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  1. #241
    Quote Originally Posted by HappyShiva  [View Original Post]
    .... Just let her sit on your dick for few minutes without moving. After few minutes, start moving slowly and control your breathing. The breathing is directly connected to your heart beats and heartbeats connected to your stimulation. Breathe deeply and gradually.
    I agree about having the woman on top. The woman usually has her own rhythm and her own way of doing it that's different from yours. And this in itself makes you last longer with her.

    I also found that just laying back and having the lady do all the work makes it easier to control your feelings with your attention and your mind. You can use your mind to stop yourself from coming close to orgasm. You just need to keep thinking, "No, I'm not cumming. I'm going to last for a long time with her. "

    I once used this technique to totally exhaust a lady, who was giving me a hand-job. I just lay back an focused my attention on controlling my feeling and lasting for a long time with her. She couldn't make me cum, no matter what she did, for close to 40 minutes. At the end, I stopped controlling my feelings. And she finally managed to make me cum to her great relief.

    I was able to control my feelings, because I didn't have anything else to do. She was doing all the work.

    But controlling your feelings is a lot harder to do, when you are banging the lady. Because this is multi-tasking. And multi-tasking is switching your attention between two or more tasks. Which means that some of the time you aren't paying attention to controlling your feelings. You are focused on banging her. And in these moments of inattention, you can lose your control and go beyond the point of no return.

    I suppose, breathing and focusing on that is also a way to control your feeling of pleasure and stop yourself from cumming prematurely. For myself I can say that I've learned to be aware of my feeling of pleasure directly and have control over it with my mind, just by thinking about it.

    But I can do this only when I lay back and let the lady do all the work. I don't have any such mind control, when I'm banging the girl. She is the one who needs to be banging me.

  2. #240
    Quote Originally Posted by Dan7373  [View Original Post]
    One way to last longer with your lady and avoid a premature ejaculation with her is to reduce your stimulation. You can just penetrate the chick with your dick and stay like that with her for a while, without moving in and out of her.
    I do agree and the sex lasts longer. Especially, when a woman is riding you. Just let her sit on your dick for few minutes without moving. After few minutes, start moving slowly and control your breathing. The breathing is directly connected to your heart beats and heartbeats connected to your stimulation. Breathe deeply and gradually.

  3. #239

    Body-to-body in cowgirl

    Body-to-body massage in Thailand is one of the most enjoyable experiences you can have with a lady. And it's something you can continue to do, even after you take the chick with your dick. Here are a couple of examples:

    https://images.sex.com/images/pinpor...0/18673675.gif

    https://images.sex.com/images/pinpor...0/19304850.gif

    When you and the lady don't yet know each other well, then you often end up holding back from her and having sex with her like strangers do in porn.

    In porn, the guy and the lady often avoid intimate body-to-body contact with each other and have only genital contact for their intercourse, as shown at the link below:
    https://images.sex.com/images/pinpor...0/15620768.gif

    But I think this kind of thing can be disappointing, especially after you've had an intimate body-to-body massage from the lady. After such a massage, it's only natural to continue the same kind of contact with her, while you are banging each other.

  4. #238

    Soaking your dick inside the chick

    One way to last longer with your lady and avoid a premature ejaculation with her is to reduce your stimulation. You can just penetrate the chick with your dick and stay like that with her for a while, without moving in and out of her.

    This is something I've done with a lady before, but not for long. The lady thought something was wrong. So, I started banging her to put her fears to rest.

    But I've recently come across and article which describes this kind of practice and says that some women actually enjoy doing this with a guy:

    https://melmagazine.com/en-us/story/...-her-virginity

    I think it can be very enjoyable for a guy to penetrate a hot lady with his cock and enjoy his intimacy with her for a while, without banging her. This can also be a way to try out many different sex positions, without cumming and cutting it short. And you don't need to be strict about it. You can bang the lady to orgasm at the end.

