Sexual Wellness and other Sex related discussions

[Hawny]

I have an itchy feeling for quite sometime in only one place nearer to anus and below the balls. Somewhere middle of it. Unable to see it and used camera to check and it looked a very small black mole type. Its usually itchy during night time alone. Morning if I apply itch guard the itchy pain goes away and come back later in the day. Looks like it appears goes away and appear again. Is this some kind of Herpes or syphilis? How to get this tested and confirmed?.

Syphilis tests are recommended after 3 weeks to 12 weeks after exposure while Herpes test to be taken 6 to 12 weeks after exposure.

If you feel you're symptomatic, better consult a doctor and then take the test as per professional advice.

Whatever it is, don't panic. Syphilis goes away with few injections and herpes has symptomatic anti viral medicines.

Mostly, it could be just some skin issue but due to the timing and hidden guilt it caused the unnecessary anxiety. So take it cool.

The standard rule for mongering buddies is to always use protection, avoid fluid exchange and take full panel STD test at least once annually after observing the window period of 3 months.

[JohnWickRambo]

I have an itchy feeling for quite sometime in only one place nearer to anus and below the balls. Somewhere middle of it. Unable to see it and used camera to check and it looked a very small black mole type. Its usually itchy during night time alone. Morning if I apply itch guard the itchy pain goes away and come back later in the day. Looks like it appears goes away and appear again. Is this some kind of Herpes or syphilis? How to get this tested and confirmed?

TIA.

[Master Shifu]

As with pretty much everything in this hobby, nothing is foolproof. Having said that, what you need is an anti-fungal, anti-bacterial mouthwash. Anything with chlorhexidine will do. I use a brand called Hexidine. Available at almost all chemists. Follow the instructions on the bottle.

Hello docs and friends here.

1. Which mouthwash is best to sterilize mouth and tonsils of girls from STDs that may be lurking there? Can tonsils and back of mouth be sterilized wth any mouthwash by gargling neat 1-2 times to make her mouth immediately safe for BBBJ and DFK?

2. Anything better than V-wash for vaginal odour and hygiene? And to make pussy immediately safe for deep DATY? Does V-wash disturb vaginal flora in long-term girlfriends? Any safe longterm oral probiotic that does not cause hyperacidity or liver issues and maintains Vaginal flora with no bad odour?

3. Best oral lube commonly available in market that is safe for oral sex and has good taste? Durex play? Which type? Which flavour?

4. Which flavoured condom is best in taste and does not slip and gives best sensation? Durex normal flavoured or Durex ultrathin flavoured? Exactly which type and which flavour? Does the durex ultrathin flavoured slip? What about okamoto flavoured?

5. Is the Rhythm method of natural contraception safe in long-term relationship? Best tips for safest days (assuming periods are very regular)? Are 3 days after periods and 3 days before periods safest?

6 Any dealer of the particular type of condom, lube, mouthwash etc. Suggested by you near Sonagachi. Beadon street- Girish park area? I can pickup from there if I go to Sonagachi.

Many thanks for your help.

[Naked Desires3]

Hello docs and friends here.

1. Which mouthwash is best to sterilize mouth and tonsils of girls from STDs that may be lurking there? Can tonsils and back of mouth be sterilized wth any mouthwash by gargling neat 1-2 times to make her mouth immediately safe for BBBJ and DFK?

2. Anything better than V-wash for vaginal odour and hygiene? And to make pussy immediately safe for deep DATY? Does V-wash disturb vaginal flora in long-term girlfriends? Any safe longterm oral probiotic that does not cause hyperacidity or liver issues and maintains Vaginal flora with no bad odour?

3. Best oral lube commonly available in market that is safe for oral sex and has good taste? Durex play? Which type? Which flavour?

4. Which flavoured condom is best in taste and does not slip and gives best sensation? Durex normal flavoured or Durex ultrathin flavoured? Exactly which type and which flavour? Does the durex ultrathin flavoured slip? What about okamoto flavoured?

5. Is the Rhythm method of natural contraception safe in long-term relationship? Best tips for safest days (assuming periods are very regular)? Are 3 days after periods and 3 days before periods safest?

6 Any dealer of the particular type of condom, lube, mouthwash etc. Suggested by you near Sonagachi. Beadon street- Girish park area? I can pickup from there if I go to Sonagachi.

Many thanks for your help.

[Hivaroon78]

And use a very good quality and branded protection.

You will not get any STD or HIV, the whole world operates on this.

You get STD when you accidently does some mistake. Like deep DFK, BBBJ, etc. Or you use some issues in the bird still you do the deed etc.

People do all these things. So relax.

