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  1. #11955

    Why Hollywood is shunning sex, or America's neutered superheroes

    Has Hollywood film industry entered a newly Puritan age? Yes, of course:

    https://www.bbc.com/culture/article/...s-shunning-sex

    To deny sex and sexuality in the cinema is to deny our own fully-fledged humanity.

    Violent action scenes can more obviously move the plot forward. But sex is not efficient. It's not strictly speaking necessary. It's messy, and risky, and there is arguably nothing today's entertainment conglomerates want less than to risk alienating consumers. "Here, perhaps, there is a kind of self-censorship that doesn't allow the writers to write other kinds of stories," arthouse master Pedro Almodovar has said of the current supremacy of the superhero film. "There are many, many movies about superheroes. And sexuality doesn't exist for superheroes. They are neutered."

    This new discomfort with depictions of sex is also likely connected to the revelations of the #MeToo movement. The reckoning with assault and abuse in the film industry has ushered in enormous positive change, encouraged filmmakers to nix female objectification, and led to the increasing introduction of intimacy coordinators to help actors feel safe. Their efforts ensure issues of boundaries and consent are correctly navigated while filming sex scenes. But even then, anxieties may remain about the validity of depicting sex, and whether it is gratuitous or not. Lately, sex has felt like a very serious topic; one that no one wants to joke about or "get wrong."

    Not only is sex shut out now, but the kind of sizzling star chemistry that has long been one of the medium's great delights.

    Your nightly dose of popcorn from Smoke Light, enjoy the show!

  2. #11954

    Sums up quite a bit

    https://www.yahoo.com/lifestyle/wome...064602033.html

    Warning: This post discusses verbal harassment, sexual harassment, sexual assault, and mentions of stalking that may be disturbing to some readers.

    1. "When I was very pregnant, I had a guy block my car because he was 'into pregnant women. ' So, apparently, being pregnant is an invite for harassment."

    —schulzemary214.

    2. "I was once told that I was acting provocatively by just smiling at a man. There are so many things I'm afraid to do. I'm just afraid to be around them in general, TBH. I think I've earned that right as a trauma survivor."

    —zombiedolllizkah.

    3. "I had to change my running route around my own neighborhood three times to avoid being followed, harassed, and actually stalked (three different men, one on each different route). It got so bad that I bought myself a treadmill so I could exercise in peace. Now that I've started venturing out again, I wear a fake engagement ring and have a story ready about my imaginary super-jealous, 6'4", 200 pounds of pure muscle Navy Seal fiancé."

    4. "I legitimately change my posture when walking around men so my boobs look smaller and droopier. It hurts my back, but it's way better than harassment."

    —fatimmansoor.

    5. "I've stopped asking to pet their dog. I'm not flirting! I just want your dog's attention! I feel like I can only talk to dog owners if they're a woman or a couple."

    —abbymaed.

    6. "Saying that you're single. Well, that MUST mean you need physical attention from some guy you literally just met. No. No, it doesn't."

    —nikkisevven.

    7. "Laughing at men's jokes. I was having a really bad day once, to the point where I just wanted to cry nonstop, but I picked myself up and went to work anyway. A male coworker asked how I was, and I couldn't even bring myself to lie and say that I was good, because I really just wasn't. Anyway, he spent the entire shift telling me jokes and making me laugh. After work he not only propositioned me for sex, but said I was more than welcome to have a threesome with him and his wife."

    "I feel like even if I wasn't asexual, I would've been mortified by the suggestion. I politely shut him down and asked him why he thought that I was interested. He replied that it was because I laughed at his jokes. Ever since then, I've been extremely wary of laughing at a man's jokes just in case he gets the wrong idea. ".

    —novelust.

    8. "I tone down my outgoing, bubbly personality. Every guy thinks I'm flirting just because I'm a very talkative and energetic person. Even my husband thought I was flirting with a random guy once. I was asking said guy about his farmer's market booth and got excited about his awesome garden. Like, a literal garden."

    —lm1719.

    9. "I had a man grab my ass in a club the other day because he thought he got a 'vibe' from me. Bruh, I literally exchanged two words and smiled a couple of times."

    10. "I don't help men anymore. Once, I fixed a guy's bike because I saw he was struggling on the side of the road. He then cycled behind me and next to me and kept pushing a date. When I ignored him, he told me I was 'such a ****' for leading him on."