    I've been a little shy to give this kind of thing a try, after my Thai lady thought that this was strange. But apparently, this is a legitimate sex-practice that some people know about and do.

    Perhaps you just need to talk your lady through it and assure her that nothing is wrong, you just want to keep your big dong inside her pussy for a while.

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  6. #237
    Quote Originally Posted by Dan7373  [View Original Post]
    I don't think anybody knows how much of a taboo this is for ordinary guys. Because ordinary people do it in private.

    But I would be surprised if ordinary guys are more open and bold about not having a good enough erection for their lady, than even porn-guys, who do it all the time in public.

    Perhaps the taboo isn't so much about masturbation, as it is about not having a good enough erection. This is the reason why a lot of guys might not want to do it in front of their lady. It's like this reflects badly on their manhood.
    You try to make conclusions from porn? Crazy! Porn star guys have special "get it up" girls who are expert in BBBJ to get them up for the scene.

    You just think too much on this issue. How would you have any clue what guys other than yourself might want to do? Gross assumptions. There is no taboo for me about a lady playing with herself while I am watching. I encourage that.

    Now if the dick is not yet hard enough and the lady is doing nothing adequate about it, a bit of self massage of the cock can help while fingering her pussy. Taboo? Rubbish. Normally good tongue kissing gets me up, but what if that is not present, or girl is dick scared, stiff legged, and dick started to droop again? What if the girl's hand on your dick is painful? You have to do it yourself. What if she cannot do a good blow job or just did not do it. I generally dislike a girl to give me a HJ because it simply is not the right feel, so does not help me. She is better off to tickle my balls if she can do that without fingernails. I think less than 10% of girls do a good skilled HJ.

    The dick has already been seen to be not totally hard, so milk spilt already so to speak, so any type of assistance that works is good. BBFS is much easier because dick does not need to be totally hard. It can grow inside the right pussy. If girl is skilled at BJ, I certainly don't need to massage the dick, but if she isn't, I can do better with no shyness.

    If I massaged my open dick in front of a girl, I was not that shy or self conscious as to be ashamed by it, I never had any comments about it, other than some stupid girls asked why it wasn't that hard. Mostly that would be the girl's fault, as she did nothing to help or did something to spoil it, or dick just could not go in due to sponge obstruction, etc.

    The need to wank up the dick is a reflection on the girl being not that good, in most cases, or just difficult in some way. Guys dose themselves up on Vitamin V as another remedy to difficult girls or girls that are not great. In nature, non assisted, the dick can drop quickly in adversity. The other point is guys are very different. I have a rather insensitive dick. It is much harder for me to cum than average. Others are so sensitive they can pop on the slightest touch by a girl. Then there are more normal guys in between.

    When you have a really great receptive horny girl, with wonderful pussy, and doing BBFS, all these problems tend to go away, Vitamin V is not needed, the dick does its thing automatically, unless you are really fucked out.

  7. #236

    Good technique to arouse your lady

    I found a good example, where the guy masturbates his lady's pussy to arouse her and to get her into the mood with him.

    I think this is a good technique, because he doesn't just rub her pussy with his hand. He hugs her, holds her close to him, kisses her, pinches her nipple, and he varies how he massages her pussy with his hand. He does it for a reasonable period of time. And he has a comprehensive approach with her. He does everything with her at the same time.

    It's like he doesn't just focus on some part of her. He treats her as a whole woman and goes after all of her womanly charms at the same time.

    I had to make several clips out of it. Because he does it for a couple of minutes, but the longest clip I can make at pornhub.com is 10 seconds.

    Here are the clips:

    https://dl.phncdn.com/pics/gifs/018/.../18765081a.mp4

    https://dl.phncdn.com/pics/gifs/018/.../18765401a.mp4

    https://cl.phncdn.com/pics/gifs/018/.../18765651a.mp4

    https://dl.phncdn.com/pics/gifs/018/.../18765861a.mp4

    The link below is the whole video from which I've made the above clips:

    https://www.pornhub.com/embed/ph5b97e34e847f6

    Some guys complain about their P4P lady faking it and not being fully into it with them. But I think in most such cases, the problem is poor foreplay for the lady.

