Seeking Arrangements

[Gfefan]

Not intending to poke here. Please don't feel compelled to answer.

"Joining me at home" = Joining in US? If yes, how do you manage / coach her on "purpose of visit" at entry?

My favorite regulars are in Europe and I am not flying them here just being cautious. Have always wondered if I am being paranoid or cautious.

I posted about my experiences in Germany previously but it is possible and you are correct about the difficulty. Nabbed actual German girls in two cities and a Spanish girl in another city. Had plans to meet with 1 or two others as backups but they all flaked (they were not German either so I didn't lose any sleep, I wanted the Germans).

Still in touch with one but the other one is upset with me after not giving her an outrageous sum for joining me here at home, and being open and honest about my experiences on the site.

[Gfefan]

I like this idea. Mirror their behavior is what you are saying essentially.

Impossible to answer. There are as many answers as there are girls in the world. My longest term girl NEVER texted. Only to set a date. I met a Dr in an Eastern European country who would text for hours and it only worked for me because 1) she was interesting and 2) I own the business so I can goof off as much as I want. That time difference really worked well for us.

You need to follow her lead, if she texts you text, if not, you don't it's that simple. Forcing it in either direction is going to turn her off.

[AmericanPi]

Anyone done sugaring in Budapest? It seems like it's thin out there on SA and I can't seem to get a payment thru on what seems like a local variant Punc.

Anyone had any luck or tips to penetrate the sugar trade there? .

[FilthyBeaver]

I posted about my experiences in Germany previously but it is possible and you are correct about the difficulty. Nabbed actual German girls in two cities and a Spanish girl in another city. Had plans to meet with 1 or two others as backups but they all flaked (they were not German either so I didn't lose any sleep, I wanted the Germans).

Still in touch with one but the other one is upset with me after not giving her an outrageous sum for joining me here at home, and being open and honest about my experiences on the site.

I'm so envious. So far my SA experience in Frankfurt has been awful. Half of the girls just don't reply at all, unfortunatley those are the ones I like most from the photos. Those that reply don't really stand out in anything. Or conversation dies after a day or two. One girl from Montengro (going for vacation soon) just blocked me after I've sent her a reminder after I noticed she read my message. It feels exactly like more expensive Tinder, LOL. I also get unsolicited contacts, but those girls are just young bimbos or semi-pros, so hard skip on them.

[FilthyBeaver]

Impossible to answer. There are as many answers as there are girls in the world. My longest term girl NEVER texted. Only to set a date. I met a Dr in an Eastern European country who would text for hours and it only worked for me because 1) she was interesting and 2) I own the business so I can goof off as much as I want. That time difference really worked well for us.

You need to follow her lead, if she texts you text, if not, you don't it's that simple. Forcing it in either direction is going to turn her off.

Text game is an interesting point.

So far, I haven't had a problem but recently, I had two extremes.

Two girls. Worth it and repeatable. We met, great chemistry, decent sex, not money oriented. So, wanted to meet them a few more times and see if they are worth moving into my Top tier (the ones I give money even without sex).

One of them told me "Its a little difficult and you seem less connected".

Other one, for all practical purposes, told me I am texting a lot.

Mind you. Both of them are more like once a week or fortnight, few texts to stay in touch. Same levelmof attention and being cautious that they have their own lives. So, I don't get desperate and message a lot.

How do you figure what is optimal for a given girl and any tips on how to hit that sweet spot?

[Gfefan]

Text game is an interesting point.

So far, I haven't had a problem but recently, I had two extremes.

Two girls. Worth it and repeatable. We met, great chemistry, decent sex, not money oriented. So, wanted to meet them a few more times and see if they are worth moving into my Top tier (the ones I give money even without sex).

One of them told me "Its a little difficult and you seem less connected".

Other one, for all practical purposes, told me I am texting a lot.

Mind you. Both of them are more like once a week or fortnight, few texts to stay in touch. Same levelmof attention and being cautious that they have their own lives. So, I don't get desperate and message a lot.

How do you figure what is optimal for a given girl and any tips on how to hit that sweet spot?

Yep. It's a tough go. But so worth it once you find the gem in the pile of bullshit. Never done Frankfurt tho on Seeking. What other geographies have you tried?

Its not surprising half dont reply. Thats standard even for experienced guys. Its a number game. U gotta be on all the time and working it.

P.S. How's your text game? Are u Reasonably non objectionable and fit? Do u end every interaction with a question to keep the game flowing? Where do you think the drop off is?

[Steve 9696]

I'm so envious. So far my SA experience in Frankfurt has been awful. Half of the girls just don't reply at all, unfortunatley those are the ones I like most from the photos. Those that reply don't really stand out in anything. Or conversation dies after a day or two. One girl from Montengro (going for vacation soon) just blocked me after I've sent her a reminder after I noticed she read my message. It feels exactly like more expensive Tinder, LOL. I also get unsolicited contacts, but those girls are just young bimbos or semi-pros, so hard skip on them.

