Boca Chica

[GrownMan1]

The only place you can eat half decently on the strip is La Pequena Suiza particularly the lunch specials, dinner being too expensive. The rest is just awful, both in preparation and ingredients.

I only like them for breakfast they are the best overall. Aqua and Sal for lunch just for the deals.

[Yonkers44]

I tried the pasta at Gusto Tropical and it was nasty LOL where can I actually eat good? All the food on the strip was nasty.

Also did you guys ever experienced the bait and switch? My friend lost $400 last time due to 3 women saying they would do xxx for xxx pesos but then they change it up at the end.

The only place you can eat half decently on the strip is La Pequena Suiza particularly the lunch specials, dinner being too expensive. The rest is just awful, both in preparation and ingredients.

[MoltiSanti01]

You need to pick up your negotiation skills. Even though that's still not a bad price. About 12 bucks over the average.

I want to keep it as 1000 pesos for ST and 2000 for TLN is this possible?

[GrownMan1]

Maybe I'm running into the wrong ones what is the average rate then?

I'll be there on the 10th not my first rodeo and I been to Boca Chica twice but my first and second time I didn't do much.

You need to pick up your negotiation skills. Even though that's still not a bad price. About 12 bucks over the average.

[MoltiSanti01]

Just going by your name, in Boca Chica, non sono tutti santi. LOL There are also a whole bunch of expat Italians which means great food and if you can chat them up, good pointers for women as well.

I tried the pasta at Gusto Tropical and it was nasty LOL where can I actually eat good? All the food on the strip was nasty.

Also did you guys ever experienced the bait and switch? My friend lost $400 last time due to 3 women saying they would do xxx for xxx pesos but then they change it up at the end.

[Tempoecorto]

Maybe I'm running into the wrong ones what is the average rate then?

I'll be there on the 10th not my first rodeo and I been to Boca Chica twice but my first and second time I didn't do much.

Just going by your name, in Boca Chica, non sono tutti santi. LOL There are also a whole bunch of expat Italians which means great food and if you can chat them up, good pointers for women as well.

[MoltiSanti01]

It never was 2,000 short time and most will go for a 1,000 lots of skanky slutty girls available.

Maybe I'm running into the wrong ones what is the average rate then?

I'll be there on the 10th not my first rodeo and I been to Boca Chica twice but my first and second time I didn't do much.

[Surfer500]

Hey,

What is the going rate in Boca Chica.

Is it still 2000 for ST and 3000 for TLN?

It never was 2,000 short time and most will go for a 1,000 lots of skanky slutty girls available.

[MoltiSanti01]

Hey,

What is the going rate in Boca Chica.

Is it still 2000 for ST and 3000 for TLN?

[Surfer500]

You need to change those bright red Speedos from saying "Pinch Me I'm Irish" to " I'm just a wimp". In Spanish of course.

The same cast of characters on this board including you, Mr. E, and Mr. Babble my favorite voice from the past! All the Chicas in Medellin are still asking for you and I don't now what to tell them anymore. It was tempting to do that Chica under the pier but the sight of a white guy humping a Chica might of attracted some unwanted attention! My bet is that Chica had fucked other guys under that pier and it had to of been a bareback cream pie special for those guys. The whole thing kind of shocked me when she said let's fuck right now under the pier.

If you had been there you could of pulled it off, your right, I totally wimped out and have gotten new Speedos!

[GrownMan1]

what a body with those firm be plus boobies bobbing around in the water.

She motioned me over so I came up to her and asked her what she was doing swimming naked. she said she was in town to make money and would do anything I wanted. That perked my interest as she said lets go to my hotel and have sex, she said we could have sex right now, in the water, under the pier.

I was tempted so I looked under the pier and thought about it decided to pass,

You need to change those bright red Speedos from saying "Pinch Me I'm Irish" to " I'm just a wimp". In Spanish of course.

[Wrx2005]

I feel you bro but guys also do the same thing. Having girls pictures to show to their boys back home to elevate their player status, having the girl meet them at the airport to impress people he may know there with his arm trophy, walking their new girl around Sosua holding hands to hopefully make himself more desirable etc. Seems petty to me but it's a game girls and guys play..

Gotcha! Trust though, my omission of guys doing it too, was not an oversight. I didn't include guys then, because at the time my focus was mostly on women.

[Wrx2005]

"I want to spread the news. That if it feels this good getting used. You just keep on using me. Until you use me up".

Mr. WRX,

True that. Everything you say. You are straight keeping it 100. But at what point does it become use? Due the very nature of the interactions that occur (exchange of money, increase in social status, younger women / older men, sex) isn't it up the individuals involved to determine if the relationship is mutually beneficial?

Yes, the chicas receive money (and it's spent) we receive sex (it's a release, sometimes remembered sometimes not) and in that we have the core nature of the exchange. The amount of money, the quality of the release / experience, and the process / methods / conditions by which it occurs changes. But isn't the DR a place where these most basic relationships are not criminalized at worst or socially demonized at best? And because of that the DR makes it onto the top ten list of destinations for sexual tourism in the world on a consistent basis. I'm not excluding myself. I'm a self declared SexPat!

We all pay the cost to be the boss (in time, money, faked emotional involvement). That's why I keep my eye on my Cost Per Orgasm (CPO). That particular concept keeps my perspective and gives me a objective measure of the relationship (straight up prostitution, a pseudo novia and everything in between). Unless someone is involved in some serious self deception I doubt if any of the veterans here are looking for true love or the idealized male female relationships promoted in their first world countries of origin. Even veteran pilots have to take a refresher course every two years and re-qualify. Your refresher on Dominican culture as it relates to personal relationships is appreciated here.