    —jentevanwingerden.

    11. "Touching my hair in any way. One of my self-soothing techniques is playing with my hair. The amount of times I've had guys take that as flirting is ridiculous."

    —nikola2393.

    12. "Just looking at men. I have been followed for BLOCKS because I dared to look up from the ground. Any time I can sense a strange man in my periphery, I keep my eyes glued to the pavement. I'the rather walk into a wall or a light post. At least the light pole won't try to grope me or call me a 'stuck-up *****.'

    —dreacarmenc.

    13. "I make no references to anything sexual. I won't joke about it, mention it, or do any more than smile politely when a guy makes a sexual joke. Otherwise, some view it as an invitation to flirt, or whatever they think will take it to the next level. Cue the tiresome business of clearing up this misunderstanding without upsetting them."

    —superkay.

    14. "If I'm on public transport, I avoid eye contact when people get on. So many times, men would sit next to me, and I'd be trapped. One guy made me look myself up on Facebook on his phone, and despite me saying that I had a girlfriend I lived with, he just completely dismissed that because he didn't see that as a romantic relationship and kept trying."

    "I spent almost three hours trapped on the inside seat, having to be polite to some creep because I didn't want a scene. Thankfully, my girlfriend at the time met me at the bus stop, and he lived a few stops over, but that wasn't the first or last time that stuff happened. It's so sad we literally feel we have to pacify these creeps just to be safe."

    —slytherinshark.

    15. "I don't eat an ice cream cone in public. Too many looks or suggestive comments by some men."

    16. "Answering men's questions in public places, particularly if you look up and make eye contact. Even when it's something as simple as asking the time, if you look up, make eye contact, and actually answer them, it's an invitation for conversation, which becomes an invitation for them to aggressively hit on you."

    —margaretb49238 f5 CC.

    17. "When I worked a tech support job that dealt with customers face-to-face, I wore a plain silver band on my right hand just because I liked it. But it quickly became a necessary part of my work gear, as some men would not give it a rest unless I quietly moved it to my left hand to look like a wedding ring. Do better, men. Be better than this."

    —cailian13.

    18. And finally, "I 'grey bomb' myself at work. It's when you make yourself seem boring so creepy people lose interest in you, or at least denies them material to harass you over — like, if a creepy coworker asks how my weekend was, I'll say, 'Oh, it was fine; the weather was so nice on Sunday,' and leave it at that. If I went into more detail, like say I did karaoke, it'll never end. They'll hint they want to be invited next time. They'll ask me to sing something on the spot. They'll ask me which songs I sang and then judge me for not having obscure enough music taste, and so on."

    Some of these are valid. Women should never feel threatened. And if they tell a dude to fuck off he should go away.

    But these quotes really do sum up the AW. There complexity, paranoia, and fear, combined with believing only their version of Prince Charming should seek them out, is the reason why so many of us AM are more than happy to travel the world for beautiful ladies.

    Many of them fear "creepy people" and they in turn make themselves creepy.

  3. #11953

    Doom droping truth bombs.

    I was out there Chilling today reading the scriptures reading my bible you all know me, reading carnal knowledge I was reading Vagina Profanations Verse 2:69, so I get a notification sound on my wassap it was a friend of my man Polyorchid. You see this player has come to Ecuador to engage in business ventures in Cuenca Ecuador, awesome love to see more players become ex-pats and get away from the sex prison called the west.

    However, this player made what in my opinion is a funny observation, see ma man is an American born and raised player whatever that means, and from his vernacular the few times we have interacted it appears that he is a millennial, this particular player did not understand why his female friend who he met in the US would have a problem seeing him, now that she is with a SA native, internally I am rolling my eyes since I already know where this conversation is going.

    It would be my natural inclination to proceed to automatically roast this unenlightened player, however, I am feeling somewhat magnanimous, so gather round children, so that professor Doom may proceed to illuminate you on how the world works.

    In the west who let's be clear only compromises 15% of the population of the planet and functions in a fashion that in my opinion is artificial to an extent, at the end of the day what characterizes the west is the illusion of choice, there is also the illusion of safety it's been a long time since we have had an existential crisis, in which we accept as a matter of almost tradition that a percentage of our populations will die in a conflict, famine or other calamities so the point is that we have had it too good for too long, not bad, kudos to the west, however, this has created in my opinion a sense of complacency it has also created some negative social side effects.

