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  1. #19295

    Yes, listen to the Tom Leykis show

    Quote Originally Posted by Lefeu  [View Original Post]
    I used to listen to Tom Lykis radio show a lot. He was funny, witty, and he knew quite a bit about women. It looks like he no longer does radio shows. I will check his podcasts. Never heard of Corey Wayne, will check him out. Thanks.
    Tom Leykis still has his show on his website and his app. Google his name or "blow me up Tom". I've been listening to Tom over ten years. Every man needs to, especially guys who are hopeless romantics. It'll save you a lot of pain and you'll learn how to treat a woman and how not to.

    To the guy with the girl problem: you should never cry in front of a girl, you loose all her respect. Remember, girls like to be fucked by he bad boys, eventually they'll settle down with the reliable nice guy to pay their way through life. Who do you want to be? The sucker she settles for or the dude she lusts after?

  2. #19294

    Killarmy

    Are you that big of a fool? You've received a lot of excellent advice from several people. Did you fail to understand? Did you even read any of the advice?

    Nowhere in all of the advice did any say "Go crying and begging to her like a 5 year old boy and then blame everything on her. " Not only is your plan incredibly stupid, it's pathetic.

    This woman gave you very clear signals that she has no interest in a relationship. The only way she could have made it clearer was to scream, "I don't want a relationship with you. " When you tried to force her into a relationship she made it even clearer and just gave you a couple of hand jobs so you would stop crying.

    To make everything worse, you're trying to blame her about a relationship with some other guy, when it's none of your business, because she doesn't want a relationship with you.

    Nothing you do is going to change the obvious fact (repeated again) She Doesn't Want A Relationship With You. However, go ahead with your plan (which sounds like something dreamed up by a 13 year old). It won't accomplish anything, but everyone she fucks for the next 5 years will laugh their ass off when she tells them about you.

    Or, here's an idea. Why not act like an adult, accept your loss and move on? There are 1000's of women in Medellin who will be more than happy to give you something else to think about.

  3. #19293

    How about the benefits of M2

    Quote Originally Posted by HuskerDude  [View Original Post]
    I just recently returned from my first trip to Medellin and stayed at the Mansion (M2) which is up a big hill from the M1 the main place. I would suggest to try to stay at M1 because of the hill. Also the girls hang out at the pool and bar at M1. Like you I've always gone to the DR for the last 5 years or so, with many trips to BB and Field of Dreams. I got GFE from all the mansion girls for 150 K (3200/$1), so about $50. It's similar to BB, but the girls have no schedule. So you can have as few as 3 or as many as 20 there. They come in and out as they please. The girls in Medellin are hotter than the DR. Also I usually visited casas in the AM and they are cheap from 45 K to 140 K of the ones we visited. Also Medellin is a modern city unlike the 3rd world DR.
    You listed all the drawbacks of M2, but none of the benefits. You must be a newbie. I prefer M2 over M1. First, the hill is not a big deal and I look at it as my daily exercise. It's correct that more girls hangout at M1 (the Mansion) but someone staying t M2 can go down to M1 anytime. The advantages of M2? Quiet and discreet. Many girls prefer M2 because of that. And M1 can really be noisy, if you get a room close to the bar or close to the pool.

  4. #19292

    Yeah Tom Lykis

    Quote Originally Posted by Wrx2005  [View Original Post]
    Check out Tom Leykis Show. He is a no holds barred radio personality with a shitload of YouTube podcasts that might shock you back into learning to love yourself 1st before you love another. Coach Corey Wayne is another one with a lot of You Tube podcasts that may help you see how you are going in the wrong direction as a man.
    I used to listen to Tom Lykis radio show a lot. He was funny, witty, and he knew quite a bit about women. It looks like he no longer does radio shows. I will check his podcasts. Never heard of Corey Wayne, will check him out. Thanks.

  5. #19291

    Bro you need HELP!

    Quote Originally Posted by KillArmy  [View Original Post]
    Guys,

    Thanks a lot for all the amazing messages. I feel in the limit of stupidity when writing so much in here but all your reactions are so nice, not judgmental, etc. , I really appreciate it. Even better if some can learn out of my story.

