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[PhilJoy]

Gents of the board: any recommendations for where to spend New Year's Eve in the Philippines. I'm guessing there'd be many options in Manila for NYE, and I'm reading good things about Sabang Beach / Puerto Galera for beach time (with good hobby options as well). Wondering whether creek out to Boracay or Palawan is worth the effort. I have about 10 days available for this trip. Many thanks in advance.

Hi Carlo,

As G mentioned, I'd probably stick to Thailand.

Boracay might be great but it can be hit and miss. Sabang will probably see you alone as all the Koreans will have swept up the talent in advance.

Having said that, NYE in any place is usually a time for celebration and anything might happen.

Oh, and Sabang doesn't really have a beach these days.

_ Phil.

[WestCoast1]

Hey, that's slanderous.

Scandalous maybe. Haha can't be slander if its true!

Pinas would never fukk around behind his back while he and 10 other simps think that she is at home watching telenovelas. SNIP

Personally, I've never been interrupted midcoitus and been told to be quiet while she takes a call.

Never! Including the girl in the pic.

[Goferring]

Gents of the board: any recommendations for where to spend New Year's Eve in the Philippines (or SEA in general)? Looking for somewhere with a lively open-air atmosphere, like a street or beach party (Rio was great). I plan to hit one of the beach resorts before / after, so any suggestions there are welcome too. I'm guessing there'd be many options in Manila for NYE, and I'm reading good things about Sabang Beach / Puerto Galera for beach time (with good hobby options as well). Wondering whether creek out to Boracay or Palawan is worth the effort. I have about 10 days available for this trip. Many thanks in advance.

Beaches, parties and girls has Thailand written all over it.

I'm a PI fanboi but this is one area where it can't compete. Go to Thailand.

G.

[Goferring]

2:30 "And her little f*cking phone is the thing that will destroy your relationship". The phone will not only be her lifeline to everything else, it will be used by her family and others to wring money out you, and for her to flirt with other fellas (probably Goferring).

Hey, that's slanderous. I have full respect for guys locked in mom's basement, sending girls money every week, paying her rent and replacing the phones that die on a regular basis, without even meeting her. I think building her a house before he even arrives is an excellent way of ensuring her devotion, loyalty and chastity.

Pinas would never fukk around behind his back while he and 10 other simps think that she is at home watching telenovelas.

There are no opportunities for an enterprising guy to become a side dick for pennies on the dollar while Daddies are funding her lifestyle. Personally, I've never been interrupted midcoitus and been told to be quiet while she takes a call. I've never gone on holiday and thought it amusing when languages changes throughout the day as various regions wake up and come online. Nope, never happened.

Enjoy. G.

[CarloRogue]

Gents of the board: any recommendations for where to spend New Year's Eve in the Philippines (or SEA in general)? Looking for somewhere with a lively open-air atmosphere, like a street or beach party (Rio was great). I plan to hit one of the beach resorts before / after, so any suggestions there are welcome too. I'm guessing there'd be many options in Manila for NYE, and I'm reading good things about Sabang Beach / Puerto Galera for beach time (with good hobby options as well). Wondering whether creek out to Boracay or Palawan is worth the effort. I have about 10 days available for this trip. Many thanks in advance.

[Mua Tur]

Interesting video on pinay phone use in relationships, from YT vlogger Irish, AKA "Smart Girl Philippines". Topic: The thing that will break up your relationship with your filipina.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DR9U8NEoUR4

Warning, Irish is a bit more crass than Filipina Pea.

2:30 "And her little f*cking phone is the thing that will destroy your relationship". The phone will not only be her lifeline to everything else, it will be used by her family and others to wring money out you, and for her to flirt with other fellas (probably Goferring).

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While everything above makes sense from a western perspective, the advice given by this pinay goes directly to the heart of filipino culture. Pinoy seem to have a cell phone glued (or sewn into) their hand. They sleep with it, I've effed girls here who held it in her hand at the time. They live on FB and games. Most of my mates (and myself) have one or other pinay in his life here who might never be broken from the habits the author claims. No phone while eating? No phone in bed? If you break a pinay from these habits, is she still pinay?

There is point missed out, even a Pinoy husband would allow his wife for going out if money comes by. This kind of practice I have seen in Manila and Cebu, is it caused for poverty only? I doubt it.

Happy hunting.

