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  1. #346
    Quote Originally Posted by VMike  [View Original Post]
    Hello members,

    Just wanted to share few observations and know your experiences or thoughts.

    After breakup I've been less active sexually (except masturbation), like once in 7-8 months or so.

    Recently I'm trying to grt bck on track but have figured a typical thing. While making love (foreplay) which I like more than sex, precum keeps leaking without erection and after erection is achieved, shot takes hardly a minute for the first time. Thus I get less enjoyment I feel. Next arousal is not as hard as the first one so again lesser fun. Unable to strike a balance here.

    Would appreciate your thoughts and experiences.
    Hi,

    I am thinking you are having some psychological non confidence. Because you haven't had sex for sometime it will take some time to gear it back. So don't worry do some meditation. You'll be OK. Just as yourself deeply. All the best.

  2. #345
    Quote Originally Posted by Wanderer2017  [View Original Post]
    Hi guys,

    I am upset over something.

    I got a contact of a girl from Rahulbhai.

    I fixed to meet her in hotel on 7th Feb.

    9 pm.

    She was high, smoked few cigarettes, we drank vodka.

    After that we kissed.

    And in flow.

    She gave me blowjob without condom for 2 mins.

    Then she tried to put my dick inside her vagina without condom.

    I stopped her and put condom on.

    I started fucking suddenly after 10 seconds.

    I got upset over without condom blowjob and stopped her and asked to leave.

    I tried to pay her 4 k but she refused.

    And finally we left hotel..
    How are you doing now bro?

  3. #344

    Precum.

    Quote Originally Posted by VMike  [View Original Post]
    Hello members,

    Just wanted to share few observations and know your experiences or thoughts.

    After breakup I've been less active sexually (except masturbation), like once in 7-8 months or so.

    Recently I'm trying to grt bck on track but have figured a typical thing. While making love (foreplay) which I like more than sex, precum keeps leaking without erection and after erection is achieved, shot takes hardly a minute for the first time. Thus I get less enjoyment I feel. Next arousal is not as hard as the first one so again lesser fun. Unable to strike a balance here.

    Would appreciate your thoughts and experiences.
    Bro,

    You need to first understand that precum is bound to be released if you are sexually excited.

    But in your case it is not clearly known whether it is precum or not because in general conditions it is released when the tool is fully erect. Sometimes it can be released during the flaccid state of the penis also. I think you should first make sure that whether the thing which you are assuming as precum is actually precum or [CodeWord109]. If the shot is hardly within one minute is a sign of worry because it should ideally be 5-10 minutes for a normal healthy person. In my view you need to see with a doctor for the time factor but the precum / [CodeWord109] thing you have to clarify.

  4. #343

    Looking for your experiences and guidance.

    Hello members,

    Just wanted to share few observations and know your experiences or thoughts.

    After breakup I've been less active sexually (except masturbation), like once in 7-8 months or so.

    Recently I'm trying to grt bck on track but have figured a typical thing. While making love (foreplay) which I like more than sex, precum keeps leaking without erection and after erection is achieved, shot takes hardly a minute for the first time. Thus I get less enjoyment I feel. Next arousal is not as hard as the first one so again lesser fun. Unable to strike a balance here.

    Would appreciate your thoughts and experiences.

  5. #342

    Urologist consultation advised.

    Hi,

    Would suggest that you go to any big tertiary hospital (Apollo, Fortis, Manipal) in Bangalore and seek a consultation from a Urologist, depending on your age and sexual activity a lot of conditions can cause this. Do not ignore this issue and seek professional help at the earliest.

    Quote Originally Posted by Unknown111  [View Original Post]
    Hi,

    I have sensitive glans due to which I am not able to penetrate because of the high sensitivity of glans.

    Experts any remedy?

    Any leads of specialist in Bangalore?

    Regards,

    Vishwanath.

  6. #341

    Sensitive Glans

    Quote Originally Posted by Unknown111  [View Original Post]
    Hi,

    I have sensitive glans due to which I am not able to penetrate because of the high sensitivity of glans.

    Experts any remedy?

    Any leads of specialist in Bangalore?

    Regards,

    Vishwanath.
    Disclaimer:- I'm not a medical professional.