    This will and really is helping me. I will come back to read some of your guys whenever I feel bad again (like this morning.) to make me feel up again. So much to be learned.

    'Learn to be sure to understand the signs a girl is showing to you before you do anything crazy about her'.
    Check out Tom Leykis Show. He is a no holds barred radio personality with a shitload of YouTube podcasts that might shock you back into learning to love yourself 1st before you love another. Coach Corey Wayne is another one with a lot of You Tube podcasts that may help you see how you are going in the wrong direction as a man.

    It's seems obvious you are very emotionally attached to that female. You don't know what to do, except go by your impulses. Your impulse is go by your feelings. Which is maintaining the bleeding instead of helping you learn the lesson, and move on. Especially with the intent of never allowing yourself to stoop so low as a man again. Be honest with yourself. What do you expect to accomplish by contacting her? And why shame her for her behavior?

    This is the time for you to take responsibility for your behavior and what you allowed, and for being blind. She's allowed to be as fucked up as she chooses to be. She's not obligated to meet your expectations. You are supposed to know how to carry yourself as an individual, and as a man. And if you missed some lessons in how a man adapts to situations appropriately, its time to recognize this possibility. Good luck.

  6. #19290
    Subscribe just for PM me?

    I'm dgear on youppie.

    Completely agree with Cerebro, don't do this letter at a colombian girl and she will be completely close.

    The thing about you show your sentiments, it's not a problem generally. Just she's 22. It will no same with a more of 25 yo girls who want serious relationship.

  7. #19289
    Killarmy,

    Please don't write that letter. You definitely sound like a drama queen and pathetic. If you write such a letter to her, she will think you super pathetic, and she will show it to all her friends, maybe facebook friends, her circle, etc just for fun as.

    The most pathetic guy she has ever met. That letter is quite pathetic in my opinion. I have a better suggestion. I know you are urging to talk to her since you wrote that you will contact her in 3-4 days which is a lot to you, but that is.

    Too early to contact her. It is best to ignore her, but not for a couple of days, and instead ignore her for a couple of years. Just delete her whattapp, unfriendly her on facebook, etc. And don't contact her at all.

    You will be surprised of how she may react with this approach and just watch her reaction and possible desperation once she sees you don't want anything with her. And don't respond or explain anything. She may become as pathetic and.

    Infatuated as you. If she asks you what's going on, or why you don't call, just ignore. If you respond, a one liner is enough, like you are busy and not the 5000 words essay of explanations.

    Also if you decide to respond, do it after a few months or more. Don't explain anything to her. Never tell her you miss her. Learn to be rude. Believe me she may start going crazy once you start treating her like.

    Shit. Learn to be inconsiderate. Learn to be unattached. Keep mongering and having pussy fun. Be realistic with yourself. You are not ready for a relationship just like many of us.

    You failed badly the Paisa relationship 101 class. Just get back to mongering and prepare for next time.

  8. #19288
    Quote Originally Posted by JayBalanty  [View Original Post]
    Hello Gentlemen,

    New to this part of the forum. I have extensive reviews and stories over in the Puerto Plata DR section, but have never ventured over to Colombia.

    I am thinking about my first trip here at the end of May or June, however I have a few questions.

    First off this would be my first trip to Medellin or Colombia for that matter, I am a vet in the DR with an uncountable trips under my belt. When I go to the DR I am looking for relaxation,
    and a very chill environment. That is why I usually go to Sosua for the first day or two, then wind up going to Black Beards for about 5. That combo works for me.
    When I land I party, HARD, then after two days of that I am ready for the vacation to start.

