Seeking Arrangements

[The Cane]

I decided to give it a watch. It's mainly just a parody on modern social culture. Satire against people doing stupid shit like being addicted to OnlyFans.

On your note though, I am finding it more and more difficult to trust women in general; particularly when it comes to anything amorous.

A lot of the women on Seeking have all kinds of troubles going on in their lives, financial and other, and that's often what brings them to the site in the first place. Leads to a lot of them being very flaky and unreliable. Never travel long distances to meet one of these "soft core hoors" for the very first time unless you had some reason for going to that destination in the first place. Because the odds that they will flake out on you are just too high. Don't waste your time or money!

[VanessasClient]

How about they consult with an actual sugar daddy to get our views on the lifestyle? I mean sometimes the crazy, dangerous one is the baby and not the daddy. Using the same old tired tropes and storylines they are!

I decided to give it a watch. It's mainly just a parody on modern social culture. Satire against people doing stupid shit like being addicted to OnlyFans.

On your note though, I am finding it more and more difficult to trust women in general; particularly when it comes to anything amorous.

[The Cane]

So on Amazon Prime there's now a movie called "Sugar Baby." It's not a series; it's a 2 hour fictional work. From the trailer, it seems to start off with some girls exploring the "lifestyle", and appears to culminate with a woman ending up in dangerous situation with her sugar daddy being discovered too late as a violent criminal. There are no reviews on Rotten Tomatoes yet, but the ones on IMDB seem to be positive. Of course, just like reviews for sex workers, it's very difficult to authenticate movie reviews as being legit. I'm most curious to know if the producers of the film consulted with an actual prostitute to get accurate info to put into the movie, jaja.

How about they consult with an actual sugar daddy to get our views on the lifestyle? I mean sometimes the crazy, dangerous one is the baby and not the daddy. Using the same old tired tropes and storylines they are!

[VanessasClient]

Any recommendations on interesting and fun destinations for New Year's Eve, preferably someplace warm and with a beach, and with a vibrant SA community? For example, Rio was great for me, but always looking for somewhere new, that also has cultural / historical interest and a good food scene.

Punta del Este is warm this time of year. But, its tourist season, so the prices will be higher. Surrounding areas like Buenos Aires might also work.

[CarloRogue]

Any recommendations on interesting and fun destinations for New Year's Eve, preferably someplace warm and with a beach, and with a vibrant SA community? For example, Rio was great for me, but always looking for somewhere new, that also has cultural / historical interest and a good food scene.

[VanessasClient]

So on Amazon Prime there's now a movie called "Sugar Baby." It's not a series; it's a 2 hour fictional work. From the trailer, it seems to start off with some girls exploring the "lifestyle", and appears to culminate with a woman ending up in dangerous situation with her sugar daddy being discovered too late as a violent criminal. There are no reviews on Rotten Tomatoes yet, but the ones on IMDB seem to be positive. Of course, just like reviews for sex workers, it's very difficult to authenticate movie reviews as being legit. I'm most curious to know if the producers of the film consulted with an actual prostitute to get accurate info to put into the movie, jaja.

[VanessasClient]

Looking to subscribe Seeking through Gpay option using a gift card. Has anyone tried this in the UK, if so please can someone advice which prepaid / cash cards work best for this.

If you are referring to Google Pay, it's just linked to a card. If the merchant forbids prepaid cards, then it likely will not allow you to bypass this.

[ADI1598]

Looking to subscribe Seeking through Gpay option using a gift card. Has anyone tried this in the UK, if so please can someone advice which prepaid / cash cards work best for this.

[Indy69]

Thanks for the info Gfefan.

Maastricht is quite a bit removed from Amsterdam. I don't think I'll be able to make it that far down.

I've had a little scout on Seeking and yes it looks tempting. 300 per date would be absolutely fine. I've not been on Seeking for some time. This trip might entice me back in.

[Gfefan]

Not sure about Amsterdam city but overall NL is good.

I have done 300 date, dinner, overnight stay. Maastricht is where my regular is from. It is a university town couple hours drive from Amsterdam.

The Hague also has given me great experiences at the same price point.

Tall, athletic blondes.

Hey All,

I have a potential trip coming up to Amsterdam. Thinking of seeing what's out there on Seeking and looking to see if I can have a fun evening or two. Anyone had any recent experience here? Would be good to know what the going rate is allowance-wise and if it's generally worth the hassle. My expectations are actually pretty low, as I'm expecting girls to be demanding and possibly for not a great experience. Just thought I'd reach out and see how others have done here first though.