    Vishwanath Brother,

    Even though my response might sound daunting and exhaustive, I'm posting few questions to get better clarity.

    1.) Are you circumcised or uncircumcised?

    2.) If you're uncircumcised, could you retract and release your foreskin with out any pain or discomfort?

    3.) Have you developed hyper sensitivity of the glans recently or it has been there for a while?

    4.) Does your glans become sensitive when your penis erect or do you feel sensitivity during flaccid condition also?

    Reason for asking is that usually for an uncircumcised men glans will be sensitive, it takes a while to de-sensitize it.

    I have an uncircumcised penis and tight foreskin, I couldn't retract my foreskin earlier even when in flaccid condition. Once I started practicing. Over a period of an year, I could retract fully when in flaccid condition. Initially it used to be painful experience while cleaning smegma, but over period of time, with constant practice and persistence, I have overcome the issue. It depends on the individual and it requires patience.

    Though I don't want to quote the name, thanks to the senior who guided me. You can refer to phimosisjourney dot com.

    In case if you are looking for medical help, just Google three-best-rated dot com, I personally had good experience when consulted top rated doctors from the three-best-rated dot com.

    Wish you all the best.

    Regards,

    MSL.

    P.S.: In no way I'm either personally or commercially associated with the above mentioned portals or the doctors.

    PPS: As mentioned at beginning of my response, my intent is to help you, my response in no way is a substitute of qualified medical professional consultation.

  7. #340

    Lead for specialist for consultation.

    Hi,

    I have sensitive glans due to which I am not able to penetrate because of the high sensitivity of glans.

    Experts any remedy?

    Any leads of specialist in Bangalore?

    Regards,

    Vishwanath.

  8. #339

    Relax.

    Bro,

    I have been in the same situation, trust me, I understand what you going through. This is pure anxiety related side effects. Stress contributes to upset stomach, sore throat and severe sweating at times. Don't worry, consult a decent doctor in Delhi about the situation. I can guide you. Pm if you need details of the sex specialist. Just relax, you can't do anything about something which might not be there.

    Quote Originally Posted by Wanderer2017  [View Original Post]
    Hi guys,

    I am upset over something.

    I got a contact of a girl from Rahulbhai.

    I fixed to meet her in hotel on 7th Feb.

    9 pm.

    She was high, smoked few cigarettes, we drank vodka.

  9. #338

    Anxiety after BBBJ

    Quote Originally Posted by Wanderer2017  [View Original Post]

    I fixed to meet her in hotel on 7th Feb.

    She gave me blowjob without condom for 2 mins.

    Then she tried to put my dick inside her vagina without condom.

    I stopped her and put condom on.

    I started fucking suddenly after 10 seconds.

    I got upset over without condom blowjob and stopped her and asked to leave.

    I tried to pay her 4 k but she refused.
    Now I slept okay on 8th Feb.

    9th Feb.

    I started getting anxiety.

    Over the without protection blowjob and the thing she tried to fuck without blowjob.

    10th Feb.

    I was getting depressed and anxiety is also getting high.

    I am not able to eat anything.

    I went to a sexologist doctor explained him everything he said risk is low but took money for HIV tridot test and it came out negative.

    12th Feb.

    I took elisa HIV test with p24 it came negative.

    Although I know window period is not enough.

    13th Feb.-15th Feb.

    My stomach is paining.

    16th Feb.

    I read on internet about pcr test for HIV.

    Which check viral load.

    I took it and result was negative.

    17th Feb.

    I was feeling okay and eat food properly.

    Although I was not liking the food but.

    Still ate.

    18th Feb.-20th Feb.

    Back to square 1.

    My BP is 150 - 90 from 4 days straight.

    I went to doctor and took BP med also.

    21st Feb.

    Rahul bhai helped me and that girl got convinced to come and take test with me.

    I took her and did.

    Elisa test with P24 for HIV.

    Pcr test for HIV.

    Herpes igg and igm.

    Her herpes igg was positive 2.45 something.

    But HIV was negative in both test.

    I went to doctor he gave me throat and stomach meds for 3 days.

    22nd.

    I am very happy my mood is back to normal.