    In most non-western countries there is a culture and structured gender-based roles, you can argue on the semantics of how this came about, however, a lot of it is derived from our evolutions and biological impulses.

    It seems strange to say but life in our current form on the planet is for the most part good, however, there was a time when the survival of our species was at stake in one form or another, because of environment or competition we had to evolve certain impulses for our species to survive.

    Men compete to gather resources, prove themselves, and spread their genes, women choose and consolidate themselves upon the highest available alpha male at her disposal based on her fitness beauty, and cooperation, a strange concept for modern people to grasp.

    That burning gut feeling you get when some girl, whatever her status is when she says "I have a friend" means something, it's 1000's of generations of ancestral instruction passed down that tells you "This is your territory no trespassers".

    Men and women are not the same, they will never be the same, they should not be the same, we can make men and women get the same results by applying certain tyrannical dictates which are indeed happening in the west, because of no-fault divorce, social engineering, media, and certain tyrannical pressure have had our masculinity bred out of us to an extent.

    However, as a cautionary tale we should not assume that the rest of the world functions in that manner, SA not so much, Asia, Eastern Europe, and let's not even touch Africa and the Middle East are still very patriarchal societies, men are still allowed to be something controversial they are allowed to be men shocking I know.

    Women in these parts of the world still want traditional males, and understand that choices have consequences, men are territorial, even If they cheat, let's remember that women are the ones that cheat, men exercise options. "But doom how can you be so toxic barbaric and misogynist" well gents let's look at the data and statistics, 30% of the human male population will not leave a legacy that means for the ones who are not queer that 1 out of 3 men will never have a child, yet 90% of women will leave a legacy this statistic, strangely enough, bears out across all cultures on the planet, so a few men are creating all the babies in the world.

    It's women who choose cheaters, let me ask you players a question if a girl doesn't open up her legs what options do you have, for every guy that has banged 100 women 100 men all over the world are toiling in meaningless functions broke that haven't even whiffed pussy in years.

    Men in other cultures understand female nature and act accordingly, if a woman starts to act out of pocket, he sets parameters and she either gets on the program or dies alone and buys a dog or cat, it's that simple gent's, I have had this problem in another life before I got reactivated when I was a civilian, I was running security for an organization out of a former republic of the Soviet Union, this former republic was known to have excellent women for marriage, these women were fit, submissive and cooperative, what would usually end up happening to most of these dumb westerners is they would take these women to the US or Europe and marry them over there, and it would end up turning into a shit show, the women would end up cheating on them, you see gents these women have expectations of what a "man" is, and if you don't cut it they will move on, I have said this ounce and I will say this again men are not wallets, nor are they there to "please" the princess, how's that working out so far? Women are there to get on "your" program whether it's a hooker, a girlfriend, or wife it's the same thing women naturally assume their role if you allow yourself to become what nature intended for men to be, and hey if she wants to be uncooperative, she needs to get out the door.

    Men in other parts of the world intrinsically understand this, we in the west have forgotten this and are tolerating a general dysfunction in said societies because of it. No men in other parts of the world will not be tolerant of even an Americanized girlfriend to talk to other men, why because whatever fuck ups or dysfunctions are going on outside of the west, they certainly have no problems setting standards or boundaries, and if women don't want to get with the program, there is always the streets, women who are not cooperative will get booted real quick, if western men copied this maybe things would be different but as always some parts of the world have drunk the cool-aid.

    Doom out.
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  4. #11952

    Correct (and I found a solution)

    She is an alcoholic. And she is not in denial but she ain't ready to quit. But she knows where this is going.

    That is probably what is the major hang up.

    And yes I do have feelings for her. Sucks I didn't want to go there but here we are.

    However last night thanks to my monger friends on this board (y'all) I realized what to do.

    I went and got my dick sucked by this tart who is always dtf in my area. Blew all over her face and tongue. She was so turned on because my lady.

    Called about 1130 wasted as always asking me to come get in bed with her. , and I talked to her while my dick as in the other girls mouth. After finishing went to my lady's house and Slept all night like a baby in her arms. Dtf girl texted me this morning and told me she was super turned on and down for me to be taken care of any night before going over to my lady's spot.

