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  1. #5840

    Singapore Seeking

    Does anyone has any experience with Singapore SA? Is it good there? Or very difficult to score and expensive?

  2. #5839

    Quite the Night

    Quote Originally Posted by Steve9696  [View Original Post]

    I'm not sure I could've had a bigger adventure and who would've thought I picked up my first civvie date from bar pick up in my late 50's. What and unexpected turn of events and a fuck ton of fun.
    The only civvies I've ever picked up at the bar have been 6's. A 9 is absolutely a dream come true.

    Sounds like you had quite the night. I'm glad to know there's still many adventures to be had at 50+.

  3. #5838
    Quote Originally Posted by Steve9696  [View Original Post]
    So technically this doesn't belong here because it's not Seeking but you guys are my buds and think you will enjoy this unlikely encounter. Slamming a 9 from bar pickup. First girl I ever picked up in a bar! Believe it or not. And soooo unlikely me in my late fifties and uncompensated fucking from a 23 year old nine! Read on.

    So it wasn't on my agenda because so unlikely but I slammed a civvie 9 last night via bar pickup. I saw a shitty Russian escort earlier in the night and was nursing my wounds by drinking heavily and socializing. As I drink I lose my approach anxiety and will chat up strangers. Generally guys. Just friendly stuff. New friends everywhere.

    After bouncing to different bars with different closing times I end up at this odd bar that closes late but has more an ice cream shop vibe bright lighting and cafe tables. There are several groups of mixed guys and girls there. I chat with one guy but I think he thinks I'm trying to pick him up and it fades quickly. LOL.

    Most of the groups are large which makes approach harder. So I am just nursing my G&T and figuring if I want to engage. There is a mega hottie sitting by herself just on her phone and apparently very unapproachable. Certainly off limits to a guy in his late fifties. So I just continue to hang out and enjoy the social observation.

    But after hanging out for about a half an hour, I am looking over in this girls direction and she looks up from her phone and we lock eyes. Having drank quite a bit I'm very loose so instantly I slide over to her table and start chatting with her. Theres no chair, so I'm squatting down and just starting a great conversation.

    She's from Guatemala and she is an interior design student studying for her masters degree. She speaks amazing English and we just get on like a House on fire. Honestly, I'm not even thinking about bedding her. She's just a sweet girl and we're having a great conversation.

    After quite some time, it's about 215 or 220 in the morning and they are kicking us out because they close at two. I lightly mentioned maybe we should go to her place but she deflects that so we head to another bar that's open a little bit later and I can't even recall if we had more drinks or what we did, she's really lit to the point of almost stumbling and so really my mission at this point it's just taking care of her and make sure she gets home safe.

    As the new bar is also now closing, I can't member if I suggest it or it's just her idea but she starts dragging me by the hand to her place. Like I say, she's really quite drunk and I'm really not sure she even knows where her place is. She's dragging me down all these streets, but eventually we arrive at a tall black gated apartment house.

    We come into a very nice large lobby, and we take a right, and go into what is apparently her apartment. There are some stairs down at the marble entryway. This part is really comedic. We start to make out and generally disrobe, and it doesn't occur to me why but the lights keep going out automatically and I'm having to press the button on the wall to turn them back on, she's completely naked and I'm fingering her and eating her out. And that sounds like normal stuff but it turns out we're not actually in her apartment! We are actually in the foyer that has two or three other apartments coming off of it. So here we are 3 o'clock in the morning half to completely naked passionately getting it on in the foyer to the apartment building.

    I only figure this out later, because it's really kind of difficult to fuck on the marble stairs, and so we moved to her apartment, and I suddenly realized that we've been in the public foyer the whole time. LOL.

    Once inside, The sex is wild and bareback and passionate, and she is one horny beast. I couldn't cum to save my life. I'm so drunk so we had to be fucking for probably a solid two hours and she is not quitting. She's on her period so we make a fucking bloody mess on the bed, and eventually collapse and fall asleep.