If you don't do DFK, DATY, and BBBJ or any bodily fluid contact, you are safe.

That is the reason we go for quality women and if possible ask them to wash before the deed.

Hi Fellowmongers,

Have you all seen the recent news that almost 25000 new HIV infection happened in last month.

Is there a chance for getting an infection even if we use protection? Because sometimes there is a contact happening at the condom opening edge during bang. And any other key measures that we need to take to be safe? It would be helpful for all.

Thanks.

[IAmMukesh]

Hi Fellowmongers,

Have you all seen the recent news that almost 25000 new HIV infection happened in last month.

Is there a chance for getting an infection even if we use protection? Because sometimes there is a contact happening at the condom opening edge during bang. And any other key measures that we need to take to be safe? It would be helpful for all.

Thanks.

[HituMonger]

Am I asked anything wrongly?

Against this forum or anything inappropriate?

It may be because many would consider them silly quarries. The test is similar to any other blood test, nothing special to show such anxiety.

[KevinDen]

Hi everyone,

I'm planning to get tested for STIs for the first time in Chennai and I have a few questions. I'm considering going to either Dr. Safe Hands or Lal Path Labs. Can anyone share their experience?

How do I book and go for the test?

How do the staff usually behave? Are they professional and respectful?

Do they open the needle in front of you?

Do they change gloves for every patient?

Am I asked anything wrongly?

Against this forum or anything inappropriate?

[IRobotV2]

Need help.

So I take anxiety / anti depression pills and without them, I can't function properly.

But they have a side effect. Low to almost 0 libido and penis although erect, isn't hard enough no matter how much I try.

What should I do? Shall I try Viagra or some other medicine to tackle this? Please suggest.

[Indian Wanker]

I have seen many of person loves african because they have beautiful body. But only issue is that with africa that out of know 3. 4 crore hiv positive population. Nearly 2. 8 crores are africans because of poverty. Hiv virus comes from monkey to human it self from africa near 1976. So take good care and be safe and do protected sex if you don't know loyalty status. Also anal have higher risk for spread then vaginal intercourse. According to books hiv virus will be latent for 10 years then it becomes aids if not get peoper treatment. So do reports if you have dome any risky tasks.

Read nearly 250 pages of forum after I felt that atleast I can provide basic information to fellow member.

Spreading some awareness fellow mongers.

Takecare. Be educated and informed don't take fear from disease cause first take precautions. Cause it is better then cure.

On March 1st, I went to see a Kenyan girl. Wasn't really getting good vibes from her since the moment I met her, but whatever. After a blowjob, she asked me if I wanted to use a condom or not which totally shocked me. I never thought a SW, especially from Africa, would be that careless and actually ask something like that from a guy she's meeting for the first time.

I straight-up said no to raw and told her to put a condom on me. As soon as she got on in cowgirl, within 10 seconds I felt something was off. I pulled out immediately and saw the condom had completely torn. That was the first time I ever went raw, even if it was just for 10 seconds and honestly, she was not the type of girl I'd ever want to do that with. I got a BJ later and finished in her mouth.

After getting back, I couldn't stop thinking about what just happened and whether I got exposed to something serious. I texted her asking if she had any health issues or if she'd done an HIV test recently, but she totally ignored me. That just made me even more freaked out.

Each day that passed, the anxiety got worse. I couldn't sleep properly, wasn't even jerking off for days which was super weird for me. On top of that, I started getting small red bumps on my face and my digestion was messed up, which I read could be early HIV symptoms. I knew I'd really screwed up this time, so I ordered some HIV home test kits right away.

As soon as the kit arrived, I went to my regular Afro spot and did a blood test, and thankfully, it came back negative. I was relieved for a week. Until I did some research using ChatGPT and found out the result didn't mean much because it was too early to test you're supposed to wait at least 40 days.

So yeah, after 40 long days of non-stop anxiety, I did another test and again, it came back negative. That day, I made a promise to myself to stay away from Afro girls as much as I can.

Sharing the MR link of that girl since she keeps on coming to Delhi regularly incase you want to stay away from her- https://massagerepublic.com/female-e.../kenji-angolan.

Completely incorrect picture posted on MR. Looks way better but too risky to try. Stay Away.

[Rollox]

What risks are you afraid of?

I would suggest the higher end SPA to be the best option.

Very discreet and if you manage to build rapport with a regular and pay a fair wage, you will get great service every time.

Just tell the truth. That your wife died and feeling lonely but not looking to remarry. Will Work up some connection.

For STD, HPV / Herpes / Syphillis / Gonoreah etc cannot be avoided. Chance of HIV is very low from vaginal sex even without a condom and close to 0% with condom.

