American Women

Hey, if American women are 200+ pounds, they can qualify to be football players or they can go to Japan to be Sumo Wrestlers. Hehe...

Actually, Darkseid, in this very litigious country, if said "Female Fridge" got roughed up and broke a nail (in a game that's a step away from team gladiator combat), she'd sue for unnecessary roughness and a sympathetic (man-bashing) jury would award her more in punitive damages to soothe her hurt feelings than the highest paid player could ever earn in the entire span of his contract at the peak of his abilities. How's THAT for equality?

American women want it both ways. They want to participate in man sports yet they worry about their nails? My capoeira teacher who is a Brazilian woman tells the female students to cut their fingernails and toenails or they cannot participate in the class. I totally agree with her on that. Nails are sharp and can break skin and at the same time, if they are too long, they break and rip off the woman's fingers and cause her to bleed. I think if they want to participate, they should lose everything that gets in the way like nails, jewelry, body hairs, long hair, etc. Outside the sport they could still be effeminate but when playing a sport, she should take the bad that goes with it, the chance to break a nail, get a black eye or bruises, etc. Unfortunately, American women want to participate without suffering the bad side of it.
Another ridiculous thing about them is that American women don't like to be felt up while playing sport. There was even a lawsuit when a male wrestler pinned a female wrestler and the female wrestler accused the male of groping her. Guess what, the female wrestler won and was awarded for emotional distress and humiliation. We live in a society where we get sued for even handling women even in sports. We midas well let the female football player run to the field goal without tackling her for fear of being sued for sexual assault.
Another example of how our society has become more Puritan is Woodstock. During the first woodstock in the 60s, no American Woman sued for sexual assault or harrassment. It was the time of free love. But in Woodstock II which happened in the late 90s, women sued for sexual assault because they accused guys of "feeling them up" or groping them while all they just did was pass them above their heads so that she can get to the front stage to meet her favorite star. Sheesh!! Last time we'll do that favor for them.

Let's be a little fair here on the sports side of things and not paint with [i]too[/i] wide a brush -- there are plenty of sports where women's only options are either to go for the men's teams or not be able to play at all, and wrestling is definitely one of them. There are a number of women who grew up in wrestling households -- their father and all their brothers did it -- who have wanted to do what the rest of the family did and whose only option is to go for the men's team, as there's no women's team. In a number of cases, Boards of Education have denied them the option, because of worry not only about lawsuits but how other teams would react. In Utah, for example, a female who wrestles is required to forfeit the match if the male on the other teams doesn't want to wrestle her. In Texas, the referee's association refused to instruct its members how to score inter-gender matches.

There are plenty of women who compete pretty well in sports and who make exactly the same kinds of sacrifices in training and appearance as men, fingernails and everything else included. My sister used to play for a semi-pro rugby team, and she was (and is) tough as nails -- once popped her own dislocated shoulder back in and set her broken arm because she was afraid if she went to a doctor to have it done he'd forbid her to go skiing that weekend.

I agree completely that sometimes women go over the top on these things, and lots of the lawsuits can be ridiculous, but men aren't a lot better in that regard -- there are tons of stupid lawsuits by men over sporting slights as well, but they don't tend to get the same kind of news coverage.

If a woman wants to participate in a sport dominated by men and demands to play WITH men, then she'd better be ready to face the consequences (NOT anything like sexual groping, unlike grappling for better position in a wrestling example). If said female, whomever she may be, holds her own or even EXCELS, (WITHOUT complaining about the obvious physiological differences) then she'd earn my respect ONE woman actually DID earn my respect in the ring. When I was taking karate (BEFORE I turned my back on it and switched to Kung Fu) my instructor pitted us against each other to fight. She was months away from her black belt and I was only a green belt (just illustrating the scene, is all). Upon the signal to fight, we launched ourselves at each other and we BOTH clobbered each other with ONE punch. I bloodied her lip and she landed a straight punch square between my eyes that snapped my head back like a jack-in-the-box. The fact being that she was an American woman, I never held HER (specifically) in contempt of ANY kind, since she was a classmate, but after that match, she earned a respect I didn't even give any of my MALE classmates. She didn't complain even ONCE that she was pitted against an opponent who was 6'2" and outweighed her by nearly 30 pounds (she was a slightly big girl).

