American Women

Can you please fuck off Anonymous, we do not want you here and you are so full of shit that its coming out of your mouth. Get Lost.

[QUOTE=DJ FourMoney]DD doesn't come around that much, too busy I suppose. This isn't the first time he has attacked me, well I really wouldn't call it an attack, just pickin on me I suppose.

EE women have their issues, in fact ALL WOMEN have issues, its weather you want to put up with them or not.

The fact that so many women were willing to follow Hillary into the flames; she showed how smart she was and got the fuck out of the way of the coming train....

Enough political talk, I've had it for this week already....

I am Joe Blow Average Dude, I happen to be Black I usually don't get a cookie for that, but every once in a blue moon I do, so be it.

For years the women I would come in contact with had children from previous failed relationships. 76% of child are raised by a single parent households, usually women. 80% of marriages less than 5 years old end in divorce. Now I must be some type of moron not to want to continue beating a dead horse and take what's given too me.

Nor do I want to criss-cross the country looking for a woman. In fact I am on hiatus at the moment, other things have my attention. I am in no position to play "Capt Save A Hoe" so I don't portray that when I travel. I'm just me, I have faults, I have issues like anybody else, if you want to accept that, great. The problem is the women willing to accept me are below my [i]Mendoza[/i] line. I am attempting a plan to keep me in Europe for an extended amount of time, long distance phone calls and constant trips add up, I say combine that cost into one long trip, see what happens.

But enough about that, too me its looking more bleek all the time. That 3-5 year age gap that Western women seem to love is becoming a serious problem.

I don't know the stats but it seems to me most women over 30 either have no children and bound to their career (this is a woman I really wouldn't meet) or have children and have spent the last 5-10 years struggling paycheck to paycheck (a woman I'm more likely to meet) so it seems its my darkest hour doesn't it?

I don't believe the European woman are perfect, I say it holds some promise as it does for other men that have ventured over there. Its not a perfect solution, nothing is.

But my requirements are best met by somebody that doesn't live in the US...[/QUOTE]

Have you considered Latin America?

I agree, US state of man/ women relations is at a low. It probably would have always been the way it is now if America would have delivered on the promise of ,"Freedom", a lot sooner. Peolpe were stuck with each other before.

[QUOTE=CBGBConnisur]Can you please fuck off Anonymous, we do not want you here and you are so full of shit that its coming out of your mouth. Get Lost.[/QUOTE]Add me to your ignore list. I just did the same to you. Your comments have no veracity to them..."many jews see themselves as black"... but it is useless to call people names on an anonymous message board....especially someone like you who just engages in absurd political banter and doesn't post pictures or chronicles of their own p4P experience.

Later.

[QUOTE=Naked Gunz]Have you considered Latin America?

I agree, US state of man/ women relations is at a low. It probably would have always been the way it is now if America would have delivered on the promise of ,"Freedom", a lot sooner. People were stuck with each other before.[/QUOTE]

I have... but are my chances any better?

I'd say No, about the same.

I'm working on a plan we'll see if it works out...

Money and hence power breaks down national, religious, and racial barriers, it will happen time and again.

Lots of CIS golddiggers now applying their trade in Dubai, Mumbai, and Hong Kong, so that throws a wrench into the idea that Russians are completely racist towards nonwhites. I would say some people stand a better chance with a white Russian woman than with a white woman from Australia, Canada, or the US.

Human beings will be human beings until the end of time.

[QUOTE=CBGBConnisur]Money and hence power breaks down national, religious, and racial barriers, it will happen time and again.

Lots of CIS golddiggers now applying their trade in Dubai, Mumbai, and Hong Kong, so that throws a wrench into the idea that Russians are completely racist towards nonwhites. I would say some people stand a better chance with a white Russian woman than with a white woman from Australia, Canada, or the US.

Human beings will be human beings until the end of time.[/QUOTE]

I frequent Dubai around every few months or so and I had more than my fair share of Russian/EE girls turn their nose up to me yes WGs leaving me to choose between the money grubbing unfriendly Chinese, run of the mill Filipinas and insane I "I don't have a disease" Africans. I am late 20s and in excellent shape :)

The fact remains that there are a lot of Russian and CIS women selling their bodies in exotic places to Arabs, Indians, and Chinese.

[QUOTE=CBGBConnisur]The fact remains that there are a lot of Russian and CIS women selling their bodies in exotic places to Arabs, Indians, and Chinese.[/QUOTE]

When it comes to money they will settle if nothing else is on the menu thats why the third world is so attractive to the average westerner :)

[QUOTE=CBGBConnisur]Money and hence power breaks down national, religious, and racial barriers, it will happen time and again.
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Amen. She will have to justify to her fam and friends why she crossed the racial lines. The only acceptable reasons are money or position(power).
That gives her scab friends and family hope to catch a few crumbs.

This is actually the same shit we encounter with third world women, but on a more sophisticated level here. Third world riches are: steady income, food and shelter. USA riches: Steady income of 100K+, fine dining, beautiful mansion. Your the Alpha male in either case. So American women are not really diff than any other nationality.

Gents, this particular forum is American women and opinions. There is a diff between American women, and women in America. Lots of them here don't give you the BS you have had to endure.

[QUOTE=Naked Gunz]Amen. She will have to justify to her fam and friends why she crossed the racial lines. The only acceptable reasons are money or position(power).
That gives her scab friends and family hope to catch a few crumbs.

This is actually the same shit we encounter with third world women, but on a more sophisticated level here. Third world riches are: steady income, food and shelter. USA riches: Steady income of 100K+, fine dining, beautiful mansion. Your the Alpha male in either case. So American women are not really diff than any other nationality.

