all ladies for her until her brother stole his car and because of her he let it the guy go.
they were even about to get married but my friend loves cars classics hood classics (monte carlo grand nationals) and when his restored baby got stole by the psycho's brother that was the thing that rang his bell and woke him the fuck up. mine was when my ex asked me to leave my government job to come live in one of the most expensive parts in the country with no damn plan.
long ass post this is but after this experience probably be another couple of years before i come back. hate to stay away due to the family being here but that desperation i saw in too many of the guys eyes strolling the mall i don't have the fucking stomach for it....
dear philippines here i fucking come....
[quote=d etat]it’s been two years since i hit the us and even longer since i actually attempted to court american women. (i was married for four years until i discovered that there was another side to the planet) so here i was in full swing. hit the mall with my young cousin who is national high school basketball star and child hood friend of mine who some how finds and fucks some the most beautiful black girls my city produces. i mean all of us are not bad looking guys and are doing pretty decent financially. at any rate most of the girls we encountered were fucking **** girls who acted and dressed older what we refer to as jail bait.
the rest of girls were average no dead knock outs. i played along when we saw a half decent girl and would yell damn or something like that to excite my cousin and friend but really what i thinking was the amount of frustration and energy that was being invested in trying to chase these women. i mean the clothes the expensive jewelry not really bought for you but only to impress these women. you are supposed to look decent no matter what but the time and energy?
(tell me about it.....)
responses i saw from my cousin and friend advances was either outright ignoration or angry faces to extremely silly responses such as faces been made. on the other side of the world it’s not hard to find a love for life or the night. people may say due to the economic situation but if you have ever been to the slums in american city you might think you were in a third world country.
(yeah, i get those looks on a daily basis without even making any advances.)
(the chicks here in the slums got ipods, new cellphones every other month, chanel sunglasses, facebook profiles, and dudes hollerin at them giving them gigantic aw style entitlement attitudes.)
i was excited when i first arrived in the states but after seeing what these guys go through just to get some pussy i was shocked and beside myself at the amount of effort. hell my playboy friend had settled down with half puerto rican half black who he said almost drove him mentally insane with her changing attitudes weight gain and overall erratic behavior going from being uninterested in sex to telling him he couldn’t go anywhere without her being there (what the fuck) and he had gave up all ladies for her until her brother stole his car and because of her he let it the guy go.
(this post says alot... most places around the world the guy dictates the way its gonna be, not the other way around. and yes the effort doesn't justify the reward.)
they were even about to get married but my friend loves cars classics hood classics (monte carlo grand nationals) and when his restored baby got stole by the psycho's brother that was the thing that rang his bell and woke him the fuck up. mine was when my ex asked me to leave my government job to come live in one of the most expensive parts in the country with no damn plan.
long ass post this is but after this experience probably be another couple of years before i come back. hate to stay away due to the family being here but that desperation i saw in too many of the guys eyes strolling the mall i don't have the fucking stomach for it....
(im gonna have to wear shades from now on!)
dear philippines here i fucking come....[/quote] i really need to stow away in your luggage!
if you have a choice, go with the warts
if i could offer a young man one piece of sage advice, it would be this:
don't get married.
don't do it. come the divorce, as come it probably will, the courts will systematically shear you of your children, your house, and huge amounts of your income for twenty years. don't do it. it isn't worth it. nothing is.
my saying this usually brings, from women, cries that i'm an extremist or woman-hater. no. the problem is not women, but the courts. men can behave every bit as reprehensibly as women, though they go about it differently. but the judicial system, which is politicized to the gills, utterly favors women over men in divorce cases, without remorse, decency, or concern for children.
should you doubt this, read, before you pop the most foolish of questions, from courtship to courthouse by the divorce lawyer jed abraham.*
writes abraham, "if you're like most men, you're married, or you hope to marry some day. you think you deserve to live happily ever after, but if things don't work out that way, you'll get a civilized divorce and move on. you'll stay pals with your ex, and you'll see your kids as often as you want.
"you have no idea what you're getting into."
and you don't. not the faintest freaking clue.
a few facts from abraham:
"the odds are 50% that your marriage will end in divorce. the odds are 70% that your divorce will be filed by your wife. the odds are 80% that your wife will get custody of your children-plus child support, alimony, and/or a hefty chunk of your property."
that is how it is.
yes, i know: you don't think this applies to you. cup cake loves you. she would never behave in such a way. think again. you have no conception of the hatred that divorce engenders. men are callous; women are mean. when a family breaks up, when a life dreamed of disappears in flames and emotions go limbic, women are not the kinder sex, and certainly not the more rational. and cup cake will have the absolute upper hand, with the full power of the state to help her express her dissatisfaction with you.
