Seeking Arrangements

[Nachoy]

Shout out to the regular posters in this thread.

I don't think I would gotten a seeking membership without reading your experiences.

I'm doing my third month in seeking (on and off over the past year).

Feeling that the work starting to pay off.

There is learning curve to this app dealing with nuisance from scammers.

And aggressive pro escorts.

My screening process is better now.

I am beginning to find the young gems that are not escorts.

Horny young woman who love sex and the money is just extra cherry on top for them.

Really addicted to this pick up app at the moment.

[Chola]

Thanks Steve and GfeFan. Yeah, I definitely hate being stood up (almost never happened) so am not going to double book. I have kinda come up with a stack ranking of most desirable to least so in case I miss a few it'the be fine. Will report back!

Thinking of trying Cialis 5 MG daily for one or two days. If it doesn't work it will be back to Viagra. Fortunately available without prescription where I'll be.

Seems to me like you have too many girls on the roster. Let's suppose I have a five day trip. I will line up different girls for days 1 2 and 3. So I can try them out. As GFE says no more than one girl at a time. Never double book. That's just rude. But you can cancel a day in advance. The general plan is try the three girls and then repeat the favorite the last two days. But I have also repeated two. Or been slain by girl one and canceled the rest. Basically you want a small buffet but then go load your play once you find what you like. My general experience is that dates 2 and three with a girl are amongst the best in the relationship. Date 1 you don't know each other well enough and dates 4 plus maybe you know each other a bit too well. LOL.

As far as Cialis you really should do a consult. I use K Health which is totally online. If you are doing occasional use they will recommend 10 MG and good for three days. But I sometimes AMP up a bit on day 2 or 3.

[Steve 9696]

Hey guys! I am traveling after a while to two European cities. Fired up SA starting two weeks ago and am in an interesting situation. The first city I have finalized prices with 11 girls though I'm staying only 7. The second 5 girls for 4 days. More being added as we speak. Now I'm happy to have the choices but am honestly starting to feel overwhelmed with dates and times and balancing them all. A couple have been chattier with better chemistry but for the most part all have been nice. I do want to experience as many as possible but also repeating a couple that I like after meeting in person. I know it's a bit self explanatory but how would you handle this? Any pointers are greatly appreciated.

Also, random question. What's the starting dose of vitamin see? Better to take every morning regardless of play time? Or take an hour before play time but obviously no more than once every 24 hours? Only taken vitamin V before and not a fan of mild headache almost always. Thanks!

Seems to me like you have too many girls on the roster. Let's suppose I have a five day trip. I will line up different girls for days 1 2 and 3. So I can try them out. As GFE says no more than one girl at a time. Never double book. That's just rude. But you can cancel a day in advance. The general plan is try the three girls and then repeat the favorite the last two days. But I have also repeated two. Or been slain by girl one and canceled the rest. Basically you want a small buffet but then go load your play once you find what you like. My general experience is that dates 2 and three with a girl are amongst the best in the relationship. Date 1 you don't know each other well enough and dates 4 plus maybe you know each other a bit too well. LOL.

As far as Cialis you really should do a consult. I use K Health which is totally online. If you are doing occasional use they will recommend 10 MG and good for three days. But I sometimes AMP up a bit on day 2 or 3.

[Gfefan]

Depends on what your personal taste is Beauty of seeking is that there is room for every taste.

I had always been (and will be) quality over quantity. I keep number of girls finalized for less than number of days. Some are good enough to repeat.

Have I been burned and ended up sleeping alone? Yes. ID rather sleep alone than fuck someone I am not happy with.

Also, I don't book mlre than one girl and ditch the other. If I did that, I have no rights to complain about girls that ask for $ for M&G or advance pay scammers. The more we guys stand girls up, the more we are driving prices up for ourselves.

Now, that is something I don't do but I don't advocate or preach othersi know I can't change the system.

About Cialis and Viagra (no need to use hidden phrases about those. Entitely normal and legal drugs those are) there was a thread that discussed this at length. Best is consult a physician. As far me. The girl os Cialis and chemistry is viagra. Once I tried half of a Cialis tablet in US and actually my orgasm quality dropped although I lasted longer. No fun. So, stoped it.