    Also dtf girl is super submissive and I spit in her face after she thanked me for my dick. Then She thanked me again! Total mind fuck LOL.

  5. #11951
    Quote Originally Posted by OldSchool318  [View Original Post]
    Thanks to those that responded. Please keep them coming I will keep updating.
    I wanted to keep my mouth shut initially and maybe I should've, but here is my $0. 02 anyway.

    It sounds to me like you care about this girl and want to find a reason to make it work. Of course, I can be a way, way off.

    But if I'm not, there is no shame in it; welcome to being human.

    However, if you do want it to work, I hope you realize that a bottle of wine daily for a woman is alcoholism.

    Whether she's sad because she can't have you or because you're not enough for her, or because of a thousand of other reasons is irrelevant.

    She has a habit. If you want to even try to make it work, you two should have a conversation about it first.

    Unfortunately, like every alcoholic and addict I've known in my life, she's most likely in denial. And this conversation may not end well for your relationship.

    I'm just saying, there might be other considerations here, not just "upping your game. ".

  6. #11950
    Quote Originally Posted by OldSchool318  [View Original Post]
    Guys,

    I'm trying to figure out the one thing I'm missing here. I do have a lot to offer. Definitely more than enough in pretty much every department. Including confidence, dick skills, humor, personality. Etc. I apologize if I sound arrogant that is not my intention. I have always been able to pick up broads so I don't think it is the issue. But this one is keeping me at an arms distance. And I told her flat out maybe I'm just not the normal man she would be dreaming of, and I would understand because for many women I might not be there cup of tea. However, making it worse she claims it is her. So cliche she acknowledges but it is her own mind. It is playing tricks on me because I feel there has to be a flaw as if the right guy came in I'm sure she would drop everything and spread legs.

    Obviously y'all will tell me to run, but I actually think that maybe there is a flaw in my game I need to fix, and I really enjoy my time with her. And we do get naked together so that confuses things more as we are not just friends, except most of the time we are or cuddle buddies. Maybe, there is not a flaw and it really is her! I dunno. Anyone have any ideas how to flush this out? I'm very direct so maybe I just need to hear the truth and she won't tell because she wants me around, so maybe I need to hear it from one of you. Anyway. You can tell AW are as fucked as they come and I can't wait to go back to SA for at least a month in Spring. Thailand next fall too.
    I dunno man. I'm not a shrink and don't advocate for shrinks. If you decide to explore this with a shrink or a psychologist more than likely if she is a woman she will take the woman's side and it will be two against one. The broads are always trying to change the man to be what they want. Herein lies the problem. Get a broad that just accepts you and stop trying to blame yourself. Asians, particularly Filipinas, are known for being submissive and compliant as well as domestic and horny. Not known for their smarts, however, I find this to be a plus as women who ask too many questions are just trouble. Latinas can be gorgeous fuck buddies and domestic but what a fucking temper if you make them angry. The Filipina equivalent is a thing called tampo which is basically the silent treatment. Unknown to them I think most men enjoy the silence. Broads talk way too much anyways. Communication studies reveal that women say three times more words than me on the average. And most of it is meaningless dribble about nothingness or their fleeing emotions. I say stuff your dick in their mouth and find one you can at least tolerate most of the time. Good luck, man. I have no real answers or mind-blowing insights, just experience.

  7. #11949

    Great responses

    Thanks to those that responded. Please keep them coming I will keep updating.

    The cuddling response definitely feels true. I did it again all last night. I actually love it but it does feel empty without the normal finish after awhile.

    Especially after I have been all over and had my dick is some real dimes sometimes 2 at a time. She even knows my nature and still keeps it in check because she is "trying to figure out her shit."

    Also, Doom is very right. The guy who wrote that is probably not playing for our team LOL. And I know for a fact without knowing Doom himself that he has the life, because I have lived that too.

    Also for the guy who fucks the fatties I have done that too ain't no shame in it. But don't let the one from Mexico come in and get Americanized because chances are she will. But the point you made about "hypergamy" really stands out. I'm probably a solid 7 but because she can fuck and get used by a 9 she will. That's funny though as I probably do the same shit! If I can fuck a 9 I will and have LOL. The difference is I won't put all my energy into the 9 knowing she doesn't give a fuck. The 7 will live at the 9's feet and he will piss on her and she will lap it up and won't give the 7 the time of day.