    Now, if the lobby fucking wasn't comedic enough, there's more to come. I have a meeting at 9 o'clock and I wake up at 6:30. Haven't gone to sleep at 5:30 I think holy fuck I need to get out of here and get to my meeting. Both my work phone and my home phone are dead in my pockets of my pants so I can't call an Uber. Adding more fun to the problem, as I go to exit, I find that the lobby door is in fact locked and I can't get out!

    So I go back in and get her keys and unlock the lobby door so I can get out and return the keys to her apartment. She still sleeps on blissfully but as I exit I get the big black gate and it's locked! Also there is absolutely no way to open it. There's not a button or anything so I end up climbing over the gate and jumping down into the street nearly breaking an ankle.

    After that, I wander about wondering what I'm going to do about no Uber but fortunately in two or three blocks, I find a cab and returned my hotel getting one hour more sleep, and making my 9 o'clock meeting on time!

    I'm not sure I could've had a bigger adventure and who would've thought I picked up my first civvie date from bar pick up in my late 50's. What and unexpected turn of events and a fuck ton of fun.
    These types of moments are what it's all about! The excitement, the uncertainty and how sometimes the stars just align, and you have an incredible encounter with a hottie that you never expected. This keeps us 50 somethings young, keeps us hungry, keeps us eager to enjoy it all. So happy to hear you turned your day from a dud experience with the escort to a homerun with the civvie. I hope in your drunken state, you at least got her number for possible further hookups.

  4. #5837
    Quote Originally Posted by ChanceSome  [View Original Post]
    Thank you all for your feedback over the past 2 weeks that I have been in Bogota. Here is my summary for others to reference if they decide to use Seeking in Bogota and to get an idea of prices.

    I went on 4 seeking dates with 4 different girls. Note that I didn't haggle with the girls, I always accepted the price they offered.

    First girl was the nursing girl. I went on 2 dates with her and she was the most civilian out of all my dates. Both dates involved dinner and lasted 3+ hours. Each date I gave her 400 K COP. She also gave the most mediocre blowjobs, so perhaps there is a correlation between civilianess and blowjob abilities. She was a 6. 5 in terms of looks and in retrospect, my overall experience with her was an 8.

    Jenna. Semi-pro student with beautiful blue eyes. My date with her was 2 hours and I paid her 650 K. She was a 7. 5 in terms of looks and in retrospect, my overall experience with her was a 7. She was really shy, and I think we would have both benefited from a second date. She hit me up several different times later for a second date, but the timing never worked out.

    Mia. Pro with the best ass, flat stomach, and most amazing blowjob skills. My date with her was 1 hour and I paid her 600 k. She was an 8 in terms of looks and in retrospect, my overall experience with her was a 7.

    Emily. I didn't write a post about this girl, because we only went on a date, no sex. I enjoyed the date, but she needed more time before sex was possible. The most she let me do was touch her stomach and grab her ass a few times. I paid for her transportation, museum entry, and our meal together. In terms of looks, she was a 7.

    Missed opportunities.

    Nathalia. She was close to my perfect 10. She wanted 250 USD and I would've paid it too, but she got an attitude with me for rescheduling a date because she wasn't responsive for half a day. Her attitude left a bad taste in my mouth, so I hesitantly decided against a date with her.

    Amber. Spoke great English and traveled between Colombia and the States frequently. She wanted 300 USD and offered a threesome with her friend, who was also 300 USD. Both were 8+ based on photos. We didn't really vibe over chat, so I did not pursue.

    Amalia. Venezuelan girl with a voluptuous body, but all her photos were filtered, so I didn't go on a date with her. She wanted 500 k for 2 hours.

    Also, if you're wondering why I went on dates with a bunch of 7's, this is my assessment of their looks in real life. Of course they looked better in photos on Seeking. That being said, I care more about a connection than looks as long as they're cute. Nursing girl scored the lowest on looks, but she was my highest overall experience score.

    Lastly, I would like to thank everyone that posted in the last 6 months in this subforum. I read through all the posts before trying out seeking and applied the things that made sense to me. You made my first experiences with Seeking overwhelmingly positive!
    I'm hitting the seeking for Bogota this trip and got a few girls lined up. Would you mind sharing their profiles? Just to see if I'm lining up the same girls. Can't seem to pm you.