Hey guys! I am traveling after a while to two European cities. Fired up SA starting two weeks ago and am in an interesting situation. The first city I have finalized prices with 11 girls though I'm staying only 7. The second 5 girls for 4 days. More being added as we speak. Now I'm happy to have the choices but am honestly starting to feel overwhelmed with dates and times and balancing them all. A couple have been chattier with better chemistry but for the most part all have been nice. I do want to experience as many as possible but also repeating a couple that I like after meeting in person. I know it's a bit self explanatory but how would you handle this? Any pointers are greatly appreciated.

Also, random question. What's the starting dose of vitamin see? Better to take every morning regardless of play time? Or take an hour before play time but obviously no more than once every 24 hours? Only taken vitamin V before and not a fan of mild headache almost always. Thanks!

[Chola]

Hey guys! I am traveling after a while to two European cities. Fired up SA starting two weeks ago and am in an interesting situation. The first city I have finalized prices with 11 girls though I'm staying only 7. The second 5 girls for 4 days. More being added as we speak. Now I'm happy to have the choices but am honestly starting to feel overwhelmed with dates and times and balancing them all. A couple have been chattier with better chemistry but for the most part all have been nice. I do want to experience as many as possible but also repeating a couple that I like after meeting in person. I know it's a bit self explanatory but how would you handle this? Any pointers are greatly appreciated.

Also, random question. What's the starting dose of vitamin see? Better to take every morning regardless of play time? Or take an hour before play time but obviously no more than once every 24 hours? Only taken vitamin V before and not a fan of mild headache almost always. Thanks!

[AmericanPi]

Pi. That makes a lot of sense. Def a good idea if you have negotiated certain timeframe. My approach I never negotiate time w seeking girls and just let it happen organically. This has been great for me. But I could def see in the case of specific overnight agreement your method is kind and balanced and fair even tho U know she's spinning BS.

I know a lot of guys don't specify time because they're actually happy for the girl to leave. They want to bang but get a good night sleep.

I'm a little bit different. I will usually go about four rounds between a night and the following morning. But my favorites by far are the first round and then the morning sex. I am not ready to give up the morning sex.

[Steve 9696]

When you've been doing this long enough you definitely see patterns. A girl tells you something in earnest, but it's the fifth time you've heard it.

On 3 occasions in the past with an overnight arrangement a girl said she had to leave. One made this concerned face as she read her phone that her brother was in an accident and she had to attend to him.

In every case I said the same thing. Totally fine, life happens, so sorry to hear it. But you're not getting the full amount then. In every case the girl stayed. Turns out the brother's emergency could be put off for the 6000 pesos.

Most girls I meet on seeking are quite happy to spend all our time together and more. There's good chemistry. But it's clear when someone would rather be elsewhere and it's all about the money. I get it. I'm middle aged and I prob wouldn't want to bang a 45 year old woman when I was 20. I'm thrilled that so many of the girls are really into it. But when one isn't, I'm not about to part with the entire arranged amount for half the time. I think this is good policy.

Pi. That makes a lot of sense. Def a good idea if you have negotiated certain timeframe. My approach I never negotiate time w seeking girls and just let it happen organically. This has been great for me. But I could def see in the case of specific overnight agreement your method is kind and balanced and fair even tho U know she's spinning BS.

[HumbleHal]

When you've been doing this long enough you definitely see patterns. A girl tells you something in earnest, but it's the fifth time you've heard it.

On 3 occasions in the past with an overnight arrangement a girl said she had to leave. One made this concerned face as she read her phone that her brother was in an accident and she had to attend to him.

In every case I said the same thing. Totally fine, life happens, so sorry to hear it. But you're not getting the full amount then. In every case the girl stayed. Turns out the brother's emergency could be put off for the 6000 pesos.

I do not pay before the deed. If they want money before I say no, you can go. And that is the only way to handle it. It is a hard and fast rule. You would not pay an employee at the beginning of the week before he had done any work, would you? I have walked out on a few hoes and shown a few the door. But they are scammers for sure.

In Vegas one time I paid the girl and she went into the bathroom and immediately came out saying her period had started. Typical lie. Problem.

[AmericanPi]

She agrees, I give her the money, and a few hours later she "feels sick" and wants to go home then proceeds to ghost me. Oh well, cost of doing business. If I let it upset me I'd miss out on the positive experiences and there are way more of those.

When you've been doing this long enough you definitely see patterns. A girl tells you something in earnest, but it's the fifth time you've heard it.