    Even today we went out with her kids and did football Sunday and had a blast, but tonight she is probably sexting some other asshole. And that is the story of the AW. I'm not accepting it either. I'm just wasting time and enjoying life until I can get on a plane again, which I hope is ASAP.

  8. #11948

    Doom thinking deep as usual.

    I am as usual getting up to my morning routine after profaning the misses as it should be done always, I was having a nice breakfast and called ma man gringo loco he's considering residency for the fine state of Ecuador, it would be awesome to have a wingman permanently so that we could spread the seed far and wide to all the vaginas of the earth as I have professed in my new bible called Carnal nutrition.

    So I am having a great day sort of until one of my homies in the US decided it was an awesome idea to introduce me to some bullshit article written by a sugar booty white boy called Andrew Court in the New York POST, you see players I am an ex-pat and my fellow Americans irritate me to no end, I hardly ever bother to watch the news and get aggravated for no reason, and it's my firm belief that the current status of western hetero normal relations is a complete shit show, in fact when the civil war starts I shall observe the mushroom clouds from afar as my wife is cooking dinner and have my two side girls one of them with her mouth on my dick while the other feeds me grapes, as it should be.

    I proceeded to read what this stupid fucker is blabbering about, and right away in the title you can tell he is not in team "male", so allow me the opportunity on this board to break down the logic or lack thereof, and how it pertains to the current heterosexual dynamics in the west.

    The article starts to explain the Golden Penis Syndrome he calls it "an arrogance that stems from the assumption that a steady supply of females will be sexually interested in them" I call this an abundance mindset, you know it's interesting women control the dating market they control access to sex. It's a known fact that women control access to sex but men control access to relationships, but let's be clear in today's environment if there is no sex, there is no relationship so women control everything.

    Mr. Andrew Court calls the "abundance mindset" something that is arrogant and he goes on to say "Golden penis syndrome has led these smug males to engage in dastardly dating practices, such as cheating and ghosting because they're confident that another woman will always be waiting around the corner."

    Amazing commentary by Mr. Court go ahead and give that mother fucker a booing sound, so by his reasoning because a small group of men has figured out, that they are going to be swimming in pussy no matter what, all of a sudden, they are smug, all of a sudden, their strategies are "dastardly, cheating and ghosting" did it ever occur to this primate that women have done the same thing since time immemorial. The female species in the west cannot stand it when men have a decided advantage on the sexual marketplace, they cannot stand it when men play the game better than they do, this is the only time that is a problem.

    Modern women will date 10 guys, cheat on all of them, they will ghost guys and flake on them, eat dinner on a man's dime with no intention of escalating, but when men play the game, you hear the words "men ain't shit, men are dogs, men are trash, etc. , etc."

    So according to Mr. Court what we do is considered "dastardly" yet the western female species and you can find articles and scientific studies online that back this up, 30% of women go out with men, just to get fed, 0 romantic interest, there are articles online that called this "smart dating" and "financial shrewdness" yet there is a gentleman who was coined by the press as the "Dine-and-dash dater" who got national ridicule and prison time for doing the exact same thing. So, when men do it it's "dastardly" but when women do it it's "smart" "empowering" "you go girl" "never settle" but when we men do it, because of our abundance mindset it's smug and arrogant.

    The article goes on to say that the term was coined by frustrated female students at Sarah Lawrence College in upstate New York, where ¾ of all enrollees are of the fairer sex. Journalist John Birger believes many college-educated men in their 20's, 30's, and 40's have also developed Golden Penis Syndrome because they're similar in high demand when it comes to dating.

    Jon Birger is the author of "Date-onomics: How Dating Became a Lopsided Numbers Game."

    "The sex ratios among college-educated, hetero singles in Manhattan is approximately three women for every two men. I've interviewed a lot of men who were continuing to take advantage of that imbalance," Birger told Mel Magazine.

    So, all of this is characterized as "taking advantage" yet what would a thinking a rational human characterize western women when they swipe left and right on Badoo, tinder, bumblebee, Christian mingles and other dating apps, taking advantage of thirsty dudes. Yet no one is complaining about that, no one is complaining that men strike out on the dating apps because women have a lot of dating options in said apps. So according to this author, when men do it is "dastardly" when women do it it's simply "exercising their options."