The irony of it all is women can have an only womens school, but men can't, women can have a women's only club and men can't (Augusta Country Club), and the government pushes political correctness to a level of ridiculousness. I say it's time to stand up and say the hell with them all and take back our control. Family life in America has become worse due to the "manification" of the woman by the liberal groups. Why can't we except what nature provides and not alter it. Men and women have their roles and that's why we American men look elsewhere for women.

I totally respect the woman who plays the sports and accepts the bad that comes with the good. My capoeira class and kung-fu has a few good women that can handle the sport and don't mind being groped or giving up the "delicateness". The American woman that sues for sexual assault when pinned or tackled is the one that ruins things for everyone. It also ruins the opportunities for the woman that is good at the sport and wants to do what it takes to succeed in it. Male sports teams are afraid to recruit these women that are great at sports because of the pansy feminist nazis that sue a guy just for touching her. The male sports teams have probably been sued by such a women once before or is afraid of being sued or afraid she will sue the opposite team. Those women even get a lawsuit even if they sign a waiver saying they will not sue if pinned or groped and the lawyers that represent them somehow find a loophole (the sympatethic feminist prudish jury) to nullify the agreement. I think this waiver MUST be honored but that's not always the case in America. In America you are free to sue and point fingers and blame someone else or American women can capitalize on such prudish jurors to win lawsuits and make some money.

Re: Darkseid

It seems to be difficult for Asian-American men in the US. There are many articles written on this subject in particular.

Don't know, I am Asian Indian, US raised, and I think the situation is far different for us. We look like crosses between black and white people, perhaps hispanic...

I am with a wonderful woman now who is not of my background, and her family has been very accepting of me... but they are quite liberal people. EVEN WHEN I knocked her up (while living together).

It does vary tremendously from one part of the US to another.. I did live in a neighborhood for a while where dating was an impossibility. Some will reject you for your skin color, but even white and black men get rejected on occasion...

Still the cards are stacked against Chinese, Japanese, Korean men....

Benevolent_man, I think it is still possible but a slim chance for us Asian men to hook up in the USA especially in the conservative areas like New York City. Even when I did hook up, the Cuban American girl I was with was persecuted by her friends. Her friends even told me to back off and leave her alone and stop dating her. Under lots of pressure and threats, she gave in when I tried to convince her not to. I even didn't care if she put on a few pounds, a test that her friends made her go through to prove my love for her. I passed that test but in spite of that, she still was forced to break up with me. Her family, on the other hand didn't mind her dating me and only cared that I was successful and making money.
Asian Indians are also on the same boat as the Orientals. In fact, we are classified as the same race in most applications.

I am very sorry it did not work out. Were the friends American or Cuban?

Asian Indians are in the same boat as far as AA type stuff, but in dating it is different... at least in my experiences. Simply due to the different appearance. In fact I think more Indian men hook up with white women than vice-versa... We don't suffer as greatly as you do from negative portrayal in the media... joy luck club, kung-fu, comic-relief, etc....

Everyone, let's make a commitment to remain single rather than marry/date these fat-assed, arrogant, women who think that just because they have a p**** they deserve a fine man.

The friends were all American. Some were fat American born Black women and a couple of American Hispanics (Hispanics born here in USA). She also had a disapproving American born Korean friend who was against this relationship.

benevolent_man, you hit the nail on the head! When I look around at these arrogant, sorry excuses for women who think they are to be worshipped and that they possess the equivalent of a precious metal between their cottage cheese thighs (Sam Breakstone could make a FORTUNE off their asses and thighs!) I just chuckle to myself and remember when I went to Spain a long time ago. I can count on one hand the number of times I've been totally awestruck by a woman's beauty and this is one time it happened. I was checking into my hotel and while I was walking from the lobby to my room upstairs, I almost bumped into this statuesque Spaniard chick who I could have sworn just stepped down from Mount Olympus to mingle with the mortals. I was so dumbfounded, I blurted out an "hola" while my eyes were like saucers. She, smiled, (GOD what a smile!) replied in kind and went about her business. Had I done that here in the US of A, I would have witnessed a cold shoulder, a rolling of the eyes and MAYBE a smile as false as a politician's campaign promise. Darkseid, black women ESPECIALLY are guilty of the mind-poisoning (although they DON'T corner the market on it!) that fosters blatant materialism. I hear so much of that shit that it makes me wonder: "What the fuck can YOU bring to the table that makes you worth all your demands"? Don't EVENB get me started on women who say: "If you wait, (for sex) I'll make it worth your while". Oh yeah? Who wants to wait for what they eventually find out is the equivalent of necrophilia with a woman who overestimated her prowess in the sack? Thankfully, I can now weed out the pearls from the crap...