  5. #5836

    Amazing Civvie Pickup

    So technically this doesn't belong here because it's not Seeking but you guys are my buds and think you will enjoy this unlikely encounter. Slamming a 9 from bar pickup. First girl I ever picked up in a bar! Believe it or not. And soooo unlikely me in my late fifties and uncompensated fucking from a 23 year old nine! Read on.

    So it wasn't on my agenda because so unlikely but I slammed a civvie 9 last night via bar pickup. I saw a shitty Russian escort earlier in the night and was nursing my wounds by drinking heavily and socializing. As I drink I lose my approach anxiety and will chat up strangers. Generally guys. Just friendly stuff. New friends everywhere.

    After bouncing to different bars with different closing times I end up at this odd bar that closes late but has more an ice cream shop vibe bright lighting and cafe tables. There are several groups of mixed guys and girls there. I chat with one guy but I think he thinks I'm trying to pick him up and it fades quickly. LOL.

    Most of the groups are large which makes approach harder. So I am just nursing my G&T and figuring if I want to engage. There is a mega hottie sitting by herself just on her phone and apparently very unapproachable. Certainly off limits to a guy in his late fifties. So I just continue to hang out and enjoy the social observation.

    But after hanging out for about a half an hour, I am looking over in this girls direction and she looks up from her phone and we lock eyes. Having drank quite a bit I'm very loose so instantly I slide over to her table and start chatting with her. Theres no chair, so I'm squatting down and just starting a great conversation.

    She's from Guatemala and she is an interior design student studying for her masters degree. She speaks amazing English and we just get on like a House on fire. Honestly, I'm not even thinking about bedding her. She's just a sweet girl and we're having a great conversation.

    After quite some time, it's about 215 or 220 in the morning and they are kicking us out because they close at two. I lightly mentioned maybe we should go to her place but she deflects that so we head to another bar that's open a little bit later and I can't even recall if we had more drinks or what we did, she's really lit to the point of almost stumbling and so really my mission at this point it's just taking care of her and make sure she gets home safe.

    As the new bar is also now closing, I can't member if I suggest it or it's just her idea but she starts dragging me by the hand to her place. Like I say, she's really quite drunk and I'm really not sure she even knows where her place is. She's dragging me down all these streets, but eventually we arrive at a tall black gated apartment house.

    We come into a very nice large lobby, and we take a right, and go into what is apparently her apartment. There are some stairs down at the marble entryway. This part is really comedic. We start to make out and generally disrobe, and it doesn't occur to me why but the lights keep going out automatically and I'm having to press the button on the wall to turn them back on, she's completely naked and I'm fingering her and eating her out. And that sounds like normal stuff but it turns out we're not actually in her apartment! We are actually in the foyer that has two or three other apartments coming off of it. So here we are 3 o'clock in the morning half to completely naked passionately getting it on in the foyer to the apartment building.

    I only figure this out later, because it's really kind of difficult to fuck on the marble stairs, and so we moved to her apartment, and I suddenly realized that we've been in the public foyer the whole time. LOL.

    Once inside, The sex is wild and bareback and passionate, and she is one horny beast. I couldn't cum to save my life. I'm so drunk so we had to be fucking for probably a solid two hours and she is not quitting. She's on her period so we make a fucking bloody mess on the bed, and eventually collapse and fall asleep.

    Now, if the lobby fucking wasn't comedic enough, there's more to come. I have a meeting at 9 o'clock and I wake up at 6:30. Haven't gone to sleep at 5:30 I think holy fuck I need to get out of here and get to my meeting. Both my work phone and my home phone are dead in my pockets of my pants so I can't call an Uber. Adding more fun to the problem, as I go to exit, I find that the lobby door is in fact locked and I can't get out!