On 3 occasions in the past with an overnight arrangement a girl said she had to leave. One made this concerned face as she read her phone that her brother was in an accident and she had to attend to him.

In every case I said the same thing. Totally fine, life happens, so sorry to hear it. But you're not getting the full amount then. In every case the girl stayed. Turns out the brother's emergency could be put off for the 6000 pesos.

Most girls I meet on seeking are quite happy to spend all our time together and more. There's good chemistry. But it's clear when someone would rather be elsewhere and it's all about the money. I get it. I'm middle aged and I prob wouldn't want to bang a 45 year old woman when I was 20. I'm thrilled that so many of the girls are really into it. But when one isn't, I'm not about to part with the entire arranged amount for half the time. I think this is good policy.

[VanessasClient]

Go direct on the request. I know a girl in Antioquia who is basically destitute. Living in an overcrowded home with her mom, son, and siblings. The family shares food. But, before things got this bad, she was able to enroll in the local university with assistance for tuition (not from me). Her phone is damaged and she has to use a borrowed laptop for school and to communicate with me. She tells me the desks at school don't support the laptop very well and she's starting to get carpal tunnel in her arm. She asks if I can assist with a wireless mouse and a laptop stand. I have a Colombian friend who speaks Spanish obviously much better than I do, reach out to the university with a ruse to verify her enrollment. Turns out she is in fact really a student and going to classes.

I don't give her any money. Instead I get on Amazon and find her a wireless mouse for $8. 99 USD and no frills laptop stand for $8. 60. Total item costs $17.59. Shipping $9. 63. Collectively I just paid 115,000 Colombian pesos to Amazon, and she responds with "Estoy muy contenta! When they arrive, borrowing her sister's phone to take pictures. What could she possibly do with $17 USD? Try to sell a cheap mouse and laptop stand to a neighbor who probably doesn't need them to begin with, and get 15 USD? What can you do with 15 USD, go to the grocery store and get food for your son?

I would so much rather shell out $27 to a struggling girl I know is willing to work and trying to improve her life, than give spare change to a stupid, drug addicted bum on an American street who goes around stealing from people.

Mind you, if she had given me the story that her grandmother was in the hospital with kidney failure, and she needs $1,000 USD. Rather than sending $1,000 to a Colombian hospital, I would have just responded by saying "Sorry, I guess your grandmother is just going to have to die. " Sometimes there are ways to confirm the validity of the request, and not send money directly to the girl.

This kind of shit happens all the time. I would bat a lash over it. If they ever ask for something above and beyond our status quo, I make it clear it's a gift. Anything else and you're just setting yourself up for disappointment. Or worse, losing someone you really like.

Short on rent money? Fine so long as it's occasional. Need an advance on the next liaison? Fine. When and if they try to remind me the next time we meet that I have credit I give it to them anyway. I pat myself on the back and know I've got an honest one.

I don't let anything come up that I don't mind losing. One time I met a girl for dinner and it went awesome. She was hurting for tuition money and I agreed to give her what she was short to just have dinner with me (which was dumb but I don't regret because we ended up having a good time). We were supposed to continue at my place but she ended up getting too drunk to drive herself. Next day we meet again and I offer her a 4 digit sum to spend the weekend with me. Mostly knowing she needed the help and she was cute enough to really do it for me. She agrees, I give her the money, and a few hours later she "feels sick" and wants to go home then proceeds to ghost me. Oh well, cost of doing business. If I let it upset me I'd miss out on the positive experiences and there are way more of those.

[HumbleHal]

At a restaurant, tonight I met a fatty who posted that her body type was "slim" and some of her photos were large in the butt. I passed on her a month ago, recently she said she had had "liposuction" a few weeks ago, another lie. On the way to dinner she called me lying that she was almost out of gas and was wondering if I had Venmo or a cash app to give her some gas money, another lie. I said no, I do not do those. So she wanted to change the restaurant and meet closer to her house, claiming she only had 20 miles left on her gas, another red flag.

I met her at the restaurant and saw the same fat belly. Said she was 33 years old, in person, when her profile said 28, another lie. She said she wanted $500 PPM and we had discussed it before and she had come down from $700, which was a lie. I said the most I would do for PPM was $400. Then she argued, the women in your county get $1,000. She asked me why I would not do another hundred more? I said I did not value it at that. I did not call her a fatty nor mention her weight, but should have been honest with her. Then she tried to get $450. I said "no. " She got up and left the table. I enjoyed finishing eating her pizza and cancelled the desert she ordered. The bill came to $57 and I left a $7 tip. What a Heffer.

