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  1. #5833
    Quote Originally Posted by ChanceSome  [View Original Post]
    I don't know what the word limit is for these posts, and I'm sure I've passed the attention span of some, so I'll wrap up. We spent 1.5 days in Cali together. We dined well, had amazing sex and visited some cool attractions. She told me all these sweet, loving things throughout the trip. They were half-truths and part of the illusion. She said them but they didn't carry much weight. But during our final dinner, these half-truths started to have some feeling behind them. I felt her falling for me. The illusion felt real for an hour. What a glorious conclusion. I will visit her again for sure when I return. And now, whenever I think upon Colombia, she'll be 1 of 2 girls that I remember very fondly. 1000% worth it. 9/10 experience.
    If you are married and plan to stay that one, then by all means, think of it as an illusion. Before my current gal, there was another Colombian who was smitten with me. There was always something holding me back with her. She was cute, a 7 or 8 type, but she had a 10 personality. Still, something was not right. I think she was too young for a relationship. She had a good family, busted her ass, was a professional, had dreams of us being together. I just was not comfortable committing to her, but it was very real. She did anything sexually I wanted.

    A 63 year old friend of mine who is average looking at best came down with me to Colombia once. After my gal has been so happy with me, a friend of my gal who is 31 and stunning seemed to want the same thing as my gal had and came onto him hard. I was shocked. She let him know flat out she was open being with him, and my friend is married. He was like, "I never expected this! And it surprised me too.

    Upper class Colombian women have different priorities. It is easy to find a slick, handsome, good dancing, smooth talking man. It is hard to find one who is loyal, hard working, faithful, and flush with cash. So in some ways, it is opposite of the USA. Cheating, beating women, and treating women poorly is common behavior for Colombian men. Whatever you make in the USA, multiply it by 10 and that is equal to what you are making in Colombia. Also, look at how hot the other Colombian women are they have to fight against.

    I am not so sure then it is an illusion.

  2. #5832

    Summary of My 2 Weeks in Bogota

    Thank you all for your feedback over the past 2 weeks that I have been in Bogota. Here is my summary for others to reference if they decide to use Seeking in Bogota and to get an idea of prices.

    I went on 4 seeking dates with 4 different girls. Note that I didn't haggle with the girls, I always accepted the price they offered.

    First girl was the nursing girl. I went on 2 dates with her and she was the most civilian out of all my dates. Both dates involved dinner and lasted 3+ hours. Each date I gave her 400 K COP. She also gave the most mediocre blowjobs, so perhaps there is a correlation between civilianess and blowjob abilities. She was a 6. 5 in terms of looks and in retrospect, my overall experience with her was an 8.

    Jenna. Semi-pro student with beautiful blue eyes. My date with her was 2 hours and I paid her 650 K. She was a 7. 5 in terms of looks and in retrospect, my overall experience with her was a 7. She was really shy, and I think we would have both benefited from a second date. She hit me up several different times later for a second date, but the timing never worked out.

    Mia. Pro with the best ass, flat stomach, and most amazing blowjob skills. My date with her was 1 hour and I paid her 600 k. She was an 8 in terms of looks and in retrospect, my overall experience with her was a 7.

    Emily. I didn't write a post about this girl, because we only went on a date, no sex. I enjoyed the date, but she needed more time before sex was possible. The most she let me do was touch her stomach and grab her ass a few times. I paid for her transportation, museum entry, and our meal together. In terms of looks, she was a 7.

    Missed opportunities.

    Nathalia. She was close to my perfect 10. She wanted 250 USD and I would've paid it too, but she got an attitude with me for rescheduling a date because she wasn't responsive for half a day. Her attitude left a bad taste in my mouth, so I hesitantly decided against a date with her.

    Amber. Spoke great English and traveled between Colombia and the States frequently. She wanted 300 USD and offered a threesome with her friend, who was also 300 USD. Both were 8+ based on photos. We didn't really vibe over chat, so I did not pursue.