    So I go back in and get her keys and unlock the lobby door so I can get out and return the keys to her apartment. She still sleeps on blissfully but as I exit I get the big black gate and it's locked! Also there is absolutely no way to open it. There's not a button or anything so I end up climbing over the gate and jumping down into the street nearly breaking an ankle.

    After that, I wander about wondering what I'm going to do about no Uber but fortunately in two or three blocks, I find a cab and returned my hotel getting one hour more sleep, and making my 9 o'clock meeting on time!

    I'm not sure I could've had a bigger adventure and who would've thought I picked up my first civvie date from bar pick up in my late 50's. What and unexpected turn of events and a fuck ton of fun.

  6. #5835
    Quote Originally Posted by ChanceSome  [View Original Post]
    I've kept in touch with her so we'll find out! Her character will reveal itself in time. She's a semi-pro and this relationship was built with money and unless she's made that mental switch in her head, at some point she's going to find an excuse to ask for money.
    Well, that is half of it. Yes, she is going to have like you for more than money, and you are going to have to like her for more than sex.

    Quote Originally Posted by ChanceSome  [View Original Post]
    As for me, I'm content to have her as my go-to, but not exclusive girl when I visit Colombia.
    That is cool. I was always honest with a woman if I felt that way. Some guys think that they have to lie about that, but I did not. I found the sex was best if a woman had affection for me and wanted to please me. The notion that women put the sex into a higher gear when in love is something I have not found to be true. What I have found to be true though is women in love do want sex more often.

  7. #5834

    We'll Find Out!

    Quote Originally Posted by Elvis2008  [View Original Post]

    I am not so sure then it is an illusion.
    I've kept in touch with her so we'll find out! Her character will reveal itself in time. She's a semi-pro and this relationship was built with money and unless she's made that mental switch in her head, at some point she's going to find an excuse to ask for money.

    As for me, I'm content to have her as my go-to, but not exclusive girl when I visit Colombia. Its only a matter of time before my Spanish is good enough to play in the civilian pool. I will definitely try Bumble in Colombia next time.

  8. #5833
    Quote Originally Posted by ChanceSome  [View Original Post]
    I don't know what the word limit is for these posts, and I'm sure I've passed the attention span of some, so I'll wrap up. We spent 1.5 days in Cali together. We dined well, had amazing sex and visited some cool attractions. She told me all these sweet, loving things throughout the trip. They were half-truths and part of the illusion. She said them but they didn't carry much weight. But during our final dinner, these half-truths started to have some feeling behind them. I felt her falling for me. The illusion felt real for an hour. What a glorious conclusion. I will visit her again for sure when I return. And now, whenever I think upon Colombia, she'll be 1 of 2 girls that I remember very fondly. 1000% worth it. 9/10 experience.
    If you are married and plan to stay that one, then by all means, think of it as an illusion. Before my current gal, there was another Colombian who was smitten with me. There was always something holding me back with her. She was cute, a 7 or 8 type, but she had a 10 personality. Still, something was not right. I think she was too young for a relationship. She had a good family, busted her ass, was a professional, had dreams of us being together. I just was not comfortable committing to her, but it was very real. She did anything sexually I wanted.

    A 63 year old friend of mine who is average looking at best came down with me to Colombia once. After my gal has been so happy with me, a friend of my gal who is 31 and stunning seemed to want the same thing as my gal had and came onto him hard. I was shocked. She let him know flat out she was open being with him, and my friend is married. He was like, "I never expected this! And it surprised me too.

    Upper class Colombian women have different priorities. It is easy to find a slick, handsome, good dancing, smooth talking man. It is hard to find one who is loyal, hard working, faithful, and flush with cash. So in some ways, it is opposite of the USA. Cheating, beating women, and treating women poorly is common behavior for Colombian men. Whatever you make in the USA, multiply it by 10 and that is equal to what you are making in Colombia. Also, look at how hot the other Colombian women are they have to fight against.

    I am not so sure then it is an illusion.

  9. #5832

    Summary of My 2 Weeks in Bogota

    Thank you all for your feedback over the past 2 weeks that I have been in Bogota. Here is my summary for others to reference if they decide to use Seeking in Bogota and to get an idea of prices.