My best decisions are the women I pass on! It is necessary to meet them at a restaurant to evaluate them, just like a job interview. So on the way home I texted my regular, a slim tall blonde, who is coming over tomorrow for $200, I have been with her for about 5 years. I would post photos, but do not have permission of the fatty or my slim regular.

[FilthyBeaver]

This kind of shit happens all the time. I would bat a lash over it. If they ever ask for something above and beyond our status quo, I make it clear it's a gift. Anything else and you're just setting yourself up for disappointment. Or worse, losing someone you really like.

Short on rent money? Fine so long as it's occasional. Need an advance on the next liaison? Fine. When and if they try to remind me the next time we meet that I have credit I give it to them anyway. I pat myself on the back and know I've got an honest one.

I don't let anything come up that I don't mind losing. One time I met a girl for dinner and it went awesome. She was hurting for tuition money and I agreed to give her what she was short to just have dinner with me (which was dumb but I don't regret because we ended up having a good time). We were supposed to continue at my place but she ended up getting too drunk to drive herself. Next day we meet again and I offer her a 4 digit sum to spend the weekend with me. Mostly knowing she needed the help and she was cute enough to really do it for me. She agrees, I give her the money, and a few hours later she "feels sick" and wants to go home then proceeds to ghost me. Oh well, cost of doing business. If I let it upset me I'd miss out on the positive experiences and there are way more of those.

I think we all agree. Never ever send money or tickets to a girl you don't know. But a couple cautionary tales about being too trusting with girls you DO know.

I spend a weekend with a seeking girl in Buenos Aires. She was amazing. I dug her. She dug me. It was the real deal. So I flew her to London. And once she got there she dumped me. Had some other guy in BA put her up at a $600/ night hotel so she wouldn't stay with me. And she fucked guys all over town after I flew her there! What a biatch. Thought I knew her. Was wrong.

And more recently. A girl I have know for five years. She borrowed 200. Paid it back. She borrowed 500 paid it back. Now she's into me for 2000 and has ghosted me. Thought I knew her. I was wrong.

Now that said these are a couple fails amongst a mountain of successes. But you never even know with girls you know. And you sure as he'll don't know with girls you don't know. So just keep your wits about you and enjoy the ride!

[Steve 9696]

I think we all agree. Never ever send money or tickets to a girl you don't know. But a couple cautionary tales about being too trusting with girls you DO know.

I spend a weekend with a seeking girl in Buenos Aires. She was amazing. I dug her. She dug me. It was the real deal. So I flew her to London. And once she got there she dumped me. Had some other guy in BA put her up at a $600/ night hotel so she wouldn't stay with me. And she fucked guys all over town after I flew her there! What a biatch. Thought I knew her. Was wrong.

And more recently. A girl I have know for five years. She borrowed 200. Paid it back. She borrowed 500 paid it back. Now she's into me for 2000 and has ghosted me. Thought I knew her. I was wrong.

Now that said these are a couple fails amongst a mountain of successes. But you never even know with girls you know. And you sure as he'll don't know with girls you don't know. So just keep your wits about you and enjoy the ride!

[VanessasClient]

Depending on the ticket and airline rules, if she misses the flight or cancels it, she might get flight credit -- in her name. I. e. It doesn't go back to your card. Then the scammer can cash it out by buying another plane ticket for someone else. I've had girls ask for train tickets and I assumed it's some scam, then I found the explanation on reddit.

I guess that's possible, but if you are the authority on the ticket, that would make it very difficult. If the flight credit went back to my email address, I would still have the redemption even if it's in her name. If someone did something like that, then I would sell her passport info on the dark web to help cover the loss, then file a chargeback with my credit card company. I can see a scammer potentially poking holes in a plane ticket, but it's way less risky than sending cash.

[NoBuglyFitches]

She can't do anything with a ticket in her name

Depending on the ticket and airline rules, if she misses the flight or cancels it, she might get flight credit -- in her name. I. e. It doesn't go back to your card. Then the scammer can cash it out by buying another plane ticket for someone else. I've had girls ask for train tickets and I assumed it's some scam, then I found the explanation on reddit.