    It's like you need to massage your lady's pussy, play with her nipple, and kiss her on the cheek, before you take her with you dick.

  8. #235
    Quote Originally Posted by Syzygies  [View Original Post]
    What taboo? You must be too shy. I would have thought this was common place. ...
    Guys masturbating themselves is a taboo in porn. Because this is something guys either hide or avoid doing, while on camera. The only exception is at the end of the scene, when the guy sometimes strokes himself to cum on the lady's face.

    Perhaps this taboo is about the guy having erection difficulties. Because porn films almost never show you the guy doing it to get an erection going or to make his erection harder, just before he penetrates the lady.

    I don't think anybody knows how much of a taboo this is for ordinary guys. Because ordinary people do it in private.

    But I would be surprised if ordinary guys are more open and bold about not having a good enough erection for their lady, than even porn-guys, who do it all the time in public.

    Perhaps the taboo isn't so much about masturbation, as it is about not having a good enough erection. This is the reason why a lot of guys might not want to do it in front of their lady. It's like this reflects badly on their manhood.

    But I think such a mindset is counterproductive. Because basically you avoid doing the most effective thing that might make it better for you.

    I can't speak for other guys, but I can say for myself that stroking my cock in front of my lady was a difficult thing to do at first. Because it's something I've never done in front of any lady before. It was almost like being a virgin and feeling anxious about it, when I tried to do it for the first time in front of my lady.

    This kind of thing takes some getting used to, not just for the lady, but also for the guy.

  9. #234
    Quote Originally Posted by Dan7373  [View Original Post]
    Stroking yourself in presence of your lady is a big taboo guys. It's such a big taboo, that even sex-advice articles in the media don't mention this as a way to get and keep your erection going with your lady.
    What taboo? You must be too shy. I would have thought this was common place. Enlightened girls are not scared to diddle their clit in front of a guy either. I never heard any adverse comments about it.

    I would expect any girl to know that a guy's erection is not automatic. If she touches his dick nicely or gives him a nice lick or suck, I expect it probably goes up, unless her technique is bad and painful. Very nice tongue kissing also makes me hard.

    However if none of these things happen, you are left with rubbing your cock yourself to get the blood flow going and get it hard enough for penetration or for getting a condom on. Very common for me to be rubbing cock with left hand while right hand is touching her tits or pussy, when she is just lying there a bit lazy. In addition I often show her to tickle my balls, concurrently. I generally don't like hand jobs from girls as most don't do it well enough to be really good, a very light touch is okay To get a hard on going though.

    DATY usually gives me a semi hard on but not full. I have done extended DATY thousands of times, so can depend on just how beautiful the pussy is, how excited I am.

    Most of us have seen hundreds of naked girls as a minimum, so just her getting naked is not enough to cause natural erections for me. With very restrictive girls, I might not even get a hard on at all, or just a weak one, not adequate.

  10. #233

    A natural way to make yourself ready for the hot lady

    Porn-studs aren't famous for using natural means to keep their erection going. But I've recently seen a porn-scene, where the guy did exactly that.

    This guy was about to penetrate his lady from behind in doggy. The camera focused on the lady's pussy and ass. And the guy gave her some quick foreplay. He kissed her nice ass all over the place and slapped her ass-cheeks with his hand.

    But while he was doing this, I've noticed that out of focus, down below, this guy reached for his cock with his other hand and quickly masturbated it for 10-15 seconds, before he went on to penetrate the lady.

    Apparently, this guy did it make himself extra hard for the penetration, so that he could do it quickly and efficiently. Because he already had an erection.