    I went on 4 seeking dates with 4 different girls. Note that I didn't haggle with the girls, I always accepted the price they offered.

    First girl was the nursing girl. I went on 2 dates with her and she was the most civilian out of all my dates. Both dates involved dinner and lasted 3+ hours. Each date I gave her 400 K COP. She also gave the most mediocre blowjobs, so perhaps there is a correlation between civilianess and blowjob abilities. She was a 6. 5 in terms of looks and in retrospect, my overall experience with her was an 8.

    Jenna. Semi-pro student with beautiful blue eyes. My date with her was 2 hours and I paid her 650 K. She was a 7. 5 in terms of looks and in retrospect, my overall experience with her was a 7. She was really shy, and I think we would have both benefited from a second date. She hit me up several different times later for a second date, but the timing never worked out.

    Mia. Pro with the best ass, flat stomach, and most amazing blowjob skills. My date with her was 1 hour and I paid her 600 k. She was an 8 in terms of looks and in retrospect, my overall experience with her was a 7.

    Emily. I didn't write a post about this girl, because we only went on a date, no sex. I enjoyed the date, but she needed more time before sex was possible. The most she let me do was touch her stomach and grab her ass a few times. I paid for her transportation, museum entry, and our meal together. In terms of looks, she was a 7.

    Missed opportunities.

    Nathalia. She was close to my perfect 10. She wanted 250 USD and I would've paid it too, but she got an attitude with me for rescheduling a date because she wasn't responsive for half a day. Her attitude left a bad taste in my mouth, so I hesitantly decided against a date with her.

    Amber. Spoke great English and traveled between Colombia and the States frequently. She wanted 300 USD and offered a threesome with her friend, who was also 300 USD. Both were 8+ based on photos. We didn't really vibe over chat, so I did not pursue.

    Amalia. Venezuelan girl with a voluptuous body, but all her photos were filtered, so I didn't go on a date with her. She wanted 500 k for 2 hours.

    Also, if you're wondering why I went on dates with a bunch of 7's, this is my assessment of their looks in real life. Of course they looked better in photos on Seeking. That being said, I care more about a connection than looks as long as they're cute. Nursing girl scored the lowest on looks, but she was my highest overall experience score.

    Lastly, I would like to thank everyone that posted in the last 6 months in this subforum. I read through all the posts before trying out seeking and applied the things that made sense to me. You made my first experiences with Seeking overwhelmingly positive!

  10. #5831
    Quote Originally Posted by MiamiBoy1  [View Original Post]
    You also save on taxes and Airbnb fees, which in some locations can be very steep. On the downside, a security deposit may be required if you negotiate a deal outside of Airbnb.
    Airbnb use to be amazing, now they are getting super strict and expensive. Many now have a 4 pm check in, this just terrible especially on the weekends.

    Airbnb is usually hit or miss with me, either a great experience or average to below.

    My goal was to deal with owner directly and that use to be easy, now many use mgmt. Companies, there is zero customer service. I only use it in.

    MTY, because a lot of the hotels AC is terrible and they do not have pools. CDMX you almost never deal with the owners. Customer service is zero, but you can get great locations for a decent price.

  11. #5830
    Quote Originally Posted by TedFerguson  [View Original Post]
    I was also smitten with Colombians when I first experienced them, and it's easy to because they're really good at sex in my opinion (they truly try to enjoy it). Cali girls especially are super warm and lack the arrogance of Medellin girls. The less pleasant aspects of the culture come out later, namely that the main moral values Colombians have are politeness and family. What that means in practice is they'll be very polite and pleasant with you, but they have no problem lying. They even lie to themselves to make their lives seem more pleasant. I've seen this in Colombian friends who grew up in the US, it's a form of enjoyable delusion. If you ask them what integrity is, you'll get blank stares and they'll probably think you're arrogant.