abraham: "if your wages are not withheld and you fail to pay your child support, the state will garnish your pay, slap liens on your property, intercept your tax refunds, report you to credit agencies, discontinue your driver's license, suspend your professional and business permits, hold you in contempt of court, put your face on a wanted poster, throw you in jail, and deny you food stamps. but if your ex doesn't spend that very same support on the children, the state will do. . . nothing."
it gets worse. there is, for example, "imputed income." this means that your child support will be based not on what your children need, not on what you earn, but on what the court decides you could earn.
don't do it.
if you love cup cake, live with her. be kind to her. be loyal to her. she may be as nice as you think she is: many women are. buy her roses. just don't marry her, or have children with her. if the laws were even-handed, marriage would be an admirable institution. the laws aren't equal.
but it's the kids she'll use, should things get nasty, to tear your guts out. if you're sure that cup cake won't do this, you're crazy. true, she may not. not all women do, or not to the same degree. but you won't know until it's too late. and the courts will do anything she wants.
abraham: "your ex will warm to calling all the shots. she may cancel your visitation now and then. if she's truly mean-spirited, she'll go much further. under the cover of her court-appointed role as sole custodian, she'll systematically sever your relationship with the children. she'll badmouth you to them. she'll schedule their extracurricular activities during your visitation time. for good measure, she may accuse you of domestic violence and child abuse."
think "joint custody" is the answer? the courts won't enforce it. what are you going to do-sue mommy? the kids will hate you for it. do you believe in pre-nups? the courts ignore them. read abraham. it's all there.
then, says abraham, there's the killer: "more efficiently, your ex may simply move with the children to a distant community, with the law's acquiescence."
kids are the crunch, guys. they hurt. and she will know it, and use it. the courts will help her. at bottom, the position of the courts is that the children are her property, like furniture. judges don't care about you at all.
ever drive away from what used to be your home, with your daughter of four streaking across the parking lot, yelling, "daddy! daddy! please come back!"-and you can't?
ever have your little girl of four say, "daddy, can i get my birthday present early?"
"why, pumpkin?"
"well. . . after the divorce we might move, and i won't see you again."
that's what you are in for, guys. don't do it. you'll be suicidally depressed, miss your kids to the point of desperation, be almost frantic-and the courts will make sure you can do nothing about it. the ex will probably enjoy it.
that's the reality. don't believe it? talk to men who have been there.
why do women do these things? not because they're evil. cup cake is probably a perfectly decent woman in her dealing with the rest of the earth. she'll do it because she hates you, which is the normal outcome of a divorce. she'll do it because she can. she's furious because the marriage didn't work, which will be entirely your fault.
and the law gives her every incentive: she will get the house, the kids, the child support-and she knows she will. if women knew they had an even chance of not getting custody, of having to pay child support, the divorce rate would drop like a prom dress and joint custody would suddenly mean joint custody. women love their children as much as men do.
but that's not how it is. the courts encourage divorce, and they [url=http://isgprohibitedwords.info?CodeWord=CodeWord123][CodeWord123][/url] men. get used to it.
abraham: "the odds are it doesn't pay for you to marry and have kids."
that's a fact, guys. think about it.
fred on everything column:
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Some guys get western girls easy. Some say its because of money some say its because of looks I have seen guys prove both these false. After my return back to Asia from my brief stay it has weighed heavy on my mental. Just what is it? Is it the Pheromones? Just kidding with that but really? I know my future lies here in PI where I live but for the guys who are there there must be something.
[QUOTE=D Etat]Some guys get western girls easy. Some say its because of money some say its because of looks I have seen guys prove both these false. After my return back to Asia from my brief stay it has weighed heavy on my mental. Just what is it? Is it the Pheromones? Just kidding with that but really? I know my future lies here in PI where I live but for the guys who are there there must be something.[/QUOTE]
Some say it's easy if you're a thug, drug dealer or you can tolerate lots of rejection until you eventually get lucky.
If you're a professional musician, it helps :P
Just want do AW want?
If they are into Minorities -
Plug in your most famous Latin, Black or Asian "hunk" and visually that's where they start.
If they are into Caucasians -
Plug in your flavor of the month, whatever that is and that's where they start visually
From there they start with themselves, a reality check.
Then its up to YOU to prove that just because they'll never meet (insert famous person here) that you'll do in the long term or the very short term.
Then a bunch of sudjective bullshiet comes up, I won't even bother listing it all...
After living in Asia & visiting Africa, Australia & Europe, I have no desire for American women. Heck, men from other countries don't want AW unless it's for sex only ! But American men can go almost anywhere in the world & get a sexy, beautiful woman who will be in your corner. All my friends in America that are married, or living with AW are totally miserable.
When I am in the U.S. , I visit clubs & I see AW acting all stuck up. I just laugh ! because I don't have to waste my time trying to get with them because I have lady friends in Hong Kong, Singapore & Thailand!
Damn I love Asia!