Just go to a good spa and find your spa mate.

Everything comes down to your personal connection.

You don't need to be attractive. Just be kind and treat the girls with respect and you will get a few regulars in no time.

Avoid the seedier ones.

Got to ones with min 1500-2000 entry fee, get a membership to reduce cost.

First experiment until you will find your sea legs.

I am giving these advice based on your situation.

Hello fellow members.

I have been following the community for a short while (a few months), but have been just lurking and reading posts, trying to find contacts and hints to a reliable contact (no use).

I am a middle aged man, fairly successful, but haven't really taken good care of my body so I'm told I look older.

The thing is I'm currently single (wife passed away a few years ago in an accident) have a teenage son (just started college). Never remarried, had 2 female encounters in last few years but nothing lasted more than a couple outings (I'm also worried what effect it'll have on my son, don't want to take any risks).

But now bodily needs are taking control of my head (a little), so I discovered this forum going through reddit a few months ago..

[Lalo Salamanca]

Don't worry my friend, consult a doctor and get meds for PE. You should be lasting longer and have satisfying experience.

Take a hot water bath before deed and try to keep your thoughts aligned in the deed.

Also regular Yoga and some cardio helps to maintain the health.

So, after the embarrassment of last time, I thought I should give it a go again and this time someone has posted about Emi, an african american living near Dwarka somewhere. So I contacted her and fixed the deed for 3 K - 2 shots.

Went at the place, and she is huge and I'm a skinny guy, so it was an awkward situation already and she had very large boobs. Too large even. So even though I'm a boobs guy, it was a letdown in a way but an experience nonetheless.

Thankfully, this time I had some beer. So we drank it and we just started fooling around. She started kissing me and then eventually it all finished with a BJ. It was nice and she was thoughtful and caring.

Then again we drank a bit, and the second round started and by then I was feeling good, played with the boobs a lot and DFK, and then she started sucking my the again. Even the balls. Then I asked her for rimming and she said yes, that was a new experience and I couldn't tell if she was doing it the proper way, as it was my first time but it felt good. And she liked my the and kept playing with it, and I wasn't sure if such a big lady would feel anything when we actually do it, but when I started doing it, she was moaning intensly. Then we switched to doggy and there she kept pounding herself in and she enjoyed it a lot. Then I asked for CIM and she said yes, so I fucked her mouth and then came in utter bliss.

Overall it was good, especially after the last experience and now on second thoughts I shouldn't have kissed her or sucked her tits because she seemed very nonchalant about hygiene and all that.

So after leaving her house, like a dumbass I went for a std test because I was getting too worried, given the cheap price and everything and her attitude, and without researching anything, and that test cost me like 2 k and then I got to know that you do these tests 4-8 weeks after the deed.

So overall, in the past 2 days I have spent 9 k + amount. And I don't feel too great about it, both the experience and the frustrations. Of course it's my fault too, maybe I should work on my stamina etc to fully recoup my money like others do, but I don't know.

P. S my CTC is less than 4 lac per annum. So I feel like a fool again but maybe I'll try it again someday.

[Shirishkumar]

I have seen many of person loves african because they have beautiful body. But only issue is that with africa that out of know 3. 4 crore hiv positive population. Nearly 2. 8 crores are africans because of poverty. Hiv virus comes from monkey to human it self from africa near 1976. So take good care and be safe and do protected sex if you don't know loyalty status. Also anal have higher risk for spread then vaginal intercourse. According to books hiv virus will be latent for 10 years then it becomes aids if not get peoper treatment. So do reports if you have dome any risky tasks.

Read nearly 250 pages of forum after I felt that atleast I can provide basic information to fellow member.

Spreading some awareness fellow mongers.

Takecare. Be educated and informed don't take fear from disease cause first take precautions. Cause it is better then cure.

[Shirishkumar]

Dude.

Hpv pass through skin contact.

Its not required any fluid exchange.

HPV is most commonly spread during vaginal or anal sex. It also spreads through close skin-to-skin touching during sex. A person with HPV can pass the infection to someone even when they have no signs or symptoms.

This line copy pasted from center for disease control united states (cdc).

Attaching link also read and takecare everyone its better to take vaccine for it you need minimun 2 dose if you are not infected it works fine.

https://www.cdc.gov/sti/about/about-...infection.html#text=HPV%20 is%20 most%20 commonly%20 spread, have%20 no%20 signs%20 or%20 symptoms.

[Shirishkumar]

Dude.

Hpv pass through skin contact.

Its not required any fluid exchange.

Hpv required bodily fluid can pass threw DFK and BJ if you are very unlucky.

Generally virus don't stay alive in air for much time but with fluid it can survive.