Yep. It's a tough go. But so worth it once you find the gem in the pile of bullshit. Never done Frankfurt tho on Seeking. What other geographies have you tried?

It’s not surprising half don’t reply. That’s standard even for experienced guys. It’s a number game. U gotta be on all the time and working it.

P.S. How's your text game? Are u Reasonably non objectionable and fit? Do u end every interaction with a question to keep the game flowing? Where do you think the drop off is?

[AluHut]

Here is the balcony girl.

We have had quite a few exhilarating (s) experiences but the balcony fuck takes the cake because it was so impromptu, so organic, so into each other that it felt heavenly.

I'm so envious. So far my SA experience in Frankfurt has been awful. Half of the girls just don't reply at all, unfortunatley those are the ones I like most from the photos. Those that reply don't really stand out in anything. Or conversation dies after a day or two. One girl from Montengro (going for vacation soon) just blocked me after I've sent her a reminder after I noticed she read my message. It feels exactly like more expensive Tinder, LOL. I also get unsolicited contacts, but those girls are just young bimbos or semi-pros, so hard skip on them.

[Steve 9696]

I know this is a question for USA but I am not known there. So coming to my buddies here. Seems LA hs a lively Kgirl scene. Maybe booked directly but seems you need a recommendation or a handler. There is also KTV but unsure how to locate a girls KTV vs family place. My friend speaks Korean so that should help.

Anyone have any intel or pointers? Feel free to PM me if you don't want to spill the tea here. Thanks!

[Gfefan]

Here is the balcony girl.

We have had quite a few exhilarating (s) experiences but the balcony fuck takes the cake because it was so impromptu, so organic, so into each other that it felt heavenly.

Agree with the point of view.

A different dynamic when there comes a certain trust element and bareback comes in to play. I have a couple regular escorts with whom I have great chemistry and go see them just to see them. But never went bareback.

With seeking girls, those that are next door girl types, barebacking is what I pay the pemium for.

Even better if CIP / CIM are thrown in to the mix.

You know. Showering together, she puts soap on me, I on her, junior is ready, she is wet. I don't have to look for condoms. Slide it in and fuck in the shower.

I was with a 9 (will add pic later) in Spain. Seafacing balcony, we both enjoying some rose, things heat up, she is playing with my dick and then settles between my legs. While I am still on the lounge, gives me a fabulous blowjob, and says "You are so hard. I want this inside me" and goes on to straddle me (still in the same position), lifts her skirt, pushes her panty yo side, takes me all the way in. Rides me till I cum inside her, collapses on me with heavy breathing (I'm sucking her nipples), and then, with the dick still inside we go "cheers" and drink wine.

That is what I pay the premium for. When I say premium. These are 300 EUR over night girls.

[Gfefan]

Agree with the point of view.

A different dynamic when there comes a certain trust element and bareback comes in to play. I have a couple regular escorts with whom I have great chemistry and go see them just to see them. But never went bareback.

With seeking girls, those that are next door girl types, barebacking is what I pay the pemium for.

Even better if CIP / CIM are thrown in to the mix.

You know. Showering together, she puts soap on me, I on her, junior is ready, she is wet. I don't have to look for condoms. Slide it in and fuck in the shower.

I was with a 9 (will add pic later) in Spain. Seafacing balcony, we both enjoying some rose, things heat up, she is playing with my dick and then settles between my legs. While I am still on the lounge, gives me a fabulous blowjob, and says "You are so hard. I want this inside me" and goes on to straddle me (still in the same position), lifts her skirt, pushes her panty yo side, takes me all the way in. Rides me till I cum inside her, collapses on me with heavy breathing (I'm sucking her nipples), and then, with the dick still inside we go "cheers" and drink wine.

That is what I pay the premium for. When I say premium. These are 300 EUR over night girls.

Today's my last day in Bogota. I hooked up with 2 new women from Seeking this week (in addition to my regular one I met last year). The sex is better compared to the average escort, but when you do find an escort who gives great service and makes you want to repeat the next day, it makes you wonder if it's still work the effort and additional expense to keep searching for new Seeking women to add to the roster.

I'll be in Cartagena this week with my Bogota regular and will probably try to meet at least a new one when she leaves midway through my stay.

I also have 2. 5 regulars in Medellin I will see after that, though I'm not too sure about the. 5 one because she doesn't stay as long as my main 2. I might try to replace her with one or two new ones from Seeking, but I just started on that search today.