Gents, this particular forum is American women and opinions. There is a diff between American women, and women in America. Lots of them here don't give you the BS you have had to endure.[/QUOTE]I don't think this is off topic, but just for the sake of debate... what is so wrong about women wanting a better life, i.e. money and position? Ultimately women are looking to create an environment where they can raise children. Every parent wishes his child to be raised in a secure environment and a fundamental desire is also to create such an environment that is superior to the one that one experienced as a child. Your children should have it better than you did.

Love is of course a deciding factor in a relationship, however love is an intangible, immeasurable commodity. What is it worth? I am sure many ISG posters would scream out "it is worth everything!", just as many women would agree. Believe it or not I'm a closet romantic and hopelessly sentimental, so I would tend to agree.

Nonetheless, in many cultures love is equivalent to support. In Western cultures we are taught differently, however this fundamental value i.e. support is also prominent in our relationships, although considerably less so than in Asian cultures for example or in a sense, all third world cultures or poor societies.

I remember a specific incident in which I was meeting the mother of a serious girlfriend I had in Russia. Her mother hated me from the moment she met me and was very upset that I was even in my then gf's apartment... a no-no in conservative, traditional Russia. It was a very tense situation, as this small woman tore me apart with her icy glare and harsh words. She did utter a sentence however that stuck with me:

"Love is more than an emotion"

Meaning that passion, lust or even love is not necessarily the basis for a lasting relationship or successful partnership. Support and quality of life are just as important, as is humility and patience.

Perhaps humility and patience are what is lacking in today's couples.

[QUOTE=Doctor_Skank]with me:

Perhaps humility and patience are what is lacking in today's couples.[/QUOTE]

Actually I concur with all you have written. Your not off topic, and the forum is about your opinion and I respect it. Having grown up watching the Brady Bunch, but certainly not living the Brady Bunch, I have a view of how I would like my life to be here in America as a married man. Romance is wonderful, but not enough.

My posts are directed to and in support of American men that have been screwded by the institution of marriage as a form of lotto to women that dont respect their vows, bring nothing to the table,and are cluless to the support of their man.

You think love is the deciding factor in a relationship? Do you really know what she is thinking in her evaluation of you? You were not listening to that girl trying to school you. Love is more than emotion she said. I knew a pastor that said "Love is a decision,not a feeling". It is exactly the same statement.

She was trying to tell you that have to accept all the bullsh*t that comes with being with her and f*ucking her. That's a decision more than feelings.
Feelings fade..Jeez I wish I had this wisdom 30 years ago!

[QUOTE=Naked Gunz]You think love is the deciding factor in a relationship? Do you really know what she is thinking in her evaluation of you? You were not listening to that girl trying to school you. Love is more than emotion she said. I knew a pastor that said "Love is a decision,not a feeling". It is exactly the same statement.

She was trying to tell you that have to accept all the bullsh*t that comes with being with her and f*ucking her. That's a decision more than feelings.
Feelings fade..Jeez I wish I had this wisdom 30 years ago![/QUOTE]Actually it was her mother trying to school me and I think my interpretation of what she said was correct. At least that is the vibe I was getting.

The girl herself was all passion and craziness (and one of the best lovers I've ever had, we had A+ chemistry), however her mother was the level-headed one.

At the end of the day, she was right. Shame when pessimism wins.

Generally speaking though, it seems to me that couples are very quick to pull the plug these days whereas in the past they stuck it out, for better or for worse. Whether or not that is a good thing depends on your perspective... :)

Men, meet your overlords...

I'm sorry but I have to disagree here with Naked Gunz...

Here in Bogota, most people are economically far behind their US counterparts, but....

1) The rich here are EVERY BIT as rich as the American rich, except for their cost of living is MUCH lower. The top 5% or so of the population has a HELL of a lot of purchasing power here, in a way the average American couldn't even FATHOM.

2) MOST people here are not starving or homeless. There aren't any more homeless here by % than there are in any typical American city, which is a major miracle considering how fast this city has grown and how many of these people are internally displaced. There definitely are people who don't have enough to eat or are homeless or living in tin shacks, but the VAST majority of people here actually do have their basic needs for food, shelter, etc. met.

3) What people tend to lack here compared to their counterparts in the US would be mainly luxury items, especially anything to do with cars, also thinks like toys, electronics, broadband internet, in some of the poorer neighborhoods perhaps hot water.

Based on the above, I don't think a girl in Colombia is likely to fall head over heels over a foreigner just based on the idea that he will give her the basic needs. And from what I've seen in IRL the way some gringos come here and SHOWER money on these girls it's just fucking unbelievable.

So yes, I DO think there is a profound cultural difference, hell, I'd go further, there are lots of profound cultural differences within this country and this very city.

That's right. Not politics, not life in Colombia, not the price of yak butter in Nepal.

Here's an apropos quote from Al Bundy of "Married With Children", replying to some mean fat cow customer in his shoe store who called him a loser:
"So you think I'm a loser? Just because I have a stinking job that I hate, a family that doesn't respect me, a whole city that curses the day I was born? Well, that may mean loser to you, but let me tell you something. Every morning when I wake up, I know it's not going to get any better until I go back to sleep again. So I get up, have my watered down Tang and still-frozen Pop Tart, get in my car with no upholstery, no gas and six more payments to fight traffic just for the privilege of putting cheap shoes on the cloven hooves of people like you. I'll never play football like I thought I would, I'll never know the touch of a beautiful woman, and I'll never again know the joy of driving without a bag on my head. But I'm not a loser. 'Cause despite it all, me and every other guy who'll never be what he wanted to be, are still out there, being what we don't wanna be, forty hours a week, for life. And the fact that I haven't put a gun to my mouth, you pudding of a woman, makes me a winner!"