    Amalia. Venezuelan girl with a voluptuous body, but all her photos were filtered, so I didn't go on a date with her. She wanted 500 k for 2 hours.

    Also, if you're wondering why I went on dates with a bunch of 7's, this is my assessment of their looks in real life. Of course they looked better in photos on Seeking. That being said, I care more about a connection than looks as long as they're cute. Nursing girl scored the lowest on looks, but she was my highest overall experience score.

    Lastly, I would like to thank everyone that posted in the last 6 months in this subforum. I read through all the posts before trying out seeking and applied the things that made sense to me. You made my first experiences with Seeking overwhelmingly positive!

  3. #5831
    Quote Originally Posted by MiamiBoy1  [View Original Post]
    You also save on taxes and Airbnb fees, which in some locations can be very steep. On the downside, a security deposit may be required if you negotiate a deal outside of Airbnb.
    Airbnb use to be amazing, now they are getting super strict and expensive. Many now have a 4 pm check in, this just terrible especially on the weekends.

    Airbnb is usually hit or miss with me, either a great experience or average to below.

    My goal was to deal with owner directly and that use to be easy, now many use mgmt. Companies, there is zero customer service. I only use it in.

    MTY, because a lot of the hotels AC is terrible and they do not have pools. CDMX you almost never deal with the owners. Customer service is zero, but you can get great locations for a decent price.

  4. #5830
    Quote Originally Posted by TedFerguson  [View Original Post]
    I was also smitten with Colombians when I first experienced them, and it's easy to because they're really good at sex in my opinion (they truly try to enjoy it). Cali girls especially are super warm and lack the arrogance of Medellin girls. The less pleasant aspects of the culture come out later, namely that the main moral values Colombians have are politeness and family. What that means in practice is they'll be very polite and pleasant with you, but they have no problem lying. They even lie to themselves to make their lives seem more pleasant. I've seen this in Colombian friends who grew up in the US, it's a form of enjoyable delusion. If you ask them what integrity is, you'll get blank stares and they'll probably think you're arrogant.

    So enjoy the sex, the music, the food, the weather but understand the culture is really optimized for short-term interactions.
    If you love the Colombian, you should try Mexican girls. For me they are the best. If I had unlimited resources and time, I would spend my time be Mexico and parts of Eastern Europe, maybe mix in Spain. Colombia would definitely not be in the mix, for me.

  5. #5829

    Love This!

    Quote Originally Posted by ChanceSome  [View Original Post]
    This is a continuation of my previous post regarding Cali girl.

    So, her flight to Cali was set to leave at 4:20 AM. And here I was at the gate at 4:00 and she was nowhere in sight. Needless to say, all the doubts I had regarding this spontaneous decision were swirling in my head. Perhaps Americanpi was right, she's just a hoe. There was no luggage, no aunt, and she really wasn't flying back to Cali. Luckily, my feelings were buoyed by the great night we had together just a few hours prior. I had only lost $47 for the flight and some sleep. Regardless of things not panning out, it would have been worthwhile to surprise her with such a grand gesture, and it would have been a great opportunity to deepen the budding relationship. It's 4:20 now and all hope is lost. I circle around the gate one last time and finally give up as I leave the gate.

    I exit through the security area and lo and behold, it's her! She has beads of sweat on her face. Its 60 degrees outside and she's damp with sweat. I forgot to tell you all this in the previous post, but she's a person whose core, basal temperature runs hot. The perfect person to snuggle up with in the cool weather of Bogota. She's in a panic because she's very late for her flight. It is not real to her yet that her flight is gone. She's surprised to see me but her priority at the moment is to catch her flight. "The gate to your flight is closed, baby," I had to tell multiple times for it to register completely.