    All that being said, I have done some research about the Mansion here in Medellin, which to my understanding is the Hotel Medellin Plaza. I am curious if any of you fine gentlemen have ever.
    Been to Blackbeards and the mansion, are they similar? Is one better than the other, could you give me any info on it in regards to comparisons?..
    I just recently returned from my first trip to Medellin and stayed at the Mansion (M2) which is up a big hill from the M1 the main place. I would suggest to try to stay at M1 because of the hill. Also the girls hang out at the pool and bar at M1. Like you I've always gone to the DR for the last 5 years or so, with many trips to BB and Field of Dreams. I got GFE from all the mansion girls for 150 K (3200/$1), so about $50. It's similar to BB, but the girls have no schedule. So you can have as few as 3 or as many as 20 there. They come in and out as they please. The girls in Medellin are hotter than the DR. Also I usually visited casas in the AM and they are cheap from 45 K to 140 K of the ones we visited. Also Medellin is a modern city unlike the 3rd world DR.

  9. #19287

    Thanks again

    Guys,

    Thanks a lot for all the amazing messages. I feel in the limit of stupidity when writing so much in here but all your reactions are so nice, not judgmental, etc. , I really appreciate it. Even better if some can learn out of my story.

    This will and really is helping me. I will come back to read some of your guys whenever I feel bad again (like this morning.) to make me feel up again. So much to be learned.

    'Learn to be sure to understand the signs a girl is showing to you before you do anything crazy about her'. So true. I missed this point with her though she probably manipulated me a bit.

    Kyrawz: I hear you man. But: if you got some Spanish skills, if you go out of Parque Lleras (I was really luck when I met my girl there), if you do as some wrote, do some day game, in the parks, commercial centers, etc. , you will find something.

    I wish I could PM you.

    I have a question though: If I do subscribe to be able to send a PM to someone that as not subscribed, will he be able to read my message / answer me?

    I plan. And have already written a message I will sen to her after like 4/5 days without any message. I will share it to the community. And yes, I know, I should go on and maybe just never write her again. But this is difficult and you know it.

    I am pretty sure this is what I want to tell her but if there is something that you so disagree with, please feel free. I hope I don't sound like a drama queen and I so much appreciate your guys support, will never write it enough. There you go:

    Hey xxxx.

    I will write in English because I know your level is good enough. I also want you to feel what it is when you are not sure to understand someone, like when you got frustrated because I wouldn't understand your Spanish.

    I wanted to give you some time to clear your her head, put your ideas back in place. Some time so that you could think back with 'rationality' about everything that happened in your life since I met you.

    Now that I think again about the time we had together, I can write I enjoyed it so much to go in el Eje Cafetero together. I enjoyed to see you so happy to be living this trip. I think I have brought something positive and nice in your life.

    Unfortunately, the very few times I started to like a girl in my life, I always end up fucking things up. XXX, I am too emotional, too passionate, I always have to express my sentiments. I showed too much my neediness and wish for a relation and this killed the initial passion between us. I think 'the flame' is gone now. Damn, I even cried in front of you. I am ashamed. But that is how I am.

    I honestly wish I would be one of this many guys that never seem to have any sentiments or express them. I wish I could be able to not start to feel sentiments when having sex with a fantastic girl like you are. Or a liar, just playing a game, to make sure that you get as crazy of me as possible, even if I do not care about you, even if all I wanted was sex with you. Would you have preferred that?

    Before our trip, you told me a few amazing things that maybe no girl before ever told me. ([Non-English text deleted by Admin]).

    I got a bit crazy in my head and went to this trip with too much expectations.

    XXX. I have been thinking so much about you since we hugged and said 'adios' in the bus terminal. I miss you a lot.

    BUT, also, I have realized that 'sin darte cuenta', you really played with me!

    Before the trip, you should have been honest with me and telling me that 'it was only vacations con derechos', to 'have fun times', like really good friends, with nothing more to expect because you were in love with another guy!! For me, it would have been fine! I still would have gone with you and we still would have had good times! You probably wouldn't end up not wanting to make love with me any more like it happened.

    I can't believe we could have had all the moments we had together before our Eje Cafetero trip, all the smiles, beautiful moments, complicity, trust and beautiful sex. I think you were honest about this times. But at the same time, you were with another guy? You really played and manipulated me. Even if you did not realize it!

