Sexual Wellness and Safe Sex related Discussions

[Sol12]

I want to add to this that I resent people looking for BBFS. What your doing is making the women in this business more likely to carry diseases, which increases the risk for everyone.

I read all these reports about how in Indonesia and Philippines BBFS is available. Because of this I have no interest in going there.

I think you have a very naive view on how this industry works. It's a dark dirty world it's not Disneyland.

It doesn't matter if you are a guy paying for sex or a woman selling her body for money you have to know the risks you are taking. Also if you don't go to a certain area because of what you read yet you will go to some other place because you haven't read that girls are as likely to do BBFS. LOL. Just because you don't read about something doesn't mean that it isn't happening. If you are taking precautions to protect yourself is all that should matter. If you're paranoid about getting an STD this might not be the thing for you, but just remember that it's just as easy to get an STD from some girl you meet at a bar. Also if you look into other issues in this line of work having sex without a condom should be the least of your concerns. Maybe the amount of girls on drugs or girls being forced into prostitution is a bigger problem.

So if you want to resent people for having BBFS when it is something that the two parties agree to shouldn't matter to you, the same way people tried to force a vaccine on others where if you take the precautions and have safe sex with the 30 minutes you have what someone else does with their time you don't have a say in.

BTW don't forget that most of these girls have boyfriends and such outside the club so do you think they are using condoms?

[Xnxx1]

It's time for my regular annoying reminder.

This is insane. Safe BBFS with a prostitute in the red light district of a developing country? Do you hear yourself?

Please explain so others on here can understand. Why would you want BBFS under these circumstances? Obviously it feels better but under these circumstances that upside is worth the not unlikely and quite devastating downside? What's your calculus on this? I'm not berating. I literally want to understand how you think about this and decide that's what you want to do.

I want to add to this that I resent people looking for BBFS. What your doing is making the women in this business more likely to carry diseases, which increases the risk for everyone.

I read all these reports about how in Indonesia and Philippines BBFS is available. Because of this I have no interest in going there.

[AmericanPi]

Safe BBFS is ideal but not sure if that's ever guaranteed but as safe as possible is the highest priority.

It's time for my regular annoying reminder.

This is insane. Safe BBFS with a prostitute in the red light district of a developing country? Do you hear yourself?

Please explain so others on here can understand. Why would you want BBFS under these circumstances? Obviously it feels better but under these circumstances that upside is worth the not unlikely and quite devastating downside? What's your calculus on this? I'm not berating. I literally want to understand how you think about this and decide that's what you want to do.

[Daytonamonger]

This has been discussed on various boards over the years. But I recently started taking Sunflower Lecithin prior to my last trip. I'm generally not a believer in these supplements used for off brand purposes. The selling point is that Sunflower Lecithin increases the volume of semen. I do not measure it in volumes, so I can't confirm the volume. But I can definitely confirm, for me, it significantly enhances the orgasm. The best way I can describe it is that I have an increase in spasms during the orgasm. Frankly, I don't care if the volume is actually increased. But the increase in spasms, presumably releasing more ejaculate, is fantastic.

Without a doubt, ymmv. I'm not recommending you take it. I'm not a doctor. And check with the side effects. But reportedly there are minimal side effects. I've not experienced any side effects, beyond the intended effect. This is the second time I've taken this stuff and the results were the same. It seemed to take a few days to a week to get in my system. As I said, I'm not a believer in all these supplements that are a bit sketchy if you ask me. But just sharing my experience. I have read many people say to combine it with zinc. But I found it to be just as effective with or without zinc.

I take 1200 MG daily. They are larger softgels, if that matters to you.

For those of you trying to avoid soy and eggs due to allergies stay far away from Lecithin products it will flare your symptoms up big time.

I used to megadose 3600 MG daily with 100 MG zinc but started to develop an intolerance.

[Dcrist0527]

This has been discussed on various boards over the years. But I recently started taking Sunflower Lecithin prior to my last trip. I'm generally not a believer in these supplements used for off brand purposes. The selling point is that Sunflower Lecithin increases the volume of semen. I do not measure it in volumes, so I can't confirm the volume. But I can definitely confirm, for me, it significantly enhances the orgasm. The best way I can describe it is that I have an increase in spasms during the orgasm. Frankly, I don't care if the volume is actually increased. But the increase in spasms, presumably releasing more ejaculate, is fantastic.