    Once her emotions have descended from their heightened state; she finally realized that I was there with her. She asked me why I was there. I told her "sorpresa! Vamos a Cali juntos. " I told her I made an uncharacteristic, last minute decision to book the same flight as her. She is happy and relieved that I am there. I asked her why she was late and she said she went to the wrong terminal. Domestic flights in BOG sometimes leave out Terminal 2 instead of the main one and the terminals are not connected. She is also late because she's a complete airhead. I love it. This is a character trait that I adore. This would be annoying to deal with 2 years into a relationship, but I'm still very much in the honeymoon period with her. So my infatuation only grows. I tell her we'll find a different flight to Cali.

    So, we booked new flights. We explored all the nooks and crannies of the airport. We waited on each other to go to the bathroom. We did all the mundane things that couples do at the airport. And we ran out of things to talk about because we're just waiting at the airport for 3 hours and my Spanish is mainly limited to telling her what I like and don't like. For me this is perfect, because I have never flown with a girl. Only to them or them to me. This was the real GFE.

    We actually almost missed our flight to Cali, despite being 3 hours early. I told you, she's an airhead. She misplaced her boarding pass, and they couldn't print her boarding pass at the gate. We had to run 10 gates down to the main area where they could, and then sprinted back to be the last people that boarded. 2 year relationship me would be annoyed for sure. Luckily, it's only been half a day with her. We snuggle on the plane.

    I don't know what the word limit is for these posts, and I'm sure I've passed the attention span of some, so I'll wrap up. We spent 1.5 days in Cali together. We dined well, had amazing sex and visited some cool attractions. She told me all these sweet, loving things throughout the trip. They were half-truths and part of the illusion. She said them but they didn't carry much weight. But during our final dinner, these half-truths started to have some feeling behind them. I felt her falling for me. The illusion felt real for an hour. What a glorious conclusion. I will visit her again for sure when I return. And now, whenever I think upon Colombia, she'll be 1 of 2 girls that I remember very fondly. 1000% worth it. 9/10 experience.
    I fucking love this post! You didn't act old and jaded. You acted like a smitten soul and were rewarded for your innocence. This is the way life should be. I am so glad you took a chance and got true GFE (complete with awkward silences and air head mistakes). I live for real world GFE. Nothing better. And sometimes you gotta leap to catch it!

  6. #5828

    Glad it worked out

    That is a good story. Would definitely drive me crazy as well outside of tthe honeymoon phase. When I was in Poland I met a girl on goldbikiniclub that I couldn't see in her city (because I had someone else lined up that I preferred) but told her she could meet me in warsaw for a few days. I told her I'd give her 1 k usd to hang out with me for three days and the only thing she asked for was gas money. Not up front, just gas money. Of course I said yes as I would have bet you any amount of money she wasn't going to show but sure enough she showed up on time after a 3. 5 HR drive from her city and stayed with me for three full days. We ended up having a really good time. Sometimes it just works against all conventional logic.

    Quote Originally Posted by ChanceSome  [View Original Post]
    This is a continuation of my previous post regarding Cali girl.

    So, her flight to Cali was set to leave at 4:20 AM. And here I was at the gate at 4:00 and she was nowhere in sight. Needless to say, all the doubts I had regarding this spontaneous decision were swirling in my head. Perhaps Americanpi was right, she's just a hoe. There was no luggage, no aunt, and she really wasn't flying back to Cali. Luckily, my feelings were buoyed by the great night we had together just a few hours prior. I had only lost $47 for the flight and some sleep. Regardless of things not panning out, it would have been worthwhile to surprise her with such a grand gesture, and it would have been a great opportunity to deepen the budding relationship. It's 4:20 now and all hope is lost. I circle around the gate one last time and finally give up as I leave the gate.

    I exit through the security area and lo and behold, it's her! She has beads of sweat on her face. Its 60 degrees outside and she's damp with sweat. I forgot to tell you all this in the previous post, but she's a person whose core, basal temperature runs hot. The perfect person to snuggle up with in the cool weather of Bogota. She's in a panic because she's very late for her flight. It is not real to her yet that her flight is gone. She's surprised to see me but her priority at the moment is to catch her flight. "The gate to your flight is closed, baby," I had to tell multiple times for it to register completely.