    And don't tell me you are still young and still want to see a lot of guys / girls, that you are free. You just met this Colombian guy 2 months ago, you spent little time with him, and all you show to him seemed to me like love, passion, craziness, a wish to be in a relation, etc. No, XXX, you are not free! You are like almost everyone! You want to feel love, to feel good, to have someone to take care about you, to make you feel like you are the most beautiful person in the world, you want to be happy. Happy!

    I really hope that this guy is not playing with you because honestly, you should try to think with rationality, not with passion. He is 36 years old, always lived in Medellin, and he has never been able to find the women of his life? How can you think you could be different for him? How can you think this will finish well? I really hope for you that you won't suffer from this. I really hope you will be strong. Not like the 2 first time you were in love.

    Actually: I really hope that you will stop to be like me! Too passionate in love. Too much sentiments. Too much questions.

    And do not compare me with him please. Yes, I have 32 years old but I have travelled all the world, I am living in different countries for 7 years, etc. When I will be lucky enough to find real love and a city / country where I will find happiness, I will just stay. Medellin?

    XXX, Yes, I still want to see you so much. But I know you are. Dangerous for me. YES, I miss so much your beautiful smile, I miss to see you laugh, I miss to feel your body next to me. But at the same time, I know you are making me too crazy. XXX, I wish I could be forever your very best friend and be stronger than the risks this involve because as I told you once: [Non-English text deleted by Admin]'.

    I still want to see you but life goes on. I do not want to forget you but if this is what has to happen, it is fine for me. Whatever happen, once again, I hope you find happiness and stability in your life.

    Blabla (personal joke about her father LOL.).

    Cheers guys.

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  10. #19286
    Quote Originally Posted by Kyrawz  [View Original Post]
    Thinked it was me who wrote the post. Same age, nationality ;)

    This experience doesn't happen to me for the moment. You were lucky to find a girl educated who don't want you pay for her. Actually I didn't find any of this type of girls and I'm a little desperate.

    If you plan to stay in MDE, you probably continue to see her and with the time she can change. I can understand with his age she wants to have more fun. Us we are 30's so we want to start serious relations.
    If you're in your 30's and want to start a serious relationship, stop chasing the 20 year olds. You can have your pick of women just a few years older than you and they'll do just about anything to keep you happy.

    The 20 year olds are either just looking for a good time, or are looking for a good source of money. The few who want a serious relationship are looking for someone their own age.

  11. #19285
    Quote Originally Posted by KillArmy  [View Original Post]
    Hello everyone,


    I am 32 y old; super tall; OK looking and European. My first language is French but I speak quite well Spanish. I am living in Medellin for 2 months....

    .
    Thinked it was me who wrote the post. Same age, nationality ;)

    This experience doesn't happen to me for the moment. You were lucky to find a girl educated who don't want you pay for her. Actually I didn't find any of this type of girls and I'm a little desperate.

    If you plan to stay in MDE, you probably continue to see her and with the time she can change. I can understand with his age she wants to have more fun. Us we are 30's so we want to start serious relations.

  12. #19284
    Quote Originally Posted by Phunluv  [View Original Post]
    So, I just read KillArmy's story and some of the responses.

    Finally: I think your problem is you come off a bit desperate and needy, it even seeps through your report. My advice is cool off with some meaningless sex; do a type of mongering that you've never done before, something that will stretch your skills, whether it's street girls or casas or after hours spots. Just get laid a bunch of times and stop worrying about finding true love. Most men are unhappy in their marriages and relationships, so don't idealize or romanticize the situation. There are many ways to solve your problem but it won't guarantee happiness or a perfect life; being with a woman, even a good one, is always a challenge.
    Great response to KillArmy, as well as the other guys' responses.

    I remember, being new in Colombia, over 15 years ago now, falling for a beautiful girl from Cali.

    About the same as KillArmy, I was all sappy, lovey dovey, etc.

    She too, told me about some Colombian dude she "loved" and wanted.

    Yep, she was still nice to me, just like KillArmy's girl to him, but I was basically the dreaded "amigo". LOL.

    Anyway, to make a long story short, I had my cry (yep I was a dork), then got strong, toughened up, mongered my booty off, had fun!