    You don't often see this kind of thing in porn, because guys and porn-makers try to hide it from you. But my impression is that this is something porn-guys commonly do. Because in some porn-scenes, where 5 or 6 guys do it with one lady, it becomes hard for film-makers to hide what these guys do. In this type of scene, you often see guys stroking themselves to maintain their erections and to make themselves harder, when it's their turn to penetrate the lady.

    And the funny thing about porn is that guys hide their stroking only when they do it to maintain their erection or to make themselves harder for the penetration. But they openly show it to you at the end, when the guy strokes himself to orgasm and cums on the lady's face.

    Porn-studs are professionals, who do it for a living. They are very experienced, and they know what they are doing. When you see porn-studs do something, then you can be sure that it works.

    Stroking yourself in presence of your lady is a big taboo guys. It's such a big taboo, that even sex-advice articles in the media don't mention this as a way to get and keep your erection going with your lady.

    But virtually all guys run into erection problems at one time or another, when they are with a lady. And there is no good reason for this taboo. Why is it okay to make yourself harder with Viagra, but not with your hand? This taboo doesn't make sense to me at all, when you are there to nail the girl.

    A lot of P4P ladies nowadays offer you 2 or more cumshots with them. And this is where this technique for maintaining your dick can be especially effective and useful.

    Perhaps you don't need to stroke yourself for your first ride and your first cumshot with the lady. But when it comes to your second ride with the lady for your second cumshot with her, then things can get a little dicey.

    You can't do it right away for your second time. Because you are too sensitive during your refractory period. You need to wait for at least a minute or two. But you can lose your erection, while you are waiting.

    Porn-studs have a solution for this problem. Because they also wait, before they penetrate, during a gang-bang scene. This is where you see guys stroke themselves more than in any other scene. It's an effective technique for maintaining your dick.

    I can say from my own experience that it's a lot easier to maintain your erection, while you are waiting for your second ride with the lady, than to let it go down and then try to resurrect it.

    And the big advantage of stroking yourself, while you are waiting for your second ride with the lady, is that you don't overstimulate yourself. You do it just enough to maintain your erection. You also know right away when you stop being too sensitive, and you are ready to ride the lady for your second time.

    Many P4P ladies are now putting guys into a situation, where they need to perform like porn-studs. Of course, this isn't something to complain about. This is an excellent development. But you need to up your game with these ladies to take full advantage of their 2 cumshot offers.

    It's like you need to break some masturbation taboos here and do what the porn-studs do.

  11. #232

    Move her pussy around, rather than just pound

    I found an interesting video, where the lady rides her guy's cock in a special way. It's a way that makes it extra pleasant for her.

    This lady actually does it the same way that sex-therapists advise for cocky guys to use, when they want to please their lady with their cock.

    It's basically moving your cock around, rather than just pound. This is what gives your lady the best sensation, rather than straight in and out penetration. Because only the upper third of your lady's vagina and pussy is sensitive to the touch. Deeper inside, not so much. Just going in out of the lady's pussy doesn't provide much stimulation for her. She gets far more and better simulation, when you use your cock to move her pussy around and stretch it one way or the other.

    That's the way this lady in the video rides her guy's cock. And you can hear from the sounds she makes that she is really enjoying too.

    I think you can adapt her technique to ride this way any lady with your dick. You can do it this way in doggy, in missionary, and in many other positions where you are on top of the girl and you have control. Move her pussy around, rather than just pound.

    I've tried doing this with a lady I liked. And I found an added benefit of doing it this way. I lasted longer with her, without cumming prematurely with her.

    This technique with your dick provides more stimulation for your lady, than for you. That's why you can last longer with her when you do it this way. You can probably orgasm your chick with your dick this way and still be in good shape to ride her some more afterwards. And second time around, you can just pound for a quick finish with her.

    Going straight in and out is the most pleasant way to do it for a guy. But you often don't last for long, when you do it this way. Which is disappointing. You normally want to get to know the hot chick with your dick for a good 20 minutes or more, before you finish with her.