    Although my stomach was still paining sometimes but I ignored and ate good food.

    23rd.

    I don't know why but my stomach is still upset and bad taste in mouth sometimes.

    I think I am fearing that pcr test for HIV was done only for HIV 1 not for hiv 2.

    My condition has improved a lot.

    The only risk I fear is that girl gave me blowjob without condom for 2 minutes only but still I am getting anxiety.

    I think I will calm down only after window period of 4 weeks passes and I see negative test.

    Can anyone help me with their suggestions how to keep my self calm.

    And tell me that if any risk is there.

    Symptoms.
    Disclaimer:- I'm not a qualified medical professional, my intent of reply is to help you, take contents my post with a grain of salt.

    Hello Brother,

    It seems you had exposure of unprotected oral-sex / Blow-job for 2 minutes on 7th Feb 2019 (18 days back).

    Few points that I would like to mention which might help you:

    i.) If you don't have any cuts / sores / wounds on your penile foreskin, the risk of catching HIV is very very negligible. Also if the WG also doesn't have any cuts / sores / wounds / bleeding-gums then also contracting HIV is very very negligible. Also HIV virus is very fragile and can't sustain in Saliva. They say that no HIV cases reported / recorded due to unprotected oral sex (remember above exceptions).

    ii.) Two weeks is a decent window for P24 Antigen and PCR test for HIV-I&II. I'm unsure in Delhi, but in Bangalore HIV I&II PCR plus Antigen costs you around 8. 5 K. You can google dr safe hands.

    iii.) About Herpes, IgG indicates early infection. However, sometimes it is not accurate / equivocal. Did you take HSV I + II composite IgG test, if yes, better to take separate tests and also like HIV, for HSV also there are PCR tests, PCR tests should give you a clear idea.

    iv.) HSV is not curable but manageable, during outbreaks you can take the anti-viral medicines, if at all if the doctor says you've contracted HSV.

    v.) Lastly, you seems to have severe anxiety disorder, please seek professional help / counseling and also you might want to do PCR tests to get fair idea, confidence and peace of mind. Of-course you can take ELISA / ELFA, STI panel, CBC, [CodeWord109] Routine & Culture test after a month of your exposure.

    Regards,

    MSL.

  10. #337

    Help.

    Hi guys,

    I am upset over something.

    I got a contact of a girl from Rahulbhai.

    I fixed to meet her in hotel on 7th Feb.

    9 pm.

    She was high, smoked few cigarettes, we drank vodka.

    After that we kissed.

    And in flow.

    She gave me blowjob without condom for 2 mins.

    Then she tried to put my dick inside her vagina without condom.

    I stopped her and put condom on.

    I started fucking suddenly after 10 seconds.

    I got upset over without condom blowjob and stopped her and asked to leave.

    I tried to pay her 4 k but she refused.

    And finally we left hotel.

    Now I slept okay on 8th Feb.

    9th Feb.

    I started getting anxiety.

    Over the without protection blowjob and the thing she tried to fuck without blowjob.

    10th Feb.

    I was getting depressed and anxiety is also getting high.

    I am not able to eat anything.

    And eating only 2 rotis in a day.

    I went to a sexologist doctor explained him everything he said risk is low but took money for HIV tridot test and it came out negative.

    12th Feb.

    I took elisa HIV test with p24 it came negative.

    Although I know window period is not enough.

    13th Feb.-15th Feb.

    My stomach is paining.

    I got sore throat.

    Feels like vomiting.

    And I am depressed and I can't sit anywhere and can't eat.

    16th Feb.

    I read on internet about pcr test for HIV.

    Which check viral load.

    I took it and result was negative.

    17th Feb.

    I was feeling okay and eat food properly.

    Although I was not liking the food but.

    Still ate.

    18th Feb.-20th Feb.

    Back to square 1.

    Thinking too much.

    My stomach is paining.

    Bad taste in mouth.

    Feels like vomiting.

    I am taking eno to digest food.

    Throat infection.

    No fever ever.

    My BP is 150 - 90 from 4 days straight.

    I went to doctor and took BP med also.

    21st Feb.

    Rahul bhai helped me and that girl got convinced to come and take test with me.