    Learned from my experience big time.

    Told myself I would never allow myself to be stupid nor allow myself to cry again, like a dork.

    Way way way too many girls out there for that crying nonsense!

    If I start feeling a girl giving me drama or grief or the amigo BS, I just move on now. No huss, no fuss. Ciao baby!

    Like the other posters having been saying as well, these girls can feel your being too thirsty for Love.

    Mellow out a bit, be more mysterious and have more of a IDGAF attitude, and they dig ya all the more.

    My Cali girl, eventually got dicked over and dumped by the Colombiano, just like KillArmy's girl will most likely be.

    She came running back, and by then, I was over that nonsense, had met a gazillion more babes.

    I, of course, did her the favor of some good sex, LOL again, however, I just saw her as a sex "amiga" now.

    That felt good!

    Enjoy life KillArmy!

    Just keep having fun, lay low on the drama for a bit, you'll see, you'll be laughing at this episode shortly.

  13. #19283
    Thanks Jj. This is the best report that I have read from you. I am glad that you wrote it before me because now I do not have to. I just want to add a couple of things.

    1. With women (and men) it is cop and blow. Here today and gone tomorrow. Maybe come back for a spell and leave again. Maybe stay around for years until a better deal comes along. Enjoy the person while they are around.

    2. Love yourself. Don't depend on someone else to love you. That is stupid. You can't control other people and you will never break your own heart.

    3. Most of the time when I meet women they ask what I am looking for. The truth is that I am not looking for a damn thing. I am willing to let whatever happens happen. Guys ask how to be sure to score with non-pros. There is no way to be sure.

    I was in the airport in Bogota last night on my way to Lima when I sent a message to a chick I have chatted to on and off since right before New Years. I told her I was here and she said she would come up to the airport to meet me. We had a drink at a bar. I asked her how much her taxi was to come and she said 25 k because she lives in the north. That was just about the change from the drinks so I gave it to her and told her I would pay for one way. She said no and gave me the money back. I am trying to tell her goodbye so I can go get on my flight and she said no. She wants us to spend the night together. Shit. Peru had to fucking wait. I did not expect anything like that. I was just letting whatever happens happen. Now I am back at the airport waiting to go to Lima again.

    My man was out looking for his dream and when it did not end up how he pictured it he gets his heart broken. We see the same thing every damn day on ISG. Guy goes to whatever mongering locale. He has his heart set on finding a girl who meets his certain criteria. When he does not find said girl he reports the place is terrible or has gone to shit. Since I go with an open mind just to see what I can get into, I am never disappointed. Certain aspects of the place may be off (boring at certain periods, poor infrastructure), but I damn sure enjoy myself with the women because I don't have a picture in my head of what kind I must get or the things she must do.

    4. Most guys on ISG are running around trying to pay for pussy. You had pussy paying for you. You definitely should have enjoyed it for what it was and ridden it out as long as possible. That shit needed to be treated with kid gloves, because like my man Jj said one false move and the party is over. You upset the balance. I have fucked the balance up many a time before by doing one little bullshit thing, but the unfortunate thing is that you do not know that little thing would ruin it until the good thing is gone.

    Next time be easy.

  14. #19282

    The Mansion

    Hello Gentlemen,

    New to this part of the forum. I have extensive reviews and stories over in the Puerto Plata DR section, but have never ventured over to Colombia.

    I am thinking about my first trip here at the end of May or June, however I have a few questions.

    First off this would be my first trip to Medellin or Colombia for that matter, I am a vet in the DR with an uncountable trips under my belt. When I go to the DR I am looking for relaxation,
    and a very chill environment. That is why I usually go to Sosua for the first day or two, then wind up going to Black Beards for about 5. That combo works for me.
    When I land I party, HARD, then after two days of that I am ready for the vacation to start.