    So enjoy the sex, the music, the food, the weather but understand the culture is really optimized for short-term interactions.
    If you love the Colombian, you should try Mexican girls. For me they are the best. If I had unlimited resources and time, I would spend my time be Mexico and parts of Eastern Europe, maybe mix in Spain. Colombia would definitely not be in the mix, for me.

  12. #5829

    Love This!

    Quote Originally Posted by ChanceSome  [View Original Post]
    This is a continuation of my previous post regarding Cali girl.

    So, her flight to Cali was set to leave at 4:20 AM. And here I was at the gate at 4:00 and she was nowhere in sight. Needless to say, all the doubts I had regarding this spontaneous decision were swirling in my head. Perhaps Americanpi was right, she's just a hoe. There was no luggage, no aunt, and she really wasn't flying back to Cali. Luckily, my feelings were buoyed by the great night we had together just a few hours prior. I had only lost $47 for the flight and some sleep. Regardless of things not panning out, it would have been worthwhile to surprise her with such a grand gesture, and it would have been a great opportunity to deepen the budding relationship. It's 4:20 now and all hope is lost. I circle around the gate one last time and finally give up as I leave the gate.

    I exit through the security area and lo and behold, it's her! She has beads of sweat on her face. Its 60 degrees outside and she's damp with sweat. I forgot to tell you all this in the previous post, but she's a person whose core, basal temperature runs hot. The perfect person to snuggle up with in the cool weather of Bogota. She's in a panic because she's very late for her flight. It is not real to her yet that her flight is gone. She's surprised to see me but her priority at the moment is to catch her flight. "The gate to your flight is closed, baby," I had to tell multiple times for it to register completely.

    Once her emotions have descended from their heightened state; she finally realized that I was there with her. She asked me why I was there. I told her "sorpresa! Vamos a Cali juntos. " I told her I made an uncharacteristic, last minute decision to book the same flight as her. She is happy and relieved that I am there. I asked her why she was late and she said she went to the wrong terminal. Domestic flights in BOG sometimes leave out Terminal 2 instead of the main one and the terminals are not connected. She is also late because she's a complete airhead. I love it. This is a character trait that I adore. This would be annoying to deal with 2 years into a relationship, but I'm still very much in the honeymoon period with her. So my infatuation only grows. I tell her we'll find a different flight to Cali.

    So, we booked new flights. We explored all the nooks and crannies of the airport. We waited on each other to go to the bathroom. We did all the mundane things that couples do at the airport. And we ran out of things to talk about because we're just waiting at the airport for 3 hours and my Spanish is mainly limited to telling her what I like and don't like. For me this is perfect, because I have never flown with a girl. Only to them or them to me. This was the real GFE.

    We actually almost missed our flight to Cali, despite being 3 hours early. I told you, she's an airhead. She misplaced her boarding pass, and they couldn't print her boarding pass at the gate. We had to run 10 gates down to the main area where they could, and then sprinted back to be the last people that boarded. 2 year relationship me would be annoyed for sure. Luckily, it's only been half a day with her. We snuggle on the plane.

    I don't know what the word limit is for these posts, and I'm sure I've passed the attention span of some, so I'll wrap up. We spent 1.5 days in Cali together. We dined well, had amazing sex and visited some cool attractions. She told me all these sweet, loving things throughout the trip. They were half-truths and part of the illusion. She said them but they didn't carry much weight. But during our final dinner, these half-truths started to have some feeling behind them. I felt her falling for me. The illusion felt real for an hour. What a glorious conclusion. I will visit her again for sure when I return. And now, whenever I think upon Colombia, she'll be 1 of 2 girls that I remember very fondly. 1000% worth it. 9/10 experience.
    I fucking love this post! You didn't act old and jaded. You acted like a smitten soul and were rewarded for your innocence. This is the way life should be. I am so glad you took a chance and got true GFE (complete with awkward silences and air head mistakes). I live for real world GFE. Nothing better. And sometimes you gotta leap to catch it!

