My two cents on the list of negatives
[QUOTE=Akibono]Good and bad reports should be based on facts--not opinions. The criteria I consider relevant include: 1) short sessions; 2) restrictions; 3) asking for more money or charging more than the going rate; and 4) being rude.
On the plus side: 1) providing service beyond he normal w/o complaint; 2) couch time before or after the session; and 3) agreeing to special requests.[/QUOTE]
Inacceptable criteria would include 1) no genuine DFKs, 2) too much "Handeinsatz" or hand application with a BJ, 3) no eye contact, 4) no communication (you don't have a common language), 5) upsell (same as Akibonos #3), 6) lazy sex - by this I mean she doesn't want to take the initiative or sometimes move at all, 7) mechanical sex - she seems fixated on a routine, will only do one position, z. B., 8) sex which is too rough (i.e. BJs with too much Zahneinsatz), 9) won't take instructions or suggestions, 10) clearly doesn't enjoy her work, 11) no sense of humor, 12) holds condom in place with her hand while you fuck her.
Maybe not in the same category but also not acceptable are 1) strong smells (I am a non-smoker and am very sensitive to smoke and also to heavy perfumes), 2) unhygienic behavior (she should shower frequently and if we go into doggy, her asshole shouldn't smell or have bits of toilet paper or crap around it - yuck!), 3) odd behavior (I once saw someone in Montreal, we did the nasty deed, I went to clean up and when I came back to the bed she was in a fetal position in the bed with her thumb in her mouth - very strange).
To add to Akibono's #1 on short sessions would be: she seems in a hurry. As I've written before, I am particularly turned off when she starts making the bed as soon as I've come. She goes into a "business is business" or transactional mode.
I also don't like it when she ignores you after you've been together. You walk by her, wave or wink at her and she acts like you aren't there. Its the height of rudeness I think. The whole thing is based on illusion and she should at least try to play along. And why should she not expect follow on sessions so long as we got along somewhat? Its just not very smart of her as she misses out on creating a short-term relationship at the very least.
To add to my #10, I look for signs that she at least enjoys her work. Not all women should do this for a living and if she isn't fit for it, she should give it up.
On the plus side:
As I have discussed previously with Everhard, my number one criteria for defining a good session is that her internal temperature is warm and inviting. Maybe its just me but I am extremely temperature-sensitive.
And as I've written previously, I am on a quest for "talented amateurs". Pros can be good but "talented amateurs" are just more genuine. My standard for a GFE is a woman I wouldn't mind going out with in real life; someone who has something to say, is clearly not dumb and just so happens to be a bad girl in bed.
Though she might be of a high Optik standard I rate a session with her to be only average if at the end I have no sense of her personality. I've done enough sessions with women I went with based on Optik alone who turned out to be complete duds.
I think its being able to make out fine nuances in service levels which separates the newbies from the experienced punters. I rate her on her attitude and her body language not so much what she does.
I would see someone in Montreal regularly and she described a session she had with a newbie who had been following the local forum there and wanted basically for her to go through the whole list of services which he'd read a lot about: DFK, DATY, BBBJ, BBBJTC, CIM, etc... It was like he had a checklist. It was the height of ridiculousness.
Will be at Oase on the 4th
Hi everyone
I am a 'virgin' poster on here and an FKK virgin too. I am looking forward to going to Oase on the 4th of Jan. If any of you 'old hands' are going to be there and show a newbie the ropes, that would be very cool. I speak English and a little Dutch as I am South African but now living in London.
The closest to an FKK I have ever been is Sudfass Oase last January where I had an amazing 3 hour 3-some with 2 lovely Brazilian girls whose name's escape me. Are there any combo's of girls at Oase that anyone can recommend as I would love to try to repeat the experience :)?
I will also be at FKK Palace on the 15th of Jan too.
Chat soon
Bok
Best route through to Oase?
Hi folks
I just wanted to confirm the best route through to Oase on the 4th. I am staying @ the Aurelia Hotel in Rodelheim which is on the S5 line to Friedrichsdorf. I will take the train there and take a cab to Oase (it will be about 16h00). I will take the cab all the way back to the hotel @ about 02h00 or so.
Is this the best way to get there? About how much will a cab back to Frankfurt cost @ 02h00? Any tips or suggestions?
TIA
Boknaai
Taxi from Oase to downtown Frankfurt
[QUOTE=DeepVoid]The train route is correct. FYI, I usually stay at the Mercure in Friedrichsdorf. The cab from the train station to Oase is about 10Euro. Dont know how far it it is to the hotel but it is about 50 Euro all the way to Frankfurt.[/QUOTE]
I have never paid more than EUR 40 for the ride. It is usually EUR 35- 40 I think (late night taxi). I once agreed with a taxi driver to take me from Burgholshausen to FRA airport for EUR 40 (a Sunday without traffic).