Simple answer before I take everything in. The basic premise of relationship or arrangement between a man and a woman is consensual and it is mutual (use). Nothing wrong with that. The complexity of such things is when deception and unwanted imbalances is introduced, and occurs in those relationships / arrangements (by either party or both concurrently).

[Wrx2005]

Short and to the point:

We are all "Grownmen" and we make our own decisions but we are also friends. No one man can impose his beliefs on any of us. Some men accept advice and let it marinate and continue to make choices they feel are right for themselves. Others don't want advice because they think they have figured everything out and if they haven't they are willing to learn the hard way.

I agree with this. But I will add to it. Its not always whether or not someone wants or doesn't want advice. In some instances the information offered although helpful where it belongs. May not be applicable in another context.

Those instances may include situations where the person offering advice / information has no clue or understanding of the other persons interests, motivations, concerns or course of action down the road. To simply conclude the person just doesn't want advice, or to say they just want to learn the hard way, is IMO doing the other person a disservice. There may be more to it. Their course of action or inaction. More than one way to execute, or more than one course of action to take.

At the very least, one may have decided to lay in the cut until they decide to act. If the person offering advice / information doesn't grasp that, that is where that input can seem like an imposition even though that was never the intent. You are correct that no one man can impose his beliefs on another. But realistically, it's not uncommon for a person offering advice / information to assume wrongly the other person wants to learn something the hard way, or figured everything out when that may not be the case at all. The other person in that instance may have another plan or time frame the advice / information giver hadn't considered.

All I am saying is that even though groups of guys are friends, its wise to understand this and how some folks may create subtle tension in their friendships unbeknownst to each other. In most cases the friendship won't be compromised, but there's nothing wrong with being aware of things that can (not will) create detachment. Grownmans sentiments shared regarding his initial asessement of Subcmdr comes to mind. There is no doubt in my mind that some judgments by all parties were made based on what was observed. In that instance it may not even be about the giving of advice or information. Instead it seemed more about not understanding certain behavior or being caught off guard by how it manifested itself. Is there a right or a wrong way to express oneself? Do you accept and adapt to what you see, or do you try to change what you see? At the very least we have an opinion on it. It doesnt just get swept under the rug because we are friends.

It's like the guy that took one trip to the DR five years ago and stayed in a resort but wants to tell a vet about the DR and not value his opinion. He calls the vet a " Know it all" and has resentment deep down inside because he is not that guy.

This example supports your POV perfectly. And I see how it applies for that example. But lets say the issue is one friend giving advice / information on how to handle a situation that is not so clear cut? The advice / information given may not be the appropriate response in that instance. If the guy decides to do something different than what his friend suggests, is he doing something the hard way? Is he showing he doesn't want advice?

No not really. The advice giver may be correct, or incorrect. But the indivdual himself has to make the decision and deal with the consequences. This does not automatically mean, the indivdual not taking advice thinks his buddy is a know it all. If that sentiment was shared, then something triggered it, not simply the giving of information / advice. Point being, some folks do take it personal or feel a certain kind of way, if they offer advice / information, and it is disregarded or ignored. And some folks react to how advice is given just as much as what is given. Simple situations may not matter. But there can be instances where one thinks his way is the right way and the only way. And the delivery may support that.

The bottom line is we are all friends with different styles and ways of thinking so it really shouldn't matter if he is being judgement or not understanding, what matters is that we call ourselves friends. I remember one time in Sosua at night when Mr E asked to drive my car at night to go visit a girl. It hurt me bad to say "no" but I don't even drive at night plus he had been drinking, so Mr E didn't get his feelings hurt or think a certain way about me, he said " well let's hit Classicos ".

Correct it shouldn't matter. Your example with Mr E is understood, and I can apply it accordingly. At the end of the day, it's all about fellowshipping. I hope you don't mind the length and the detour of this forum. I was in a posting mood today.

[SubCmdr]

You are likely still being used, just in a different way.

"I want to spread the news. That if it feels this good getting used. You just keep on using me. Until you use me up".

Mr. WRX,

True that. Everything you say. You are straight keeping it 100. But at what point does it become use? Due the very nature of the interactions that occur (exchange of money, increase in social status, younger women / older men, sex) isn't it up the individuals involved to determine if the relationship is mutually beneficial?

Yes, the chicas receive money (and it's spent) we receive sex (it's a release, sometimes remembered sometimes not) and in that we have the core nature of the exchange. The amount of money, the quality of the release / experience, and the process / methods / conditions by which it occurs changes. But isn't the DR a place where these most basic relationships are not criminalized at worst or socially demonized at best? And because of that the DR makes it onto the top ten list of destinations for sexual tourism in the world on a consistent basis. I'm not excluding myself. I'm a self declared SexPat!

We all pay the cost to be the boss (in time, money, faked emotional involvement). That's why I keep my eye on my Cost Per Orgasm (CPO). That particular concept keeps my perspective and gives me a objective measure of the relationship (straight up prostitution, a pseudo novia and everything in between). Unless someone is involved in some serious self deception I doubt if any of the veterans here are looking for true love or the idealized male female relationships promoted in their first world countries of origin. Even veteran pilots have to take a refresher course every two years and re-qualify. Your refresher on Dominican culture as it relates to personal relationships is appreciated here.