  13. #5828

    Glad it worked out

    That is a good story. Would definitely drive me crazy as well outside of tthe honeymoon phase. When I was in Poland I met a girl on goldbikiniclub that I couldn't see in her city (because I had someone else lined up that I preferred) but told her she could meet me in warsaw for a few days. I told her I'd give her 1 k usd to hang out with me for three days and the only thing she asked for was gas money. Not up front, just gas money. Of course I said yes as I would have bet you any amount of money she wasn't going to show but sure enough she showed up on time after a 3. 5 HR drive from her city and stayed with me for three full days. We ended up having a really good time. Sometimes it just works against all conventional logic.

    Quote Originally Posted by ChanceSome  [View Original Post]
    This is a continuation of my previous post regarding Cali girl.

    So, her flight to Cali was set to leave at 4:20 AM. And here I was at the gate at 4:00 and she was nowhere in sight. Needless to say, all the doubts I had regarding this spontaneous decision were swirling in my head. Perhaps Americanpi was right, she's just a hoe. There was no luggage, no aunt, and she really wasn't flying back to Cali. Luckily, my feelings were buoyed by the great night we had together just a few hours prior. I had only lost $47 for the flight and some sleep. Regardless of things not panning out, it would have been worthwhile to surprise her with such a grand gesture, and it would have been a great opportunity to deepen the budding relationship. It's 4:20 now and all hope is lost. I circle around the gate one last time and finally give up as I leave the gate.

    I exit through the security area and lo and behold, it's her! She has beads of sweat on her face. Its 60 degrees outside and she's damp with sweat. I forgot to tell you all this in the previous post, but she's a person whose core, basal temperature runs hot. The perfect person to snuggle up with in the cool weather of Bogota. She's in a panic because she's very late for her flight. It is not real to her yet that her flight is gone. She's surprised to see me but her priority at the moment is to catch her flight. "The gate to your flight is closed, baby," I had to tell multiple times for it to register completely.

    Once her emotions have descended from their heightened state; she finally realized that I was there with her. She asked me why I was there. I told her "sorpresa! Vamos a Cali juntos. " I told her I made an uncharacteristic, last minute decision to book the same flight as her. She is happy and relieved that I am there. I asked her why she was late and she said she went to the wrong terminal. Domestic flights in BOG sometimes leave out Terminal 2 instead of the main one and the terminals are not connected. She is also late because she's a complete airhead. I love it. This is a character trait that I adore. This would be annoying to deal with 2 years into a relationship, but I'm still very much in the honeymoon period with her. So my infatuation only grows. I tell her we'll find a different flight to Cali.

    So, we booked new flights. We explored all the nooks and crannies of the airport. We waited on each other to go to the bathroom. We did all the mundane things that couples do at the airport. And we ran out of things to talk about because we're just waiting at the airport for 3 hours and my Spanish is mainly limited to telling her what I like and don't like. For me this is perfect, because I have never flown with a girl. Only to them or them to me. This was the real GFE.

    We actually almost missed our flight to Cali, despite being 3 hours early. I told you, she's an airhead. She misplaced her boarding pass, and they couldn't print her boarding pass at the gate. We had to run 10 gates down to the main area where they could, and then sprinted back to be the last people that boarded. 2 year relationship me would be annoyed for sure. Luckily, it's only been half a day with her. We snuggle on the plane.

    I don't know what the word limit is for these posts, and I'm sure I've passed the attention span of some, so I'll wrap up. We spent 1.5 days in Cali together. We dined well, had amazing sex and visited some cool attractions. She told me all these sweet, loving things throughout the trip. They were half-truths and part of the illusion. She said them but they didn't carry much weight. But during our final dinner, these half-truths started to have some feeling behind them. I felt her falling for me. The illusion felt real for an hour. What a glorious conclusion. I will visit her again for sure when I return. And now, whenever I think upon Colombia, she'll be 1 of 2 girls that I remember very fondly. 1000% worth it. 9/10 experience.

  14. #5827

    The Illusion that for a Moment Felt Real

    This is a continuation of my previous post regarding Cali girl.