    I took her and did.

    Elisa test with P24 for HIV.

    Pcr test for HIV.

    Herpes igg and igm.

    Her herpes igg was positive 2.45 something.

    But HIV was negative in both test.

    I went to doctor he gave me throat and stomach meds for 3 days.

    22nd.

    I am very happy my mood is back to normal.

    Although my stomach was still paining sometimes but I ignored and ate good food.

    23rd.

    I don't know why but my stomach is still upset and bad taste in mouth sometimes.

    I think I am fearing that pcr test for HIV was done only for HIV 1 not for hiv 2.

    My condition has improved a lot.

    But still my stomach is upset.

    I don't understand what is happening.

    With me.

    The only risk I fear is that girl gave me blowjob without condom for 2 minutes only but still I am getting anxiety.

    I think I will calm down only after window period of 4 weeks passes and I see negative test.

    Can anyone help me with their suggestions how to keep my self calm.

    And tell me that if any risk is there.

    Symptoms.

    Throat problem little.

    Stomach pain sometimes.

    And low appetite.

    Can't sit anywhere for too long.

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  11. #336

    I have a contact.

    Quote Originally Posted by AnupamGuy  [View Original Post]
    I want to increase my time which is low and identified dejac-T meeting requirements. Tried to find it in Noida but none of the medical store has that. Able to see in online pharmacies but they need prescription. Any bro can direct me to medical store with this and / or sexual performance drugs available freely preferable in Noida area?
    I give you a contact but your PM not active.

  12. #335

    Buying prescription performance enhancer.

    I want to increase my time which is low and identified dejac-T meeting requirements. Tried to find it in Noida but none of the medical store has that. Able to see in online pharmacies but they need prescription. Any bro can direct me to medical store with this and / or sexual performance drugs available freely preferable in Noida area?

  13. #334

    Okamoto 0.03 condom.

    Hi,

    Has anyone used Okamoto 0.03, it's the world thinnest condoms, when I bought their other variant Okamoto skinless skin from Sensualkart.com due to their 50% offer on all condoms. That Sensualkart guy was promoting Okamoto 0.03 and vibrating ring to me. But I am not sure whether can I take risk by using this 0. 03 condoms and get torn. I am looking for your feedback to make my purchase.

  14. #333

    Herpes simplex

    Quote Originally Posted by Saransh170  [View Original Post]
    Guys,

    I was suffering from khaasi (cough) like 5 weeks back. Then it went away in 10 days time to only resurface again. So I took antibiotics prescribed by ent specialist which cured it in another 7-8 days. After that in 2-3 days time I felt itchiness in my throat and general lethargy (tiredness) throughout the day. Hence I decided to get a complete std blood test done. All other diseases came negative except for hsv 1 + 2 lgm which came reactive. Now the hsv 1 + 2 lgg came non reactive. The thing is from whatever I read on the internet I have not suffered any typical herpes symptoms like sores on lips or on genital areas. The question is my bad throat and general weakness due to herpes or some other reason. Also if any of you guys know a good std doctor who can further examine my reports then please pm me. Any help would be appreciated.
    Getting positive for both HSV 1&2 s strange as the one used to affect upper half of the body and other used to affect lower half of the body. Typical STD. IgM stands for recent infection, while IgG stands for old infection.

    Better consult a venereologist ASAP. Even if you are positive with HSV. It will go away with Acyclovir and all. Don't panic. Consult a specialist and move on man.

  15. #332

    HIV transmission.

    Quote Originally Posted by UnKingKhan  [View Original Post]
    Hi,

    Can HIV be caused due to BBBJ.

    I see rampant reports of many people going for BBBJ.

    What are the chances?
    Usually HIV virus will be present in all body fluids (semen, vaginal secretions, rarely even in [CodeWord109] and saliva if the viral load is so high) and the virus can't cross the normal skin or swallowing (because acid and stomach will kill it) so the only way of entry is having any wound, abrasion of skin in our tool or oral ulcer. And male to female transmission is more common than female to male transmission. Always if the HIV status of the girl is unknown, then don't do DATY or BBBJ. Try to use ultra thin covers. May give better feel than normal ones.

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