Without a doubt, ymmv. I'm not recommending you take it. I'm not a doctor. And check with the side effects. But reportedly there are minimal side effects. I've not experienced any side effects, beyond the intended effect. This is the second time I've taken this stuff and the results were the same. It seemed to take a few days to a week to get in my system. As I said, I'm not a believer in all these supplements that are a bit sketchy if you ask me. But just sharing my experience. I have read many people say to combine it with zinc. But I found it to be just as effective with or without zinc.

I take 1200 MG daily. They are larger softgels, if that matters to you.

[Flawless Zeal]

Did you stop taking it, if so why?

I was in a monogamous relationship. I would have to start it up again with a doc appointment and the blood tests to go back on it.

[Zenduka1]

When I used it I got Emtricitabine (generic of Truvada) from my primary care doc in the states and it was $5, heavily subsidized. Just said I had a lot of partners, sometimes risky. Didn't even have to lie and say I was gay. But he did make me have an HIV test first and wait for the results before starting, and have periodic tests every 6 months to continue it.

Did you stop taking it, if so why? Or do you take it occasionally whenever you have to take risks. I hear you need a month to load it up. I appreciate the response. I do.

For HIV Prevention (PrEP):

The time it takes for Truvada to become effective depends on the type of exposure:

For anal sex: Truvada reaches maximum protection in 7 days of daily use.

For vaginal sex: It takes about 21 days of daily use to reach maximum protection.

For injection drug use: It also takes about 21 days of daily use to reach maximum protection.

I was engaged in unprotected sex with the service girls in tj but never used it. I ended up having sleepless nights after the deed until test results come, so I stopped the crazy adventure.

[Flawless Zeal]

Question. What is the cost in Tijuana for a month supply? Is it over the counter? What is a good generic name that can be purchased?

When I used it I got Emtricitabine (generic of Truvada) from my primary care doc in the states and it was $5, heavily subsidized. Just said I had a lot of partners, sometimes risky. Didn't even have to lie and say I was gay. But he did make me have an HIV test first and wait for the results before starting, and have periodic tests every 6 months to continue it.

[Phordphan]

Question. What is the cost in Tijuana for a month supply? Is it over the counter? What is a good generic name that can be purchased?

It's available free, for men who screw other men. Not judging, just saying.

[Zenduka1]

You sure about that? Anyone doing BBFS with escorts should 100% be on PrEP.

Question. What is the cost in Tijuana for a month supply? Is it over the counter? What is a good generic name that can be purchased?

[Flawless Zeal]

If I ask if anyone takes PrEP, it will be crickets.

You sure about that? Anyone doing BBFS with escorts should 100% be on PrEP.

[Zenduka1]

"Never really hear about anyone ever catching any STDs in Tijuana".

Buddy you need to get out more! LOL.

I don't think people will announce they have STD so one can hear about it. That is futile. What one can do is read official stats. Here is one,.

Sexually transmitted infections (STIs) are relatively high in Tijuana, Mexico, as in many border cities with high population mobility and tourism. Factors such as sex work, limited access to healthcare, and inconsistent condom use contribute to the spread of STIs. Common STIs in the region include chlamydia, gonorrhea, syphilis, and HIV.

Here is one fact, If I ask people here if they take dick hardening drugs, like Cialis, everyone will reply with enthusiasm. If I ask if anyone takes PrEP, it will be crickets.

[TheMan31]

At least they have a program and that's a good thing, I never really hear about anyone ever catching any STD's in Tijuana. I don't think this program is really effective with the street girls. I think it would be to cumbersome to monitor.

"Never really hear about anyone ever catching any STDs in Tijuana".

Buddy you need to get out more! LOL.

[Zenduka1]

It is hard, I start my new job on Thursday, and boxing may take a back seat. I've had 4 amateur fights as a middleweight and welterweight. My first one was at age 60. I don't know if I want to take anymore fights. I hate all the running.

One of the best aspects of this hobby is that it pushes you to stay fit as you get older.

[Scbb1]

Not too many people do what you do at age 64. I do go to the gym but not 6-7 times a week. I have a few years left to get to 60 and already feel it if I don't break between gym visits, the most I can do is 2 to 3 times, sprinting training 1 days of the week. The rest is work and lots of sleeping.

It is hard, I start my new job on Thursday, and boxing may take a back seat. I've had 4 amateur fights as a middleweight and welterweight. My first one was at age 60. I don't know if I want to take anymore fights. I hate all the running.