    So, her flight to Cali was set to leave at 4:20 AM. And here I was at the gate at 4:00 and she was nowhere in sight. Needless to say, all the doubts I had regarding this spontaneous decision were swirling in my head. Perhaps Americanpi was right, she's just a hoe. There was no luggage, no aunt, and she really wasn't flying back to Cali. Luckily, my feelings were buoyed by the great night we had together just a few hours prior. I had only lost $47 for the flight and some sleep. Regardless of things not panning out, it would have been worthwhile to surprise her with such a grand gesture, and it would have been a great opportunity to deepen the budding relationship. It's 4:20 now and all hope is lost. I circle around the gate one last time and finally give up as I leave the gate.

    I exit through the security area and lo and behold, it's her! She has beads of sweat on her face. Its 60 degrees outside and she's damp with sweat. I forgot to tell you all this in the previous post, but she's a person whose core, basal temperature runs hot. The perfect person to snuggle up with in the cool weather of Bogota. She's in a panic because she's very late for her flight. It is not real to her yet that her flight is gone. She's surprised to see me but her priority at the moment is to catch her flight. "The gate to your flight is closed, baby," I had to tell multiple times for it to register completely.

    Once her emotions have descended from their heightened state; she finally realized that I was there with her. She asked me why I was there. I told her "sorpresa! Vamos a Cali juntos. " I told her I made an uncharacteristic, last minute decision to book the same flight as her. She is happy and relieved that I am there. I asked her why she was late and she said she went to the wrong terminal. Domestic flights in BOG sometimes leave out Terminal 2 instead of the main one and the terminals are not connected. She is also late because she's a complete airhead. I love it. This is a character trait that I adore. This would be annoying to deal with 2 years into a relationship, but I'm still very much in the honeymoon period with her. So my infatuation only grows. I tell her we'll find a different flight to Cali.

    So, we booked new flights. We explored all the nooks and crannies of the airport. We waited on each other to go to the bathroom. We did all the mundane things that couples do at the airport. And we ran out of things to talk about because we're just waiting at the airport for 3 hours and my Spanish is mainly limited to telling her what I like and don't like. For me this is perfect, because I have never flown with a girl. Only to them or them to me. This was the real GFE.

    We actually almost missed our flight to Cali, despite being 3 hours early. I told you, she's an airhead. She misplaced her boarding pass, and they couldn't print her boarding pass at the gate. We had to run 10 gates down to the main area where they could, and then sprinted back to be the last people that boarded. 2 year relationship me would be annoyed for sure. Luckily, it's only been half a day with her. We snuggle on the plane.

    I don't know what the word limit is for these posts, and I'm sure I've passed the attention span of some, so I'll wrap up. We spent 1.5 days in Cali together. We dined well, had amazing sex and visited some cool attractions. She told me all these sweet, loving things throughout the trip. They were half-truths and part of the illusion. She said them but they didn't carry much weight. But during our final dinner, these half-truths started to have some feeling behind them. I felt her falling for me. The illusion felt real for an hour. What a glorious conclusion. I will visit her again for sure when I return. And now, whenever I think upon Colombia, she'll be 1 of 2 girls that I remember very fondly. 1000% worth it. 9/10 experience.

  15. #5826

    Disagree

    Agree, that ghosting is in poor taste, even juvenile. That's how young people are raised these days you get 30 seconds on ticktok to keep their attention or it's on to the next stupid video.

    The one thing I will say is that I had two seeking relationships that both ended on her terms and both times she pulled me aside, looked me straight in the eye and said, "this is it. " Or something to that effect. Hurt at the time because they were unexpected but it took balls in my eyes. They could have done it over text, ghost, voice call, whatever, but looking back I saw it as a sign of respect and that's how I chose to remember them.

    Quote Originally Posted by AmericanPi  [View Original Post]
    I second this.

    Call me, old-fashioned, but I still think that ghosting was in poor taste. Then I started balancing multiple girls on seeking and just realized you can't do the "our time is coming to an end" conversation over and over. It's too much emotional rigor for such a vapid series of relationships. It's easier and better for me and them to just recede. All these shallow relationships weave in and out of the seeking fabric seamlessly if you just lose the genX formality.

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