    Once her emotions have descended from their heightened state; she finally realized that I was there with her. She asked me why I was there. I told her "sorpresa! Vamos a Cali juntos. " I told her I made an uncharacteristic, last minute decision to book the same flight as her. She is happy and relieved that I am there. I asked her why she was late and she said she went to the wrong terminal. Domestic flights in BOG sometimes leave out Terminal 2 instead of the main one and the terminals are not connected. She is also late because she's a complete airhead. I love it. This is a character trait that I adore. This would be annoying to deal with 2 years into a relationship, but I'm still very much in the honeymoon period with her. So my infatuation only grows. I tell her we'll find a different flight to Cali.

    So, we booked new flights. We explored all the nooks and crannies of the airport. We waited on each other to go to the bathroom. We did all the mundane things that couples do at the airport. And we ran out of things to talk about because we're just waiting at the airport for 3 hours and my Spanish is mainly limited to telling her what I like and don't like. For me this is perfect, because I have never flown with a girl. Only to them or them to me. This was the real GFE.

    We actually almost missed our flight to Cali, despite being 3 hours early. I told you, she's an airhead. She misplaced her boarding pass, and they couldn't print her boarding pass at the gate. We had to run 10 gates down to the main area where they could, and then sprinted back to be the last people that boarded. 2 year relationship me would be annoyed for sure. Luckily, it's only been half a day with her. We snuggle on the plane.

    I don't know what the word limit is for these posts, and I'm sure I've passed the attention span of some, so I'll wrap up. We spent 1.5 days in Cali together. We dined well, had amazing sex and visited some cool attractions. She told me all these sweet, loving things throughout the trip. They were half-truths and part of the illusion. She said them but they didn't carry much weight. But during our final dinner, these half-truths started to have some feeling behind them. I felt her falling for me. The illusion felt real for an hour. What a glorious conclusion. I will visit her again for sure when I return. And now, whenever I think upon Colombia, she'll be 1 of 2 girls that I remember very fondly. 1000% worth it. 9/10 experience.

  7. #5827

    The Illusion that for a Moment Felt Real

    This is a continuation of my previous post regarding Cali girl.

    So, her flight to Cali was set to leave at 4:20 AM. And here I was at the gate at 4:00 and she was nowhere in sight. Needless to say, all the doubts I had regarding this spontaneous decision were swirling in my head. Perhaps Americanpi was right, she's just a hoe. There was no luggage, no aunt, and she really wasn't flying back to Cali. Luckily, my feelings were buoyed by the great night we had together just a few hours prior. I had only lost $47 for the flight and some sleep. Regardless of things not panning out, it would have been worthwhile to surprise her with such a grand gesture, and it would have been a great opportunity to deepen the budding relationship. It's 4:20 now and all hope is lost. I circle around the gate one last time and finally give up as I leave the gate.

    I exit through the security area and lo and behold, it's her! She has beads of sweat on her face. Its 60 degrees outside and she's damp with sweat. I forgot to tell you all this in the previous post, but she's a person whose core, basal temperature runs hot. The perfect person to snuggle up with in the cool weather of Bogota. She's in a panic because she's very late for her flight. It is not real to her yet that her flight is gone. She's surprised to see me but her priority at the moment is to catch her flight. "The gate to your flight is closed, baby," I had to tell multiple times for it to register completely.

    Once her emotions have descended from their heightened state; she finally realized that I was there with her. She asked me why I was there. I told her "sorpresa! Vamos a Cali juntos. " I told her I made an uncharacteristic, last minute decision to book the same flight as her. She is happy and relieved that I am there. I asked her why she was late and she said she went to the wrong terminal. Domestic flights in BOG sometimes leave out Terminal 2 instead of the main one and the terminals are not connected. She is also late because she's a complete airhead. I love it. This is a character trait that I adore. This would be annoying to deal with 2 years into a relationship, but I'm still very much in the honeymoon period with her. So my infatuation only grows. I tell her we'll find a different flight to Cali.