[CarloRogue]

Fine members of the board: any recommendations on fun places to be for New Year's Eve in the Phils (or SEA in general). Doesn't necessarily have to be hobby related, although that's a plus for sure. I like large street festivals, open air parties, and the like (like Rio Brazil). Also need some plausible deniability why I'm there, so AC is kinda ruled out. I've been once to this fair land of plenty (Manila, Cebu City, AC) and also looking to hit a nice beach for a few days before or after (may Boracay or Palawan), but I also see recent positive posts on Sabang / PG. Thanks for any tips in advance, and always up for a meetup with beers on me.

[WestCoast1]

Interesting video on pinay phone use in relationships, from YT vlogger Irish, AKA "Smart Girl Philippines". Topic: The thing that will break up your relationship with your filipina.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DR9U8NEoUR4

Warning, Irish is a bit more crass than Filipina Pea.

2:30 "And her little f*cking phone is the thing that will destroy your relationship". The phone will not only be her lifeline to everything else, it will be used by her family and others to wring money out you, and for her to flirt with other fellas (probably Goferring).

5:00 She will use her phone to make you a prisoner to your phone. She will constantly msg you asking for you to take and send selfies (proving to her that you are where you say you are) and to do other tasks that force your current attention to her, while she is elsewhere. She will not reply to your messages instantly, but she will get upset if you do the same when she sends you a message, even if you're at work.

6:10 She will want to carry on long conversations with you when you are apart (and you are busy), and she will want to converse via phone chat / msg.

7:05 Her phone is not your friend.

7:15 Establish ground rules for phone use while together: 1) No phone use in the bedroom. 2) No phones while eating. 3) No conversations over chat (conversations only in person, or on vid chat). 4) No unsent messages.

7:35 Establish that you want a relationship with her, not her phone.

8:45 She doesn't get to check your phone. You don't get to check her phone.

While everything above makes sense from a western perspective, the advice given by this pinay goes directly to the heart of filipino culture. Pinoy seem to have a cell phone glued (or sewn into) their hand. They sleep with it, I've effed girls here who held it in her hand at the time. They live on FB and games. Most of my mates (and myself) have one or other pinay in his life here who might never be broken from the habits the author claims. No phone while eating? No phone in bed? If you break a pinay from these habits, is she still pinay?

[WestCoast1]

Forgot to add. They celebrate annual anniversaries, months-aversary, and weeks-aversary. "Westy me and my boyfriend is having a 13-weeks-aversary this week". Thirteen weeks together? "Yes". I see. Does your boyfie know about this? "Yes of course". Just checking.

[WestCoast1]

- Will usually have a strange name: e. G. A made-up name, two names merged together, a normal name but with the same first letter or same middle name as all her siblings.

The made-up name is her given name, such as Analynn or Maria. It might sound odd to outsiders. Besides Maria and Jenny, I've run into girls with boys names like Ross, Russ, and Mitch. Also Cherry, Candy, Langa (means to be loving), Love, Lovely, Girlie, and other words associated with sugar or candy. She will also have one or more nicknames, one given by her family, and others given by the girl herself. She will automatically mash-up her and her (current) boyfie's name. If Ana is dating Joseph, she might call herself AnJo, or SephAn, or such, and he might name one of her FB accounts as such. It changes with the name of the current boyfie. Both the boyfie and GF happily take this nickname while they are together.

That's their mother's middle name.

I believe it's the mother's maiden name. All of a Filipino's siblings usually have the same middle name. If the mother's maiden name was Ramirez before she got married to Mr. Alvarez, the kids willl be as such: James Ramirez Alvarez, Jennifer Ramirez Alvarez, Maria Ramirez Alvarez, Samuel Ramirez Alvarez, etc. This follows a similar spanish tradition seen in latin countries.

- Won't let on she came even if you ask her to announce it.

Pinay are very shy, at least at first. That follows to her deepest personality. She might have had a dozen partners who made her cum, and never told any of them, even when asked to announce it. One girl I was with had a specific bold tell that she couldn't hide. Red spots started to appear on her chest and neck as she got turned on, and about 1 minute prior to orgasm her entire face turned red, and her forhead and temples area turned a violet or purple color. Then a vein popped out right down the middle of her forehead about 15 seconds before the big O, spasmed wildly, and dissipated as the O dissipated. When I inquired, she said something like: "Oh I hate it! So much obvious and I don't want anyone to know"!

- Will usually tell you that her first sexual experience was at a fairly late age, and usually with her first BF or husband.

I find it the opposite: They tell me they were 12, or 14 or 15.