    It's not just about the riding. It's also about enjoying your intimacy with her through a lot of body-to-body contact with her. This is the time to grab your lady's nice ass with your hands and enjoy touching her sexy ass-cheeks. And this is the time to suck on her tits, or just grab her tits and hold on during your long fuck-a-thon.

    Spanking your lady's ass-cheeks with your hips in a hard-and-fast doggy ride might be something to do. But you don't truly and fully get to have your sexy lady, until you grind your hips on her sexy ass-cheeks, with your hard cock balls-deep inside her pussy. You need that deep penetration with her and a lot of hips on ass contact with her to feel full intimacy with her.

    I think this lady actually orgasms with her guy in the video. And it doesn't take her long to achieve her orgasm. The way she does it really is an effective technique for a guy to please his lady with his dick. Here is the video:

    https://www.pornhub.com/embed/ph55bb70d54ea7d

  12. #231

    What do sex workers want?

    I found an interesting video titled, "What do sex workers want?" In this video, a sex worker explains why women want to do it and how various laws against them and their clients harm them.

    This video is a bit off the topic for this discussion thread. But it's relevant for this whole website and forum. Because guys, who pay for sex, are often accused of doing something wrong, not by sex workers, but by people who claim to be speaking for them.

    You don't often hear what the sex workers have to say for themselves and how they see it from their point of view. And that's why politicians and other busybodies often feel free to throw accusations around. It's easy to accuse people who are silent and probably won't reply. Because this is like lynching, where the accusers can do whatever they want.

    I think this video is one of those replies from sex-workers that everybody needs to watch and hear. Here is the video:

    https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=VJRBx0JjM_M

  13. #230

    Another orgasmic ride, with Thai lady this time

    I found another video where an older western guy takes a young Thai lady with his cock in the same orgasmic position.

    This Thai lady actually crosses her legs with him. Which makes her pussy really tight for him.

    He doesn't last long with her, probably because she is so tight. But he lasts long enough to show you how to do it. He even shows you how to get into this sex-position starting at the 1:45 minute in the video.

    Here is the video link:

    https://www.pornhub.com/embed/ph5b2b2ec9ddd80

  14. #229

    Best angle for sure orgasam to a lady.

    This was my first angle in my sex life taught by an aunt.

    She always ask me to do this when ever we used to meet later then she prefers other angles.

    Quote Originally Posted by Dan7373  [View Original Post]
    I found an amateur video, where the guy takes his lady in a special position that provides extra stimulation for the lady's clitoris. This lady is loud, and the video is grainy. But it shows you the basic technique how to make it pleasant for a lady with your dick.

    I think this position is extra pleasant for the lady, because the guy moves up his body on her enough to rub her clit with the shaft of his cock. Here is the video link:

    https://www.pornhub.com/embed/ph5b6e1816e7697
    .

  15. #228
    Quote Originally Posted by Dan7373  [View Original Post]
    I found an amateur video, where the guy takes his lady in a special position that provides extra stimulation for the lady's clitoris. This lady is loud, and the video is grainy. But it shows you the basic technique how to make it pleasant for a lady with your dick.

    I think this position is extra pleasant for the lady, because the guy moves up his body on her enough to rub her clit with the shaft of his cock. Here is the video link:

    https://www.pornhub.com/embed/ph5b6e1816e7697
    This was the only position my ex-wife would orgasm in FS. It also provides the man a bit more pleasure if the lady has a loose pussy or if man is inadequately sized. A win-win position.

  16. #227

    Orgasmic ride

    I found an amateur video, where the guy takes his lady in a special position that provides extra stimulation for the lady's clitoris. This lady is loud, and the video is grainy. But it shows you the basic technique how to make it pleasant for a lady with your dick.

    I think this position is extra pleasant for the lady, because the guy moves up his body on her enough to rub her clit with the shaft of his cock. Here is the video link:

    https://www.pornhub.com/embed/ph5b6e1816e7697

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