    So, we booked new flights. We explored all the nooks and crannies of the airport. We waited on each other to go to the bathroom. We did all the mundane things that couples do at the airport. And we ran out of things to talk about because we're just waiting at the airport for 3 hours and my Spanish is mainly limited to telling her what I like and don't like. For me this is perfect, because I have never flown with a girl. Only to them or them to me. This was the real GFE.

    We actually almost missed our flight to Cali, despite being 3 hours early. I told you, she's an airhead. She misplaced her boarding pass, and they couldn't print her boarding pass at the gate. We had to run 10 gates down to the main area where they could, and then sprinted back to be the last people that boarded. 2 year relationship me would be annoyed for sure. Luckily, it's only been half a day with her. We snuggle on the plane.

    I don't know what the word limit is for these posts, and I'm sure I've passed the attention span of some, so I'll wrap up. We spent 1.5 days in Cali together. We dined well, had amazing sex and visited some cool attractions. She told me all these sweet, loving things throughout the trip. They were half-truths and part of the illusion. She said them but they didn't carry much weight. But during our final dinner, these half-truths started to have some feeling behind them. I felt her falling for me. The illusion felt real for an hour. What a glorious conclusion. I will visit her again for sure when I return. And now, whenever I think upon Colombia, she'll be 1 of 2 girls that I remember very fondly. 1000% worth it. 9/10 experience.

  8. #5826

    Disagree

    Agree, that ghosting is in poor taste, even juvenile. That's how young people are raised these days you get 30 seconds on ticktok to keep their attention or it's on to the next stupid video.

    The one thing I will say is that I had two seeking relationships that both ended on her terms and both times she pulled me aside, looked me straight in the eye and said, "this is it. " Or something to that effect. Hurt at the time because they were unexpected but it took balls in my eyes. They could have done it over text, ghost, voice call, whatever, but looking back I saw it as a sign of respect and that's how I chose to remember them.

    Quote Originally Posted by AmericanPi  [View Original Post]
    I second this.

    Call me, old-fashioned, but I still think that ghosting was in poor taste. Then I started balancing multiple girls on seeking and just realized you can't do the "our time is coming to an end" conversation over and over. It's too much emotional rigor for such a vapid series of relationships. It's easier and better for me and them to just recede. All these shallow relationships weave in and out of the seeking fabric seamlessly if you just lose the genX formality.

  9. #5825

    No!

    I am absolutely convinced that one of the best life lessons I've learned (in all facets of life) is that there are questions one doesn't want to know the answer to and it is therefore best not to ask. This has saved me from heartache, kept me from going nuclear level pissed off, and has all around made me a happier person. Conspicuous ignorance or selective engagement in any number of things. I own a small company when I'm away I know the mice play but I don't install cameras to watch them or make them "clock in" as long as the work is getting done I really don't want to know what they're up to.

    That said, I'm glad you wrote it. Gave me a good laugh and reminds us all to keep it in perspective.

    Quote Originally Posted by AmericanPi  [View Original Post]
    I get that. I probably shouldn't have said anything.

    But wouldn't you want to know? I mean scoring true civilian girls on seeking is totally possible. Wouldn't you want to know if the shoes were on the other feet? I feel like I would want somebody to point that out.

  10. #5824
    Quote Originally Posted by Steve9696  [View Original Post]
    As someone else said could be many reasons. New daddy or boyfriend. Got tired of feeling like she's taking money for sex, doesn't like that you bang her for a full hour, you got lazy on the BF part and just take her to the hotel. Lots of reasons. Point is these twenty somethings operate differently from us. Rather than having a discussion and sorting thing they just disappear.

    I've come to learn that ghosting is really a kindness in some way and have in fact used in on occasion since it's the millennial thing to do. My first thought that it's a kindness happened when I was just getting started. I sent a newbie my pics and she said I shit you not I don't think I could get with someone as old as you!

    Well hot damn. That stung a bit. I'the rather she just ghosted me. Ghosting would have been a kindness.