    When we break down this disparity in how men and women are judged we are not even counting the following statistics that again you can look up with any cursory glance on the net, women file for divorce over 60% of the time, 30% of women commit paternity fraud which is not a crime in most states or in Europe, most men come out of divorce court most likely financially destitute.

    It's no wonder why younger men do not take women for anything other than sex in modern times.

    https://nypost.com/2021/11/02/men-wi...nce-for-women/

    https://la.eater.com/2019/1/17/18186...es-restaurants

  9. #11947

    Reason why we need to have standards.

    My thought on the subject, let's open up the debate.

    http://www.internationalsexguide.nl/...745&viewfull=1#post2622745.

  10. #11946
    I started dabbling in mongering specifically because of the quality of the American girls I was finding. I lack social skills. I'm an engineer. On the other hand I'm attractive and fit. Not over the top gym fit but I can hike 20 miles in a day. The girls here have too many options or at least think they do so they start nitpicking as much as they can. I have a few flaws like anybody and I've found that the 7's or higher gravitate toward sleeping with 9's or higher. Hypergamy. That's left me with mostly 4's or 5's when I am at least a 7's.

    I've dated mostly overweight girls. Not 180-200 lbs which I'm fine with but 230-280. Among those I had one I really liked who I tried to date seriously. I found out after wasting 9 months that she had been cheating the whole time. This girl was a 4 in the face and about 280 lbs. That was a big hit to my self esteem.

    So I've been doing this a little and eating casually in the us. Hit a few kink clubs, etc. Now I'm feeling much better snd actually found a Mexican tinder girl I'm dating. She's very attractive. Basically my ideal features plus she's kind and genuinely interested in me. 7 years younger. I know moving to the us might be part of what I have to offer but I'm fine with that.

  11. #11945

    Classic Post Kids American Woman

    Quote Originally Posted by OldSchool318  [View Original Post]
    Guys,

    I'm trying to figure out the one thing I'm missing here. I do have a lot to offer. Definitely more than enough in pretty much every department. Including confidence, dick skills, humor, personality. Etc. I apologize if I sound arrogant that is not my intention. I have always been able to pick up broads so I don't think it is the issue. But this one is keeping me at an arms distance. And I told her flat out maybe I'm just not the normal man she would be dreaming of, and I would understand because for many women I might not be there cup of tea. However, making it worse she claims it is her. So cliche she acknowledges but it is her own mind. It is playing tricks on me because I feel there has to be a flaw as if the right guy came in I'm sure she would drop everything and spread legs.

    Obviously y'all will tell me to run, but I actually think that maybe there is a flaw in my game I need to fix, and I really enjoy my time with her. And we do get naked together so that confuses things more as we are not just friends, except most of the time we are or cuddle buddies. Maybe, there is not a flaw and it really is her! I dunno. Anyone have any ideas how to flush this out? I'm very direct so maybe I just need to hear the truth and she won't tell because she wants me around, so maybe I need to hear it from one of you. Anyway. You can tell AW are as fucked as they come and I can't wait to go back to SA for at least a month in Spring. Thailand next fall too.
    I would submit there is nothing wrong with you and this is textbook post-kids American woman. Certainly in my situation and many guys I know once their wife had kids her sex desire went out the window. So I would say she typical or at least common. She doesn't enjoy or crave sex. She does it with you out of obligation to try to keep you. But she'the rather just cuddle. This is all about her and not you. Find urself a pre-kids mid twenties gal if you want to have some great sex and have it often. Even tho mine are indirectly paid as Sugar Babies (see Seeking Arrangement thread) you can't tell me they don't enjoy and want the sex. Many twenty somethings these days are free and liberated in a good way. They enjoy sex and lots of it.

  12. #11944

    So I guess why I am posting is.