- Has never had an STI panel done and sees no need despite her previous, cheating boyfriend.

Its not done in poor countries. Her doctor will tell you that its better if she reports any STI symptoms to simply dose her with an antibiotic and call it an STI, telling her it might be from pelvic bruising from rough sex (or such), or a tampon that was dirty. Saves face for both the girl, her cheating partner, her cheating self, and her doctor.

- Unless she's wealthy, will inevitably and regularly have a financial issue that (she thinks) requires your immediate involvement: school fees, driver's licence renewal, sick kids, broken phone, make-up ran out, taxi fare, etc.

This is both the bane and the joy of dating pinay. These constant emergencies require YOUR small dollar contribution, meaning you will have multiple girls in constant need, and offering the poon at fairly discounted prices compared with poon prison. Even hotties have regularly recurring emergencies (not to mention families that simply take her recently acquired paycheck).

- Despite being quite wild in bed, may be quite reluctant when it comes to sexting or receiving dick pics.

For a variety of reasons. Shyness being one of them. It being illegal in Phils might be another. Having a Filipina's naked pic (even in various stages of undress) on your device, or even her own device, is illegal. Additionally most pinay are simply not interested in pics of anyone's Johnson. However they have an affinity to taking selfies, both clothed and naked (so I've heard).

[LoveItHere69]

Having dated (and shagged) a few Filipinas, I have compiled my list of characteristics that appear common to this rare and special species. In my experience, Pinay girls:

- Will usually have a strange name: e. G. A made-up name, two names merged together, a normal name but with the same first letter or same middle name as all her siblings.

The only smart thing I know of in the Philippines. First name is whatever they like. Middle name is the mother's last name. Last name is the father's last name. Simply brilliant to track one's family tree compared to the USA's way of any name, any name, father's last name.

If born without knowing who the father is then the last name is the mother's and there is no middle name.

[Old And Ugly]

... same middle name as all her siblings.

...

That's their mother's middle name.

[TKOman]

Having dated (and shagged) a few Filipinas, I have compiled my list of characteristics that appear common to this rare and special species. In my experience, Pinay girls:

- Will usually have a strange name: e. G. A made-up name, two names merged together, a normal name but with the same first letter or same middle name as all her siblings.

- Will come to your home or hotel with an expectation of getting fucked, or failing that, will blow you as a consolation prize, and definitely will fuck you the second time.

- Will have no qualms about CIM and will swallow, no complaints (opposite from Thai girls).

- Will have a clean, fresh, shaved pussy.

- Will cum easily and from licking, fingering or fucking.

- Won't let on she came even if you ask her to announce it.

- Won't allow anal, usually.

- Will usually tell you that her first sexual experience was at a fairly late age, and usually with her first BF or husband.

- Often got pregnant from her first sex.

- Will tell you she never wanks and is disinterested in trying.

- May be disinterested in condom use, possibly even opposed (thanks, Catholic Church!

- Has never had an STI panel done and sees no need despite her previous, cheating boyfriend.

- Unless she's wealthy, will inevitably and regularly have a financial issue that (she thinks) requires your immediate involvement: school fees, driver's licence renewal, sick kids, broken phone, make-up ran out, taxi fare, etc.

- Despite being quite wild in bed, may be quite reluctant when it comes to sexting or receiving dick pics.

- More likely than others to rim you, and without warning!

- Wants to introduce you to her family soon!

- Will tell you she loves you after just a few dates.

- When she returns from the bathroom we tell you all the gory details of what she just did in there.

- Will often go online asking questions like "how to please a man" and then arrives in bed prepared to get you off!

Disagree? Comments? I want to hear from you. Please share your stories and photos here!

[Goferring]

Can't wait to get there next month. I rented an apt in Matina Aplaya, do you know the place? I don't know if was a good choice, but I paid the for first month already.

Sorry, I don't know it. For short stays, I can recommend Poblacion as you can walk everywhere, even the port to go to Samal. I used hotels but I did see many condos between People's Park and Gaisano.

I had one disaster with AirBnB in Avida but YMMV.

Yours looks good for longer stays so it will be interesting to read how convenient you find it.

Good luck. G.

[Old And Ugly]

On the theme of night markets, I'll throw in my 2 cents and say that the ones in Davao are also great. About 250 per meal for BBQ anything.

Cheers. G.

Can't wait to get there next month. I rented an apt in Matina Aplaya, do you know the place? I don't know if was a good choice, but I paid the for first month already.