    I actually did the same with Sue at one point. Rather than saying "hey I don't really want to see you anymore because you have gotten kinda lazy on our dates and the sex is pretty mediocre". Instead I just ghosted her. Honestly it does seem for the best in many situations. Too much honesty is not always helpful.
    I think that is more specifically an American girl problem, slightly less a global girl problem, and lastly a human problem (including men). It's "easier" just to block somebody. If you are trying to avoid conflict, the better thing to do is be excessively vague and brief. Such as "I don't want to get into the reasons why, but we have to end things right now. " Or "I'm done with this lifestyle; wishing you the best of luck. " Or "Sorry, but we are just not a match. " Now, if a girl has 100 clients in her address book, do you think she's going to say goodbye to each one individually? She could send out a mass chain message.

    But also remember, there's an asymmetrical divide when it comes to one gender being stalked. Yes, guys do get harassed and are occasionally the victim of violence from women, but by comparison this is quite rare. I think some girls do this as a defense mechanism, to stop things from escalating. Excessive texts don't turn into doxing, doxing doesn't turn into surveillance, and surveillance doesn't turn into pounding on someone's door demanding they speak with you. I think some people try to stop the process before it starts, even if the guy would not do something like that, they have no way of knowing, or maybe had bad experience in the past with some other guy.

    It's easy for them to let go. If they were getting attached to their clients, they would marry one of the first dozen, and never survive in the industry. I might be going through the same thing in the near future. You don't want any sort of strings to draw you back. Think about a recovering alcoholic on his way home who approaches an intersection. If route A is 5 minutes faster, but passes by a liquor store, and route be neither passes a liquor store nor bar, then the intelligent person is going to spend the extra 5 minutes on the road choosing route be. But, most girls aren't addicted to the job itself, they are just addicted to the money. But, the smart ones might realize the risk of not being able to let go, and being pulled back by anchors, and they may choose to vanish all together.

    Luckily for me things pretty much always spoiled with every good one I had. Could be anything. Good service went bad, started restricting the menu (no more kissing or BBBJ, etc.), excessive rate increases, declining hygiene, or they simply grew uglier or fatter over multiple years. There may have been 1 or 2 that dropped out that I might want to see again. But, on second thought, it's hard to imagine someone who was 35 back in 2017, is going to be as pretty as she was now that it's 2024. I even pulled one back that I really liked. She quit for good in April of 2020 after Covid started. All her ads and reviews, EVERYTHING went dark. Even her phone number, but I managed to coax her back more than 2 years later because I found her on Venmo and chimed in for her birthday 3 times in a row, which she really appreciated. But, when I saw her, she had gained a bit of weight, wanted a bit more money than our previous arrangement, and the service was not up to her previous standards. The price to service ratio just didn't add up anymore. Nice to see her, but I learned a lesson.

    If you want someone who will "last", I think your best bet is to find a 21 or 25 year old. This would definitely work if you are 70+, because high probability you will be dead by the time her beauty starts to fade. But, you have to find a way to stand out from other guys, and convince her that you are worth seeing indefinitely.

  11. #5823
    Quote Originally Posted by Steve9696  [View Original Post]
    As someone else said could be many reasons. New daddy or boyfriend. Got tired of feeling like she's taking money for sex, doesn't like that you bang her for a full hour, you got lazy on the BF part and just take her to the hotel. Lots of reasons. Point is these twenty somethings operate differently from us. Rather than having a discussion and sorting thing they just disappear.

    I've come to learn that ghosting is really a kindness in some way and have in fact used in on occasion since it's the millennial thing to do. My first thought that it's a kindness happened when I was just getting started. I sent a newbie my pics and she said I shit you not I don't think I could get with someone as old as you!

    Well hot damn. That stung a bit. I'the rather she just ghosted me. Ghosting would have been a kindness.

    I actually did the same with Sue at one point. Rather than saying "hey I don't really want to see you anymore because you have gotten kinda lazy on our dates and the sex is pretty mediocre". Instead I just ghosted her. Honestly it does seem for the best in many situations. Too much honesty is not always helpful.
    I second this.