[Indy69]

Hey All,

I have a potential trip coming up to Amsterdam. Thinking of seeing what's out there on Seeking and looking to see if I can have a fun evening or two. Anyone had any recent experience here? Would be good to know what the going rate is allowance-wise and if it's generally worth the hassle. My expectations are actually pretty low, as I'm expecting girls to be demanding and possibly for not a great experience. Just thought I'd reach out and see how others have done here first though.

[Gfefan]

That is not similar situation.

The moment she asks money for "her time" but no intimacy, deal is off the table.

I entertain only those girls who are non-transactional. For example, my Europe SB got into an accident and I helped her with money although we areon different continents. And that sweet one returns the money to me the next time we met. The AM after sex at hotel she was returning my money and I actually joked "wait. Am I the SB now?

Needless to say, I refused to take it back but you get the point. It is not the distance that matters. Nor the $. It is the overall package.

And, if they are after gas / baby sitter money, they don't make the cut of being my SB. I pay. What they do with it is upto them.

Wise ones use me well. Rest. I just don't give a fuck.

Hmmmm. What if you find yourself in a similar situation, but the girl is over an hour drive away? What if at the end of the date, she requested $50 to go fill her tank with gas; would you do it?

[HumbleHal]

Hmmmm. What if you find yourself in a similar situation, but the girl is over an hour drive away? What if at the end of the date, she requested $50 to go fill her tank with gas; would you do it?

You are NOT obligated to give them $50 gas money or any money unless you start an arrangement at an agreed price, other than pay for the meal if you offer to meet them in a restaurant. Get over this. I have just gotten rid of one Mooch that otherwise had good talent (firm boobies) because she keeps begging and asking for more money for gas, groceries, baby sitter, etc.

I have had enough of the Mooching. Then when I go to the gas station, grocery store checkout or 7-11 Cashier they always ask if I would like to donate for someone else's kids. Come on, man! Stop asking me for money, mooches! Just say NO! Then BYE. Just like the pan handlers on the street corner, you are NOT obligated to give them shit! And you are not obligated to tip at a restaurant if you get shitty service or no walnuts on your salad, like they did to me today.

And when I am tired of the woman or want to take a break, I simply say "I am short of money this week, babe! Or "going out of town this week to visit family" "Maybe next week!" And then I can cut them loose if I want and get another. Sometimes the chase is the fun. And most women are not worth the aggravation they cause! You need to be able to say NO and cut them off when YOU are tired of them!

[VanessasClient]

Yes. We text each other.

I am open to fucking her when she is out of her vulnerable zone and is consciously OK fucking. Thumb rule is neither I nor her should regret the fuck next AM.

Until then, a few texts here and there or a few drinks is totally fine with me. After all, a $40 for a weekend drinks at a bar is something I would do anyway. Picking up the tab including her drinks is no big deal. To be clear, I will not pay her for her time on platonic dates. I will not cause that inflation or encourage that behavior...but picking the tab for an additional 30/40 bucks, once a while, is no biggie.

Fuck or no fuck. I think what I like about this girl is that we both know the ppm is not something we are aligned. But, she is mature enough to see beyond just ppm. So, that itself is a win in terms of neither of us taking it transactionally. As long as those good vibes last, why not?

It costs nothing to make someone feel good. I guess that's what we are doing to each other.

Hmmmm. What if you find yourself in a similar situation, but the girl is over an hour drive away? What if at the end of the date, she requested $50 to go fill her tank with gas; would you do it?

[Gfefan]

Yes. We text each other.

I am open to fucking her when she is out of her vulnerable zone and is consciously OK fucking. Thumb rule is neither I nor her should regret the fuck next AM.

Until then, a few texts here and there or a few drinks is totally fine with me. After all, a $40 for a weekend drinks at a bar is something I would do anyway. Picking up the tab including her drinks is no big deal. To be clear, I will not pay her for her time on platonic dates. I will not cause that inflation or encourage that behavior...but picking the tab for an additional 30/40 bucks, once a while, is no biggie.

Fuck or no fuck. I think what I like about this girl is that we both know the ppm is not something we are aligned. But, she is mature enough to see beyond just ppm. So, that itself is a win in terms of neither of us taking it transactionally. As long as those good vibes last, why not?

It costs nothing to make someone feel good. I guess that's what we are doing to each other.

So, are you going to follow up with her?