    Quote Originally Posted by DCups  [View Original Post]
    Understood, Old School. Good that you can travel and get some. I stopped dating AWs 12 years ago now opting instead for frequent travel to Philippines, Thailand, Cambodia, Vietnam, Costa Rica, Colombia, Curacao and Dominican Republic. My employer paid me to go to most of these countries so I feel very lucky. Most of my buddies that are tied to AWs are miserable and I can see why because the broads have fat asses, don't put out and are never happy with what you do for them. Like I said I'm retiring in Philippines as soon as they let me in. Looks like February 2022 now. I do have a brown sugar that sucks me off for 40 or 50 bucks a pop so that helps, too. Good luck, man.
    Guys,

    I'm trying to figure out the one thing I'm missing here. I do have a lot to offer. Definitely more than enough in pretty much every department. Including confidence, dick skills, humor, personality. Etc. I apologize if I sound arrogant that is not my intention. I have always been able to pick up broads so I don't think it is the issue. But this one is keeping me at an arms distance. And I told her flat out maybe I'm just not the normal man she would be dreaming of, and I would understand because for many women I might not be there cup of tea. However, making it worse she claims it is her. So cliche she acknowledges but it is her own mind. It is playing tricks on me because I feel there has to be a flaw as if the right guy came in I'm sure she would drop everything and spread legs.

    Obviously y'all will tell me to run, but I actually think that maybe there is a flaw in my game I need to fix, and I really enjoy my time with her. And we do get naked together so that confuses things more as we are not just friends, except most of the time we are or cuddle buddies. Maybe, there is not a flaw and it really is her! I dunno. Anyone have any ideas how to flush this out? I'm very direct so maybe I just need to hear the truth and she won't tell because she wants me around, so maybe I need to hear it from one of you. Anyway. You can tell AW are as fucked as they come and I can't wait to go back to SA for at least a month in Spring. Thailand next fall too.

  13. #11943
    Quote Originally Posted by DCups  [View Original Post]
    Run for your life and go anywhere in Latin America or Southeast Asia when it opens. All women are fucking nuts IMHO but American Women are the worst on the planet. Even the young guys with game and money are heeding this advice because they are sick and tired of all the bullshit they have to put up with AWs.
    I agree. I'm pretty young with decent money and America is horrible for dating, women, mongering, etc. If you're not at least 6'2", and willing to buy them a bunch of stupid crap while living in a major city that has the most women, just forget about it.

    I can go to the Dominican Republic with some flip flops, Thailand looking like a bum, or even to the Germany brothels and get more ass in 1 day than I could in 1 year in America.

    The good news is millions of American men can't, won't, and don't go overseas which means more overseas women for the rest of us.

    America is a place where you make your money, then take it overseas to spend it.

  14. #11942
    Quote Originally Posted by OldSchool318  [View Original Post]
    This is where my money is. I need to be here a good amount of the time. I travel often like I wrote.

    But I still need women in my life here in the US as paying gets expensive here. The one I wrote about doesn't really cost me anything. At least not money. Time, energy head creeps yes. LOL.

    I'll keep posting adventures and updates but leaving is not an option right now.
    Understood, Old School. Good that you can travel and get some. I stopped dating AWs 12 years ago now opting instead for frequent travel to Philippines, Thailand, Cambodia, Vietnam, Costa Rica, Colombia, Curacao and Dominican Republic. My employer paid me to go to most of these countries so I feel very lucky. Most of my buddies that are tied to AWs are miserable and I can see why because the broads have fat asses, don't put out and are never happy with what you do for them. Like I said I'm retiring in Philippines as soon as they let me in. Looks like February 2022 now. I do have a brown sugar that sucks me off for 40 or 50 bucks a pop so that helps, too. Good luck, man.

  15. #11941
    Quote Originally Posted by OldSchool318  [View Original Post]
    This is where my money is. I need to be here a good amount of the time. I travel often like I wrote.

    But I still need women in my life here in the US as paying gets expensive here. The one I wrote about doesn't really cost me anything. At least not money. Time, energy head creeps yes. LOL.

    I'll keep posting adventures and updates but leaving is not an option right now.
    Understood Old School. Good that you can travel and get some on the side. I stopped dating AWs 12 years ago opting to travel frequently to Philippines, Thailand, Cambodia, Vietnam, Costa Rica, Colombia, Curacao, Mexico and Dominican Republic instead. But I had the kind of job that allowed the time off and even paid for me to go to many of theses countries. My buddies in the USA who are married or living together with their GF are mostly miserable. Their significant others are fat asses and never satisfied with anything the guy does for them. I do have a brown sugar that comes over to suck me off for 40 or 50 bucks between trips so that keeps me happy. Good luck man. Like I said I'm headed to Philippines to retire as soon as they let me in. Fuck the USA and especially California. Prices are out of control as well as the broads. I can't deal with it any more. I'm going somewhere where women treat you like a man and doesn't cost an arm and a leg.

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