    Call me, old-fashioned, but I still think that ghosting was in poor taste. Then I started balancing multiple girls on seeking and just realized you can't do the "our time is coming to an end" conversation over and over. It's too much emotional rigor for such a vapid series of relationships. It's easier and better for me and them to just recede. All these shallow relationships weave in and out of the seeking fabric seamlessly if you just lose the genX formality.

  12. #5822

    Ghosting is the New Goodbye

    Quote Originally Posted by Gfefan  [View Original Post]
    Of late, I am coming across girls who go silent after a while.

    We meet. Great chemistry. We fuck. We met again. We fuck. The cycle goes until one fine day they go off the radar.

    Nothing wrong. No indication. No fights. No arguments.

    I am not sad they go. But would rather like to keep in touch for about cal anytime but goes silent. While this isn't new (nature of seeking is just that) I think the frequency of this is increasing. Anyone feel the same way?

    BTW US statement. My EU chicks are still in touch after two years of me moving out and only visitng.
    As someone else said could be many reasons. New daddy or boyfriend. Got tired of feeling like she's taking money for sex, doesn't like that you bang her for a full hour, you got lazy on the BF part and just take her to the hotel. Lots of reasons. Point is these twenty somethings operate differently from us. Rather than having a discussion and sorting thing they just disappear.

    I've come to learn that ghosting is really a kindness in some way and have in fact used in on occasion since it's the millennial thing to do. My first thought that it's a kindness happened when I was just getting started. I sent a newbie my pics and she said I shit you not I don't think I could get with someone as old as you!

    Well hot damn. That stung a bit. I'the rather she just ghosted me. Ghosting would have been a kindness.

    I actually did the same with Sue at one point. Rather than saying "hey I don't really want to see you anymore because you have gotten kinda lazy on our dates and the sex is pretty mediocre". Instead I just ghosted her. Honestly it does seem for the best in many situations. Too much honesty is not always helpful.

  13. #5821
    Quote Originally Posted by Steve9696  [View Original Post]
    Geez Pi you really shat on that parade. We all do this for the illusion. The better the illusion the better the experience. My motto is "don't fuck with the illusion" meaning I am personally careful to not get so close or find out about their other daddies or clients. It just fucks the illusion. Let the man (and the rest of us) hang on to our illusions, no matter how transparent or obvious they may be.
    I get that. I probably shouldn't have said anything.

    But wouldn't you want to know? I mean scoring true civilian girls on seeking is totally possible. Wouldn't you want to know if the shoes were on the other feet? I feel like I would want somebody to point that out.

  14. #5820

    Geez Pi

    Quote Originally Posted by AmericanPi  [View Original Post]
    FWIW I debated not saying anything. Like let the man have this memory. But then I thought this is also an educational resource.
    Geez Pi you really shat on that parade. We all do this for the illusion. The better the illusion the better the experience. My motto is "don't fuck with the illusion" meaning I am personally careful to not get so close or find out about their other daddies or clients. It just fucks the illusion. Let the man (and the rest of us) hang on to our illusions, no matter how transparent or obvious they may be.

  15. #5819
    Quote Originally Posted by Gfefan  [View Original Post]
    Of late, I am coming across girls who go silent after a while.

    We meet. Great chemistry. We fuck. We met again. We fuck. The cycle goes until one fine day they go off the radar.

    Nothing wrong. No indication. No fights. No arguments.

    I am not sad they go. But would rather like to keep in touch for about cal anytime but goes silent. While this isn't new (nature of seeking is just that) I think the frequency of this is increasing. Anyone feel the same way?

    BTW US statement. My EU chicks are still in touch after two years of me moving out and only visitng.
    They might have gotten out of the industry and chose not to reveal it. I know some girls like to break all ties when they do this. But. On that note, I think Seeking in the United States is tantamount to attempting to cool an active volcano with an ice cube.

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