Guys,

American women tend to treat ALL men badly irregardless of their race, color, creed or ethnic origin. Even good looking white guys with a lot money get the same routine.

A guy I know who has tons of looks and money says that all the women out there act like every guy is a potential "Ted Bundy" or something.

In my experience - which is considerable I'm afraid - American women have these serious and often intimidating defensive attitudes to begin with. After you get past that, they're just as fragile and desperate as everyone else on the planet. Getting past all of their initial defensiveness can be a real turn-off, however. If you want to endure all of that, you then have to put up with their asexuality, monetary demands, etc.

So, it's not a pretty picture out there for American guys.

Guys, did you see Bridezilla last night? What an ACCURATE depiction of American women!!!! They all want wedding gowns that cost $30,000+, the price of a car! Yep, they are going to need one that expensive because they will be as big as cars in a few months. They also want weddings that cost as much as a house. Some of their weddings cost over $100,000!! I was shocked at those prices these Bridezillas demanded their fiancees to spend on their weddings. I was also relieved that I broke off my wedding with my ex-finacee who was mind poisoned by American women. I could have done the ultimate humiliating thing which was leaving her at the altar but that probably would have been a very expensive joke. It would have costed me a lot for the wedding to do that.
Sinanjumaster, I think the Puritanism of this country is responsible for women thinking that they have a gold mine between their legs. Women are always uptight and taught to abstain from sex until marriage or they will anger God and lightning will strike them down. American Women tend to be more God-fearing than men in America. They are the ones that get into religion first before dragging their husbands to church. Even if the couple does go to church, the husband is the one who lets loose and parties with his friends while the American wife gets together with her friends at a humdrum prayer and bible talk meeting in the form of a book club. Some even abstain from sex AFTER marriage and only have sex for procreation. It seems that American women are looking for men worth getting struck by lightning for.

[QUOTE]Originally posted by sinanjumaster
[i]benevolent_man, you hit the nail on the head! When I look around at these arrogant, sorry excuses for women who think they are to be worshipped and that they possess the equivalent of a precious metal between their cottage cheese thighs (Sam Breakstone could make a FORTUNE off their asses and thighs!) I just chuckle to myself and remember when I went to Spain a long time ago. I can count on one hand the number of times I've been totally awestruck by a woman's beauty and this is one time it happened. I was checking into my hotel and while I was walking from the lobby to my room upstairs, I almost bumped into this statuesque Spaniard chick who I could have sworn just stepped down from Mount Olympus to mingle with the mortals. I was so dumbfounded, I blurted out an "hola" while my eyes were like saucers. She, smiled, (GOD what a smile!) replied in kind and went about her business. Had I done that here in the US of A, I would have witnessed a cold shoulder, a rolling of the eyes and MAYBE a smile as false as a politician's campaign promise. Darkseid, black women ESPECIALLY are guilty of the mind-poisoning (although they DON'T corner the market on it!) that fosters blatant materialism. I hear so much of that shit that it makes me wonder: "What the fuck can YOU bring to the table that makes you worth all your demands"? Don't EVENB get me started on women who say: "If you wait, (for sex) I'll make it worth your while". Oh yeah? Who wants to wait for what they eventually find out is the equivalent of necrophilia with a woman who overestimated her prowess in the sack? Thankfully, I can now weed out the pearls from the crap... [/i][/QUOTE]


Most black women want it all and they want someone to give it to them on demand(By the way i'm an African-American) So I do see your point on the point of materialism. The ones you dealt with are just jealous bitches! if your well established, they think they can get ya hook line and sinker...Don't sweat it man, fuckem!and move on to greener pasteurs