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  1. #726
    Quote Originally Posted by ForkTruck  [View Original Post]
    I had a 6 pm date with another girl lined up but of course did not tell her that, Just told her she had to leave be see I was tired. Well, she took the news very badly be see she was planning to sleep in the hotel with me. She was honestly distraught saying she had no place to stay be see she had a run in at cousins house that morning with landlord.
    This is a common problem that we all face. The girls are notoriously unreliable which makes us need to double book for our variety needs and our fear of missing out on the next better girl. It's not clear in your story if your 6 pm was a known repeat performer.

    As I'm reading your story I think I have had similar. I have done both, burned off the 6 pm date and also burned off the one in the room. These days if the girl I am with is doing OK and has her heart in it, then I let her stay and burn off the unknown one. As they say, A bird in the hand.

    Happy days.

    BD.

  2. #725

    Cebu experince.

    My experience about Cebu:

    I arrived in the evening from boracay on sat evening. On Pinalove I had arranged for a gal for a date. Explicitly mentioned to her about meeting fir a date and then being comfortable at my apartment. Gal showed up and joined me for shopping. Post which I cooked dinner for her. But she wasn't showing any interest. Post dinner she said she's not into fun with foreign guys but just companionship and said she's in her chumming cycle now. Bummer I feel in for a non pro.

    For back up I had 2 other women lined up. One who was recommended by a senior member. Both gals don't respond or show up. I went to tinder which gave no responses. Only acceptance we're lady boys. Frustrated I called a masseuse I had connected on DIA for in room service. She did give a B2B massage but without sex. Good attitude, but wouldn't repeat.

    Morning, one of the gals whom I had contacted responded. I was suppose to leave for Bohol, but called her in morning. She was nice and no discussion about money. Spent good 1.5 hours and at the end I offered her 2000 peso which she readily accepted. I liked her attitude and no pressure to look at the watch which was a first thing for me. Super BJ skills and every thing on plate. She was a semi pro- doing it for the additional money.

    My learning in the entire experience was to plan see and the. Best is to find a non pro and make the most of time at hand.

    Hopefully will have another experience on Thursday, my last day in Cebu.

  3. #724
    Quote Originally Posted by WickedRoger  [View Original Post]
    Some on the the hand stick very closely to their man like a limpet as they known they will wander or to scare off potential younger girls who may want the moneypot.
    One of the first questions a married monger will get is if his wife is pina. The girls are fine with fucking married men but do not want a psycho wife suddenly appearing wanting vengeance.

    Interestingly, it's never the guys fault for rooting around. That's taken for granted. It's always the young hussy's fault. 😁.

  4. #723
    Quote Originally Posted by Sammon  [View Original Post]
    On the girls mind she is married. I double dated a previous GF from Leyte with her friend and a foreigner I would not name. Initially introduced as her husband. But the guy admitted to me that he is just a casual visitor when he can. Support? He said yes sometimes he sends money when he can. My girl said to me later that this girl has a local BF.

    Moral is unless you live in Philippines with the girl it is impossible to say she is devoted to you. C.
    Many I know married to pinays living ion the country sort of know the husband has a wandering eye and / or girls will at least look at the man (some being sisters, cousins etc). Not uncommon IMHO. Issue whether wife stays devoted is another matter as that can be seen as working both ways. Foreign husbands could be using Sogos to see other women so she can play away also.

    Some on the the hand stick very closely to their man like a limpet as they known they will wander or to scare off potential younger girls who may want the moneypot.

  5. #722
    Quote Originally Posted by Dg8787  [View Original Post]
    Yes sir. Pinays understand that.
    All girls know in their heart most foreigners are butterflies with money as being the motivation. I do not believe in not compensating girls for their service with a cab fare. They may not come out and say so but they need money. Definitely they are into having a good time in association with money compensation.

    But in Cebu I have met many girls who say their friend, aunt, cousin are married to a foreigner. But { marriage) is a relative word. It is very much possible the (husbands) visit them once in a while and kind of support the girl. On the girls mind she is married. I double dated a previous GF from Leyte with her friend and a foreigner I would not name. Initially introduced as her husband. But the guy admitted to me that he is just a casual visitor when he can. Support? He said yes sometimes he sends money when he can. My girl said to me later that this girl has a local BF.

    Moral is unless you live in Philippines with the girl it is impossible to say she is devoted to you. Culture is there is always a party in the barangay for one reason or another. Everybody pitches in for food and drinks. No restrictions on girls and boys mingling and doing whatever. This is how most girls loose their virginity at the house because everybody is outside. Unlike in USA they have no money for the motel or back seat of the car.

    I admit Philippine girls more so than any other country make you feel special and good enough to fall in love. But what they say and what they do are two different things.

  6. #721
    Quote Originally Posted by Goferring  [View Original Post]
    I'd agree with getting everything on the table early. It's surprising how little a difference it makes and for those that it will affect, you will find out before investing any time, money etc.

    Some times you don't have to say anything eg wearing a wedding ring makes things pretty clear.
    To update, my 6 pm showed up at 8:30, yes she told me ahead of time so it was OK. Great sex over 3 hours for 200 php cab fare. I told her upfront that I was checking out of my room in the morning so all was cool at the departure.