    All that being said, I have done some research about the Mansion here in Medellin, which to my understanding is the Hotel Medellin Plaza. I am curious if any of you fine gentlemen have ever.
    Been to Blackbeards and the mansion, are they similar? Is one better than the other, could you give me any info on it in regards to comparisons?
    Also me being a young guy who takes care of himself, I have gotten GFE with every single girl I have had contact with in Blackbeards (not so much in Sosua).

    (FULL DISCLOSURE ON THAT STATEMENT)*it could possibly be because my Spanish is passable and I sweet talk them to death at Blackbeards so by the time they get to my room they want to rip off my clothes.
    This strategy also comes with some obvious drawbacks, but hell, I have fun, even with some of the drama it brings. Anyway back the questions.

    Are Colombian women more or less GFE'why than the DR?
    I hate to ask such open questions, but some of the posts I have seen talking about these subjects are from 08 and honestly the DR has changed DRAMATICALLY since.
    Then so I just want to make sure any info I have is up to date before I book the trip.

    Thanks for any\all your help guys.

  15. #19281

    The Killarmy Dilemma

    Most of the time I wish I was 20 years younger, but your story reminds me why there are advantages to being middle-aged.

    Here are some things you need to learn if you don't want to keep having the same problems.

    When it comes to money there are 3 basic types of women. Type 1: expects you to pay for everything, will ask for gifts or spending money. This type will happily have sex with you, even a relationship, but the most important thing will always be the money.

    Type 2: will never let you pay, always pays her share. There is no chance of a relationship with her. By always paying, she is insisting on her independence.

    Type 3: will offer to pay, but will allow you to pay. She won't ask for gifts or for extra money, she won't ask for vacations or other things which require you to spend money. This girl is looking for a relationship, something real based on emotional support instead of financial support.

    Your mistake, you expected a type 3 relationship with a type 2 girl. Most people here do the same thing with a type 1 girl.

    Probably, especially since she mentioned experimenting with other men, women couples, etc. , she saw you as a flavor to try. She wanted to have sex with a really tall European. Probably you could have had a great, sex-filled vacation with her, and occasional sex after, if you had understood the situation. She wanted sex, just sex. She didn't want "te amo" and "sólo para ti", just hot, sweaty, weak in the knees, mind blowing sex. As soon as you went past the "have sex / have fun" line, she shut you down.

    Maybe she has a relationship with the Colombian and maybe he's just a fuck buddy, but there was never a chance for a relationship with you.

    Until you learn to separate sex and love, this cycle will repeat.

    As far as swinging goes, at this point it would be a complete disaster for you, especially with this girl (not that she would ever do that with you).

    Swinging is a very special type of relationship. As a single male, your options are very limited, you need a, preferably bisexual, partner. Ideally, the partner should be a real partner, a long time girlfriend or wife. But it requires some special qualities to work. If either person has self-esteem issues, or jealousy issues, it will end badly. Thinking of watching your girl with another woman, while you're having your way with both seems great, until you realize the other woman gives her better orgasms than you. Throw another man in and it gets worse. Add jealousy to that. Disaster.

    It is possible to swing with a fuck buddy. A fuck buddy is a friend. Someone you can hang out and talk with, someone you can have sex with, but someone you never want anything more from. Someone you can go to a club with, and you both end up going home with different people, then get together and compare experiences.

    A fuck buddy is a good option for swingers clubs, because the sex is not tied to the relationship. So you can be having a great time with some woman while her husband is next to you with your friend.

    But before you can think about that you need to get your mind right. Sex and love are completely separate. The only difference between sex and masturbation is who handles the cleanup.

    Love. Do you love your parents? You probably don't have any strong desire to have sex with them. If you're looking for love, forget about the sex. When it happens, great. Enjoy it, but don't assume someone loves you, or you love them, because you had sex. If you're upset because the girl stopped having sex with you, you didn't love her, because you were putting your desires over her desires.

    Learn the signs. If a woman wants more than just sex, she will show you. She'll be affectionate outside of sex. She will let you buy her dinner and take on the role of provider. She will defer to you, allowing you to make the decisions. If after having sex a few times, the girl isn't doing these 3 things, it's time to either enjoy the sex and forget about the relationship, or time to move on.

    Good luck.

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