What I like about my 1 regular in Bogota and 2 regulars in Medellin is that we can chill for most of the day or I could go on trips with them without the primary focus being sex (though of course we do have sex). The familiarity is great, but sometimes you just want to have a quick session with someone new in between like an escort. The contrast between the two keeps things interesting during trips. Having too many Seeking women doesn't seem like a great return on money especially because you're not going to click with all of them on the same level as the ones you want to keep.

[Voodoo Jones]

Today's my last day in Bogota. I hooked up with 2 new women from Seeking this week (in addition to my regular one I met last year). The sex is better compared to the average escort, but when you do find an escort who gives great service and makes you want to repeat the next day, it makes you wonder if it's still work the effort and additional expense to keep searching for new Seeking women to add to the roster.

I'll be in Cartagena this week with my Bogota regular and will probably try to meet at least a new one when she leaves midway through my stay.

I also have 2. 5 regulars in Medellin I will see after that, though I'm not too sure about the. 5 one because she doesn't stay as long as my main 2. I might try to replace her with one or two new ones from Seeking, but I just started on that search today.

What I like about my 1 regular in Bogota and 2 regulars in Medellin is that we can chill for most of the day or I could go on trips with them without the primary focus being sex (though of course we do have sex). The familiarity is great, but sometimes you just want to have a quick session with someone new in between like an escort. The contrast between the two keeps things interesting during trips. Having too many Seeking women doesn't seem like a great return on money especially because you're not going to click with all of them on the same level as the ones you want to keep.

[Gfefan]

In the US, add things like.

- Oh, I need to find a sitter for my grandparents / kids during the time I am woth you. Mind sending $xx?

- Constant reminder that phone dies frequently (aka get me an iPhone).

- I wish I had airpods. I could talk to you while at work / school.

Normally, I treat girls with respect. And that is when magic happens.

But, I must admit I am at my rude best in the US. I figured I got nothing to lose with these platinum pussies. So, once I reaponded "you will get airpods in your ears when you take my dick in your pussy. If you have one, that is".

I felt bad after but hell. These "women" have got on my nerves.

Yeah from what I see Pi is pretty experienced now. But we all make rookie mistakes starting out with Seeking. And the paid for meetup is def always a scam. The other common scams to watch for:

1. Can't wait to meet up. Let me send you some pics for $xx in the meantime.

2. Really love chatting with you. Can't wait to meet up. Damn I didn't have lunch can you CashApp me some pizza money?

3. I'm on my way but damn I ran out of gas. Can you CashApp me $40?

I've run into all of these. Mostly early on. The last one is the most frustrating. I was literally at the restaurant when she pulled that shit. Older and wiser now.

[The Cane]

Yeah from what I see Pi is pretty experienced now. But we all make rookie mistakes starting out with Seeking. And the paid for meetup is def always a scam. The other common scams to watch for:

1. Can't wait to meet up. Let me send you some pics for $xx in the meantime.

2. Really love chatting with you. Can't wait to meet up. Damn I didn't have lunch can you CashApp me some pizza money?

3. I'm on my way but damn I ran out of gas. Can you CashApp me $40?

I've run into all of these. Mostly early on. The last one is the most frustrating. I was literally at the restaurant when she pulled that shit. Older and wiser now.

I got hit with a variant of your no. 3. It wasn't that they had ran out of gas, but wanted to stop at the gas station along the way to get some. I just laughed it off and said "nice try", then enjoyed my dinner. Then a fourth scam is getting hit up for babysitter money at the last minute. Guys, never go for these bullshit scams. Because if you do, you'll never see the scammer, nor your money ever again.

[Voodoo Jones]

Yeah from what I see Pi is pretty experienced now. But we all make rookie mistakes starting out with Seeking. And the paid for meetup is def always a scam. The other common scams to watch for:

1. Can't wait to meet up. Let me send you some pics for $xx in the meantime.

2. Really love chatting with you. Can't wait to meet up. Damn I didn't have lunch can you CashApp me some pizza money?

3. I'm on my way but damn I ran out of gas. Can you CashApp me $40?

I've run into all of these. Mostly early on. The last one is the most frustrating. I was literally at the restaurant when she pulled that shit. Older and wiser now.

One of them tried to pull that on me the other day. First said she needed me to send money for the taxi. I told her I would send an Uber. She says no because she had a bad experience with that in the past with other men. OK, I'll pay for the taxi in cash upon arrival. Again that was a problem. I told her I don't have any Colombian cash applications to send money. She has PayPal, but I had already scheduled someone else and told her I couldn't meet.

She immediately replies asking if I could send her some money upfront because she hasn't been eating well and needs to pay her rent. I told her because our PayPal accounts are in different countries, it would take at least a week and up to a month to clear, so it would be faster to meet and pay her in cash. She says something like "that's ok because they will give me time if I show them the money pending in her account". I didn't reply and deleted her contact.