  7. #720
    Quote Originally Posted by Dg8787  [View Original Post]
    Very simple line to say upfront. "I am a butterfly".
    Sure, always be crystal clear on what you want and what you don't want, fo rme I say I have been married long time, divorced now and don't plan at all to marry again, simply, some says bye, mots says ok, then its clear that its just for a moment.

    Now you can tell if th emoment is 1 HR or if its one night or more, just be clear, most will accept.

    I never speak about money, usually there are girls not going very often with foreigners, or I think so, just let some money at the end and always ok. Up to now. And I must agree that my exp in Phil is limited up to now, but its how I will continue to proceed. I can see that many of these girls looking to marry a foreigner, are also very open to have some time spent with one, fo rmoney may be, but more for good time, not sure they can easily have sex in other ways so they like and when they start this way. They are very good at it, sex being their goal more than money.

  8. #719
    Quote Originally Posted by Dg8787  [View Original Post]
    Very simple line to say upfront. "I am a butterfly".
    I'd agree with getting everything on the table early. It's surprising how little a difference it makes and for those that it will affect, you will find out before investing any time, money etc.

    Some times you don't have to say anything eg wearing a wedding ring makes things pretty clear.

  9. #718
    Quote Originally Posted by ForkTruck  [View Original Post]
    What is a butterfly? Flying from flower to flower I guess. I do like a variety of flowers.
    Yes sir. Pinays understand that.

  10. #717
    Quote Originally Posted by Dg8787  [View Original Post]
    Very simple line to say upfront. "I am a butterfly".
    What is a butterfly? Flying from flower to flower I guess. I do like a variety of flowers.

  11. #716
    Quote Originally Posted by ForkTruck  [View Original Post]
    I made a date with a 26 year old from DIA. Her picture was Wow. I made the mistake during chatting and texting of over promising a BF GF experience and she is looking for serious so I was playing into what she wanted. She came to my hotel in the morning in mandaue city and unfortunately was about 15 kgs heavier than her pics but still very attractive. After talking a bit and slowly getting her clothes off be see she was shy she gave me a very good BJ and was a wild woman in bed, no condom cip. I have had vasectomy so no preg worries although she was concerned but not enough to insist on condom. After sex we had lunch in hotel I slipped her 1200 php and I told her she could not stay any longer. I had a 6 pm date with another girl lined up but of course did not tell her that, Just told her she had to leave be see I was tired. Well, she took the news very badly be see she was planning to sleep in the hotel with me. She was honestly distraught saying she had no place to stay be see she had a run in at cousins house that morning with landlord. So I broke down and gave her 1000 more, that did not make everything Ok but helped some I guess, she took it and said thanks. At least I felt less of a heel. She hung around the room for 2 more hours before I finally crow-bared her out of there. Moral of the story for me is to not over sell a serious relationship when I had no intention of keeping her. I am not sure how to walk the line between hiring a girl knowing upfront it's a business deal and finding a nice dating site girl but not insulting her by offering money up front but at the same time making sure she knows its just for fun. Guess I will have to work on that.
    Very simple line to say upfront. "I am a butterfly".

  12. #715

    Oh well

    I made a date with a 26 year old from DIA. Her picture was Wow. I made the mistake during chatting and texting of over promising a BF GF experience and she is looking for serious so I was playing into what she wanted. She came to my hotel in the morning in mandaue city and unfortunately was about 15 kgs heavier than her pics but still very attractive. After talking a bit and slowly getting her clothes off be see she was shy she gave me a very good BJ and was a wild woman in bed, no condom cip. I have had vasectomy so no preg worries although she was concerned but not enough to insist on condom. After sex we had lunch in hotel I slipped her 1200 php and I told her she could not stay any longer. I had a 6 pm date with another girl lined up but of course did not tell her that, Just told her she had to leave be see I was tired. Well, she took the news very badly be see she was planning to sleep in the hotel with me. She was honestly distraught saying she had no place to stay be see she had a run in at cousins house that morning with landlord. So I broke down and gave her 1000 more, that did not make everything Ok but helped some I guess, she took it and said thanks. At least I felt less of a heel. She hung around the room for 2 more hours before I finally crow-bared her out of there. Moral of the story for me is to not over sell a serious relationship when I had no intention of keeping her. I am not sure how to walk the line between hiring a girl knowing upfront it's a business deal and finding a nice dating site girl but not insulting her by offering money up front but at the same time making sure she knows its just for fun. Guess I will have to work on that.

  13. #714
    Quote Originally Posted by Dg8787  [View Original Post]
    Hey Goferring,

    Me too! I am an old member.
    DG you member is old also LOL Next in Cebu PM me my friend this is the type you like I know.

  14. #713
    Quote Originally Posted by Dg8787  [View Original Post]
    Hey Goferring,

    Me too! I am an old member.
    Gator, no problems but you can't receive PMs (messages) until you have a subscription and I can't post contact details in the open forum.

    DG and Gator.

    She is very unsophisticated so does not plan ahead for next week or month. No offence intended but it's best to make contact when you are physically in cebu, then she can discuss what to do tomorrow.

    Send me a PM when you are in Cebu and I'm sure we can work something out.

    Cheers, G.

  15. #712
    Quote Originally Posted by GatorGator  [View Original Post]
    Hey Goferring,

    I'm new to this site and not familiar with all of the rule, I will probably get a membership here a little closer to my trip. I'm visiting the Philippines closer to summer time and this girl sounds like someone I'd want to connect with.
    Hey Goferring,

    Me too! I am an old member.

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